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Michael Hogan Obituary

Hogan, Michael J. Age 37, of Oconomowoc, passed away Wednesday, October 24, 2007. Survived by his beloved wife Laura (nee Schiller); children Jack and Molly; parents Barbara (John) Ekins of Waukesha and Kenneth (Myong) Hogan of Puyallup, WA; brother and sisters Patrick (Lori) Hogan of Sullivan, Colleen (Troy) Hausser of Palmyra, Erin (Dean) Helmink of Sullivan; half-sister Kathleen Hogan of Puyallup, WA; step-brother and step-sister: Phillip (Kelly) Ekins of Sullivan, Emma Ekins of Leeds, England; father and mother-in-law: Steve and Mary Schilling of Dousman; brother and sisters-in-law Andrew (Jessica) Schilling of Milwaukee, Ann (David) Stluka of Castle Rock, CO, Jennifer Laack of Oconomowoc. Also survived by nieces, nephews, and other relatives and friends. Preceded in death by half-sister Jennifer Hogan. He graduated from Oconomowoc High School and Cardinal Stritch University. He was a commercial roofing designer at his business, Fountain Park Design. Funeral services Noon, Saturday, October 27, at the First Congregational United Church of Christ, 815 S. Concord Road, Oconomowoc. Interment LaBelle Cemetery. Friends may call from 10:00 AM to the Noon service at church. In lieu of flowers, memorials are suggested. PAGENKOPF FUNERAL HOME Oconomowoc 262-567-4457 www.pagenkopf.com

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Oct. 26, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
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Jason Wacker

October 28, 2008

Mike,

This has been one of the hardest years of my life, but the memories we shared together always bring a smile to my face. I know someday we will see each other again and our friendship will continue on like we were never apart.

I think about you and your family all the time and my prayers are with all of you. I don't know what the future will bring but I do know that Mike Hogan will never be forgotten.

a.j.

October 25, 2008

The Irish...
Be they kings, or poets, or farmers,
They're a people of great worth,
They keep company with the angels,
And bring a bit of heaven here to earth

Colleen Moran

October 24, 2008

Thinking of you, Hogie, your Laura, Jack and Molly, and your amazing Hogan family especially today. Words can not describe how much you are missed and loved.

We were blessed to say that Michael James Hogan was a friend of ours and how sad we all are for that loss.

We miss you to pieces.
Love, O's

October 24, 2008

One year has come and gone and still I miss you the same and think of you every single day with a smile and a tear. Know that you are missed and love.

When you are sorrowful
look into your heart
and you shall see that
you are weeping
for that which has been
your delight

Greg & Christine

October 24, 2008

We miss you. I think the rain that is coming down this morning might just be tears coming down from Heaven.

October 12, 2008

Mike, I would have thought that after close to year later it would be easier to handle your not being part of our lives. I was wrong. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and remember something of our life together. I miss you more than I expected to.
Pat

October 11, 2008

How sad I find the month of October, remembering all of the special times you had in this glorious month...and then thinking of that horrible day last year that changed all of our lives forever. I try to hold on to the happy times...camping, the ULS barn sale, your beautiful wedding, Halloween....all of those wonderful moments that have given us all so many great memories.

Miss you and think of you often.

Vickie Rock

October 9, 2008

We miss you.

Angela Schulz (Pickert)

October 7, 2008

Mike, You were missed at our 20th High School Reunion last weekend but I know you were there in spirit. There was a nice tribute slide show to remember you that brought lots of tears. Just thought your family might like to know that your many friends are still thinking of you fondly and very often.

Sue Anderson Schrank

October 7, 2008

We sure missed Mike at the Oconomowoc High School 20th Class Reunion Weekend. He was with us in spirit through many laughs, and even tears as we gave a small tribute to his life. Mike was a "Borrowed Angel" filled with such a beautiful soul that we all continue to love.

