Search by Name

Search by Name

Erle Dean Ellis

1936 - 2021

Erle Dean Ellis obituary, 1936-2021, Houston, TX

BORN

1936

DIED

2021

Erle Ellis Obituary

Erle Dean Ellis
1936-2021
September 4, 1936 –
December 13, 2021

Erle Dean Ellis, aka Double E, Erle the Pearl, Captain Cash and GPOP, age 85, passed away December 13, 2021. He showed up at Heaven's glorious gate with a golf club in his right hand and a stiff gin in his left. Spread across his face was his trademark mischievous grin as if he were saying, "I have come prepared!"

Welcoming him with a warmhearted embrace, was his beloved grandson, Dean, adoringly named after him and his treasured mother-in-law, Mildred Elizabeth Stinson.

His wife, Sally "Blondie" of 61 years, stood by him ad with him through thick and thin and everything in between. My dad had two daughters, Julie (Austin) Speed and me, the youngest, Jennifer Elaine Haynes with Michael Haynes his devoted son-in-law. His crown jewel was his granddaughter, Natalie Elizabeth. He was immensely proud of her and respected her moral compass. Dad would shed tears of joy when she sang to him and referred to her as his sweetheart.

His brother, Cliff, sister, Nancy and dear nephew, David will continue to celebrate him for years to come.

He was born in Norwalk, OH and attended Bowling Green State University. He was a beloved high school senior teacher, and a tenacious basketball coach. My dad loved competition and challenges and soon the corporate world came calling. He had the privilege of working for Shell Oil for 30 plus years. At the headquarters in Houston, TX he was the General Manager of Real Estate from the West Coast to the East Coast. He was a mover and a shaker, and relished his leadership responsibilities. Dad was a self-made man. He earned every dollar and every accomplishment on his own. His greatest years were when he worked at Shell, and he was endlessly grateful for their support. They were a second family to him.

Erle had the gift of the gab, and possessed the talent of telling a story or a joke like nobody else. His quick wit, silver tongue, and wicked sense of humor were legendary.

He revered his 40 years as a member of Champions Golf Club in Houston. Not only was golf his passion, he also loved playing cards. Many games, drinks and spirited stories were shared with his buddies in the locker room; thank you, Champions Golf Club for the comradery, competition and class my dad so profoundly loved.

During his retirement years, he served on the Board for Northern Builders in Schiller Park, IL. Thank you, Tom and Jim Grusecki, for having my dad be a part of your exceptional company and being superb friends. He respected you both so much. He also served as Board President of the Humane Society in Sandusky, OH because he always had a genuine love for animals.

We will miss his famous one liners such as a "I'll do the thinking" "Bring me my money clip" "Don't let pride interfere with logic" "Just to take the edge off" and "Whiskey!"

To his family and friends, he was loyal, generous, hilarious, successful, supportive, whip smart, feisty, stubborn and unwavering. To me, he was my anchor. He was the dad that whistled tunes for all my friends, showed up to all my games and events, and never missed an opportunity to challenge me and make me laugh. We were the dad and daughter duo that left no stone unturned and had true unconditional love.

Throughout his life he made some solid tried and true friends. They were faithful from start to finish, and my dad loved them.

Thank you to Mike Rose and Dan Boz for your loyal friendship, you two were my dad's partners in crime and famous in the Ellis house. Thank you to the unfailing George Hadley, Nick Staropoli, Leroy Drury, Dallas Wolf, Dennis Stavinoha, Jim Thomas, Lance Bubba Stanfill, Jeff Burrows, and the steadfast true-blue Jim "Pitch" Pitcher.

Thank you to all of the aides and nurses at Stein Hospice in Sandusky, OH. They were angels on Earth for my dad and shared their gift of compassion and tender care every step of the way.

