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Robert Hetzel Obituary

Robert C. Hetzel, 87, of Manchester, passed away on Monday, Dec. 20, 2021, at Manchester Memorial Hospital.

Robert was born in Kane, Pennsylvania. He was the son of the late John E. Hetzel and Mabel (Richards) Hetzel.

He is survived by his loving wife of 54 years, Patricia (Sommers) Hetzel; his daughter Sara (Hetzel) DeForge and her husband, Colin; his oldest sister Joan (Hetzel) Schmidt and her husband, Fred; his youngest sister Tamar (Hetzel) MacFadyen; his sister-in-law Maria Hetzel; 10 nieces and nephews and their extended families. He is predeceased by his father John; his mother Mabel; his brother Donald; and his son Alexander Markwell Hetzel.

Robert graduated from Rockville High School in 1952. He attended Yale University School of Chinese in order to qualify as a specialized interpreter for the United States Air Force in 1956. Bob left the U.S. Air Force approximately four years later and entered the Air Force Reserves until 1963. Robert enlisted in the United States Army. He received the Army Reserves Components Achievement Medal in 1983. He received the Army Commendation Medal for meritorious service in 1985. He was honorably discharged from the Army in 1986. Bob worked at Traveler's Research Center in Hartford and finished up his career working for the State of Connecticut: administrator, editor, and then grant editor. After retirement, he enjoyed working for nurseries. Upon moving to Manchester and buying their first home, Bob and Pat developed an organic, self-sustaining garden. Bob said it took him 20-plus years, but he "finally figured it out". For 12 years, Bob volunteered on the Hockanum River Linear Park Committee, a subcommittee of the Conservation Commission. Bob and Pat are also lifetime members of the Manchester Historical Society. He was a self-taught photographer, focusing in portraits, landscape, and nature photos. Photography was his passion. Bob was kind hearted and generous, and always willing to help. He is missed dearly by those whose hearts he touched. "Stay Warm and Dry."

Calling hours will be held at Holmes-Watkins Funeral Home Wednesday, Dec. 29, 2021, at 10 a.m., with services to follow at 11 a.m., Burial to follow at Hillstown Road Veteran Cemetery in Manchester.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Bob's memory to The Sierra Club or National Parks.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Journal Inquirer from Dec. 28, 2021 to Jan. 1, 2022.

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Judith Cassetti

May 4, 2022

I offer my heartfelt condolences to Bob´s family and friends. He and his loving wife have been my neighbors for 12 years. He was so very friendly, concerned, helpful and considerate. I have appreciated you, Bob.

Aura Perrica

December 28, 2021

Sara and Pat, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I love you both very much. xoxo

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Rebecca Rudloff

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Gene

December 28, 2021

Bob was my friend and brother all the way back to Roclkville High School..We shared many adventures and stories. I share you grief and wish I could be with you now. Many people here
In Tennessee are praying for your family. Diann and and I love you. Proud to be part of your family. Thankyou Sara and Pat for keeping us informed.

Barbara Michaud

December 28, 2021

Dear Sara, so sorry for your loss. You, Colin and your loved ones are in my prayers.

Erica Gilefsky Kyrouz

December 26, 2021

Thoughts and prayers to the Hetzel family. Sara love u!! Sorry I can´t be there to pay my condolences. I will be thinking about you all.

Craig Franklin

December 25, 2021

Pat, I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Anne and Kenan

December 25, 2021

Remembering him with love and sending condolences to everyone in his life, but especially to Pat, Sara and Colin. We will cherish his memory always!

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10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Holmes-Watkins Funeral Home - Manchester

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29

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11:00 a.m.

Holmes-Watkins Funeral Home - Manchester

400 Main Street, Manchester, CT 06040

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