Mom

October 6, 2008

Hi Mike, You never cease to amaze me with all of the friends you had. We had a very successful golf outing and the people that attended were fantastic. John and I got to meet each one of the golfers because we sat on hole 12 selling raffle tickets. What nice and funny people you knew and I love them all. I miss you so much, Mike and can only know that you are always watching over us and praying for us as we do you. Take care and keep an eye on us as we head to Disney World with all of the kids and parents on your 10th anniversary and back to WI on the dreadful day we will always remember. I love you,

Mary Tandberg

September 8, 2008

Michael... what a glorious golf outing your famliy and friends participated in - in your honor!!!! Pat, Collen, Erin, Laura, Lori, your Mom and many others worked very hard and raised money for your children and a scholarship at Oconomowoc HS!!! We ended the day with a raucous version of "YMCA"....
laughing with you Mikey!!!
Love, Aunt Mary

May 8, 2008

Mikey,
I miss you soo much every day, and selfishly I wish you were here for me to talk to...because I know that you would be able to give me some solice in my life right now. You are one of the most understanding compassionate people that I have ever known and I talk to you on a daily basis. I pray that Laura, Jack and Molly find peace and know that I think of you every day.

Kelly

Jonathan Lukens

April 26, 2008

Mike -

We think about you everyday. Our thoughts and prayers are with you for everlasting peace and with your family & friends for healing power.

Love,
Jonathan & Krissy

Barb Ekins

April 24, 2008

Dear Michael,
Today makes six months since the awful accident, which was the worse day of my life. I thought it was hard when mom and dad died but losing a child is much harder. I loved you so much. I will always remember the closeness we had and how kind and caring you always were to John and me. There was never a time when you weren't around to help us when needed and I miss your beautiful smile. I keep hoping that soon it will get better and I will feel human again but for now I will keep talking to you in my prayers. I went to the gravesite today and the shamrock we put there on St Patty's day is just as bright and beautiful as it was then. Laura is doing okay but finds it such a struggle each day. She agrees that it doesn't get any easier and is doing the best she can with the kids. Just know that you are with me everyday and will be remembered in my prayers each night. I love you and miss you so much. Mom

anonymous

March 17, 2008

May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
The rains fall soft upon your fields
And, until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

Mike, we all love you and miss you so much. We will be drinking green beer with you today and know you'll be smiling down on us.

Erin Helmink

February 11, 2008

Dear Mike,
It has been almost 4 months now since your accident and I find that thoughts of you still consume so much of my day and all that I do. I wonder if there will ever be a day when I will talk about you without shedding a tear or if I can visit your grave without breaking down. I am sure that someday, it will get easier and I will be able to do both of those things. But, for now, we all need you to comfort us somehow and let us know that you are happy and that you will take care of us and find a way to move on with less pain and sorrow. Please give strength to us all, especially Mom, Laura and the kids. Know that we love and miss you terribly. Forever - your sister Erin.

Mary Tandberg

January 3, 2008

Michael- you are missed so much! The holidays were hard for all but luckily we have wonderful memories of you to keep us going and move through the pain....
Love,
Aunt Mary

Barbara Ekins

January 2, 2008

My Dearest Michael,
The holidays are over and I just wanted to let you know that we all made it through with very heavy hearts. It was so sad not having your happy face around to entertain all of us. We love you so much and still miss you terribly. I am trying to get my life back in order but all I think about it you. I find it very hard to do much of anything. My resolution for the new year is to try to get over the pain and move on to something productive. we met with some of your closest friends on the 29th and it was great therapy for all of us. I love you and will always miss you. All my love, Mom

carol morrow

November 23, 2007

To Mike's Family,
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Dick,Carol,Ryan&Richard
Morrow

Scott and Rachel Johnson

November 20, 2007

We wish there was something we could say or do to take away the pain.
Mike was a great person with a kind heart. He left an impression on everyone he met. He lived life to the fullest and made us all want to do the same.
Mike was an amazing husband, father, brother, son, and friend. For this he will always be remembered.
Know that we are here for you and that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Scott, Rachel, Max, and Alex