At the end of the day, all of my dad's love, effort, and focus was on his family. Mom, Natalie, and I gave back to him what he had selflessly given to us. We took care of him until the end

In memory of my dad, please go out and fill up your tank with gas from Shell Oil! Share a funny story or memorable moment about him while smoking a good cigar after a perfect round of golf. Turn on some Neil Diamond or Dean Martin and pour yourself a nice drink. Raise your glass and make a toast to the rarest of gems, Double E.

It was an honor to be your daughter, dad. There will never be another like you.

Groff Funeral Homes & Crematory is assisting the family.

Condolences may be shared online at www.grofffuneralhomes.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Houston Chronicle on Dec. 17, 2021.

Memories and Condolences
for Erle Ellis

Not sure what to say?





Jen Ellis Haynes

December 10, 2025

How can it already be four years? I always think if I only had one minute with you now to tell you all of my feelings for you. However, I have peace knowing I said everything to you while you were present on Earth and able to understand all of it. You were enough for me, you were everything to me, you will remain in me until I meet you again. I LOVE YOU DAD.

jen ellis haynes

September 3, 2025

HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN GLORIOUS HEAVEN DAD. Remember this trip with Mike Rose and the gang? Your exact cowboy hat is hanging in Haynes's office. We had dinner with "Rosey" and we shared many drinks, stories, and memories! Dear God how I miss you. Hope you are celebrating up there with a stiff gin. I love you deeply dad. You are still with me.

Jen Haynes

June 11, 2025

HAPPY FATHERS DAY to these two extraordinary men and role models to Natalie and I. You are on my mind nonstop dad. You are with me everywhere I go. The family is taking care of each other here on Earth, and I know you are taking care of everyone and keeping them entertained in Heaven. I can´t wait to see you there one day.

jen ellis haynes

December 11, 2024

3 years you have been gone, and you have been on my mind every single day. We are making your famous Christmas cookies this year. It will never be the same without you telling us how to shape the cookie and the frost the cookie! I LOVE YOU DAD. I MISS EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU.

Your favorite granddaughter ;)

December 1, 2024

Hi GPOP! I just got back to my apartment in Chicago after spending a nice Thanksgiving with Grammy and Mom :) We had so many laughs and I wished you were there the whole time!! We decided we are going to make your famous Christmas cookies this year.... although they won't ever taste as good without your "tips" and instructions heehee. I love you so much and think about you every day. I hope I'm making you proud.

jen ellis haynes

September 2, 2024

jen ellis haynes

September 2, 2024

jen ellis haynes

September 2, 2024

Happy Birthday on September 4th dad! A few birthdays have come and gone without you here on Earth, but I celebrate you just the same. Every cheers, every toast Haynes and I make, we mention you. My love for you, my gratitude and respect for you, and the endless deep belly laughs we shared remain a daily thought. Haynes adopted Natalie this year. We cried and said a prayer with you included, knowing you would be proud and were at peace. Keep rolling along you BG Warrior, and I cannot wait to see again dad.

jen ellis haynes

December 10, 2023

December 13th, 2023 will be two years since you passed. You still are, and will always be, my favorite and most important man in my life. You left me with memories, lessons, joy, laughter, and sorrow like I have never experienced. I hope you can hear me talking to you in Heaven. I love you. I miss you. I wish you were here.

Jen Ellis Haynes

September 3, 2023

HAPPY 87th BIRTHDAY DAD. Hopefully you are watching golf and drinking a stiff gin with two olives. How fitting that your birthday falls on Labor Day this year, as I am posting one of my favorite work pictures of you from Shell Oil. Your success story was all your own dad. You had the drive, the determination, and the work ethic that made me so proud. I would sell my soul to have one minute back with you so I could hug you again, hear you again, and see you smile back at me. I believe I will see you again one day. Until then, Natalie, Haynes, and I toast every toast to you and keep you alive in our hearts EVERY DAY.

JEN

June 16, 2023

HAPPY FATHERS DAY DAD. I MISS YOU EVERY DAY. YOU WERE EVERYTHING I NEEDED IN A DAD. I HOPE I MAKE YOU PROUD, AND I KNOW YOU CERTAINLY MADE ME PROUD. ROLL ALONG YOU BG WARRIOR.

