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WAYNE DUDDLESTEN Obituary

WAYNE B. DUDDLESTEN, age 80, peacefully entered into rest while surrounded by family on Thursday afternoon, the 20th of May 2010. Wayne was born on the 12th of March 1930 in Houston, Texas and lived his entire life as a proud Houstonian. In later life, he spent part of each year in his home in Rancho Santa Fe, California, where he had many friends and a life he enjoyed. He was preceded in death by his mother, the late Iris M. Clement, and his father and stepmother, the late Loy and Helen Duddlesten. He is survived by the complete and true love of his life, Karen Arthur Duddlesten; and by his loving and devoted children, Terri Layne Duddlesten, Wayne Duddlesten, Jr. and Jerri Duddlesten Moore, her husband, Jim; grandsons, Parker and Christopher Pinkalla; and step-daughter, Kelly E. Kelsey. He is additionally survived by numerous cousins, including Mary Tritico Wilson and her daughter, Jordan. He graduated from Houston's Austin High School in 1947 and attended the University of Houston and South Texas School of Law. Early in his business career, Duddlesten founded a large regional advertising agency, Wayne Duddlesten & Associates, which specialized in real estate marketing, and in 1955 formed and operated Tex-Craft Builders, Inc., a general contracting firm that also developed and operated commercial income-producing properties and was listed in Fortune Magazine's top 200 U.S. construction firms. Tex- Craft was one of the first construction firms in the U.S. to offer broader general contracting “package” services, which included options for design, engineering and financing, as well as construction. His construction career operated in over 30 states and led to his expanding, and ultimately confining his focus, to developing, owning and operating large scale income-producing properties, including hotels, office buildings, high and low-rise apartments, condominiums and retail centers. He also developed residential and commercial communities. At the urging of national motel chain Ramada Inns, and as a component of growing his Tex-Craft Builders operation, in 1960, Duddlesten formed the Ramada Development Division as an added profit center in the construction operation, which contracted with Ramada Inns of America to spearhead development of all its franchise-owned motor inns. Not only did his company guide dozens of Ramada Inn franchisees into business, but he ultimately built and owned with partner comedian George Gobel, inns in Mobile, AL; Abilene, TX; Fort Stockton, TX; Fort Worth, TX, Los Angeles, CA; and Houston. Additionally, Duddlesten was one of the first “big box” retail developers in the United States, developing and owning large retail centers in Arizona, New Mexico, and Texas, anchored by such retailers as Woolworth, Walgreen and others. In 1966, the Duddlesten Companies were selected by International Telephone and Telegraph (ITT) to perform an important feasibility study on a major Sheraton Hotel development ITT was considering in Tunisia, Africa. The Duddlesten organization was also president and managing partner of HTL Land Development corporation in the 1960's, a joint venture effort between Duddlesten, Humble Oil and refining company (now Exxon), and Lehman Brothers. The scope of its activities covered all states between the Mississippi River and the Rocky Mountains and was designed to expedite Humble Interstate Highway growth while allowing Duddlesten to develop the surplus land for its own account. During the last 54 years, Duddlesten formed and operated many privately-held corporations and partnerships instrumental in landmark real estate developments, both commercial and residential in many states. One such development in 1967 was a 1,000-room hotel project adjacent to the Astrodome. Duddlesten was selected by the Judge Roy Hofheinz family, then operators of the world-famous Astrodome and owners of the Astroworld Amusement park and Houston Astros, to develop this complex, which at the time was considered the largest hospitality undertaking of its kind in the nation. It became an important reason why Houston began attracting large national conventions, such as the National Association of Home Builders. Around this same time, Duddlesten was developing thousands of apartments and commercial buildings in Texas and Florida. He was at the forefront in the development of Houston garden condominium projects, including River Oaks Gardens and River Oaks Place. Also, he developed the architecturally award-winning Parc IV and Parc V, Houston's first successful affordable residential high-rise apartments, located on Montrose Boulevard. During the 70's and 80's, among Duddlesten's