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Ruth Fudge Obituary

In loving memory of Ruth Elizabeth Fudge, June 27, 1926-August 5, 2020. Ruth is survived by her son, Robert Fudge (Judi), daughters Ann Plasencia (Michael) and Alice Ellingson (Ole), grandchildren Braden, Kailey and Trenton (Robert's), Freddie, Andy, Alex and Aubree (Ann's), and Robert and Alicia (Alice's), along with six great grandchildren and one on the way! Ruth was preceded in death by her beloved husband and life-long partner, Royer.

Ruth was born and raised in Holtville, California to Swiss immigrants, Fred and Bertha Strahm, and she and Royer moved to the Upland area in 1958 with Robert in tow. She had been a member of First Presbyterian Church in Upland for over 60 years. Ruth was a hard-working woman and chose not to retire until she was nearly 70 years old. She raised her family in the most loving and nurturing manner, always providing for every need and want. Her joy in life was her family and it was her grandchildren that provided her with the most happiness. She was immensely involved in the lives of all her grandchildren.

Ruth also gave back to the community. She was involved with Chaffey Community Republican Women for over 40 years, San Antonio Community Hospital Auxiliary, Casa Alegra, and many other organizations. Ruth was an accomplished pianist and avid bridge player.

Ruth never stopped giving. She was a beautiful, kind, loving, caring, intelligent woman and she will be sorely missed.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to The Michael J. Fox Parkinson's Foundation, First Presbyterian Church in Upland, St. Paul's Lutheran Church in Holtville, CA, or to a favorite charity of your choice.

We will be having a service and celebrating Ruth's amazing life on Saturday, 8/15 at 10:30 am at the Fudge family home in Upland. We would love for you to join us.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Bulletin from Aug. 12 to Aug. 15, 2020.

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Audrey Voigt

August 15, 2020

A beautiful woman inside and out. As a Republican Woman she openly shared her ideas in a reasonable and friendly manner. She would only give advice when asked. The group of Chaffey women to which she belonged were real movers and shakers in this area. Her deeds remain. My sincere condolences to the family. God bless you in this difficult time

Yolanda Reyes

August 14, 2020

Our deepest sympathy. We love u. We send you our prayers and big hugs to you , Alicia, Robert and Ole. From Louie, Yolanda and Sam.

Carmen

August 13, 2020

Such an amazing story of such a beautiful woman. Her big heart is reflected in all her children. May we all be inspired to leave a loving and giving legacy as hers. Rest In Peace young lady and know that your work here on earth will continue through your family♥

Shawn Novack

August 13, 2020

Mrs. Fudge was like a second mother to me when I lived on Laurel Avenue in Upland. Always kind, encouraging and made sure I was never hungry. Her Swedish pancakes were legendary! I'll carry fond memories of her for the rest of my life. RIP Mrs. Fudge....you were loved by many.

Mike & Joanie Morrell

August 13, 2020

We are so sorry for the loss of your dear mother. She was truly a woman of substance and left her mark on the world through her many years of serving her family and others. We pray for your comfort in this time of sadness. God bless and keep you.

Agnes Gibboney

August 12, 2020

May Ruth rest in peace. May the family find some peace in the beautiful memories, etched in their hearts forever.
My deepest condolences.

Jennifer Tullius

August 12, 2020

I love reading her story. What an amazing, strong woman with great love surrounding her. May she Rest In Peace.

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