Ed Wierzbicki

November 16, 2007

Dear Hogan Family,
I was a classmate of Mike's and he truly was one the special people we graduated from Ocon with. I like everyone have really positive memories of Mike. This past summer Mark Koch and I ran into Mike at his church where he volunteered for the Trek 100. We arrived at this stop in the cold and rain and we were immediately greeted by a smiling Mike. Mike introduced us to his great son Jack and we shared funny stories of simpler times and updated each other on the course of our lives.

Mike told us about his family, the business, his church and that everything was going very well. He indicated how much he enjoyed running into people he had not seen in a while and updated us on friends we inquired about that he was still in contact with. Everyone was doing well. The time we spent together of course was not long enough and we made the tragic mistake of saying we needed to get together soon to have a drink and catch up. Who would of thought that "soon" would turn into "never"!

Mark and I left the rest stop and I remember being so genuinely happy for Mike and his family. I thought about him and our conversation that day and some pretty funny moments ran through my memory.

My heart breaks for the family and Mike's really close friends. Words will never take away the pain, but so many positive memories and an unexpected encounter will forever stick with me. We lost a good guy who I wish we could have had that drink with. I know it would have been time well spent.

Kathy McCarty

November 15, 2007

Dear Barb, John, Erin, Colleen, Pat and the rest of the clan

I cannot begin to know how devasted you must be to have Mike ripped from your lives so unexpectedly. The void must seem insurmountable. Mike was such a large presence.

I know what a loving family you are. Lean on one another for strength. Include his presence in your holiday gatherings. He would want to be there in your thoughts. We lost our 21 year old grandson unexpectedly in January of 2004. We try to bring stories of the joy he gave us to help ease the loss. May you be able to do the same in time.

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. We have been truly blessed to have your family be a part of our lives. Thank you for sharing Mike with us.

Kathy & Ken McCarty

Sue & Pete Pipp

November 13, 2007

Barb & John & family,
I know nothing can take away the pain and sorrow you are going through. Remember all the good times that you had with Mike. He is your guardian angel and will be watching over you now. God Bless you!

Love Pete & Sue

Mike and Kathy Sieren

November 13, 2007

We offer our prayers
and our deepest sympathies.

Lisa Weber

November 11, 2007

Colleen, My deepest sympathies to you and your family. From the guest book entries and the photo album I can see what a wonderful man Mike was and what a beautiful life he lived. May God ease your pain during this difficult time.

Amber Wise

November 7, 2007

Dear Laura, Molly & Jack,
I was Molly's teacher at St. Paul's Day Care a few years back. Molly was just a baby then, and Jack was about four. She is such a cute little girl. I am so deeply sorry to hear of your loss. Mike seemed like a great man and an amazing father. Just wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless...

Chris Blackman

November 7, 2007

Only knew Mike for a short time. Met him a the YMCA. He was extremely kind and friendly. He talked non stop about his beautiful wife and children. I was extremely shocked and sad to hear of his passing.
My thoughts and prayer are with you.

Sara Sager-Lehner

November 4, 2007

My dear friend Colleen and the Hogan family-
I have fond memories of Mike. Colleen and I attended Whitewater and made a few trips to visit Mike at school. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Mike was a wonderful, fun-loving and caring man with many special gifts. My heart goes out to you all, especially Laura, Jack and Molly, too. Please know how wonderful he was, my prayers are with you.
Sara Sager-Lehner

Mary Lou Lemke

November 3, 2007

My brother Richard and I always were at the Hogan house in summer time. We called him "Chrysler". My heart felt sympathy goes out to his family.

Erica Adamczyk

November 2, 2007

Family of Michael Hogan
I go to school with Colleen so I have never meet Michael but my prayers and greatest sympathy are with you all.

