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MARY MARY DUKE BIDDLE TRENT SEMANS

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SEMANS


MARY DUKE BIDDLE TRENT
a lifelong philanthropist and civic leader in North Carolina, died on January 25, 2012, in Durham. She was 91.
Mrs. Semans devoted herself to education, children's services, health care and the arts, and her compassion for others helped shape and sustain significant programs and institutions across the Carolinas and the nation.
She was born into a family of industrialists and philan-thropists. Her grandfather, Benjamin Newton Duke, his brother, James B. Duke, and their father, Washington Duke, were involved in many business ventures, the most significant of which were the American Tobacco Company and Duke Power Company, now Duke Energy Corporation. Over the years, they were the chief benefactors of Trinity College in Durham, which later became Duke University. In 1924, James B. Duke established The Duke Endowment in Charlotte, one of the largest private foundations in the country and the largest foundation in the Southeast.
Mrs. Semans carried on the family legacy through her own foundations and philanthropic work, serving on numerous boards as a trustee and advisor, and acting as a champion for all types of humanitarian causes. She was a Trustee of The Duke Endowment for 55 years, and served as its first female Chairman from 1982-2001. After 2001, she continued serving as Chair Emerita.
Mrs. Semans also served as a Trustee of many educational institutions in the Carolinas, including Duke University, Davidson College, Shaw University, Louisburg College, Converse College and the University of North Carolina School of the Arts.
She was instrumental in establishing the Duke University Museum of Art, which became the Nasher Museum of Art at Duke University, and the museum's Great Hall bears her name.
Philanthropy, Mrs. Semans once said in a speech, is not about charity or noblesse oblige. "But the joy of giving. The good feeling of sharing. The giving that benefits the giver as well as the recipient." "We're all here for each other," she told a reporter. "I take very seriously this business of treating your neighbor as yourself."
Mrs. Semans was born in New York City. Her parents were Mary Duke Biddle, the only daughter of Benjamin Duke, and Anthony Joseph Drexel Biddle Jr., a General in the United States Army. Her mother was a noted philanthropist who carried on the family's support of Duke University and her father held several high-level government posts, including Ambassador to Exiled Countries during World War II and Ambassador to Spain.
Apart from a childhood in New York City, Mrs. Semans lived most of her life in Durham. She attended the Hewitt School in New York and then enrolled in the Woman's College at Duke University at age 15.
In 1938, she married Josiah Trent, a surgical intern who would become the chief of Duke Hospital's division of thoracic surgery. The couple developed a passion for rare books, including books about the history of medicine and many by and about Walt Whitman. Dr. Trent died of cancer after 10 years of marriage.
As a young widow and mother of four girls, she ran for a seat on the Durham City Council and became the first woman elected in 1951. She served as mayor pro-tem from 1953-55. While in office, she advocated for civil rights, affordable housing, cultural enrichment opportunities, and humane medical care, and was named one of the city's "Mothers of the Year" in 1952.
She married James H. Semans, a Duke University surgeon and urologist, in 1953. In their 52 years of marriage, they had three children.
Mrs. Semans, along with her husband, took active roles in public service. In the 1960s, they helped lead the establishment of the University of North Carolina School of the Arts, the nation's first state-supported conservatory for the arts. Mrs. Semans served as a Trustee of the school for more than 20 years and continued as an honorary member of the board.
Mrs. Semans also served on the board of the Mary Duke Biddle Foundation, established by her mother to support arts, educational and charitable initiatives in North Carolina and New York City.
In 1971, the couple received the North Carolina Award, the state's highest civilian honor, for their contributions to the fine arts. "They personify the best leadership of their era," the citation read. The couple also received the National Brotherhood Award from the National Conference of Christians and Jews "for distinguished service in the field of human relations."
Dr. Semans died in 2005 at age 94.
Mrs. Semans was known for her keen mind, graciousness, genuine concern for others and boundless energy. Among her multiple affiliations, she served on the boards of the Executive Mansion Fine Arts Committee, which was charged with restoring and preserving the North Carolina Governor's residence; the North Carolina Museum of Art; the North Carolina Symphony; the North Carolina Center for World Languages and Cultures; the Kenan Institute for Ethics at Duke University; and the National Humanities Center.
She also served as chairman of the Governor's Study Committee on Vocational Rehabilitation and was a member of the National Citizens Advisory Commission on Vocational Rehabilitation, appointed by President Lyndon B. Johnson. Mrs. Semans also served as a member of the board of directors of First Union Corporation.
In 1986, she received one of the first two University Medals for Distinguished Meritorious Service at Duke. Her honorary degrees came from Duke, Campbell University, Davidson College, Elon University, Furman University, N.C. Central University, North Carolina Wesleyan College, Pfeiffer University, Shaw University and UNC Chapel Hill.
Mrs. Semans received many other honors and awards including, among others, the National Governors Association Distinguished Service Award in 1995 for her support of the arts; a Citation for Distinguished Public Service presented by North Carolina Citizens for Business and Industry; the Humanitarian Freedom Award presented by the Durham Chapter of Hadassah; the North Carolina Philanthropy Award; and the North Caroliniana Society Award.
She received the Meritorious Service Award from the North Carolina Hospital Association in 2006 and in 2009 she was inducted into the North Carolina Women's Hall of Fame.
Mrs. Semans is survived by seven children: Mary Trent Jones of Abingdon, Va.; Sarah Trent Harris of Charlotte, N.C.; Dr. Rebecca Trent Kirkland of Houston, Texas; Barbara Trent Kimbrell of Sullivan's Island, S.C.; Jenny Semans Koortbojian of Durham, N.C.; James Duke Biddle Trent Semans of Chapel Hill, N.C.; and Beth Semans Hubbard of Los Angeles, Calif.; 16 grandchildren and 29 great-grandchildren.
A Funeral Service is planned for 2 P.M., Monday, January 30th, at Duke Chapel. Funeral arrangements are being handled by HOWERTON & BRYAN FUNERAL HOME.
Memorials may be made to the Semans Art Fund, c/o University of North Carolina School of the Arts; the Duke Medicine Heart Center; the Duke Medicine Pulmonary Division Fund; Josiah Charles Trent Memorial Foundation Endowment, c/o Duke University; or the Frank Neelon Fund for Literature in Medicine, c/o Triangle Community Foundation.

