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Rosalie S. Bernaudo

Rosalie Bernaudo Obituary

BERNAUDO
ROSALIE S. (nee Zappasodi) of Phila., on Jan. 4, 2008. Beloved wife of Michael S. Bernaudo. Cherished daughter of Dr. Arnold J. and Mrs. Joanne W. Zappasodi DDS and the late Rita (nee Vita) Zappasodi. Loving sister of Maria Hopkins and her husband James, Anthony J. Zappasodi Esq., Arnold J. Zappasodi Jr., George Freeth and the late Dr. Silvio Zappasodi DO and his wife Dawn. Devoted niece of Dr. Joseph Zappasodi and Nina Zappasodi. Devoted Aunt of Alexander, Silvio Jr. and Annamarie Zappasodi, Christina and Anthony Hopkins, Matthew and Daniel Walsh, Christopher Ambron, Dominic and Juliana Bernaudo. Relatives and friends are invited to call Wednesday 7-9 P.M at THE NULTY FUNERAL HOME, 4292 Frankford Ave. (at Church St.). and Thursday 8:30 A.M. at Maternity BVM Church, 9220 Bustleton Ave., Phila., PA 19115. Mass of Christian Burial 10 A.M. Interment St. Dominic's Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, family requests donations in Rosalie's memory to St. Lucy Day School for the Visually Impaired, 4251 L. St., Phila., PA 19124 or Holy Spirit Sisters of Perpetual Adoration (Pink Sisters), 2212 Green St., Phila., PA 19130

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Published by Philadelphia Inquirer/Philadelphia Daily News on Jan. 8, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Rosalie Bernaudo

30 Entries

Maria

January 8, 2010

To Rosalie, and her family and friends.
I share in your sorrow and pray for the healing of our pain as we continue to struggle with this tragedy.
I miss my sister very much. I know she is in heaven with my mother and brother
and they are shining down on us. You are all loved and remembered in my prayers and reflections in the warmest
of ways. Your continued support evokes
smiles and tears. This was the first year ever I did not bake cookies for Christmas. Nothing is the same. I too am inconsolable, and if not for the power of faith and love, I doubt I'd be able to go on. Much has been lost. We remain. Let us find comfort in each other. May the blessings of our good God
continue to shine through us and the power of the Blessed Mother strengthen
us in our weakest moments. Special prayers intended for Rosalie's father,
my father, as he continues to grieve for his children everyday. Please keep him in your prayers. He lives in crises.
Why God has given me this heavy burden to carry on without my mother, I will never know. Like Michael, sometimes I think my phone will ring and it will be Rosalie with some funny story or some new recipe, but the phone does not ring.
She lives on in spirit. And that is what we have left. We rejoice in our love for her and celebrate her laughter
for all eternity. Thank you for loving her, as that is what she needed most.
Isn't that what we all need? I know I do. Nothing makes sense any more. I never imagined life without my mother, brother and sister. Never. God bless.

Michael S. Bernaudo

January 7, 2010

My Dear Darling Departed Rosalie,

The time has come to say goodbye, at least here in the Guestbook. I have said it to you so many times over the past two years. My life has not been or will never be the same without you. How could it ever be? I miss you so much...so down deep...that it still hurts so much. I have had nothing but time to consider each and every moment of our time together on this Earth. Every time we laughed, cried or held each other in our arms. I told you so many times how much I loved you and I continue telling you I love you today, tomorrow and always. How I miss your smile and laughter. A sight and sound I will never see or hear again on this Earth. Honey, so many of our friends have tried to remain close to console me in your absence...but there is no consolation. I talk about you all the time to anyone who is willing to listen. Dominic, Juliana, Joanne and John hold me up when I am to weak to stand on my own. They do their best to look after me and I don't know what I would do with out them. I feel your presence still in our home and sometimes I think I can still smell you, feel you, hear you. I know God has plans for you in the next world. I know you are no longer in pain and suffering. These are my only joy. I try to live each and every day as you would want me to in the hope that we will be reunited in the next life. We promised each other that whoever went first would be in charge of preparing the place for us, so I am counting on you to get our place ready.

Until them I wait for the day. I wait for my future to be revealed to me in God's good time, confident that yours will be the first face I see. I loved you. I love you. I will always love you forever!