Sarah (Mullins) Griffiths

November 2, 2007

Dear Family and Friends of Mike,
My deepest sympathy to you. Mike was a couple of years behind me at St. Norbert College and we were acquainted through working at a restaurant near campus. Although we didn't know each other well or keep in touch, I remember Mike as fun, hard-working, and kind. He was a supportive co-worker when, during that time, my dad became ill and passed away. I knew Mike as a great guy when we were in our early 20s; it seems he only got better with the years. I'm very saddened for you that Mike has passed from this life. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Christine & Greg Lisiak

November 2, 2007

Dear Laura,
I am so sorry. I so much want to be able to take away your pain. We pray for you every night. Avery said to me after we prayed one night "God and Molly's Daddy get to watch us from Heaven now". Mike will always be here...in our memories and in the beautiful faces of Jack and Molly. We love you!!

John & Janet (Humphrey) Chupka

November 1, 2007

Dear Laura and family,

We just can't seem to find the words to express the depth of our sadness. Mike was a genuinely good person who made the world around him a better place. We are thankful for Mike's friendship and will carry his memory in our hearts forever. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers and we are only a knock or a call away.

Ann Kratzer

November 1, 2007

Dear Laura, Jack, Molly, Barb, Pat, Colleen, and Erin,
Some people live to be 80 and don't receive as much love as Mike did from all of you. He was lucky to have you all in his life. As lucky as he was to have all of you, he gave back so much. I feel so blessed to have known him for almost 25 years. He was so fun to be with and kind and caring beyond words. There isn't anything I can say that hasn't already been said. He was one in a million and I will never forget how much I enjoyed being around him. My family and I pray for you all daily. I hope you find strength in knowing so many care.
Ann(Goral) and David Kratzer, Joey and Nicholas

Greig and Barb Moravec

October 31, 2007

We can not express in words how deeply deeply deeply sorry we are for the loss of Mike. We miss him terribly as well as everyone that had the gift of knowing him and loving him. We think about you daily Laura and of Jack and Molly. There are no words to help take your pain away but know that we are here.

Heidi Gennerman

October 31, 2007

Dear Hogan family,
I was so sorry to hear the news. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Mary Jo DeCoster (Wharton)

October 30, 2007

I can't express my feelings Mike. I haven't seen you in a few years, but always thought of you as an old college friend that I would see again. I am very sad. You always made me laugh at St. Norbert. I just can't say how deeply sad I am that you aren't here anymore. Based on the beautiful song at the funeral "I Can Only Imagine," I know that you are with God and you are having a great time. You will be forever missed in my heart. I know your cracking people up where you are now!

Jake Czarnik-Neimeyer

October 30, 2007

Dear Laura, Jack, Molly and the rest of the family;

On behalf of the Alumni Community at St. Norbert College please accept our prayers and deepest sympathy. We are very sorry for your loss and want you to know the St. Norbert Community is holding your family in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. May Perpetual Light shine upon Mike.

God Bless,

Jake Czarnik-Neimeyer
Director of Alumni/Parent Relations
St. Norbert College

Emma Ekins

October 30, 2007

To Laura, Jack and Molly,
We are so sorry that this horrible accident happened and took Mike away from us all. You always think that this only happens to other peoples' families.

Mike was a very special man and he will truly be missed by all who were lucky enough to have had him in their lives.

You are all in our thoughts.

All our love
Emma and Steve (Leeds, England)

Jane (Frigge) Springhuth

October 30, 2007

Mike was truely one of a kind. I have also known him since St. Jerome's and have a lot of great memories. I only ran into him a few times after high school, but as others have said, we would talk like no time had pasted, like I last talked to him last week and not years ago. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Mike's family and friends.

Anne and Graham Walker

October 30, 2007

To Laura, Jack and Molly

Whenever we met Mike he always had a smile on his face, he was always cheerful and made us feel welcome. We have fond memories of him trying to explain to us the rules of American Football on one of our visits. This will be his legacy to us.