Jen Ellis Haynes

February 14, 2023

You will always be my first love dad. I'd give anything to have you back. Thank you to God for Him giving me the most INCREDIBLE dad ever.

Jen Ellis Haynes

December 11, 2022

Jen Ellis Haynes

December 11, 2022

Jen Ellis Haynes

December 11, 2022

Jen Ellis Haynes

December 11, 2022

Jen Ellis Haynes

December 11, 2022

Jen Ellis Haynes

December 11, 2022

December 13th, 2021 was a day of agony for me, but relief and joy for you dad. Heaven had the privilege of taking you, and all I wanted was to have you back with me. Selfishly, I still want you here on Earth everyday so I can hear your voice and feel your unwavering support for me. The sorrow is still hanging around dad, and I know you wouldn't want that for me. I know you know this and I know I told you this, but I LOVE YOU, I RESPECT YOU, I ADMIRE YOU, and I AM GRATEFUL FOR YOU AND ALL THAT YOU HAVE DONE FOR ME AND WITH ME. I hope Heaven is full of card games, drinks, laughter, and pure bliss. I know I will see you, Dean, and GG again. Until then, YOU ARE NEVER FORGOTTEN.

Jen Haynes

September 4, 2022

HAPPY 86th BIRTHDAY DAD. Although we left no stone unturned, I´d give anything to have you here for just one day. You were a constant in my life, and now you are constantly on my mind. You were one of a kind, and I am so grateful for all that you did for me and all of your unwavering love for me. Tom Grusecki reached out to me today to honor you and acknowledge your deep friendship. You certainly were loved, and you were wildly funny! I LOVE YOU DAD.

Jen Ellis Haynes

August 14, 2022

Even after eight months without you, I think about you everyday dad. I listened to the song "Hello Again" and could hear you singing it to me over and over. I still cry about you every week and want you back. I know you are with Dean and Millie and feeling no pain. I love you dad.

Jen Ellis Haynes

June 15, 2022

Happy Father's Day Dad. You were and will always be "The World's Greatest Dad." I will miss writing that on your Father's Day card that I sent every year. I still ache for you and hear your voice. These last six months without you has been a gut check. I hope I continue to make you proud. I love you.

Jen Haynes

May 14, 2022

Natalie turns 24 tomorrow dad. We talk about you all the time and share all the stories, laughs, and love you gave us both. Natalie aches that her GPOP is gone and so do I. We love you so much.

Jen Ellis Haynes

March 13, 2022

I wish you were here to see the beautiful ranch house Haynes is building for Natalie and I. You are going to be our first toast next to our fireplace. I pray about you every day. I will love you forever dad.

Jen Ellis Haynes

February 13, 2022

It's been two months since you have passed dad. Mike Haynes and I have toasted you and included you in our prayers for every meal. This picture is a favorite of mine, as our look says it all. We had a tight bond and a lot of devilish fun. I love you so much and ache that you are not here. You were everything I wanted in a dad.

Jennifer

January 11, 2022

Almost one month since you have passed dad. It feels like a year. I think of you at least 10 times a day. I miss your voice and your daily phone calls. I hope you are looking down on me and KNOW how much I LOVE YOU.

Jennifer Ellis Haynes

December 25, 2021

I will love you forever. There was no one that was more proud of you than me. Thank God you were my dad.

Eco-Friendly Memorial Trees

Rob C. Wilson III

Planted Trees

Mike Rose

December 17, 2021

One of the most unique special individuals I will ever know....
A Friendship not to be duplicated
I am a better person for the 42 years I enjoyed him.
Learned more from him than he ever knew.

Loved him dearly. And will miss him forever

Showing 1 - 28 of 28 results

Make a Donation
in Erle Ellis's name

Memorial Events
for Erle Ellis

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Erle's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Erle Ellis's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more