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John Graub Obituary
John W. Graub II
63, died peacefully in his Indianapolis home on October 14, 2012.
John was born on November 18, 1949 in Indianapolis to John W. Graub and Rowena "Sunny" South. He was a beloved son, father, and friend.
John attended Speedway High School. He went on to earn a bachelor's degree from the Kelley School of Business at Indiana University Bloomington, and a law degree at IUPUI. John was a proud member of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity during his years in Bloomington, and maintained strong friendships with fraternity brothers throughout his entire life.
John was a long-time member of the Indianapolis Bar Association and the Indianapolis Athletic Club. He was a partner for over 25 years at Rubin & Levin P.C. and afterwards spent several years associated with Hostetler & Kowalik P.C. He was a disciplined and respected bankruptcy lawyer and took pride and honor in his work.
John loved his family and was affectionately known as "Papa John" to his grandchildren. Nothing made John happier than to have his children and grandchildren surrounding him at his beloved home, spending lazy days swimming in the pool and grilling ribs for everyone to enjoy.
John was also a caring and committed friend. When able, he was quick to help a friend in need and was a trusted confidant.
John is survived by his loving children Ariana (Brett) Spitzer; Sarah (Tedd) Grain; and John Nicholas Graub. He is also survived by six grandchildren: Audrey (5), Brock (3) and Quinn (1) Spitzer; and Idalina (3), Stella (1) and Luca (1) Grain.
Family and friends will gather at Leppert Mortuary, Nora Chapel on Friday, October 19th from 4 to 6 p.m. Memorial services will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, October 20th in the Robertson Chapel at St. Luke's United Methodist Church.
You are invited to visit http://www.leppertmortuary.com where you may share a personal memory of John, sign the guestbook or arrange for a memorial contributions to Big Brothers Big Sisters of Indianapolis, 2960 North Meridian Street, Indianapolis, Indiana 46208.
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Memories and Condolences
for John Graub
Joanne Peeler
November 5, 2012
Dear Anna, Sarah, and Nick
I want you to know that you all were very special to your dad. Every time we spoke he always spoke of his children and grandchildren. He was very proud of you.
I am very lucky to have had the privilege of getting to know your dad. He was a wonderful guy! Your dad was the kind of guy who would help anyone out. I will cherish our many conversations that I had with him. I will never know what "Keep Your Dobbers Up" means, but when I think of your dad I think of those words. He always made me smile!
God Bless your family!
Barry Spitzer
October 22, 2012
Dear Anna, We were all so saddened to hear of your Dad's untimely and sudden passing. No one understands Gods will, but God, so we have to put our trust and faith in Jesus who died to save us all. May you find God's blessing and comfort in this time of sorrow and in remembering special moments & memories of your Dad,John. God bless you and you family. Love, Barry & Debbie
Jan Austin
October 22, 2012
With loving memories of John. My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow. May your heart and soul find peace and comfort. John was a wonderful person and will be remembered.
Leah Mannweiler
October 22, 2012
John--We all loved you and you will be sorely missed. What a legacy you left behind! You and Mary did a great job with your children--all such amazing young adults, who are both gifted and grounded. I am so sad that you left us so soon, but I treasure every memory I have had with you---introducing you to Mary, the Race parties at Norwaldo, the Blizzard, poolside at Round Hill Rd, Law School (you with the Italian suits), you cruising up behind me in the Porsche Targa when I was riding my bike on College(I could hear you coming a mile away), but even more so, watching you and Mary as young parents. We all have been so sad about this, but today I am smiling thinking of the times we spent together and of the great man that you were. Save a place for me up there! Like everyone else, I want to be near you because I know that you will help me, and that it will be both interesting and fun up there. Thank you for the privilege of knowing you, being your friend,and for the incredible legacy you left behind. I know that you were with us on Saturday, and what a day it was--your children and Mary and friends laughed and cried, and the love and talent in that room was omnipresent and overwhelming. Love You Man. Leah
Joannie, Bill and Ann Jeffers
October 22, 2012
Dear Anna Sarah and Nick --
Bill, AJ and I will alway remember John's generous hospitality -- he opened his home whenever we came to town. I have many memories of being engulfed by his warm hugs and hearing his words of advice. He left this world too early....but his spirit sure lives on in you and your kids.