He was one of the nicest people that we have ever met and it just doesn't seem fair that he lost his life at such a young age

Laura, you and all the family must be missing Mike so much, we hope that you can all be strong for each other. He may have been taken from you all but no-one can ever take away the love he had for you or the special memories that you shared.

Someone so special will never be forgotten.

Barbara Midthun

October 30, 2007

Words cannot express the sadness and emptiness all who knew Mike are feeling at this time. Seeing all the people that came to pay their respects, was amazing, and proved how loved Mike and is family are. I feel I am truly blessed to have known Mike, and the entire Hogan family. I think of you all daily and hope you are coping as best you can. Memories are the best medicine. I love you all! Barbara Midthun

Kathy Zwirgzdas

October 30, 2007

To the Hogan Family,

We had the wonderful opportunity to work with Mike. He helped us with our roofing projects for the school district, and helped to make the place kids went to school safe, secure, and healthy. I will greatly miss a relationship with someone I worked with whom I knew I could trust.

All of our sympathies.

Clinton Community School District.

Kathleen Sweeney

October 30, 2007

Hogan Family,

I just found out today that Mike had passed away. I am so sorry. I don't even know where to start with all of the great stories. We grew up together and Mike, like everyone says, was definitely the life of the room. I am beyond words. Mike was a wonderful, wonderful person and that will be carried forward in everyone he knew.

God Bless

Tina Juneau

October 29, 2007

It was heartbreaking to hear this news, and I was devestated that I was out of town and could not attend the services. I know that among the deep sorrow and tears, that sharing all the memories of Mike would have brought many smiles and much laughter. Mike was one of the best there was. It is so sad to have lost him so soon. I pray for his family and all who knew him well that in time the memories of him will comfort this loss. In sympathy, Tina Juneau

October 29, 2007

She said she usually cried at least once a day....not because she was sad, but because the world was so beautiful and life was so short.

October 29, 2007

"Most people don't know that there are angels whose only job is to make sure you don't get too comfortable and fall asleep and miss your life"

Mikey is this angel for us all now!

Carrie Larabee

October 29, 2007

Colleen and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know Mike I had only heard stories from Colleen and I know that he was loved so much by his whole family. The Hogans that I have meant are great people so I can only imagine how great Mike was. Reading what everyone has written I am sure would make him very proud. My heart goes out to his beautiful wife and children.

You are in our prayers.
Jason, Carrie, Nick and Abby Larabee

Peggy Flynn- Armstrong

October 29, 2007

Dear Hogan Family,

I am not sure that I even know what to say. I haven't had a day since I heard the news that I didn't cry. I do hold a little peace in my heart knowing that he is taking care of all of us up in heaven as he did down on earth. I was a classmate from St. Jerome's as well but Mike has always been someone that I could talk to at anytime whether we had just seen each other or it had been a few months. We just could start talking. How many people can you actually say you have that sort of a relationship with? I think that the majority of Mike's friends had that same relationship according to everything that has been written. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for any of you. You are all in my prayers. I apologize for not making it to the funeral - I had taken my mom down to my sisters in North Carolina and couldn't make it back in time. Gary said it was a beautiful tribute.
Love,
Peggy or eg-pe as Mike would call me.

Laura Hehr

October 29, 2007

Laura, I am so thankful for all the people who showed their support for you, Jack, Molly and the rest of your family Saturday. It is a testament to the wonderful man Mike is.
The kindness of Mikes smile and the warmth that he portrayed when you were around him will always be remembered. I am so sad that we will not have the opportunity to come over for lunch and have Mike join the girls for afternoon laughs & hugs in princess costumes. Mike was truly one of the good guys and all who knew him felt it! We are blessed to have known him & to have you in our lives. You will always be in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. Know you and the kids are loved and that I will always be here for you!
Love Laura, Bill, Nev & Kylie Hehr

Jason Wacker

October 29, 2007

Dear Laura, Jack, Molly and the rest of the family;

I, like you, am broken hearted at the loss of one of my closest and dearest friends. I will always cherish our times together and will never forget. Even though we weren't related, Mike was a brother to me. I am so lucky to have known him.

