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James Cavender Obituary

James Robert Cavender
1931-2018
A Celebration of the Life of Texas Classic, James Cavender Founder of Cavender's
Tyler, Texas, May 30, 2018–James Robert Cavender was born in Idabel, Oklahoma on March 22, 1931. He passed away on May 29, 2018 in Tyler, Texas.
Growing up during the post-Depression era, James spent his time hunting, fishing, riding his horse and working. His parents, "L.O." and Loyce were diversified business people who ran an appliance store, a gas station and a distributorship and then later a motel. The Cavenders were also in the cattle business. After he graduated from Idabel High School, James attended Kemper Military Academy and then Oklahoma A&M (known today as Oklahoma State University) where he studied agriculture. While in college, James began dating Patricia Whitten, also from Idabel. In 1952, he graduated from Oklahoma A&M with a Bachelor of Science in Animal Husbandry. But with the Korean War going, he had to leave early to join the U.S. Air Force, and wasn't able to attend his graduation ceremony. (In December 2017, James was finally able to walk the stage during the Oklahoma State University graduation!) James served his country as a First Lieutenant in the United States Air Force.
After his tour of duty in 1955, Pat and James were married and they moved to Dallas. James was a claims adjuster for Liberty Mutual Insurance Company. In 1956, they welcomed their first child, Joe. One year later, awaiting the birth of their second child, Mike, they moved to the small East Texas town of Pittsburg. Elvis Presley was king, rock and roll, bobby socks, burgers and milkshakes were booming and so James opened a Dairy Mart franchise.
A year into the venture, James, tired of paying the $150 annual franchise fee, changed one letter on the sign and the business became the Dairy Hart. It would become a Pittsburg institution for years to come, providing many a school kid root beer, hamburgers and jukebox tunes. (James maintained his office in the old Dairy Hart building.)
In 1961, the Cavender's welcomed their daughter Traci.
By 1965, after eight years of cooking hamburgers and serving ice cream, James hung up his apron for greater challenges. He sold the Dairy Hart and opened his first retail store, "Cavender & Smith's." In the early days the store sold primarily men's and boys' apparel and then later added ladies clothing. In the second year, James' country roots compelled him to do something that would make history. He added three styles of Tony Lama boots (James could still tell you the style numbers and descriptions of these boots), the business was renamed "Cavender's" and a Western empire was born. James kept adding more styles of boots and word spread and people came from miles around.
Final child Clay was born in 1968. By the 1970s, James and Cavender's had become well-known in East Texas and James continued his expansion and became the largest dealer of Western boots in East Texas. James also began raising peaches. He was a busy man!
By the end of the decade, oldest son Joe joined James and the company with son Mike following soon after along with several key associates, many of whom are still with Cavender's today. Cavender's began its trek across the Dallas/Ft. Worth Metroplex. Today there are 10 stores in the DFW area. By the mid-80s, the company had spread to Houston, where it currently has 11 stores. Cavender's gained national recognition when Justin Boot Co. awarded Cavender's their Number #1 Account and Cavender's became the highest volume boot retailer in America. Cavender's was then awarded the first ever "Western Retailer of the Year" presented by the Dallas Western Market.
During the 1980's, James attended Nocona Boots National Sales meeting to receive their Number #1 Dealer in America award. James was the key note speaker at the end of the conference. Son Mike saw him writing on his napkin and as James told the attendees, "You've said a lot of good things today, but there is still that four letter word that makes it all happen." He opened his napkin and said, "W-O-R-K. You can do all these things, but to be successful you must be willing to work." Hard work was his creed.
After many years, miles and boots James was inducted into the prestigious Western Image Awards Hall of Fame in 1998.
In 2015, the western giant celebrated their 50th anniversary with sales, fanfare and a big celebration at one of the Cavender ranches. For more than half a century, the Cavender family's core values of hard work, common sense, authentic merchandise and excellent customer service, continue to guide the business, whether in the store or online.