With all my love, then...now and forever! Tu Esposo, Michael

January 3, 2010

Hi Ro, I miss ya still like you left us all yesterday. Tomorrow is 2 years since we've been blessed to have you here on earth. Just know you are always in my thoughts daily, I miss you and love ya forever. I expect you to visit my newborn son, Jerry, born Nov. 30th this year. You promised to know him, so I expect him to tell me this funny lady has been visiting him in his room one day when he can talk. Please send us all some blessings and peace down here. You always had a way of making us all feel so much better. Love you, Shannon ("bobalannon")

Helen Columbis

August 16, 2009

To one of the most beautiful people I've ever known...I miss you and think of you every day and nite..Someday we will see each other again to smil,laugh,and be surrounded by the beauty of eternity..I know you are amongst the angels in heaven because you were an angel here on earth..I love you my special friend.....Love,Helen

M H

August 15, 2009

Happy anniversary my sister.
Just came back from the beach.
I can see you in the beautiful sunlit sky and the reflection of the vast
and unpredictable ocean. I miss you.
Nevertheless, I am happy you are home with Mommy and Silvio. Daddy just isn't the same. How could he be?
Love you,
M

Michael J. Rogers

January 1, 2009

To My Beautiful Friend-Rosalie,
My heart was always filled with joy and love while you were in my life. Laughter and adventure was our way of being; God's kindness and grace surrounded and seem to always protect us. Heaven knows I miss you, so enjoy your Blessings and Rewards. I trust one day we will share those as well.
I'm thinking Heaven is something to behold at Christmas time and you are graciously participating in the splender.
God Bless You and Your Message of Love. Truly, Michael

M Hopkins

December 17, 2008

My Dear Rosalie,

Today is Silvio's birthday. I imagine you are all smiling now that you both have been reunited with Mom. I miss you all so much it hurts.

I also imagine the most delicious and beautiful cake being baked for Silvio.
You must be laughing about the time I crawled out of my crib to get myself a piece of mom's cake.

Send me a sign. Nothing is the same down here in crises land. How will I know
you are all are watching over me?

Spread love and fun and laughter as you always did when you sing for our beloved brother today.

You are all in my heart today and everyday. I miss you! I miss you all so much. I almost wish I were there, but my kids need me.

Why has God tested me this way?

SEND ME A SIGN, PLEASE! I love you, I love you, I love you. Hugs and kisses!

Always,
Shirley Temple

Arnold Zappasodi

August 21, 2008

Ro-

I miss laughing with you and confiding in you. You helped me get through so many difficult times in life and I want you to know that life in not the same without you to brighten it and make it easier. You were the best sister a person could ever ask for and I think about you each and every day.

Maria Zappasodi Hopkins

June 5, 2008

To My Funny Girl,

It has been 6 months now and I'm still crying. Rosalie, my only sister, you are missed every single day. If I could pick up the phone to talk I'd tell you that tonight is your Godson's prom from our Alma Mater and that your Goddaughter is turning 21.

We'd laugh and wonder where the time went. Life will never be the same without my brother and sister.

I miss you so. Daddy is dreaming about you. Mommy is reunited with you, and I am feeling empty without each of you.
Rosalie, you put the fun in dysfunctional for every lost soul. Nothing can replace you. Please pray for my broken heart.
I put your picture on the mantle with Mommy. You are deeply missed.
If only I could have you here for our birthday, which we shared on July 4th for 47years.

Without you, who will eat linguine and crabs with me? I miss you Ro. I miss you.

Rest in peace my funny sister.
Always,
Maria

Bianca Spielvogel

May 9, 2008

Rosalie, I miss you so much , you were the best to me. and you helped me lots, I am so sorry I didn't know. I was very sad when I recieved the e-mail months later, know that you were always in my prays, And I Know that you are watching over me, and my business, I know you are telling everyone one up in heaven all about Mary kay as you gave me "the go ahead start you will never know if you do not try" So I did and I thank you! I never called you Ro because I didn't want to take the Rose out of your name m as you were a true ROSE to me!!! I will see you someday,till then I'll miss you! Bianca Spielvogel

Helen Columbis

February 10, 2008

Ro..My forever friend and adviser.So sorry I didn't know you were gone.My heart is broken in a million pieces but you are and always were one of God's chosen angels.I will miss your smile and laughter forever.I Love You my friend and I know you will reign in the hearts of many for all eternity.Rest in Peace and remember how many lives you touched and how many loved you dearly.Your memory will be eternal..Love,Helen Columbis

January 31, 2008

roro always counted her 6 months past her birthday her half birthday as i sit here i relize ro past on her 6 month birthday and became a angel for god

Anthony Ferrara

January 28, 2008

Ro, I have just learned of your passing,I am broken hearted, I know that you are now an Angel again among the Angels, God has taken you back and I know that you will continue to help all of us here,whom you meant so very much to.I will cherish the many laughs we shared,you always had the "best "stories, you never failed to make me laugh and blush at the same time! BE Happy
Love you, Anthony Ferrara

Monica

January 24, 2008

Rosalie was the richest woman I know because she surrounded by love and happiness. She shared her gift with many and touched many. She was a shining example and will truly be missed.