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Published by Philadelphia Inquirer/Philadelphia Daily News on Jan. 27, 2012.

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Sarah Jones

January 6, 2024

I met this kind woman on one occasion. She was a very warm person. I wish we had a chance to get to know each other. She was beautiful, inside and out!!!

Scott W. Trent Jr.

March 19, 2012

While I never got to meet her, would have loved to if I could have gotten to Durham to so do. I have researched her family along with my own Trent connections, so I feel like I knew her. She had a long and good life and I'm sure she will be greatly missed. She and Mr. Trent were both members of a long and proud family! Sorry to hear of her death and my thoughts and prayers are with all of her remaining family members!

Patsy Aldred

February 24, 2012

I met Mrs. Semans as a result of a mutual friend back in the 1970's, Dot King. Every time I have seen Mrs. Seamans through the years at different eateries in Durham or at events, I've made it a point to re-introduce myself to her. She never seemed to be too busy to stop and chat with me for a minute and was always warm and gracious. Even when I would see her at the Duke Wellness Center, she was a role model to us all seeing her exercise and personally gave me encouragement! I will never forget her kindness.

Reid's

February 9, 2012

To the MARY DUKE BRIDDLE TRENT SEMANS family, we send our condolences to all. We are alumnus (74 & 80) of the University North Carolina School of the Arts and have fond memories of your mother and father. We parted the seas when we saw them walk through the campus becasue we knew how much they meant to the school and to the staff & students. My husband and friends in the music dept. had many conversations with your parents when they would visited the school.
It brings much sadness to the arts community near and far. Please continue their legacy!!!
Gerard & Vivian

ROBERT BULLOCK

February 5, 2012

TO ALL OF MARY DUKE BRIDDLE TRENT SEMANS YOUR MOTHER WAS ONE OF THE GREATEST LADY`S THAT ANYONE GOOD HAVE KNOWN SHE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY WE AS ALL BOARD MEMBERS OF THE NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLINESS THE STATE OFFICE LOVED HER SHE HAS DONE SO MUCH FOR SO MANY PEOPLE RALEIGH NC

Charlotte Johnston

February 3, 2012

She was a role model and way ahead of her time. Mary Semans brought joy to all who met her. She will be missed.

Charlotte Watson Johnston

Rosalie Brillante

February 2, 2012

We lifted your family up in prayer this morning here at Charlotte Rescue Mission regarding the loss of your beloved Mother. I know she will be sorely missed and has left an amazing legacy as well as heritage within our state. We are very grateful for her work. You must be very proud.
Our loving Lord be with you during this difficult time.