accomplishments included founding and operating the Manor House Inns of America chain, one of the first systems of limited service inns in America. He also developed many large office building projects, which included MetroWest, the twin towers of 50 Briar Hollow and the 600,000 square foot Loop Central Office Park, three multi-story office buildings located in the prestigious Galleria-Loop 610 area of Houston. It was also during this period that he developed the 656-unit Bayou Park apartment project on Memorial Drive on land acquired from St. Thomas High School. A key component of Duddlesten's integrated system of companies was Duddlesten Management Corporation, a multi-state property-management and leasing company employed over 1,200 people. It was merged into a national management firm in 1994. As part of the hands-on management approach Duddlesten exemplified, he created the Duddlesten Property Perspective, a quarterly publication that provided comprehensive data regarding economic and real estate market trends, for all major land and development uses, in major Texas cities. The Perspective was used throughout the `80's as a reliable predictor of market activities by national financial institutions as well as other real estate professionals. It was during the severe real estate crisis of the 1980's that Duddlesten felt his most cherished success, when he predicted the downturn and repositioned his companies to high liquidity and no debt. He always maintained that his greatest successes came from 1978 through the 1990's. Among an impressive array of personal accomplishments included being named “Outstanding Young Man of the Year” by the Houston Chamber of Commerce in 1964 and in 1986 was the recipient of the Anti-Defamation League's Humanitarian Award. Duddlesten was the control investor in a small group of Houstonians who successfully purchased the NBA San Diego Rockets basketball team and moved the club to Houston. The Houston Rockets initiated their first playing season in Houston in October of 1971. The NBA's entry into Houston and Texas, as well as establishment of the Summit Arena, can be credited to the effort and insight of Duddlesten's financial initiative and vision. Houston's entry into the NBA later brought NBA expansion into Dallas, San Antonio, New Orleans, and Oklahoma City.. In 1989, Duddlesten was appointed by Governor William Clements as Commissioner of the Texas Department of Highways and Public Transportation and served until 1991. In conjunction with his term as Commissioner, he was also a member of the Board of Directors of the Texas Turnpike Authority. In 1993 Duddlesten received the John Turner Legacy Award for advancements in transportation and mobility in Houston and Harris County from the Greater Houston Partnership. In 1996, at a time when Duddlesten was making a winning bid to the City of Houston to build a $175 million hotel adjacent to downtown Houston's George R. Brown Convention Center, he was profiled as the Unconventional Builder in a front-page article in a major newspaper, which cited him for paving the way for re-development of downtown Houston, which is so vibrant today. A strong supporter of the Houston community, his impressive record of service in civic, charitable and business-related organizations included his participation as a Board and Executive committee member of the Greater Houston Partnership; a Trustee Emeritus of the University of Houston Foundation; an Advisory Board member of the University of Houston Foundation; an Advisory Board member of the University of Houston System Development Board; a member of the President's Council of Houston Baptist University; an Advisory Board Member of the Association of Commercial Real Estate; Board member of the National Association of women in Commercial Real Estate; National Trustee of the National Jewish Center for Immunology and Respiratory Medicine in Denver, CO; a founding member of the Steering Committee and member of the Advisory Board of Passages, a women's addiction-residential treatment facility; Advisory Board Member of Trees for Houston; Director of “Mission Impossible” for the March of Dimes; Christmas Seal Chairman of the San Jacinto Lung Association; Director of the Houston Lighthouse for the Blind; member of the Park Place Masonic Lodge #1172, Arabia Shrine Temple and the sons of the Republic of Texas; Silver Star supporter of the Houston council on Alcohol and Drugs. With the establishment of the Duddlesten Foundation in 1981, many charitable, educational and medical organizations were funded. He was among a group of outstanding Houston citizens who provided the important early financial support needed to found Episcopal High School on property formerly