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Ray Lewis 1931-2009 Ray Lewis, 78 of Boise went home to begin the next chapter of his life on Sunday, September 27th where he will forever enjoy being the "HANDYMAN" (repairing anything needing fixing), the "TEACHER" (teaching the sports fundamentals: how to run, jump, and throw correctly!), the "COACH" (uncovering people's greatest potential, challenging them to strive for excellence, and awakening the giant within), and the "FATHER/MENTOR" (demonstrating the importance of providing for family, setting goals, and being a person of integrity). Ray, born on June 16, 1931 in Malad, Idaho, was the son of John and Molly Lewis. He spent his school years in Idaho, and earned bachelors and masters degrees from the University of Idaho. Ray was a key member of the 1949-50 Bronco football teams, playing in the 1949 Potato Bowl and co-captaining the team that played in the 1950 Little Rose Bowl. He also was a member of the 1950-51 Bronco track squad. After playing college football, Ray was drafted by the LA Rams in 1953, but chose to extend his legacy by starting a family and becoming an educator and coach. He began his career as a physical education teacher at Caldwell High School and coached the football team. His most prized accomplishment was winning the championship game between Caldwell and Nampa, who was coached by his older brother Dean Lewis. The competitive spirit lives strong in the Lewis family! It is said that you can tell the worth of a man by the length of his shadow and Ray's shadow stretches from east to west. He was a true coach and mentor at heart and in his forty plus years of coaching track, football, and wrestling at the high school and University level, he inspired perpetual top performance, numerous state records, and many championship titles. His coaching stretched beyond the athletic field and into the very heart of life of countless athletes. His style was hard-hitting and motivational. Some even say he had the passion and temper of Bobby Knight and the "take-charge and awake the personal power within" of Tony Robbins. Regardless of which side of Ray you encountered, he was a man of great influence and lasting impression. Ray was relentless in his quest for excellence. His "practice makes permanent" motto compelled him to focus on perfecting the fundamentals and repeating those over and over until they became the very fabric of one's action. He believed that the "real" game is played on the practice field, for if you wait to coach at the game, well, it is simply too late. In 1956, he began his career at Boise State when he became the defensive coordinator and end/linebacker coach. He was the first student-athlete from Boise Junior College to return as a coach. In 1961, he became Lyle Smith's right hand man and was both offensive and defensive coordinator and line coach until 1967. Ray was instrumental in building the track and wrestling programs at BSU. He served as head track coach from 1956-72, coaching eight conference championship teams. As head wrestling coach from 1958-69, he coached two conference championship teams. In 1972, he moved his career to the classroom. Ray was hard-working, had a cunning sense of humor, competitive spirit, and great love for his family. As a teacher and coach, his most precious students were his children and grandchildren. He taught them to believe in themselves, appreciate the talents and capabilities within, and above all else, to never give up - no matter the difficulty of the quest. Ray met his soul mate Patricia Hancock in 1952 while attending University of Idaho. One might say it was love at first sight because they were married just three months later and they remained so until Patricia's death in 1996. They were best friends with a shared love for ballroom dancing, Frank Sinatra, competitive sports, summers at their favorite camping spot, vanilla ice cream with chocolate sauce, and most of all raising and encouraging their seven children, as well as the countless other "children" that he coached and mentored. Ray taught great perspective, how to strive, stand tall, and to pick themselves up when life pushed them down. To work harder, do better and achieve more. He often gave them the nudge they needed to take a risk, to enjoy life, to reach higher, and to believe. His tough guidance has built a generous and loving legacy of persons who will make great contributions to people, organizations, and humanity. His touch will be felt for years. Ray was quite the "Mr. Fix-it." When not at a game or practice, he could be found in his garage with a cold glass of Pepsi in hand, fixing just about anything needing repair. Though he never spent all his energy on building a career, many say he spent his energy building and encouraging the strengths in those he met. His belief in the importance of setting big audacious goals, building a solid foundation of strength, demonstrating a positive can-do attitude, and living with admirable character was something he shared with everyone God put in his path. Many of the athletes who were blessed to have Ray as a coach have said "He was tough, demanding, and incredibly tireless there were times when I just didn't think I could push any harder or take another step. But then Ray would look me straight in the eyes, use that booming voice and convince me that I could take one more jump, run one more sprint or lift the bar just one more time. He challenged me, and you know what? He made me better - not only as an athlete, but more importantly as a person!" Others would add, "Ray had this saying, 'If you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you're right.' I still think of that today when I am faced with one of life's difficulties, and it gives me the strength to power through." He was preceded in death by his parents John and Molly Lewis; wife Patricia Hancock Lewis; brothers Leonel, Marlo, Dean; and sister Nada. He is survived by his wife, Nikki; his brothers Barney and Jack; his sons, daughter-in-laws, daughter and son-in-law Rik, Tori and Debbie, Mauri and Lori, Darby and Carla, Kasey and Belyn, Joey and Monica, and Michelle and David Modrow. He has 16 grandsons, eight granddaughters, and three great-grandchildren. Services for this inspirational man will be at 2 p.m. on Saturday, Oct. 10, 2009 at Valley Life Community Church, 6523 North Locust Grove, in Meridian, Idaho. Pastor Tom Katsma will preside. Arrangements under the direction of Summers Funeral Homes, Ustick Chapel. Please view the Ray Lewis Memorial Group on Facebook for additional information. In lieu of flowers please make contributions to the Ray Lewis Memorial Scholarship Fund at the Capital Educators Credit Union in Boise, Idaho.

