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Joseph HORTON Obituary

HORTON, Joseph A. Ph.D. Joseph A. Horton, Ph.D., 68, of Manchester died on May 7 after a long and painful struggle with cancer. Born in Queens' Village, New York, he was the son of Milton and Marie (Perin) Horton. He received his Ph.D. from Ohio State University in 1975. Joe's calling was always to reach out to others, as a priest for many years and as a clinical psychologist up to the time of his death. He was an inspirational preacher and public speaker. He cared deeply for his family and friends, as well as for those to whom he ministered in both the religious and secular settings. A storyteller by nature, he regaled others with his humorous accounts of his life experiences. At the same time, he reached out to those challenged in life: the homeless, the hopeless, the disabled, the anxious, the grieving. He had a particular love for young people and, in his own unique way, he helped so many. Joe truly enjoyed gourmet cooking, and a meal for a few was always enough to feed a multitude. He loved all kinds of ethnic food and dined at just about every ethnic restaurant he could find. His greatest joy was to join others in preparing the meal for the annual "Taste of Haiti" celebration at church. He loved flowers and his garden was always rich with multicolored roses, tulips, daffodils and lilies. Christmas lights were a must each year, as were wreaths in all the windows. Celebrations were just a part of life. And we can't forget his love of "all creatures great and small": his beautiful tropical fish and his much-loved Westies, Katie and Tara. Joe is survived by his wife, Roberta; his sister and brother-in-law, Jacqueline and David Orsmond, of Maine; his brother and sister-in-law, Wilfred and June Horton of Pennsylvania and his sister, Marie DeRosa, of California; as well as several nieces and nephews and their children. He also leaves his quasi "adoptive" family of many years, Dorothy and Andy Brindisi of Manchester, their children and grandchildren, and his many friends. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Patrick-St. Anthony Haitian Ministry, 235 Church Street, Hartford, CT in his name. A wake will be held at the John F. Tierney Funeral Home, 219 West Center Street in Manchester on Tuesday May 11 from 4-7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Wednesday, May 12 at St. Patrick-St. Anthony Church, 285 Church Street in Hartford, CT. The burial will be at Valley Falls Cemetery in Vernon at 2 p.m. For online condolences please visit www.tierneyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on May 8, 2010.

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GINI Lamb

May 2, 2020

It's so hard to believe that 10 years have passed, since the world lost this most loving and selfless person. He touched more lives than anyone I ever knew. RIP you lovely man.

Ed Gawlinski

July 27, 2010

Dr. Horton was such a great help for our family. His memory will be with us and he will be missed greatly.

Sharon Bigge

July 5, 2010

I'm so sorry to hear of Dr. Horton's passing. Obviously, my thoughts and prayers for him and for his family are a bit late, but nonetheless very heartfelt. Dr Horton helped me on several occasions to see the humor in some difficult situations. He always told me that I could not possibly be in control of everything. He said that the past was gone and you couldn't worry about the future because you couldn't control it, so that left today, the present, and you needed to enjoy it. I lost my beloved husband, 16 months ago, so I know some of the heartache, and emptiness you are experiencing. Dr. Horton is home now. May God grant all of you peace and love.
Sharon Bigge

Kathy Winemiller

June 17, 2010

Roberta, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Dr. Horton touched so many people during his life, I'm proud to say I am one of them. His words will forever live in my memory and my heart. Thank you Dr. Horton! You will be missed.

Ron and Gini Lamb

May 25, 2010

Joe was-without a doubt, the kindest, funniest, most compassionate person we have ever known. He will be sorely missed. Our hearts go out to you, Roberta-. We have so many wonderful and funny memories of Joe.

stephanie orris

May 17, 2010

Dr. Horton was a very nice person. I liked going to his office and playing with his dog, Tara. My mom and I loved watching the fish. He and Mrs. Horton are wonderful people. I will miss him.

Andrew Orris

May 17, 2010

Dr.Horton was a very good friend and mentor he had helped me understand that life can have its bad moments and good moments but you have to just keep going. I was a patient of Dr.Horton and the last time I saw him he was going to tell me a joke or about a prank he pulled as a kid---something to do with saran wrap! He didn't get a chance to tell me. He was a great man and a funny guy; we will all miss him.