owned by Duddlesten in Bellaire. As a founding member of the Houston Apartment Association, Duddlesten was named its 1992 Hall of Fame Honoree and in 1999 Duddlesten received the 1998 Houston Association of Realtors' Commercial Hall of Fame Award in recognition of his over 45 years of accomplishments in the field of commercial real estate development. Duddlesten was a Trustee of the Texas Apartment Association; on Life Magazine's Builders' Marketing Council; a member of the Multi-Family Housing Committee of the National Association of Home Builders; and a frequent speaker at NAHB Multi-Family Housing Conferences, Southwest Builders conference, National Apartment Association conventions and American Hotel-Motel Association conventions. From 2000 to 2006, Duddlesten was a member of the University of Texas Houston - Health Science Center Development Board, where he served on its Public Affairs Advisory Council; was a Corporate Colleague for the School of Health Information Sciences and was an advisor for the Healing Hearts Campaign in 2002. He was also a founding member of UT-HSC's Lone Star Legacy Society. Duddlesten particularly enjoyed mentoring up and coming young businessmen in Houston, particularly those in real estate and development. He regarded them as not only friends but family and coveted each meeting while watching their successes. He always felt blessed to be surrounded and supported by the special people he employed. His goal was to push everyone to grow and hone their skills with hard work, self-starting initiative, good judgment, honor and character. He said, “always do what you say you'll do.” He expected the best in each person. Wayne was a man of kindness, generosity, wisdom, wit and style. He was a listener, which is rare among men who accomplish so much. He was a man of humility and wit. He loved his family and friends. He was a gentle man who thought of others first. When he said, “If I can do anything for you, let me know” he meant it. While he expected the most of each person, he was patient and supportive. Those who learned from his prodding and coaching came away stronger, wiser, and more capable. Wayne was a man of his word. He also was always appreciative of his closest staff members, administrative assistant Margie DiPuma (50 years service), Charlene Lorino (30 years service), and Joe Thomas, who worked with him in various capacities for 40 years. His house manager, Kevin McPheeters in California, has his thanks and appreciation, as does his former Houston housekeeper for almost 30 years, Dorris Brooks. The spiritual guidance of John C. Barksdale during this journey has been a blessing to Wayne and the family. Wayne's family would like to thank all the doctors, nurses, and technicians with M. D. Anderson Cancer Center, who have assisted him over the last five years, especially Dr. Ashish Kamat and his wife, Dr. Aparna Kamat, and Dr. Randall Millikan, as well as Dr. Sabina Wallach and her staff in La Jolla, California. Honored to serve as pallbearers are grandsons, Parker and Christopher Pinkalla, son-in-law, Jim Moore, Bob Aspromonte, Gary “Buck” Johnson, Arthur Littell, Dan Arnold, Ed Brooks, David Kantorczyk, and Charles McMahen. Serving as honorary pallbearers are Richard Cusac, Jim DeGeorge, Dr. Troy Felber, Don Fizer, Irene Franz, Harold Goldstein, Tim Hamilton, Jimmy Hill, Dr. Richard Howe, Bob Jacobs, Dr. Ashish Kamat, Mickey Herskowitz, Jody Hoffer, Joe Thomas, Sharon Katz, Herschel Maltz, Tim Moore, Charles Ofner, Gordon Olch, Dan Quinlan, Jack Rawitscher, Dr. Eugene Smoley, Perrin White, and John Wiegman. Friends are cordially invited to gather with the family and share remembrances from five o'clock in the afternoon until eight o'clock in the evening on Tuesday, the 25th of May, in the Grand Foyer of Geo. H. Lewis & Sons, 1010 Bering Drive in Houston. A celebration of Wayne's life is to be conducted at two o'clock in the afternoon on Wednesday, the 26th of May, at St. Martin's Episcopal Church, 717 Sage Road in Houston, where the Rev. Martin J. Bastian, Senior Associate Rector, is to officiate, with Rev. John C. Barksdale, Executive Director of Pastoral Ministry at Second Baptist Church, assisting. Immediately following the service, all are invited to greet the family during a reception in the adjacent Bagby Parish Hall. Prior to the memorial service, the family will have gathered for a private interment at Glenwood Cemetery in Houston. In lieu of customary remembrances, the family suggests charitable donations be directed to the M. D. Anderson Cancer Center, Department of Urology, 1515 Holcombe Blvd., Unit 1373, Houston, TX, 77039; and, kindly notate in the memo or reference field, “Dr. Ashish Kamat's Research Program.”

