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Robert Paulson Obituary

Robert "Bob" Arvid Paulson, 86, of Rockfall, husband of the late Elizabeth "Betty" (Wells) Paulson, passed away peacefully on Friday, July 29, 2022 at his home. Born and raised in Middletown, he was the son of the late Erhard and Olga (Carlson) Paulson. At eight years old, Bob learned to play the trumpet. By twelve, he was playing with the Middletown Symphonic Orchestra and continued playing in the band at Woodrow Wilson High School and was Band Captain. He graduated Class of 1955 and went on to serve three years of active duty in the United States Army. In 1959, Bob married Betty Wells and they moved to Rockfall. He worked for Standard Knapp for two years, was the owner of Paulson's Sport Shop in Middletown for five years and owner/operator of Reliable Painting and Repair for over forty years. He coached softball in Middlefield, was active on the Coginchaug Regional High School Scholarship Committee, loved camping in New Hampshire and spending time with his grandchildren. Bob was a member of Faith Lutheran Church in Middletown. Bob is survived by a son, Christopher Paulson and his wife Fran of Rockfall; his daughter, Deborah Kulpik and her husband John of Middlefield; four grandchildren, Nico and Kiyah Kulpik, Alex and Luke Paulson; sister-in –law, June Paulson; special nieces, Heidi Abbott and her husband Al of Portland and Eloise Ebbighausen and her husband Harry of MA; nephews, Paul Paulson of MA and Jon Paulson of NJ; special grand nephew, Joshua Abbott and many close friends. Along with his wife and parents, Bob was predeceased by his daughter, Kathleen E. Paulson. The Paulson family would like to say a special thank you to Debra Oliver for the wonderful and compassionate care she gave Bob. Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, August 3rd at 11:00 am at Faith Lutheran Church, 300 Washington Street, Middletown where masks are optional. Burial will follow in Pine Grove Cemetery where full military honors will be accorded. Family and friends may call Wednesday morning before the service from 10:00 to 11:00 am at the church. In lieu of flowers, donations in Bob's memory may be made to the Kathleen E. Paulson Cochinchaug Regional High School Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 120, Durham, CT 06422. To share memories or send condolences to the family, please visit www.doolittlefuneralservice.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 31, 2022.

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Frederick and Barbara Fountain

July 25, 2025

Gone but never forgotten. Our wonderful times together especially in New Hampshire with you and Betty are treasured memories. We miss both of you , our dearest friends, so much. Drick and Barb Fountain

Harry Ebbighausen

July 25, 2025

Remembering both your Mom and your Dad. What a wonderful pair of individuals. Loving Aunt, Uncle, great Aunt and great Uncle to our family. We miss them dearly and they are in our thoughts and prayers.

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June 10, 2024

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Drick and Barbara Fountain

December 15, 2023

We miss Bob and Betty ever day. They were our very dearest friends. We had special holiday times together when our children were young and celebrated New Year´s Eve together for decades. So many very special memories which we cherish. We shared so much together over our long wonderful relationship.

Drick and Barbara Fountain

July 26, 2023

Debi, John, Chris and Fran, Thinking of all of you on the one year anniversary of your Dad´s passing. We miss him so much as well as your Mom. Life goes on but it is not the same. Grateful for all of our wonderful memories of time spent with them. He was a very special man. Love Uncle Drick and Aunt Barbara

Harry and Eloise Ebbighausen

July 25, 2023

Debbie, John, Chris, and Fran - thinking of you and your families on the anniversary of the passing of your Dad. Both your parents were special to us and we miss them dearly. I am sure you do as well. Harry and Eloise

Barbara Fountain

August 1, 2022

My friendship with Bob (and Betty) began over 60 years ago and developed into a beautiful and very special bond. With our families we shared so many good times together camping in New Hampshire, Cape Cod vacations , weekends away and holidays. We were always there for one another in good times and bad. Bob was such a sincere and thoughtful person and fun to be with. A special part of my life is gone but not forgotten. I will always cherish those memories. I will love you and miss you always Bob. Love and deepest sympathy to Debi, Chris and their families

Barbara Fountain

August 1, 2022

My friendship with Bob (and Betty) began over 60 years ago and developed into a beautiful and very special bond. With our families, we shared so many good times together - camping in New Hampshire, Care Cod vacations, weekend get always and holidays. We were always there for one another in good times and bad. Bob was such a warm sincere and thoughtful person and so much fun to be with. A special part of my life is gone but not forgotten. I will always cherish those memories. You will truly be missed my friend. Love and deepest sympathy to Debi, Chris and their families.

Fred(Drick) Fountain

August 1, 2022

My friendship with Bob began over 75 years ago. We met in Sunday school and when my family moved near Bob´s home we started high school together at Woodrow Wilson.Later as married couples (Bob was my best man) we spent special times together including many day trips, weekends away, camping in New Hampshire with our trailers and summer vacations at the Cape. After my retirement I would occasionally help Bob out at his repair business. Through all these phases of our lives, Bob remained the honest, caring and fun loving friend - Indeed a good human being. I will truly miss you my Buddy. Rest In Peace. My thoughts and prayers go out to Debi and Chris and their families.

Harry and Eloise Ebbighausen

August 1, 2022

You were a wonderful Uncle, a loving husband and father, and an inspiration. May you enjoy your time in eternity with your loving wife Betty and daughter Kathy. You will be missed by all of us here.

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