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RUEZ, R. Allan
R. Allan Ruez, 65, passed away suddenly at home July 7, 2011. He was born July 23, 1945 in Hartford, CT to Rene A. Ruez and Viola (Bleau) Ruez. He was brought up in Avon, CT, attended Avon Schools, Avon Old Farms School and graduated from University of Hartford. He is predeceased by his parents and leaves his wife of 42 years, Pamela Chase Ruez. He also leaves his stepmom, Katie Ruez of Avon, his sister Elaine Barrett of Rhode Island, sister Phyllis Ruez of Avon, niece Cara Barrett Bishop and her husband Greg of MA, his nephew and Godson, Sean Barrett and his wife Gina of Rhode Island, and his two black labs Lacey and Tre. He served in the US Army Reserves for 6 years and was a member of Avon Lions Club for over 20 years. He retired from Travel Insured International in 2005. He lived in Avon from the time he was born and he and Pam spent many happy years in Avon until they moved to Rome, Maine in 2010 to live in their camp by the lake. He so enjoyed his camp on Great Pond and his many friends, including Scott Christensen and Gordon Brown whom he could always count on. He also enjoyed his chats with Kerry Oliver at the lobster tank at Day's Store.
Arrangements are in care of Wheeler Funeral Home, Oakland, Maine. A funeral mass will be held at St. Ann's Church, Avon, CT on Thursday, July 21, 2011 at 11 a.m. followed by a reception at Avon Old Farms School, Old Farms Road, Avon, CT at 12:30 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Allan's name to Avon Old Farms School, Outreach Fund, 500 Old Farms Road, Avon, CT 06001 or Rome Fire and Rescue Department, 10 Mercer Road, Rome, Maine 04963. A special thank you to all who responded from the Rome Fire and Rescue Department.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 19, 2011.

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Tina Hallenbeck

August 5, 2011

Dear Pam -

I am so saddended to hear of Allan's sudden passing. Allan and I shared many years together working on the employee benefits plans at Travel Insured. Allan was such a wonderful man. He loved you dearly, the dogs and living in Maine. I remember when the house was in construction and Allan would proudly share stories and photos. What a very special place for you both and the pups.

Allan's smile and laughter will always remain in my memory. I am sorry to have missed the memorial service in CT as I was away on vacation.

My husband Kurt and our boys will treasure the times we spent with Allan at the Lions Club spaghetti dinners.

My thoughts are with you. Hold tight to your faith and be thankful to God for giving us memories.

Andrea Bell Milewski

July 21, 2011

Dear Pam, I am so sorry about Allan's passing. What a wonderful man, both of you are such a blessing to our family. I will always remember the laughter and fun we all had visiting Avon when we were kids. Old Farm Road was always filled with love and family. I feel so happy that I got to speak with Allan last week. His voice,although one that would have been hard to forget anyway!, will now be etched in my memory forever. God bless him on his journey and I pray that you, Aunt Kate, Elaine and kids, Phyl and your extended family will find peace in the wonderful memories of such a great man. I know he will join Uncle Rene in watching over us all. Love, Andrea

Ron & Sharon York

July 20, 2011

Dear Pam,Just received a call from Steve
Widger with the sad news of Allans passing.All these years and all these
miles and it still hurts.We will keep you and the family in our thoughts.

Mike&Linda Blase

July 20, 2011

Dear Pam, We were so saddened to hear of Allans passing. He was a fun, honest and very genuine person that we will greatly miss. We are glad that you both had the opportunity to live the good life in Maine. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

July 19, 2011

Pam,
Al was one of my best friends while serving those 6 years in the 826th MI batallion. His sudden passing was, to say the least, absolutely shocking to me. Carol & I will be at the services on Thursday. We always thought you were a perfect couple, with Al always ready with his quick wit.
The world will be a much sadder place without him.
Love and condolences,
John & Carol Oliveri

Dan Breen

July 19, 2011

Pam,
I was sorry to hear of Allan's passing. He and I worked together for years at Travel Insured. I enjoyed his company whenever I visited the office in East Hartford. He was a good man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Dan Breen
West Hempstead, NY

Larry Howard

July 19, 2011

Pam, Peggy and I were sorry to hear of the loss of Allan to you. He was a good friend and fellow worker when we worked together at Travel Insured. My condolences to you and the rest of your family.

Larry and Peggy Howard

James Pesci

July 19, 2011

Both Madelyn and I were saddened by Alan's untimely death. Our prayers go out to Pam. He will remain in our prayers.

Bonnie Anderson

July 19, 2011

I will forever remember Allans quick wit and hearty laugh. I loved to talk with him about politics and listen to him cut right to the heart of the matter. I loved to see the enduring love he shared with Pam. He will be missed forever and loved by everyone whose life he touched.

July 19, 2011

Dear Pam,Elaine,Phyllis,Sean,Kara,&Katie, Please accept our deepest sympathy on the sudden death of your dear spouse, brother and wonderful relative.We will keep you in our thoughts & prayers.Sincerely Ed&Mary Flynn

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