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Published by Houston Chronicle from May 22 to May 24, 2010.

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June 12, 2010

A great supporter of charilable events when I was in Houston. Wayne will be missed.

Betty Jukes

June 7, 2010

Sending much love and condolences to Karen and the entire Duddlesten family. Mr Duddlesten was such a kind and loving gentleman with a delightful sense of humor. It was a pleasure getting to know him and an honor to be a part of his healthcare team. I will miss seeing him and regret that Leon (aka Tiger ) did not have a chance to meet him. He was a fighter til the end and I will always have fond memories of him. Alycia Hughes, LMSW / M D Anderson Cancer Center ( Houston, TX )

June 3, 2010

Jerri, Terri and Bubba.

I was so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. We have all had a long history together. I have many memories about him. He was a giving man who loved to talk about real estate. He will be missed.

Andrew Kaldis

Raymond Goodrich

May 27, 2010

My family and I extend our sympathy and condolences to Karen and all of Wayne's family. Wayne Duddlesten was a symbol of all that was possible in the Houston, Texas of my youth. His death marks the passing of one of Houston's most successful developers and entrepreneurs.

Leslie Fossler

May 26, 2010

Terri, Bubba and JJ...your Dad was a great inspiration to me. May his many accomplishments and successes sustain you during these sad days. He will always be "wayne the brain" to me!!!

Kelly Smith Eckert

May 26, 2010

Jerri, Terri and Bubba.

I was just so sad to hear of "Uncle" Wayne's passing. He was such an important part of my life, and it makes me happy to know that my daughters, Camille and Sophia, also knew Uncle Wayne and will remember him very fondly.

I will miss his smile and laughter. My memory of them will always make me smile!

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jim Shindler

May 26, 2010

Betty & Jim Shindler - our sympathy for the loss of your husband, father, grandfather.

sherry poole

May 26, 2010

karen and family we were blessed to have known wayne he will be missed by all

Bill Barkwell

May 26, 2010

Terri, Jerri and Bubba - My sympathy for the loss of your Dad. I had 4 mentors in my life - my grandfather, my father, Don Reed and your Dad. I am own my own now but they all did a great job. Love you all.

Tyler and Helen Baskin

May 26, 2010

May our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ give you comfort and strength during this time.

Barbara Schlief

May 25, 2010

Bubba! I just heard, and so sorry to get this news. He was always very kind to me. I know this pain and it is difficult. My thoughts are with all of you.

Barbara Henson

May 25, 2010

Forrest and I have been privileged to have been Wayne & Karen's neighbors, living just across the hall! My love and prayers go out for Karen & the entire family. Not only is Wayne missed by many who knew him as family, friend, business aquaintance, etc. but I'm aware that Annie, his dog, is missing him dearly, as I have observed a change in her behavior! Much love to you, Karen! You may knock on our door anytime, night or day!

Peter Roth

May 25, 2010

I was priviledged to work with Waynes' organization on several of his real estate developments. He was a fine man who set a great example. He was one of a kind and (Houston) we will miss him.

Michael Schonbrun

May 24, 2010

During my time as President of National Jewish, Wayne's efforts on the hospital's behalf were extraordinary, marked not only by his willingness to roll up his sleeves to get the job done, but also by the clarity of his vision and the tact with which he put forward his suggestions. Later, Wayne provided great counsel as I embarked on a new chapter in my life. I regret only that I did not make more effort to stay in touch over the past 10 years. He was a remarkable human being - smart, caring, diplomatic and energetic. We will not see his equal again for a long, long time.

Chris Fossler Curran

May 24, 2010

Sending my love and condolences to Terri, Bubba, JJ, and family. I will never forget our fun times, back in the day. I hope and pray that the great memories that you have of your Dad will help you through this time. He was a man
of great vision and accomplishment. Blessings to you all.

Dianne Duddleston Leger

May 24, 2010

Our deepest condolences to Wayne's family .