February 1, 2012

Mrs. Semans was a phenomenal direct connection to Washington, James, and her grandfather, Benjamin Duke. An unforgettable woman, she was kind, insightful, intelligent, and historically significant. Duke and Durham are better as a result of her. With a single meeting, one would feel you had known her forever.

Nancy Houser

January 31, 2012

A woman who is beyond words, Mary Duke Biddle Trent Semans will be more than missed. She was an icon of gentleness, honor, human caring and responsibility that the world has so few of. Rest in peace, Mary. Do good works above as you did below.

G S

January 30, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I thank God for her. she gave herself to people she had never met. you all are blessed to have a caring mother like that. I DID TOO.

Jeanne Werner Gunter & Katie Gunter

January 29, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family of Mary Semans. She remembered everyone. She would know your name before we offered it. She was kind, comforting, and gracious to many. Her presence made the world a better place.

James M Williams

January 29, 2012

To Mary Trent Jones and Sarah and Becky: I very clearly remember your mom's kindness to me during my years at Calvert School. I also clearly remember her kindness and support of my mom (Lola Williams) as a teacher at Calvert. She has always been a very special lady in my book. Sincere condolences, Jim Williams, Denver CO

Linda Pressner-Freedman

January 29, 2012

So sorry to hear of your loss. Every time we met she was very kind and welcoming to us. She was, as they say on Broadway, an angle to so many charities and organizations We will remember her fondly. Max & Linda Pressner Freedman

Edith Lee

January 28, 2012

Dear Beth...my condolences to you and your family. I know you will miss her, but remember your Mom's legacy lives on...in you! May the Peace and Love of The Almighty comfort you at this time. (Cookie, from the Mews) 0:-)

January 28, 2012

There has not been a greater lady as ambassador locally or away than this wonderful woman was. She defined grace, spirit, and of course..perky...We loved her. She seemed to love all of us. My heart goes to Beth and Jenny and James...as well to Gary who also loved her so much.

Anne

B. B.

January 28, 2012

To the family of Mrs. Mary D. T. Semans, my prayers are with you during your time of bereavement. May each of you find comfort in each other and may the God of tender mercies grant each of you peace of mind, strength and endurance.

January 28, 2012

Dear Jenny and family -
My condolences on your loss.

Kate Gilman Kane

January 28, 2012

Dear Jenny and family -
My condolences on your loss.

Sarah Simon

January 28, 2012

Dear Jenny, Beth and James,
I wanted to let you know how much your mother meant to me and to our whole family. She inspired us to become better people and to seek fuller lives. Our strong, generous, and loving leader is gone and will be missed. Her place can never be filled.
Our thoughts are with you and your families.
Love,
Wash

Bennie Roney Hall

January 28, 2012

I was so blessed to have known this wonderful, personable lady. Our world will so miss her marvelous smile, generosity and love of her fellow man.
Bennie Roney Hall
(Great Grand Niece of Artelia Roney, Mary's Great Grandmother)

Bonnie Blue Crouse

January 28, 2012

A great loss. My sympathy goes out to all of the family, friends and loved ones who will miss her terribly. The brightness of her spirit illuminated the lives of many who will continue to remember her grace and generosity. Rest in peace, Mary.

Edgar Lee

January 27, 2012

Sorry to hear of the loss of a loved one and a great lady to many. I am a cousin from Washington Duke brother James Duke of Tenn. He was my g,g,grandfather and we have a large family and a lot of them I have never met. But God bless us all as we will all have a great homecoming when we meet in heaven.

Jane

January 27, 2012

I so enjoyed her interviews with Charlie Rose and others. Engaging with classic sweetness and brilliance.
Growing up Durham, I loved to see the pink estate in Forest Hills. Pass the Duke Mansion in New York many times.
Touching many lives and leaving a legacy for us all.