Greg Fondacaro

January 18, 2008

You were brought on this Earth as a prophet from God. I'm sure he has bigger and better plans for you now.I only know my world is a sadder place today. Donna searched all over Disney World to find your box of Mickey Mouse coconut patties. My only regret is that i did not get spend one more afternoon with you to talk about life. Thank you for your help and support. I miss you. REST IN PEACE

lori Myers (Evangelista)

January 14, 2008

Rosalie was the most warm, loving, comforting person I have ever known. Rosalie has been like a mother to me, and helped guide me through the darkest of times.. she was always my bright light. Rosalie was always there for me, just a phone call or visit away.. anytime I needed her. I loved laying on the couch and listening to her stories of her fascinating life. She had the best stories, I could listen to them all day! She had some of the best friends anyone could ever wish for.. and wanted nothing but the best for everyone she loved. I will forever keep her close to my heart.. and she will forever be missed.

alexis hunt

January 12, 2008

rosalie was an awesome person. one summer when i was little she took care of me while my mom tina went to work. i remember her making me chocolate chip pancakes and watching the radiohead creep video with me. we have many memories of her, she was always smiling and she will be missed. its been 2 years since ive seen her and i wish i couldve saw her more.

love ya roro

kimberly,joel,arielle fisicaro

January 10, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

kimberly fisicaro

January 10, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

rosalie's 49th birthday i will always miss you,love kim,joel and arielle fisicaro

kimberly fisicaro

January 10, 2008

Rosalie,
You have been a big help in my life you changed me and i love you for that i loved taking care of you and helping you and mike also i wish i could have been there for you and there for mike at the viewing but i just found the obituarie by mistake i did'nt even know u passed
you tought me the moons and how to deal with everyday pressure even though you were sick and often hurting you always had a smile as unbareale as it was i will miss you always and joel and arielle as well as myself will never forget you

Mike and Rosalie

kimberly fisicaro

January 10, 2008

Marty Ambron

January 9, 2008

Michael,

My deepest sympathies for the loss of your wife Rosalie.

Marty

Michele Dorris

January 9, 2008

My deepest sympathies are with the family over the unexpected death of Rosalie. My prayers are with the family.

Love, Tom and Brenda Walsh

January 9, 2008

Dear Michael, Our thoughts and prayers are sent to you. The Gospel tells us, Matthew 6:26 :“Behold the birds of the air; they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet God in heaven feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?”

May God send you the peace and the strength you require, and may His Graces cover you like the gentle memories you hold for your beloved Rosalie.

Elena Eckmeyer

January 9, 2008

You were the brightest spirit and most beautiful soul I ever had the pleasure of knowing and privilege of calling my friend. But to me you were much more than a friend, you were my family. You were the sister I always wish I had with the nurturing of a mother. You were the only light I had in my darkest hours, as I know you were for many. This world will surely be a much darker place without you. You have given me so much over the years and I can only hope that I was able to give back to you as much as you have given me. I will continue to spread around the "Love, Light and Prayers" you have given me and taught me so the people in my life can experience as much of the joy you brought to me and to so many others. You were the only person who truly tried to make me be the best person I can be. You and Michael treated me like family and showed me what true love and soul mates truly are. Your house was a haven of love and I always felt love, laughter and the true meaning of family every time I was there with you. I will miss you more than any words can ever convey, but I know you will continue to watch over me in death as you did in life. I could not ask for a more magnificent Guardian Angel. It is in this reality that I find comfort. Thank you Sunshine...for all that you were and all that you did. I love you Ro....

Peter M. Ranoia

January 9, 2008

Rosalie:

What a joy you always were when I visited your parents house. The entire family I love and also I was saddened by Sylvio's passing. To Arnold, JoAnn and the rest of this wonderful family my prayers are with you as they have always been. You, Rosalie, will be missed I am sure as your humor will be too.

God Bless you all.

We all love you.

The Ranoia Family

Juliana Bernaudo

January 8, 2008

Love is patient, love is kind, it is not jealous, it is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interest, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing, but rejoices the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. LOVE NEVER FAILS!!!
May we all follow my Aunt Ro's example.

Karen Dixon

January 8, 2008

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Shannon D'Arcy

January 8, 2008

There isn't enough room in this guestbook to tell the wonderful, hilariously funny stiroes of my dearest friend Ro. She is so loved by so many people for her wittiness, bawdiness, her love of her friends and family and spirituality. Ro was a firecracker. She said out loud what many thought to say but thought was "too much". I LOVED her for that! She was a wonderful example of how we should all take care of each other. She loved her husband Michael so very much. She told me all the time he was "Her King". She gave him the utmost respect and was still googly-eyed when she looked at him after 9 years of togetherness. She thought the world of her brothers and was so very proud. She loved the way she could make her father laugh. I will miss Ro more than words can say. I feel a huge loss and I know many of you do. I am blessed to have known her and to have had her as a very close friend. I know she will give us all signs from above, we're all on the lookout. She's still around and that is what helps me cope. To her family, my deepest sympathies. Know I will make sure to tell everyone for the rest of my life how wonderful she was. She will not be forgotten. I love you Ro.--"Shannon Bobalannan"

Tina Hunt

January 8, 2008

My beautiful friend, Rosalie. Your spirit will inhabit the hearts of all who knew you, those whose lives you touched with love and friendship are forever blessed for having known you. We shared so much and the laughter and tears helped shape us, together we stood strong. Twenty years seems too short a time have you in my life, my heart aches to see you.
Love, Light, and Prayers
Tina

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