Mike and I always wanted our families to stay close through the years and often talked about how great it would be if our children could someday become close friends like us. I will make every effort to remain close to your whole family and do whatever I can to ease your pain. Mike would of done the same for me.

Mike and I shared a closeness that only a few in this world ever get to experience and I wouldn't have traded that for all the money in the world. I am truly blessed to have known him. Friends Forever.

Mikey, I will miss you with all my heart.

Lisa (Thode) Leveille

October 29, 2007

Dear Laura, Barb, Pat, Colleen, Erin and the rest of Mike's family,

I was so sad to hear of what happened and still truly can't comprehend what has occurred. I am so sorry and think of you often. I have been trying to sympathize some how, some way but realized that no one can truly understand all that you are going through.I do know this:
Heb 4:15-16 For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin.
Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
Also know this:
Ps 147:3-5
He heals the brokenhearted
And binds up their wounds. He counts the number of the stars;
He gives names to all of them.
Great is our Lord and abundant in strength;
His understanding is infinite.

I am so thankful of the memories we do have with Mike. It is true not one comes without a smile. I went and found our 8th grade St. Jeromes stapled "paper" yearbook (yes, I still have it) and looked up Mike. Here's what is said:
Nickname: (Hog's --long O sound)
Fav sport: football
Fav subject: math
Fav movie: Last Unicorn
Hobbies/int: sports
Person most admired: Capt Kangaroo
Future goal: own a restaurant
Always making us laugh...

My husband and I will continue to keep all of you in prayer.
Num 6:24-26
The LORD bless you, and keep you;
The LORD make His face shine on you,
And be gracious to you;
The LORD lift up His countenance on you,
And give you peace.'

Beverly Schmitt

October 29, 2007

Laura,
I was shocked and sad when I heard the news today. We have never met, but Mike spoke of you and your children often. He was very proud. I did the bookwork for him at D&M Bookkeeping. He was always in a good mood when he stopped in. I was in your shoes just about 2 years ago now. I was also left a widow at the age of 31 with a 2 year old and 7 months pregnant. Mike was so caring and always let me know he would help if I needed anything. I could tell his faith was strong. I want to encourage you through this difficult time. By the grace of God, I am making it and take things day by day. Look to your family, friends, and God to carry you through. Hold onto those beautiful children you and Mike were blessed with. You will continue to see him in them. May the love you shared and memories you created comfort you. I extend my phone number to you if you need anything or just to cry. Don't be afraid to ask for help, the outreach of loving and caring people will amaze you. In my prayers, Bev (920-474-3694)

Sheryl & Darren Enders

October 29, 2007

Laura, Molly, Jack, and the rest of the Hogan family--

I a so sorry this happened to such a wonderful person, husband, father, son, brother and friend. I wish I could do or say more to help get past the hurdles that have presented themselves and especially the ones that are yet to come.

You all are such wonderful people, and that is evident from the outpouring of love you received in the last several days.

Please remember to give each other hugs, and to ask for them as well.

Mike Bentheimer

October 28, 2007

Dear Hogan Family,

Where do I begin other than to say what a wonderful husband, father, son, and friend Mike has been to so many people.
While Mike and I had not been in contact for many years after High School I received a call from Mike a few years back. It took me all of two seconds to recognize Mike's voice and the smile that was always behind it. We were St. Jerome alums and as I am sure I can speak for the class of 84, we were a close knit group of friends in those days.
I know that by all these wonderful words by old and new friends his spirit will continue to live in all of us.
God bless all of you for sharing him with us. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Charlie & Wendy Beck

October 28, 2007

To the family of Mike Hogan,

Mike was a great friend, and there are many memories that will always bring a smile to our faces.

