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2019

Alexander Torres Obituary

Alexander Joseph Torres was born May 8, 1988 in Holland Hospital to his proud parents Dee Dee and Drew. On July 28, 2019, Alex unexpectedly passed away after a tragic accident when he lost his footing and fell from a cliff while attending a wedding reception with his wife, Marly, at Starved Rock State Park in Illinois.
From his earlier years, it was clear the Alex was going to be curious, active and adventurous. He kept his family, especially his big sister Andrea, on their toes. He graduated from West Ottawa High School in 2006 and has always called Michigan his home. In 2017, he was fortunate to marry the love of his life, Marly, in a beautiful ceremony surrounded by their family and friends.
Alex was most at home in nature where he spent a lot of time with his best friend and brother Aaron and their nephew Andrew Ty. He was a prolific reader and an environmentalist who respected nature's beauty. Alex had a strong work ethic and recently launched his own business, North Craft Construction after obtaining his residential builder license earlier this year.
What the world will miss the most about Alex is his big heart. When anyone was in need, Alex was there to give the biggest, unbridled hug imaginable. He was the most joyful when he was serving others – the first person to offer a hand and his strength in times of need. Alex saw the beauty in nature, humans and the world – his Facebook post earlier this week quoting Ansel Adams said it best "I believe the world is incomprehensibly beautiful – an endless prospect of magic and wonder."
He is survived by his wife, Marly, his parents Dee Dee and Drew Torres, siblings Andrea and Aaron Torres, his nephew Andrew Ty Torres, and his loving dog Dur as well as many extended family and friends.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the "Alex's Legacy for Andrew Ty" GoFundMe account to raise money for Alex's 12 year old nephew (https://www.gofundme.com/f/alex-torres-legacy-for-andrew-ty). Andrew Ty has a degenerative genetic disorder, Retinitis Pigmentosa, which is gradually causing him to go blind. Alex's devotion to Andrew Ty was palpable and Alex would be honored to know that he continued to contribute in this way to Andrew Ty's future.
A celebration of his life will be held with family and friends.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Holland Sentinel on Jul. 30, 2019.

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Hope Monroe

August 12, 2024

I remember a little boy who was fearless
Love you Alex

Nicole Hawkins

August 6, 2019

My deepest heartfelt sympathies to all of you. I pray for peace and strength to see you thru this tragedy. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Hope Monroe

August 6, 2019

Our hearts are broken for you and your beautiful family. I will pray for you daily... please know that we value your friendship... No one can fathom what you are feeling! Just know that many love you and will lift you up in prayer.

Julia Rausch Fetters

August 6, 2019

In shock and deep grief I send my condolences to you DeecDee, and to Drew and your children. I think Al McGeehan said it best so I won't repeat. My breath is taken from me with what you are going through. What a precious son. May God comfort your family.

Scott Jeffrey

August 3, 2019

Drew, DeeDee & family, our prayers and condolences go out to all of you. We are so very sorry for your loss. May God hold you in his loving arms as you grieve.

Scott & Laurie Jeffrey

Toni Maldonado Gatica (Casarrubias)

August 3, 2019

Mr. Torres and family
Sorry for the loss of your son.
Torres you were always giving positive and helpful advice to the community. It's the community's time to give back as we share this tough time with you and your family.
Keeping you all in prayer. May God embrace your family.

Tamar Enoch

August 2, 2019

We were so sad to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in the love and strength of your family and wonderful memories. Love, Hilda, Aviva, Tamar and David Enoch

August 2, 2019

Alex may you rest in peace and remain the sweet Alex that everyone remembers you as.GOD BLESS UNCLE RICH,ELVA and family

August 2, 2019

We are so sorry for your loss. Love and prayers to all of you.

John and Nancy Borkovich

Marlene Gaitan

August 1, 2019

Prayers for you.

Kelly Sills

August 1, 2019

My heart breaks for the loss of your son.
He was always such a joy to have around.
Although It's been a few years since our boys were in high school and hanging out at my home, I will never forget what a wonderful and kind young man that you raised.

I will continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Penny Price

August 1, 2019

Deepest sympathy Drew to you and your family, my thoughts and prayers are sent to you at this difficult time.

Tiny Toppen

July 31, 2019

Gwen (Coldren) Newsome

July 31, 2019

Drew, DeeDee and Family:

I am so shocked to hear of your family's tragic loss. I can't even fathom your grief. Try to stay strong and know that Alex made a difference to all and we all were blessed to have him, although not long enough.

My prayers are with you.

M. Linda Graham

July 31, 2019

Words cannot speak to the depth of pain at such a loss; it is a nightmare to see the grave no parent should ever see. We hold you, Drew and DeeDee, and all your family, in our prayers.
Our deepest condolences.

Norma Luna

July 31, 2019

My sincerest condolences Detective Torres to you and your family. I have such beautiful memories of you speaking proudly of your own children while we chat in our nieghborhood. Your two boys were always a handful, just like mine I would say. You care and help our community youth for so many years I can not imagine your pain my friend. I will be praying for the Lord to give you and your family the strength and peace. Sending my prayers to all of you.