Bob Bossom
October 20, 2012
Anna, Sarah, Nick,
I know you will miss your dad. He was a good friend and a great father. Keep him in your heart always, as I will.
John my friend, you left us too soon. I know you will be the handball champ up there. I will remember you smiling, until we meet again.
Rich Bell
October 20, 2012
John was such a great guy. Always fun to talk with you. He was a great lawyer who always had time to understand your problem. I am so sorry for his family for such a loss. I will forever be grateful that I considered John a friend.
mischelle hoover
October 19, 2012
Mary,Anna,Sarah and nick..Our hearts and thoughts are with all of you..
Bob Bossom
October 19, 2012
Anna, Sarah and Nick,
I know you will miss your Dad; I will too.
Mary, Be at peace, John is back together with Neil, in a better place.
John, I will miss you buddy; the Golden Gloves, the IU Football games, but most of all that big smile and the bigger hug. You left too soon.
Bob Bossom
October 19, 2012
To the entire Graub family I am so sorry for your loss. I went to college with Sarah and we have remained close friends. I know how much John meant to all of you and vice verse. Offering support and love to you all during this challenging time... Kelly and Dex
October 19, 2012
My fondest memeories are you as a young new attorney. So ready to set the world on fire, and you did. You gave all of us who knew you the inspriation to achieve what we wanted and encouraged all of us to get to that place in our lives. You have helped in so many ways to many. You will be missed greatly. You and your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers. The Hoov's LOVE YOU!!!
Jeanette Hoover Aylor Orlando FL
PS Mary, My sympathy to you.
October 19, 2012
Hey John,
Why'd you go breaking my heart. You were a kind and gentle soul! And....funny! Gosh you were funny!
I don't think you ever realized how fond I was of you.....I know you will be missed!
Betty Mitchell
Leslie Redman
October 19, 2012
Oh how sad I was to hear this news. I worked with John for several years and it was no secret how much he cared about his family and friends. I believe he has been reunited in heaven with his good friend Neil Shook. God just inherited another great man! My heart and prayers go out to the Graub family as the hardest days are yet to come. Rest in peace, John, until we meet again!
Kathy Hill Groves
October 19, 2012
My heartfelt sympathies to Anna, Sarah and Nick. I watched you grow up. I began working with your Dad at Rubin & Levin in 1982. He was so very proud of all of you. He was a great man, a great attorney and a great friend. He will be missed terribly.
October 18, 2012
Anna, Sarah, Nick,
Whatever, whenever -- I am here for you and always will be. My heart aches. God's peace as you move through this.
And sweet John, thank you for providing a compass for me in so many ways. I was blessed to have known you. And yes, I have fretted and 'festered' as you would say -- all week. I miss you.
Mary Kissel
mischelle hoover
October 18, 2012
We will always remember you as a caring,loving and kind person to everyone! We spent our childhood with you, we were always so happy to see John "Gaub" , we were so young when we first met you we couldn't say our R's. Many years our families spent together having lots of fun... I only regret not keeping in touch with all of you personally. Our hearts are broken.Me, Amy and Jennifer, mom and most of all Daddy will miss you so. We have lots of great memories.
Tom Frank
October 18, 2012
I will miss you very much. You have been my friend since our college days at IU. I cherish the many great times we shared.
Tricia Hignight
October 18, 2012
I worked with John at Rubin & Levin and Hostetler & Kowalik and have very fond memories. I have a heavy heart for Anna, Nick, Sara and the grandkids but know he will always be with you.
Monty Hulse
October 18, 2012
Sarah, Tedd, and Family,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your Dad and am holding all of you in the Light.
