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Peter Frederick Schneider

1931 - 2020

Peter Frederick Schneider obituary, 1931-2020, Amherst, MA

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1931

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2020

Peter Schneider Obituary

Peter Frederick Schneider, 89, of Amherst, Massachusetts, music lover, tireless builder of community, and poet, passed away on December 29, 2020 after contracting the COVID-19 virus. In his final year he was a resident of the Elaine Center, Hadley Massachusetts. Peter was born April 10, 1931, in Waunakee WI, the third child and first son of Jakob Henry and Amelia Christine (nee Winger) Schneider. He is predeceased by Pat Schneider, his wife of 63 years, who passed away August 10, 2020, and his siblings Daniel, Henry, and Rosalind. He is survived by his sister Evangelin, of Sacramento California, and by his four children Rebecca, Laurel, Paul and Bethany, and by two grandchildren, Sarah Kavanagh and Nathaniel Schneider.

As a child, he played the clarinet in a family orchestra after his father purchased instruments for the family instead of badly needed farm equipment that was unavailable because of war shortages. In 1947, when he was 16 years old, Peter's parents sold their farm in Wisconsin and bought one in Orland, California, to which the family and livestock moved. He graduated from the College of the Pacific in Stockton, CA and from there attended seminary in Berkeley at the Pacific School of Religion, where he and Pat met and married in 1957. In 1960 he pursued a Ph.D. in theology on the work of Alfred North Whitehead and Emil Brunner at Boston University. He was a philosopher at heart, who understood his purpose and career to be oriented always in practical terms toward the building of inclusive and just communities that allowed for the healing and flourishing of individual persons.

After ministerial positions in Gleasondale and Worcester MA, he and Pat began ministry at Wesley United Methodist Church in Amherst, where they founded two residential communities connected to the church, made partnerships with other communities in working toward racial justice, and engaged in anti-poverty efforts across the region. In 1980, when the Methodist Conference Bishop planned to move him to another parish, Peter made the difficult decision to leave the Methodist ministry in order to stay involved with ongoing projects in the Amherst area, and to allow his children to complete their schooling there. With Michael Pill he founded New England Energy Development Systems Inc., while Pat founded Amherst Writers and Artists. Eventually, Peter became more and more involved with AWA, and he helped to create Amherst Writers and Artists Institute, an outreach program for women and children in public housing. He became the full-time manager for both organizations.

He served for several years in the 1990s as an Amherst Town Meeting member and wrote a column in the Amherst Bulletin entitled "Notes of a Shy Town Meeting Member." He also began writing poetry in earnest and when he started to experience traces of memory loss, he picked up the clarinet that he had put aside at a young age. He began taking lessons with Professor David Schneider of Amherst College (no relation) with whom he developed a profound and lasting friendship grounded in the love of the music and his struggle to remain present. His book of poetry, entitled Line Fence, was published by Amherst Writers and Artists Press in 2006. His poem from that collection, "Lost in Plain Sight" is published on the American Poetry Foundation website and has become a common text in social work courses on aging and memory loss.

Peter Schneider was a beloved father, husband, grandfather, friend. He was courteous always. He opened his home to any and all who needed shelter, a listening ear, a respite from the cruelties of the world. He adored his family, and especially Pat, his wife. The world is better for the life of the man who saw first the humanity of each person. We will miss this Shy Town Meeting Member, the piper of McClellan Street.

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Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Dec. 31, 2020.

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laura x

January 23, 2021

Ah, about Peter, so much was learned watching him take care of others...the line i read in the announcement about his asking whom he could help, just the day before he passed away, will always stay with me.Pat sure loved her Wisconsin Farm Boy.. and would call him that to me often, especially if i had heavy suitcases.. I met them when pats memoir was described in the papers as Vietnam War protesting students of Pacific School of Religion and she being from a tenement in St Louis.. where i was from.. on the other side of the tracks as she would say, but joined in purpose..Peter took care of my every wish for everything of Pat's to be sent to me or the Missouri History Museum or to friends.. He welcomed me in their home, and at her readings. Very healing to be so accepted when i could have been so dissed..So happy his book was published.. fyi Legacy does this for free for 30 days only, so make a copy of the comments, we blew that one re my sister who died July 22, 2020.

Sarah Mount Elewononi

January 16, 2021

I chose "family" as a sister in Christ, even though I don't remember meeting Peter or Pat. I attended Wesley UMC from 1986-1994, and lived in the Thompson house one semester. I heard other members speaking lovingly of Peter and Pat often. Wesley held me, and helped me hold on tight to my faith, even as it was being challenged at Hampshire College. Wesley helped to confirm that the aspects of the Christian Church that Hampshire people critiqued so strongly was only part of what the church has been and can be. I give thanks to God for Peter and Pat's influence in shaping the congregation to balance social and personal holiness in their life together.

I left the Valley in 1994 to attend Duke Divinity School and returned to be ordained in the New England Annual Conference. I now serve on the Historical Society and will make sure this obituary is placed in the Conference Archives. If you have more that you might like to preserve there (sermons, pictures, journals etc.) I invite you to connect with me. May God provide comfort at this time of loss.

Sarah

Robert Traynor

January 11, 2021

My wife and I moved into 77 McClellan as full-time caretakers for Peter and Pat for their last few months in their beloved family home. Peter was such a lovely man, never angry, never mean, never letting his dementia prevent him from his walks, playing his clarinet, reading his newspapers or living his life with such grace as remained to him. To my regret, I only knew him for a handful of months, but both Amanda and myself are better for the experience.

H A Bud Tillinghast

January 9, 2021

I remember Pete when I was in the Methodist Youth Fellowship in the 1950s. I looked up to Pete as a role model, as he was the President of our Conference youth. I also remember Pat, his wife, who was a PSR classmate and the writer for a reader's theater piece based on Peter the Apostle. I was honored to help perform it at our Cal-Nev Annual Conference session. "I saw Him standing by the shore as evening fell... when we were too wearied to be feasting and too poor."

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Polly Peterson

January 2, 2021

I loved writing with Peter and Pat--used to drive out all the way from Concord on Thursday nights to be there. When I was there for more extended workshops, Peter could always be counted on to provide a lovely breakfast. His memories of childhood were special to me, since I also have Wisconsin roots. I cherish my copy of his book. His words and deeds live on in those of us who knew him.

Michael Childs

January 1, 2021

What a great man... Ah Peter, I enjoyed writing with you and Pat so much. Wherever you are, you will bring peace and calm and good will. I miss you and will think of you often!

Christina learned (santiago)

December 31, 2020

So sorry for your loss, they were always wonderful loving people. I have memories as a kid going to there house and doing some writing workshop. I would have never experienced summer camp if it wasn't for them and they helped out alot! I will miss them always loves and prayers!

Mary Ellen Shaughan

December 31, 2020

I am do sorry for your loss. Peter and I attended the same writing workshop for a couple of years and his writing always made us smile and took me back to my Midwestern roots. Both your parents were inspiring and memorable people. I am grateful for having known them both.

Chiko

December 31, 2020

An opportunity came for an African lady all the way from Malawi came to visit Amherst and attend
AWA conference. Peter and Pat Schneider opened their home for me and Mary to stay.

It was such an honour and a privilege to meet both Peter and Pat and the love they showed me formed great memories that shall forever live in my heart. I was truly blessed for accepting me just as I am and showed me love.

May their soul rest in peace❤

Peggy Gillespie

December 31, 2020

Peter was one of the kindest, gentlest, sweetest man I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. His relationship with Pat and his children was something to behold! I loved him and Pat and will miss them always.

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