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Thomas Prather Obituary

Thomas Ross Prather

April 7, 1937 - April 3, 2023

Thomas Ross Prather, (lovingly known as TRP to many), at the age of 85, had his final standing ovation April 3, 2023 with his beloved wife, Debbie, by his side in Fort Myers, FL.

Tom dedicated his life to theatre and making audiences happy, and to being a faithful servant of God, always sharing his time and energy to make his community a better place for everyone. He was born in Glenwood Springs, CO to Sarah Paris and Thomas Ewin Prather on April 7, 1937.

He grew up on his parent's cattle ranch in De Beque, CO. He graduated from Rifle High School in 1955. He attended Denver University and graduated from San Jose University in 1958 majoring in theatre. He enlisted in the U.S. Army in 1960, attending the Army Communications School in New Rochelle, NY. He was assigned to the DMZ in Korea as a radio announcer taking the 6 am to noon shift. In the afternoon and evenings, he started a community theatre with GI's and female members of the Red Cross.

He transferred to Army Headquarters in Japan to direct plays there. Upon honorable discharge, he received the Army Commendation Medal. After working for the army as a civilian on Governor's Island in New York City and working at Southberry Playhouse as prop master, he moved to Harrisburg, PA. There he founded the Arena House Theatre, a winter stock Equity house in 1964 with contacts he had made through his military service.

The Arena House operated from 1964 to 1968. He married Deborah Zimmerman of Lansdale, PA in 1965. During the summer months, the couple established an Equity summer stock theatre in a tent overlooking the Susquehanna River in Sunbury, PA. In 1971 they built the Brookside Playhouse in Shamokin Dam, PA.

From that time forward until 1987, he brought theatrical productions to twelve different theatre locations in the state. In 1987, Tom and his wife built the Dutch Apple Dinner Theatre in Lancaster, PA followed by a venture in 1993 with son, Will building the Broadway Palm Dinner Theatre in Fort Myers, FL.

In 1998, with son, David, Tom renovated the old movie theatre in Grand Junction, CO creating the Mesa Theatre and Club which featured live original band concerts ? the only venue of its kind on the western slope of Colorado.

He was a member of Lancaster Rotary with perfect attendance for 16 years. He and his wife were instrumental in founding St. Edwards Episcopal Church in Lancaster and were founding members of Iona-Hope Episcopal Church in Fort Myers. Tom wrote and collaborated on three plays: "Christmas Thru the Century," "Voices from Sanibel" and "Second Chances." The latter had five productions across the country.

In retirement, Tom created "Artful Souvenirs." He loved to collect original art and souvenirs around the world in his travels. He incorporated the art and do-dads in a unique framing technique which included some of his original art.

He is survived by his wife of 58 years, Deborah, and two sons, Will Prather of Fort Myers, FL and David Prather of Lancaster, PA and grandson TJ Prather of Brooklyn, NY. A memorial service will be held on April 17, 2023 at Iona-Hope Episcopal Church in Fort Myers, FL at 11:00 AM followed by a Celebration of Life at the Broadway Palm Dinner Theatre, Fort Myers.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Thomas Ross Prather scholarship at Florida Southwestern State College. Information can be found at fsw.edu at the Donate button. Checks may be sent to FSW Foundation with Thomas Prather in the memo line.

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Published by The Daily Sentinel on Apr. 5, 2023.

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Rev. Ted Althouse, Pastor-The Chapel of Cypress Cove

April 10, 2023

It was my honor and privilege to provide spiritual guidance through prayers with Tom as he was journeying toward his reward in heaven. Strong and proud but with grace he walked the path that we all must travel one day. To know Tom Prather as one of his spiritual leaders will remain a highlight of my ministry at Cypress Cove. Live on with our Lord and continue to direct the great heavenly productions.

Estelle Freedman

April 9, 2023

I send sympathies to Debbie and the Prather family. When I saw Tom's picture and name in the NY Times I recalled working with him at the Arena House in Harrisburg (co-founded with my parents Ted and Martha Freedman) in the 1960s. Tom left a strong impression with me for his kindness, talent, and contagious enthusiasm for theater. He clearly continued to affect others this way over his long and influential career.

Jim Donmoyer

April 9, 2023

TJ, Will, and family. I am so sorry for your loss. What a legacy he has left.

Patricia Smith

April 9, 2023

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Deborah and family. My
late husband and I moved to Punta Gorda in 1993 and found
Broadway Palm Dinner Theatre immediately. I continue to
this day with season tickets. I have so enjoyed Tom's Art
pieces and am the proud owner of 15 in my house. With
the love of travel over the years and slowing down now I
shall always remember Tom in the common travels about
the world. Tom will be remembered for years to come.

helen stine

April 8, 2023

With loving thoughts.
What a great contribution to our community. The Dutch Apple was a favorite venue for us in Lancaster. May your memories bring you comfort.

Char (Kanarr) James

April 6, 2023

Debbie and family,
So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I volunteered at Arena House 1965-68 while attending HACC, and was there so much Sid gave me a job in the box office. It's so ironic that I recently took part in a Zoom memorial for Bob Wait...he and Tom were a huge part of the intro to my love for theatre. Well done!

Patty Loverock

April 4, 2023

Debbie, my heart goes out to you and your family. You and Tom are an inspiration to all of us who admire your love for each other and your contributions to our community. Much love, Patty Loverock

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