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Published by Idaho Statesman on Oct. 1, 2009.

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Bill Jones

September 26, 2010

I met Ray Lewis the first time I wakled onto the football field in 1957 alongside the old Gym, being just discharged from the Air Force and in pretty good shape I told him I wanted to play football -- He grabed me and threw me to the grass and said " How Tough Are You??" we wresseled around a bit and I got on his back and rode him for about 3 seconds and then jumped up and ran away from him laughing. I played ball for the BSU football team in 1957 as a defensive end and played in the Kern County Shrine Bowl at Bakersfield California. I was lated hired by Lyle Smith to work as equiptment man and do the first aid on injured players, this was before the time of a full time trainer. I worked with Ray for the next 23 years. I got to know Ray very well and found him to be a dedicated family man and great father. Ray my friend -- we will miss you and always remmember you. May God Bless You and Keep you at his side.

Bart Chaffee

October 18, 2009

Dear Lewis Family,
I ran for Coach Lewis at BJC and have known him for most of my life, because my father was President for many years. I intended to attend his memorial service, but I spaced it until later that day.

I particularly remember when we had a track meet in Ontario and I had run the mile race with the fastest time I ever ran and came in second. He came up to me and asked me if I would run the two-mile. I was spent, but he said that if I could place in the race we would probably win the meet, but if I didn't we might not. Talk about pressure! I ran the race and placed either second or third. It taught me that even though you don't think you can go anymore that there is always a little more in your tank. Coach always greeted me with that big smile of his and that strong handshake. I appreciated his friendship we had.

I also was friends with his niece, Linda, and was taught and coached by his brother, Barney, at South Junior High. I saw he and his son periodically at Cole Community Church. I feel like I am a better person by having known him.

D Lewis

October 7, 2009

Please visit Ray's Memorial Facebook page, the link is http://www.facebook.com/share.php?appid=2530096808&src=box&tid=155017338040&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fgroup.php%3Fgid%3D155017338040%26ref%3Dnf#/group.php?gid=155017338040

John Mather

October 4, 2009

Ray was "my" coach in football and track. He was the toughest man I ever knew. But he shared a special moment in my life that only he knew about. It was 1966 and I had just cost the Broncos a national championship. I was the last to leave the lockerroom. Still in my uniform I was crying when I felt a very strong presence. Coach sat down beside me, hugged me and said, "John, it's just a game. It will be all right." That gave me the strength to carry on and I became a coach for 38 years thanks to that special moment. I tried to be the toughest man my athletes ever knew, but I was always there to let them know they were loved and it would be all right. Thank you so much for my life Coach Ray. It was such a joy and honor.
John Mather - Nampa

Rocky Lima

October 2, 2009

Coach........thank you, I have been blessed to have known a great Hero like you! I enjoyed all the football practices, wrestling practices and most of all the challenging and brutal handball games with you. Thanks for being who you are and the great love for us islanders. We will meet again to enjoy that delicious banana milk shake at the old College In & Out.
Boise Junior College 1965

Glenn Solem

October 1, 2009

Aloha Coach Lewis;

How you and Coach Smith touched and improved the lives of all of the players that you mentored especially our boys from Hawaii. Your encouraging words and the fire that you expressed for the love of the game and for each of our team members have always been the guiding light for me in my maturing years. I remember all of the "butt chewing" that you seemed to save just for me (there were many of those)especially on one particular occasion during our Monday game film viewing sessions when one of the players started ragging me cause you had spent most of the time criticizing my performance at which time you remarked to that player, you know why I yell at Solem ?? its because I think he can be a better player and the reason I don't yell at you is because all you'll ever be is a punter. Those remarks startled me and I remember Rodney Yamamoto (quarterback from McKinley H.S.-Oahu) saying to me, "hey" I think coach Lewis likes you. I remember thinking, maybe he does like me. At that time, Coach Lewis started yelling at me again and it was back to the drawing board. After the session, coach Lewis looked at me and said, Solem, I guess you can take a butt chewing at which time he winked at me and said. "get out of here" and see you on the football field. I always felt that Coach Lewis had a certain bond for his players as we always will remember how he cared for each of us in his own personal way. He always tried to make each and every one of us better players as well as better human beings. I have coached AYSO Girls Soccer for 17 years and have always used Coach Lewis and his teaching style as my guide. No goofing off, always do your best (or you will hear about it)and love and respect your team, school, community, family and above all else, don't disappoint yourself.
Mahalo A Nui Loa Me Kealoha Pumehana
Glenn Solem 1962-1963 - Love You

Don Neves

October 1, 2009

Coach,
You positively touched many of the BJC Hawaiian's lives including myself. Your work ethic, never say die attitude, and desire to help every player (person) improve has been a driving force in my life, and has helped me succeed.

I will never forget the countless hours you spent with me after football practice, and with game planning and preparation to help me become a better quarterback.

Thanks for all the memories.

Don Neves
BJC 1962-63
Junior College All American Quarterback

Bill Jones

October 1, 2009

Ray,
You were an inspiration to me from the first time we met, I was just out of the Air Force and thought I was a football player --then I met you. You turned my life towards an education career, it was good working with you all the years while at BJC BC and BSC

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