Carol Gibson

May 24, 2010

Our deepest sympathy is extended to the Dudlesten Family from everyne at National Jewish Health in Denver. For many years Wayne was one of our most active and devoted voulunteers.

Mickey Sharney-Marvins

May 24, 2010

I was very sad to see this. Wayne was a very special friend to my mother, Gloria Sharney, and a great friend of National Jewish Health. I worked with him on many fund-raisers. I know everyone will miss him.

Genevieve deBittencourt

May 24, 2010

My deepest sympathies go out to Mr. Duddlesten's family and to Karen. It was an honor and a pleasure to have him as our guest and neighbor, and he will be missed by all of us here.

Genevieve deBittencourt,
Arturo's Uptown Italiano

Bob Cruikshank

May 23, 2010

This world lost a fine caring man with the death of Wayne. He sat with me, giving me comfort during my wife's heart surgery some 12 years ago. My biggest regret in this life is that our schedules, which seemed to grow beyond our control, did not permit us to be together as we had in earlier years. He was in my mind and heart, though, with each passing day. I shall miss you my dear friend and I pray for your family during this time of their grief. We will always have our memories and love that you shared with us.

Marilyn Caffee

May 23, 2010

Terri, my heart aches with you. Your Dad was a very special man. Grammy

Cheryl Fossler-Morelos

May 23, 2010

Dear Terri, Bubba and JJ. My deepest sympathy on the passing of your dad. It seems like only yesterday when we played together as children living on South Crooked Creek in South Houston. May God give you peace and comfort now and in days ahead.

Calanne Koenig Choate

May 23, 2010

Dear Duddlesten Family...

Our sincerest sympathy to all of you. You and your Dad are in our thoughts and prayers. Bubba D we still remember that you were the Acolyte at our wedding! Sisters, I remember your growing up almost next door to us! Always a lovely family and super Dad and Mom! God bless all of you. May your Dad rest in sweet peace.

Love from Calanne Koenig Choate and Family

Don & Sharon Boyd

May 23, 2010

Our deepest sympathy is extended to Mr. Duddlesten's family and especially to our dear friend Terri. May God grant you His Grace to endure your sorrow and the gift of the memories you hold dear.

Jeanine Gunderson

May 23, 2010

My sincere sympathy to Terri, Jerri & Wayne Jr. for the loss of your dad, "Mr. D" to me. I loved working for his company - it was like a family. May he rest in peace.

andy wilson

May 23, 2010

Terri,Bubba,Jerri,Karen and family.....

Wayne was a true gentleman and was sooo proud of all of you.. I am sorry to hear of your loss and please know that I will have you all in my thoughts and prayers...

Ed Martin

May 23, 2010

My Condolences to the Duddlesen family.

Julie Bonnin

May 22, 2010

Terri, Jerri, & Wayne Jr: My deepest condolences at the loss of your father. My admiration for your dad and the opportunites he created for others is a testament to his life.

Dorothy K. Massie

May 22, 2010

Terri,Jerri, Wayne & Karen: My thoughts and prayers are with you. Mr. Duddelsten was a kind, loving and courageous man. I feel blessed to have known him.

Julia Guidi

May 22, 2010

Wayne, or WD as I called him was a special long time friend. We always joked and laughed, he enjoyed life -
I will miss him.

Cindy Cox

May 22, 2010

Dear Duddlesten Family and friends,
We will all miss this dear man. Mr.D. was always kind and caring to all. It was our pleasure to be his Dentist and to know such a wonderful person. Dr.B, Inez, Rita, Jeannie, Cindy, Debi and Mary

Gloria (Burton) Leal

May 22, 2010

A wonderful man I worked for/with for many years. Rest in Peace Mr. Duddlesten. Jerri, Terri, my sincerest condolences on your loss. Know that you have an angel watching over you and he will always be in your heart as he will be in mine. Love you Mr. D.

Bonnie and Bill Eubanks

May 22, 2010

Wayne was a very special friend to all that knew him. He was a true gentleman. Wayne was always thinking of the ones that he loved and how he could best make them happy. He will always be part of our fondest memories.
Bonnie and Bill Eubanks

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