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Henry Rau Obituary
In addition to his loving wife of 45 years, Hank is survived by his son, David Rau, and wife Katelyn of Sudbury, MA; his daughter, Carolyn Rau, and wife Michaella of Marlborough, MA; his grandchildren, Isabella and Grayson Rau of Sudbury, MA; his sister, Sandra Ferrari, and husband Edward of Woodbridge, VA; his brother-in-law, Mark Giddings, and partner Chris of Springfield, MA; and many close and devoted friends who have been very supportive during Hank's brave fight during the past several years.
The service to celebrate Hank's life will be held at Trinity Episcopal Church, located at 11 Church Street in Tariffville, on Saturday, July 29th. Visitation will begin at 10:00 a.m., followed by a funeral service at 11:00 a.m. Luncheon to follow in the parish hall. Private burial will take place at Granby Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Hank's memory can be made to the Granby Land Trust, PO BOX 23, Granby, CT 06035, or to Habitat for Humanity North Central Connecticut, PO Box 1933, Hartford, CT 06144. The Vincent Funeral Home of Simsbury is caring for the arrangements. Please visit Hank's Book of Memories at www.vincentfuneralhome.com for online tributes.
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Holly Martin
September 13, 2023
Dear Claudia and family, I just learned of Hank's passing and am so very sorry for your loss! I can still see hissmile in my mind! May you all have wonderful memories to hold in your hearts. Sending loveand sympathy, Holly Martin
Kevin imbt
August 29, 2023
Claudia,David,and Carolyn. So sorry about Hank, sorry I missed giving my condolences in person. Hank and Claudia you raised 2 A+ kids which I'm sure are now wonderful adults. I will always remember you all at tennis. Love coach Kevin imbt
Jen Roark
August 16, 2023
I was so sad to hear of Hank´s passing. I worked with him for many years and he was a great manager for a couple of those years. Years ago we all went to a New Britain Rock Cats game with your family and I´m very sorry for the loss of your husband and father.
Sue Schoch
August 9, 2023
To the Rau Family,
I´m so sorry to hear of Hank´s passing. May your fond memories of him console you in this sad time. I worked with Hank for many years in the trail of companies from Phoenix to Sun Life. Hank was a joy to work with, always in a good humor and cracking a joke. The world is a sadder place without him.
Mike huppert
July 31, 2023
To the Rau Family
My deepest condolences for your loss. Hank was a good man and kind soul. I especially remember our trip to the San Andreas fault on dune buggies during a sun life business trip. He insisted that we come back with rocks from there. I still have mine! And maybe some others still do as he gave some as gifts! What a great memory !
Deb Conner
July 30, 2023
I was saddened to hear of Hank’s passing. We worked together at Phoenix, Genworth and Sun Life. His sense of humor made it a pleasure to work with him. He will be missed by all his work colleagues!
Cathy Redman
July 28, 2023
To the Rau Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Hank for many years. I remember how much he loved taking his family on so many adventures. May you find peace and comfort in your memories.
Cathy Bannan (Dudko) Redman
Juli Cooper
July 28, 2023
Claudia, so sorry to hear of your loss of Hank. I remember him being a devoted fan of the girls softball team that Carolyn and Chrissy played on. Keeping you and your family in my prayers during this difficult time.
Dean and Sharon Ribaudo
July 26, 2023
Claudia and Family, Sharon and I are so very sorry to hear of Hanks passing . He was one of the good guys and we graduated high school together. I remember cutting study hall with Hank 2 or 3 times a week and heading to the Donut Kettle for breakfast only to be caught by Coach Sullivan, he would just smile at us but never turned us in. He will be missed terribly.
Melissa Wojciak
July 25, 2023
To the Rau Family, Hank was such a brilliant man. I had the pleasure of working with him for years (Phoenix,GE, Genworth, Sun Life)He inspired me to embrace change and try new responsibilities. I will be forever grateful to him for his kind heart and patience. I will remember him always and so appreciated the knowledge I gained from him! My thoughts are with you all.
Art Dammers
July 25, 2023
Dear Claudia, we were so saddened to hear the news of Hanks illness and passing.
He was one of the most up beat people I´ve ever met. As a friend, neighbor and coworker, he will be missed.
Art Dammers and family
Formerly of North Granby
Bonnie Conserva
July 24, 2023
Rest in peace Skipper. Somehow I thought we would see each other again. Heaven gained another angel way to soon. Perhaps we will meet again some day. I am sure you are deeply missed by your wife and family.
Paul and Loie Lodola
July 24, 2023
Dear Sandra, Edward and Family:
We are saddened to read about the loss of your brother.
We regret that we are unable to attend in person to express our sympathies.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times.
Sincerely, Paul and Loie Lodola.
Margaret Carvalho
July 24, 2023
I am so sorry to hear of Hank's passing. I enjoyed working with him at the Phoenix for many years. He was a wonderful person.
Anthony Rondinelli
July 23, 2023
So very sorry to hear of Hank's passing. He was a great person. I will always remember his kindness and great sense of humor in our time working together at GE Financial. God Bless him. May he rest in peace.
Anne Darling
July 23, 2023
So very sorry to hear this. Thinking of you all. I remember him as smiling and a kind man.
Anne Darling and family
Formally of North Granby
Waterford CT
SCOTT WALKER
July 22, 2023
I have very fond memories of 'Skipper' from our time on Greenfield Drive in Windsor Locks. He was a kind soul and a good friend to me. Rest in Peace.
Glen Dombrow
July 22, 2023
So sorry to hear this. I will always remember Hank fondly having worked with him for many years. My condolences to his family.
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