Teri Clark Margason
October 18, 2012
My heart breaks to hear this news. We worked together at R & L for a long time, and I have seen him every few years since then. He always had that twinkle in his eye, the same big smile on his face and the warmest and most genuine hug I have ever received. John was such a special man. He will be forever missed. Rest in peace, John.
Sarah Grain
October 18, 2012
Dad, you were a friend to every person you met and took those under your wing that were in need. You provided a strong moral compass for me, Anna and Nick, yet still accepted and respected us unconditionally when we made choices that were different than those you would have made. Just like Grandma Graub, you had a hug strong enough to break a few ribs. I miss you so much. I love you.
October 18, 2012
Ken GROH
October 17, 2012
A great friend and frat brother
I will miss him
Donna South Boals
October 17, 2012
ALong with many other South family cousins, I enjoyed John as we grew up. He provided me with many memories of a shared childhood on our grandparents farm in Bainbridge, Indiana. Peace to you John
Jan Carter
October 17, 2012
John was a dear friend, a confidant, and my beloved attorney. I have known John for 32 years and have many delightful memories of time shared; hearing about his children,updating him about my children, comparing grandparent stories, etc. I will miss you dear friend.
Carol Williams
October 17, 2012
It's good to think John and Neil Shook are back together again. Such good friends for so long. Both were extraordinay gentlemen and anyone who knew them were blessed.
Ted Qualkinbush
October 17, 2012
John was a guy that you would not forget. He showed compassion for all.
Best, Ted Qualkinbush
Kim Clark
October 17, 2012
To John's family and friends:
I am so sorry for your tremendous loss of a dad, grandpa and friend. He was a great man and it was obvious he loved his family deeply. When I think of John, it puts a smile on my face. He was a great man to work with and for. With deepest sympathy.
October 17, 2012
Dear Sarah, Tedd and family:
We sent our love to you as you move through this most difficult time in your lives. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jan and Wilbur
Tim Hoover
October 17, 2012
My good good friend for over 40 years. Caring committed and a heart as big as all outdoors. I'll miss him and remember Grauburgers and tots at our Meloncoloy Club meetings.So many good things to remember
Fine Fine Man
October 17, 2012
I am sad to hear of John's passing. As little kids, "Johnny" and I were buddies, as our parents were friends and our families would get together from time to time. I remember John as a creative and active and fun friend to be with. I still remember how he and his Dad would do tap dance routines together at church and other places. And I remember John doing magic tricks and playing music and being a real performer. I didn't have the pleasure of knowing John as a "grown-up", but I see that he has lived a good life and enjoyed his family above all else. I am sending thoughts of loving kindness your way at this difficult time, and I wish for you comfort and rest.
David B. Schnable, Sheboygan, Wisconsin...
Papa John with grandkids
Tedd Grain
October 17, 2012
John was the classic father-in-law. From his De Niro impersonation from Parenthood, admonishing me about the "circle of trust" to the few but strong words of advice regarding taking care of his daughter, he made an impression on this son-in-law. He was a master of the barbecue and his perfect lawn was to be envied. His true accomplishment, however, was providing a loving and safe environment for his kids as they grew up.
Thank you John for your influence on my wife Sarah, who was shaped by your gift of a happy childhood into the woman I love. Your legacy will continue as we raise our children, hoping to provide the same loving environment for them. You are missed.
Darren Simmons
October 17, 2012
Sorry to hear of your loss.
October 17, 2012
He will always be remembered!
October 17, 2012
John, we'll miss you. Good times and bad....that Smile was always there. Your friend / Goody
Tim Hoover
October 17, 2012
caring, committed,friend and a heart as big as all outdoors. One of my best friends for over 40 years. I'll miss him.
October 17, 2012
I will miss the warm smile of a good friend. John Loeber
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Kathy Smith Baker Hammonds
October 17, 2012
John always had a warm genuine smile. He will be missed but with pleasant memories. I was very fortunate to reconnect with John at our high school reunion this past June.
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