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Michael Spillane Obituary

Rev. Michael Spillane The Rev. Michael Spillane, rector of Holy Trinity Episcopal Church in Menlo Park, died on April 15, 2008 from complications of a brain tumor. He was 58. A memorial service to celebrate Father Mike's life on earth was held Saturday, April 19, at Trinity church, 330 Ravenswood Ave at Laurel, followed by a festive reception in the courtyard. A memorial service was also held at the Church of the Holy Nativity in Meridian, Idaho on April 24, 2008. Father Mike's call to become the 17th rector of Trinity last year led him to return to Menlo Park where he had earned his Masters in Divinity at St. Patrick's Seminary. He became an Episcopal priest in 1992 and previously served in the Diocese of Idaho. In an essay Father Mike wrote about his spiritual journey, he talks about an influential priest he met while he was a home beat officer (Bobbie) in London, describing him as "approachable, someone with a sense of humor who liked to kick the soccer ball around." The description fit him just as well. He was also deeply spiritual, writing in the same essay: "I now realize that in some sense everything that happens in our lives, from the mundane to the spectacular, is part of one's spiritual journey. It is an autobiography that we are all writing each day about how God is present in each moment of our lives, and more importantly, how we respond to that presence." Father Mike leaves his wife, Julie, and two children, Brendan and Kim of Menlo Park, his mother, Kathleen Spillane, of New York City, and two brothers, Kieran of Louisville, Ky.; Brendan of Katonah, N.Y.; and numerous additional relatives in New York, England and Ireland. Those wishing to make a memorial in Father Mike's name can make a contribution to the Spillane Children Education Trust at any Wells Fargo Bank or by making a check out to that account name and mailing to Holy Trinity, 330 Ravenswood Ave. Menlo Park, CA 94025. Please share thoughts and memories for the Spillane family at www.idahostatesman.com/obituaries.

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Published by Idaho Statesman on May 7, 2008.

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Kristi,Val,Jordan,And Emilee Rivers

May 20, 2008

Dear Julie, Brendan & Kim,
Our blessings are with you as you go through your hardship. You are all such great people and you must remember the good times you had with your loving husband/dad. He was a great man and we will all miss him. May god be with you.

All our love and Prayers- The Rivers

Emilee Rivers

May 20, 2008

Brendan, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Im sure that it has been hard for you latley so i send all my prayers and love to you and your family. If you ever need some one to talk to you can go ahead and email me ([email protected]) I will be happy to listen. I will keep you and your familly in my prayers.

All my love- Emilee Rivers

Cheryl and Torrey Bird

May 14, 2008

Julie,

We keep you in our prayers. You have such a wonderful family. We know the Lord has many great blessing ahead for you. We cherish the good memories we have of being your neighbors in Boise. I am sure MiKe is seeing the sights in Heaven and looking down on you with much love and care. You will often feel him close. Take comfort in the knowledge that you will see him again. We know that is true. We can be forever families. We love you and wish the lords choicest blessings upon you and your sweet children. Torrey and Cheryl Bird

Bill & Alisa Driscoll

May 12, 2008

Rev. Mike married my wife and I nine years ago this month. His wisdom, compassion, humor and thoughtfulness inspired us, as we know it will continue to inspire his family and all those whose lives he touched. Thank you God, for sharing Mike with us.

Mickey Habeck

May 7, 2008

Julie, I am so sorry about Mike. He was a most wonderful person and dad. I hate that I missed seeing you before you left. take care, my prayers are with you and the kids. Love, Mickey Habeck

Judy Holt

May 7, 2008

Dear Julie, Brendan & Kim
We know you will dearly miss him, and we pray that God will lighten your grief with fond & loving memories that will keep him close in heart. Our love, prayers & support will always be with you. Love Dad & Mom

Rob and Shannon

May 7, 2008

Julie,
We have such fond memories of getting together with you and Mike. The homily he gave at our wedding will always bring a smile to our faces. He was such a joy and brought so much happiness to so many people. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Steve & Tricia Onofrei

May 7, 2008

Julie,
Our deepest sympathy to your family at this time. Rev. Mike was a wonderful man and our family will always remeber him in our lives.

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