Humpback Whale Gloucester MA

Sherry Fulton

May 12, 2010

Joe and Roberta are two very generous, loving people. Although physically, Joe will no longer present, I believe that he will remain as a voice within Roberta and all of us he has touched.
It is always painful to lose a loved one who is nearest and dearest to your heart, but if you listen to your heart, that person will always be there, as a part of you, helping to guide you as if he were right next to you.
Joe and Roberta helped me during a difficult time and I have found new hopes, new friends and new ways to look at life.
Through Joe, I was inspired to get certified for scuba diving. It really is an amazing experience and when I see the light shining under the ocean waves, I think of the twinkle in Joe's eyes when he spoke of his travels.

This is one of my favorite verses in a poem
by Robert Frost, "The Road Not Taken"

"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I -
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference."

Here's to Joe, who has indeed, made all the difference!

Humpback Whale Gloucester, MA

Sherry Fulton

May 12, 2010

Marie Ferrantino

May 12, 2010

Dear Roberta and family,

My deepest sympathy to all of you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers for God to continually bless you with His presence during this difficult time. Much love and peace.

Janet and Bill Belden

May 11, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of Dr. Horton's passing. He helped us get through a most difficult time in our lives. We will never forget the toast that he gave at our daughter's wedding. It was so heartfelt. Dr. Horton always had a story to share which made you feel better. He always told us that this place here is not our home and that we were on a journey to get home. Dr. Horton is home now. Our prayers are with those he left behind. Janet and Bill

Maryann Felice

May 11, 2010

I love you Joe, and I look forward to the day we will see each other again in our new bodies.
Roberta, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

May 11, 2010

Dear Roberta,

My prayers are with you and your family as you mourn Joe's passing but celebrate his wonderful life. May God bless you abundantly.

Love,
Elaine Wiatr

Sam Greenbank Family

May 11, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We are deeply grateful for the opportunity we had to benefit from Dr. Horton's counseling. We pray you will find comfort in this time of bereavement. May God reward his labor of love.

May 9, 2010

During the darkest days in my life, Dr. Horton gave me the strength and courage to continue. The many hours of counseling he extended to me gave me the ability to carry on. I will truly remember the inspiration he has been to me in my life and will always carry his words close to my heart.

Dr. Horton was a unique individual who gave freely of himself. I am blest to have known such a caring intellectual person to enter my life and my granddaughter's life. We both will miss him very much and I will always be thankful for the wisdom he extended to both my beautiful granddaughter and me.

Roberta, I will say a prayer for you. Dr. Horton always worried that you would be okay afterwards and I am sure you will be. Find strength in your friends and in his family and all the beautiful memories both you and Dr. Horton created together.

You both will always be a ray of sunshire to me. Thank you.

- a former patient.

Jim and Stacie Gannon

May 9, 2010

Joe gave of himself with such zest! You two must have had an extraordinary moment in time!
I am reminded of the eecummings poem, i carry your heart with me, when I think of you and Joe. In this time of sadness, we pray for you both and join hands with all your friends and family to surround you with love and support at this time.

jane santavenere

May 9, 2010

we are sorry for you lost he was a real good person my husband had him as a doc so we will truly miss him he was very inportant to him so please our condolences

Al & Anne Peirolo

May 9, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Pat

May 9, 2010

My deepest sympathy to his entire family. As an adopted child, Dr. Horton was my therapist for many years, primarily through my early teens. He did absolute wonders for me and helped me through some very difficult times and helped me to learn how to love and just be a good person. He will always be in my memories.

rikke wassenberg

May 8, 2010

Joe was a person of integrity, faith, and kindness. I never had a bad moment with Joe and we had endless opportunities to have them. He respected the human condition, was compassionate in every circumstance I knew, facilitated change with wisdom, humor, and faith. He was selfless in his dedication, he did not like to leave anything unfinished. My condolences to his family and friends.

Rosemarie Neilson

May 8, 2010

My deepest sympathy to his wife and family and friends. I knew him for more than 30 years mostly during his priesthood. He was a great listener and a wonderful healer. I am so sorry to learn of his illness and of his suffering. He was a kind man one who respected the diginity of the person.
With my deepest sorrow at your loss.
Rosemarie Neilson LCSW AC

Patricia Cipollini

May 8, 2010

Joe was so good to so many people in so many different ways. Over the time I knew him (about 20 years), he was a priest and inspirational speaker, then a compassionate counselor for many years and always a caring person. My sincere condolences go out to Roberta and all his other friends and family. He will be dearly missed but always remembered with great fondness and gratitude.

John Pugzles

May 8, 2010

Joe was one of my most enthusiastic, and at times, most challenging scuba students. After certification, he was a welcome member of our scuba travel group,and will always be fondly remembered.

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