ROBERT BULLOCK

January 27, 2012

BETH I AM VEARY SORRY TO HEAR OF THE LOSS OF YOUR MOTHER SHE WAS A GREAT LADY WHO HAS DONE SO MUCH FOR THE ARTS AND FOR DUKE AND FOR HER SERVICES TO LINCOLN COMMUNITY HOSPITAL DURHAM HAS REALLY LOST A GREAT LADY ROBERT BULLOCK NAMI WAKE BOARD MEMBER ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLINESS

January 27, 2012

Sally Harris, I am so sorry for your loss, it sounds like your mom was a wonderful lady. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely, Rebecca/ South Park Animal Hospital

January 27, 2012

Sally Harris- I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like your mom was a wonderful lady. You are in my thoughts and prayers. sincerely, Rebecca/South Park Animal Hospital

Kelly Hurley

January 27, 2012

Beth, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

william austin

January 27, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with All the Family

January 27, 2012

I am truly sorry for your lost. In your time of bereavement, know that God assures us that we will see our loved ones again. I'm sure that with the help of our loving Heavenly Father, your family, and friends you will be able to endure this trial. May your memories give you comfort.

Gates, GA

January 27, 2012

A fine human being and a lovely lady.
Karen in Florida

Ann Marshall Hunt

January 27, 2012

May God give you peace and comfort knowing what a great lady she was.

Cynthia and marcela Azpilcueta

January 27, 2012

- "The pain we feel at this moment is very large, but the love we feel for you will be even greater because you're alive / in our hearts forever. We love you mary.

Teri Noel Towe

January 27, 2012

I mourn the death and give thanks for the life of Mary Duke Biddle Trent Semans. She was a splendid human being, a treasured friend of my parents and of mine, a passionate lover of music and the arts, a committed advocate of fairness and civil rights. God bless her and keep her. She will indeed be missed by all who knew her and by untold numbers who did not but who have benefited from her compassion and philanthropy.

Cynthia and marcela Azpilcueta

January 26, 2012

we love you and miss you mary.

Rick Newton

January 26, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of the death of Mary Duke Biddle Trent Semans. She and her family was one of the "founding fathers" of this great state of North Carolina. My sympathies to the family.
Rick Newton

Robin White

January 26, 2012

To the Trent & Semans families: Thank you to your families for your contributions to society. I am sorry for your loss. I pray that your families will be comforted by the good memories & knowing that God will be there to help you all during this difficult time.

Lona Faye Duke Bows

January 26, 2012

My sympathies to the family.
Lona Faye Duke Bows

James Millsaps

January 26, 2012

My condolences to the family. Mary, thank you for all you did for the state of North Carolina and your other great devotions. May you rest in peace. My sympathy to the entire family!

Harts

January 26, 2012

Our condolences to Ms. Seman's family,
May our Heavenly Father, the God of comfort and tender mercies be with you all. With deep sympathy

dee

January 26, 2012

Beth,
Our hearts go out to you as we continue to keep you in our Prayers ~ May God Bless you & your family as you hold close the cherished memories of your Mom. May she Rest In Peace ...
All our Love,
dee & francesca

Thurletta Brown-Gavins

January 26, 2012

I had the opportunity to meet Mrs. Semans during my tenure in Duke Undergraduate Admissions. She was warm and very personable...a gracious lady who touched my heart.

The Duke community has suffered a great loss.

My heartfelt sympathy goes to her family. May God hold you in His arms and give you peace.

Victoria&Andrew

January 26, 2012

Godbless you RIP~MARY~
Sending out our Condolences
to your Family&Friends'

Ellen Lindblad

January 26, 2012

Rest in peace Mary. You have made the world a better place. Condolences to family and friends.

CAROLYN

January 26, 2012

MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY! THANK YOU
FOR ALL THAT YOU DID TO HELP OTHERS.

Claudine

January 26, 2012

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one, Death is not what our creator intended for mankind. May you find comfort in the memories you shared together and know that in the near future the sting of death will be removed forever and sorrow will be no more.~Hosea 13:14

Anthony Mitchell

January 26, 2012

My warm heart and deep love to the family and close friends of such a caring and inspirational woman. Mary will be fondly thought of and dearly missed until God resurrects her to perfect human health on the paradise earth to come

Mrs. Brona Vest

January 26, 2012

People often forget those who make it their life's ambition to help others and to make the world around them a better place for everyone. What would NC be without these founding families?. May God continue to Bless your family.

January 26, 2012

There is no replacement for this generous lady who showed such sweet spirit and strength. Susie Ruth Powell

Maureen W

January 26, 2012

Eternal rest grant unto her oh Lord. May God's comforting blessing rain down upon your family in this time of grief.

Helen Heath

January 26, 2012

I was saddened to learn of the passing of Mary. Although I didn't know her; I admired her loving and giving to North Carolina's Duke, Lincoln Community Hospital and her service to others. Please convey my sympathy to Mary's family. May God bless.

John g

January 26, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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