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William Stender Obituary
1952-2016
On the afternoon of June 6, 2016 William August Stender passed away in Trinidad, Colorado in the company of some of his dearest friends. Born May 26, 1952 to William Newton Stender and Alice Watts, Bill attended Rice University and the University of St. Thomas where he studied history and philosophy. In his professional life, he was a exceptional businessman and financial advisor with entrepreneurial interests both at home and abroad.
Married to the love of his life, Caroline Coleman, in February of 1990, he was an adoring father to Hannah and Carly Stender, and a loving brother to Michael Watson. His eldest daughter, Leah Cristyn Dulaney, gave him two grandchildren, Bridget and Alec Dulaney, to whom he was a steadfast source of love and support. He is survived by a handsome German Shepherd, Cabo "Cob" Stender, as well as by his human family and exquisite collection of devoted friends.
Bill lived a remarkable life. A fiercely loyal companion with an avid thirst for knowledge and adventure, he will be remembered as a raconteur of epic proportions. He was an extraordinary man and will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. A memorial service will be held at 3:00 p.m. on Saturday, June 18 at the Chapel of St. Basil, University of St. Thomas, with a reception to follow at the Link Lee Mansion. In lieu of flowers, the family would warmly appreciate donations to Indiana United Methodist Children's Home, [email protected].
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Memories and Condolences
for William Stender
Alex MCCUBBIN
December 17, 2024
Hi Bill , you've been on my mind a lot over the last few months , think its cause I miss our chats , you were the best sounding board, I think I've ever had in my life , and always never shy, to say it as it was !
Cant believe it's been nearly 9 years , the world is a duller place without you in it old friend , hope your giving them Hell , up there ! Gone , but never forgotten ,your much missed ! Alex
Mark Lussier
September 13, 2024
Bill and I attended UST together, briefly lived together, and remained close friends until his death. I miss him so much I've taken to calling my neighbor Bill, even though his name AJ. I also send my regards to Caroline (I miss him daily also) and his wonderful children. I remember vividly swimming in the rain while on the southern coast of England. Across the years, I laughed more and had more adventures with him that most--and probably more than I deserve. Ciao chow for now.
Mark
Granville
June 7, 2024
Bill we had some amazing times together from Houston to England and Sweden. All hold great memories. I can only imagine the adventures that surely were in store. Miss you buddy.
Granville
August 18, 2022
Bill´s hill at the ranch. Miss you Billy boy, you changed my life´s direction
Travis Clark
August 17, 2022
Thought of you today, just something popped in my head about a conversation we had about loyalty and taking care of others. You were a great person.
Caroline Stender
June 3, 2022
Miss you each day
John King
June 7, 2020
Still in our thoughts
JK
Marty Pachelli
June 20, 2016
Bill, you were a man of great character with a wealth of knowledge who I had the utmost respect for. I feel very fortunate to have been your friend. My condolences to his family and friends.
Lindy Hubbard
June 19, 2016
Bobby,
So sorry to hear of Bill's passing. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Helen Abby
June 17, 2016
Hi Bobby, just wanted to tell you I'm a so sorry to hear about your brother. He is now with your dad and one day you three will be together again.
Richard Tome
June 17, 2016
Bobby, I'm so sorry to hear about your brother bill, I know he was a man of integrity like you and his father. The Stender family was the best thing that ever happen to my sister and her 3 kids. You and Kathy are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Escobedo family
June 17, 2016
Bobby we are sorry to hear of the loss of your brother Bill. We know he meant so much to you and Kathy. The two of you look so very much alike! Praying for you and the rest of your immediate and extended family through this time of sorrow.
sarah ex tequila
June 16, 2016
So very sad to hear of the passing of bill larger than life with a sharp wit and a ready laugh he features brightly in my fond memories of my time at los locos my sincere condolences to his family and friends sarah london
Robert Stender
June 16, 2016
Bill, you will be missed. The good times we had and all the awesome memories we had together with our Dad, William Newton Stender will never be forgotten.
Andrew Affel
June 16, 2016
Bill was a good man
Bill's Hill, in the "Republic of Bill", June 7, 2016
Steven M. Haygood
June 16, 2016
A final toast to and for Bill, on "Bill's Hill", Trichenera Ranch, CO. June 7, 2016
Steven M. Haygood
June 16, 2016
Cyril LaGroue
June 14, 2016
Bill "Wild Man" Stender, as known in our college days. We live in different zip codes and talk every now and then, and I knew he was my friend, as we pick up from our last conversation as we live down the hallway at Jackson House. I know he truly love his family and you could tell he was glowing talking about his wife and daughters. I will miss our conversations and feel sad that when I was in Houston, our schedules never coincide.
Love you Bill.
Bill & CB - Colorado Ranch
Andra Cobb
June 13, 2016
The dude
Granville and Susie Wood
June 13, 2016
You will be missed my friend. The long story is never endless contrary to one of your favorite sayings. Never did a dull story emanate from you.
Alex Mccubbin
June 13, 2016
Shocked and saddened to hear of the sudden passing of Bill.
He was my Boss, mentor, advisor and friend for over 19 years , a man with an immense personality , and character, he will be truly missed.
My condolences go to his family at this difficult time .
From all the staff and customers of Los Locos who were fortunate to have met and worked with him .
John King
June 11, 2016
A business colleague,a friend, an institution, Bill will remain in our fondest memories.
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