Norma Luna

July 31, 2019

My sincerest condolences Detective Torres to you and your family. I have such beautiful memories of you speaking proudly of your own children while we chat in our nieghborhood. Your two boys were always a handful, just like mine I would say. Your pride and joy were your children. And after caring and helping our community youth for so many years I can not imagine your pain my friend. May the Lord give you and your family the strength and peace. Prayers for the Torres Family.

Norma Luna

July 31, 2019

My sincerest condolences Retired Detective Torres to you and your family. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Sue Harder

July 31, 2019

Drew, DeeDee and family. I was shocked to learn of the tragic loss of your beloved son. Andy and I send our condolences and prayers.

Sue Kehr

July 30, 2019

Drew and DeeDee,
All day I have sought for words and I just can't seem to find them. I keep thinking of my dear friend Mary and I know DeeDee that you will need all the strength she has instilled in you. I know she is with your son.

July 30, 2019

Sending our deepest condolences to Marley and to the Torres and Borovich family - we are thinking of all of you in this difficult time.

Kevin and Allison Gavin

Yesenia Molina

July 30, 2019

My prayers and condolences go to your family. So sorry for your loss

Bob and Robin Danielson

July 30, 2019

So sorry for your loss ,Torres family. So sorry Sarge.

Al McGeehan

July 30, 2019

After all of the years of dedicated and passionate caring for the children of others to have these two community "angels" lose their own child in such a tragic accident is beyond belief. God bless the Torres family as they grieve for their son. You are in our prayers.

July 30, 2019

Alex, I'm gonna miss that smile and warm greeting I got every time I saw you. You're closeness and love for your family was always visible. We love you and we will keep you in our hearts.

Drew, Dee Dee, Aaron, Andrea and Andrew Ty. My family sends our love and prayers for strength and comfort.


Jeff, Sherry and Josh Velthouse

PATRICIA lowden (RARDIN)

July 30, 2019

MY PRAYS TO THE FAMILY.

July 30, 2019

Our favorite memory of Alex happened a couple of years ago, as my husband and I were hiking in the UP on a secluded trail, and this young couple was hiking towards us. I said to my husband, "hey, isn't that Drew's boy?" Well, yes it was! Alex and Marly had just got engaged, and were out hiking! Small world! The world has lost a very special young man.
Our deepest condolences,
Paul and Amy Jo Malus
Dashmaster Automotive

AmberLyn Macchia

July 30, 2019

AmberLyn (Scheeringa) Macchia and Brian Macchia

I am so genuinely sorry for your loss Marly and my heart breaks for you. My husband, sister (who is also a Sigma and was at the wedding) and I have been praying for you continually.

Deb Nykamp

July 30, 2019

So sorry for your loss.

Martha and Jerry Ford

July 30, 2019

Drew, Jerry and I are so saddened by this news. May God wrap His arms around you and your family during this intense time of grief. A grief we know that will last a lifetime. May God give you strength and comfort beyond understanding.
We are praying for you and your family.

REY PENA

July 30, 2019

Alex,

Words could not explain the pain that came upon hearing the news of your passing. You were like a brother to me. Your name will live on, Alex. Through the people you've influenced, loved, and cared for. Your name will live on through your friends, your family, your wife.. your name will live on forever. My dear friend, you will always hold a special place in my heart and mind. You will never be forgotten. You will never be lost again, because you have been found in Christ. And you're in paradise, where you belong. The pain that permeates our hearts will only be a flicker of light compared to the love and happiness that you brought to everyone around you. It seems like it was only yesterday that we were wandering the streets in adolescent angst with an appetite for curiosity, and life. The same curiosity that you expressed the night you finally became free. In tears I say, fly on my brother. Rest finally, in Peace.

All the love... carry on Alex. You will be missed.

Cathy (Roper) Marshall

July 30, 2019

Sending love & healing to the family & friends who are suffering the enormity of the loss ofAlex.

Beth and Steve DeVries

July 30, 2019

Sorry for your loss , you will be in our prayers. May God give you peace and comfort during these rough times.

Carol Brower

July 30, 2019

DeeDee and Drew I am so sorry for your loss, Praying for you and your family. Especially for Andrew health, may God comfort you in this time of difficult.

Marty Blok

July 30, 2019

Drew, my heart breaks for you today. I can't imagine what it is to lose a child. I am truly saddened even though I never met him. He sounded like a great young man. You raised him well. I pray that God's peace will surround you and your family.

Bryan St.Onge

July 30, 2019

Alex, I will always regret that we never had the chance to meet in person. Our brief exchanges on social media tell me that you were an intelligent and funny young man. I cherish the friendship I have established with your parents and my hear breaks for them, knowing there will be a massive void in their lives for the rest of their days. May you rest in eternal peace. I know you will always be watching over your wife, siblings, parents and your nephew. Until we meet some day...

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