All these years later, the company remains family owned and operated. Joe Cavender, president of the company, still personally buys the bulk of the boots you'll find on the shelves and online. Son Clay Cavender developed the Rafter C (the cattle brand used by James and his father since 1945) brand of hats and shirts, and along with his mother, Pat, personally plans the layout and décor for each new store. Son Mike, travels across the nation locating and negotiating arrangements for new stores for Cavender's in 12 states.
The family ethos, so aptly established by James, influences every level of the business. Many of their associates have been with the company for over 30 years. Others grew up in the Cavender's family and have seen their roles grow as the company has grown.
Family members and store associates alike pride themselves in understanding the products they carry. The Cavender family personally owns several East Texas cattle ranches, giving them the opportunity to test every product sold on their shelves.
The Western wear industry is a small, close-knit community. When friends of James heard of his passing today, all of them offered tears, condolences and memories.
"Back in the 70s, James told me he was going to start a chain of western wear stores. I told him that I owned half of ONE store and that was all I was going to do. I did the dumbest thing ever and turned down having a part in Cavender's," says Mickey Eddins, CEO of M&F Western Products. "I can tell you that James never let me forget that I didn't take him up on his offer! He was a great friend"
Son Mike said, "We are very grateful for the outpouring of support for our dad. Not only was he a very respected business man, he was well-loved by many as a person. He never forgot his friends. He may have been a true pioneer in the Western wear industry, but he was the best father you could ever have."
"Yes sir, he was the king of our industry, without a doubt," says Ricky Bolin, president of HATCO which produces such popular brands as Resistol and Stetson hats.
"I am a total loss at the moment! James Cavender is a western industry legend, a Texas icon, a mentor, a family man who loves his family dearly, and my friend. James touched the lives of so many, from multi-million dollar corporations to needy families in small rural communities. He taught us all in only the way James could, that your handshake, honesty and hard work were critical to success. Heaven has another one of my heroes," says Randy Watson, former president and CEO of Justin Brands and long-time business associate.
"James was one of the hardest working men I've ever known; he had the vision to accomplish things that most people are afraid to even try. James taught his family how to work and how to succeed. He was proud of his family, including his wonderful partner in life, Pat Cavender. Her artistic talents are seen in each of the Cavender stores," says David Baker, long-time friend, cowboy boot and hat industry rep. "My dear friend, until our trails cross again!"
With 80 stores in 11 states, Cavender's has become the leading Western store for the American South and Southwest. No matter which store you walk into- or if you order online- you can be sure to find the best products in the market and helpful, knowledgeable people to guide you through your purchase process. After all, they know that you Don't Just Wear It, You Live It… something passed down from James Cavender from the very beginning in 1965.
Mr. Cavender was a member of First Baptist Church in Pittsburg, Texas and served in the United States Air Force. James was the founder and CEO of Cavender's, a major Texas based western wear retail chain that now has stores in 12 states. James was known for his incredible work ethic, disposition and joy when helping customers. He was fortunate to attract many loyal associates over the last 53 years; many have been with the company for 30 or more years.
Mr. Cavender, an only child, is preceded in death by his parents Lois Otis "L.O." Cavender and Loyce Estelle Stewart. He was married to his wife Patricia Ann Whitten Cavender for 63 years. They have four children, Joe Mark Cavender and wife Nancy; Mike Alan Cavender; Traci Ann Cavender and Clay Courtney Cavender and wife Jacqueline. James is also survived by his grandchildren, Whitney Cavender Edwards and husband Todd; Morgan Cavender; McClain Cavender Devine and husband Andrew; Drew Cavender and wife Kayla; Cooper Cavender; Colton Cavender, Conley Cavender and Cline Cavender. Great-grandchildren include Knox Edwards, Kingston Edwards and Wyatt Devine.
A memorial service will be held on Friday, June 1 at 3 pm at the First Baptist Church in Pittsburg, Texas. Visitation with the family will be held at First Baptist Church Family Life Center in Pittsburg, Texas on Thursday, May 31 from 5:00-7:00 pm.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on May 31, 2018.

