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Mildred Koehler Obituary
Mildred J. Koehler
May 11, 1933 - Sept. 11, 2023
Mildred J. Koehler (Anstoetter), passed away peacefully in her home Monday evening, September 11, 2023.
Milly loved her family - both immediate and extended - her many friends through the Decatur Elks, and her neighbors. Her strong faith was evident to anyone who knew her. Milly was an avid fan of the St. Louis Cardinals, the Chicago Bears, and the fighting Illini.
Born May 11, 1933, Milly lived the rural life with her nine siblings in the Epworth, IA, area. She met and married the love of her life, Kenneth L. Koehler on February 6, 1960. They raised four children: Dennis of Noblesville IN, Kim Cousin of Kankakee IL, Keith (Debra) of Kankakee IL, and John of Gravois Mills, MO.
Grandma loved her grandchildren: Elizabeth Cousin, Nicole, Nathon, Ashley (Cameron) Lanting, Julia, Michelle (Ryan) Powell, Andrew (Meredith) Mueller, Grant (Hollie), Jack, and Lydia.
She also enjoyed her great-grandchildren: Samuel, Maxwell, Georgia (Michelle); Julianna (Elizabeth); and Roy (Ashley).
Milly is survived by four sisters-in-law: Marilyn Koehler, Joan Anstoetter, Shirley Anstoetter-Maiers, Monie Anstoetter; and many wonderful nieces and nephews.
Preceding Milly in death are her parents, Ben and Lidwina Anstoetter; her several siblings and their spouses.
Visitation is from 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM Monday, September 18, 2023, with Mass at Our Lady of Lourdes. Immediately following mass, a graveside ceremony will be at Boiling Springs Cemetery, Decatur, IL. A luncheon will be served at the Decatur Elks #401 at 2210 Hickory St.
Donations may be sent to either Illinois Elks Childrens Care Corporation, Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church, Decatur, IL; or Uplifted Care (Hospice), Kankakee, IL.
Condolences and memories may be shared with the family in care of Brintlinger and Earl Funeral Homes at www.brintlingerandearl.com.
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Memories and Condolences
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Burgy5@
September 18, 2023
Claudia Zybak
September 17, 2023
I will always remember ur vibrant cheerfulness. I will always cherish our coffee times and bingo. Will always love u Milly. U will be greatly missed love ya Claudia
Karen Burgmeier
September 17, 2023
Two of my Angels in Heaven!
Karen Burgmeier
September 17, 2023
My deepest sympathy to the Koehler family. Milly held a special place in my heart. She was loved by many. Milly you are now one of our angels along with so many others that have gone before us. My Dad along with the rest of our family loved you so much. We will now hang on to the memories and live life to the fullest as you did. RIP Milly you will be misse. Love
Brenda Mueller
September 14, 2023
Aunt Millie we have so many wonderful memories...I will miss your sweet smile and giggle but most of all the love you had for all of us. Rest in Peace..: big hugs for all the family especially Uncle Ken! Love b
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