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Janice Albracht

August 10, 2018

I just found out about his passing, just breaks my heart. He was so incredible kind to me after my husband left me in a financial hardship. He purchased jewelry and ranch items from me so I could exist. I would have lost my home, if it weren't for him. I never in my life have received so much assistance, advice from a total stranger. He would call to check on me periodically. I just want to say how blessed I was to have known such a man.

c. moore

June 5, 2018

May the God of comfort be with the family at this most difficult time. We are sorry for loss.

A. H.

June 2, 2018

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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Richard Grant

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Tina Kruse

May 31, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with the Cavender Family. I did lots of real estate business with James that I got to know him well. He would share his stories with me of his humble beginnings.... He came to my business the first day I bought it from Jerry Elkins and gave me my first dollar and signed it for me. I still have it in a book shelf in my office. I look at it often and think of how he helped me buy this business from Jerry through his advice and actions. He was not going to see me fail. I am so very thankful to him to this day for all of his advice and direction. He was a legend in his own time and will continue to be a legend throughout the days of Texas and the South. He will be missed by the people from Bowie County. Again, I will always be grateful for his help, and, advice. Tina Marie Kruse, United Country-Jerry Elkins Real Estate, 802 West Front Street, DeKalb, TX 75559.

Kelsey Goughnour

May 31, 2018

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Love, The Family of L. Eugene and Peggy Hall

A. H.

May 31, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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Dela Garcia

May 31, 2018

Condolences to the Cavender family. I wish you comfort and peace. And may the God of comfort console you at this time of sorrow. 1 Peter 5:6,7

Fred Norman

May 31, 2018

I met James in '69 as a truck driver. He was my favorite delivery because of his smile and pleasant demeaner.May God give you peace during this time.

Todd McPhail

May 30, 2018

I did not know Mr Cavender but his legacy influences my life. I have worked with Cavenders Boots in construction for 5 years. They reflect everything I have read about him. Please accept my condolences.

Kathy Ramey

May 30, 2018

Having grown up in Daingerfield, my family got to know James very well...... My dad, James Ramey used to go to market during the time he owned his first store in Pittsburg. My sister, Becky and i wrapped Christmas gifts the store every year during the school holiday break. James, until the day he past stayed in contact with my parents and would always wonder what the Daingerfield Ramey group were up to. Me, being the youngest had a huge crush an the Cavender boys but I never could decide which one was the best looking and besides I was too young. I have worn many of clothing and boots from Cavender's for many years. James was always a great friend to us all and we will greatly miss him. I know in my heart that the Ramey family will indeed see this man on the other side! Until then I will still wear my Cavender's brand with style! May James rest in peace until we meet again!

Marcelino Flores & Family

May 30, 2018

I am very greatful and very blessed that I had the opportunity to work for Mr. Cavender. He was a wonderful and kind boss. He will always be in my heart. It may seem odd but, he would always share a banana with me and say "it's good for your bones." (Always with a smile on his face) I am very sorry for your loss.

TOM BOURKE

May 30, 2018

JAMES WAS A GREAT MAN WHO WORKED HARD AND REWARDED THOSE WHO WORKED WITH HIM. BY FAR THE GREATEST RETAILER IN THE WESTERNWEAR iNDUSTRY HE DID IT HIS WAY WITH EVERYONES BEST INTERESTS AS HIS GUIDE.

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Andy Hughes

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Martha Lorenz

May 30, 2018

Tears and joy to your family,having experienced the loss of treasured souls but comfort that God embraces them forever. When Daddy would not take us to the Dairy Hart after Sunday night church, Joanne and I were so upset. And, your Daddy had the best frito pies when allowed to go to lunch off campus. Your special Dad was a true Texas celebrity with his outreach to others. Martha Acker Lorenz, daughter of Elton Acker

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Royce Wade

May 30, 2018

I've been a part of the Cavender retail family for only 1 1/2 years. But, I had the honor of meeting Mr. James Cavender at the stock yards store recently. It was a joy & privilege to meet the legend in person. I'm proud to work for and know the Cavender family. Mr. Cavender has left an incredible legacy of hard work and integrity.

Martin Zarate

May 30, 2018

I feel blessed to be part of the Cavender company family and to have known Mr. Cavender. His leadership and kindness has been an inspiration to me and my family. Our prayers and sympathies are with your family during this time of loss.

Gerald Norder

May 30, 2018

Heaven received another Angel

Hector Sanchez & Family

May 30, 2018

I am honored and blessed to have known Mr. James Cavender. He was always very friendly and respectful when he came out to the pastures. Someone so special can never be forgotten. Words can't express how saddened I am to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Lee Lester

May 29, 2018

I was in The Dairy Hart almost daily in the early 60's, as was most of the students in Pittsburg. The food was always good and James always made you feel appreciated. I still look back on those days of fond memories.

Rhea Evans

May 29, 2018

I worked for Mr. James from 2005 to 2008 at the Main Office in Tyler. He was a great man to work for as was the whole Cavender Family. My Deepest Sympathies on your loss!! Your Family will be in my thoughts and prayers!

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