He touched so many in so many ways and we will miss him.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time in your lives.

Sincerely, Charlie and Wendy Beck

Colleen O'Neil Moran

October 27, 2007

Dear Laura, Jack and Molly and the great big Hogan family -

Since I heard about this devastating news on Wednesday, I have been heartbroken for your loss, and all of us who were lucky enough to call Michael James Hogan our friend. I think this is the first time in the 23 years I have known him, that I have been sad when his name is mentioned. He made everyone happy and I think that is why this is so hard to understand.

Mike selflessly volunteered at the MACC Fund's Trek 100 last June when the rest stop was at his church. He asked if it would be ok to bring his kids, to teach them about helping others. He was a wonderfully devoted husband and father. He also told me about his bible study on Friday mornings, and his faith is a great comfort to me now.

May God be merciful and gentle with your soul, Rabbi Hogan. May God comfort your dear family during this terribly difficult time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Colleen and Paul Moran

Bill and Lois Jackson

October 27, 2007

Dearest Laura, Jack and Molly.
We were in Philadelphia when we received the news of the accident. The only way to describe our feelings were those of shock, sorrow and disbelief. When I told Bill he just wouldn't believe it. We tried to change our airline reservations so we could hurry home but it just wasn't possible. Mike was such a very special friend, a great example of what a loving husband and father should be. Even though we haven't known you for many years all four of you hold a very loving place in our hearts. Even in the times of deep tragedy, know that God is Good and He will keep loving arms around you. Your church family is so much richer and enriched by the Hogan family. Keep all your loving memories of Mike in your hearts and he will always be a part of your lives. And remember God's Promise of Easter, We will all be together again one day.
Much love and caring, Bill and Lois

Michelle Roelandts

October 27, 2007

To the Hogan Family,
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Mike was a wonderful, loving person who made everyone want to be his friend, because he always cared so deeply. So many people came to the service today because he was just so loved. All the way back in St Jerome's, he was the one everyone was drawn to, the friend everyone wanted, and the boy who made everyone smile. The depth of your loss has no words, but know that Mike left behind many who will miss his smiling face.

Colleen, my grade school friend, I wish I could have given you a hug today, but there was not enough time with so many people there for your brother. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers for a long time to come. I am so sorry.

Colleen EVANS-CARTER

October 27, 2007

Barb, I know the loss of a child is high heavy burden for a mother to carry. My heart and soul go out to you. God Bless all of you through this difficult time.

Colleen Evans-Carter

Dave and Kerry Robbins

October 27, 2007

I first met Mike 13 years ago when I first met my wife Kerry. It was my first time meeting her friends at Casa Rebecca. A few days later I saw Mike out in town, and although I had only met him a few days before as he tended bar in a busy restaurant he remembered my name - "Hey Dave, how's it goin'?" That sums it up. He was a nice man, and good guy. He was always ready with a smile, and a hello when we saw him.
When Kerry and I first heard of his death we wondered "Why Mike?" He was a good person, a father, and husband. Why? We think God needed another good one as an angel, and it was time for him to be called.
He will be missed.

October 27, 2007

Laura,

We were shocked and saddened when Rick (Rundell) told us of Mike's tragic accident, and please know that we will keep you, your children, and your entire family in our daily thoughts and prayers during this extremely difficult time.

God's Comfort and Peace to All!

Wendy, Bill, TJ, and Dylan Krivoshein

Tom and Teri Kempinski

October 27, 2007

Our sympathy and prayers go out to all the families, freinds and relatives that have been touched in the loss of one you loved. We're wishing you comfort and peace in the beautiful memories you will keep in your hearts forever...

Theresa Martin

October 27, 2007

Dear Laura, Jack and Molly,
My heart goes out to you at this time of disbelief and sadness. I know this is easier said than done, but may the love and support from family and friends help to ease your pain and give you the strength you need from day to day.
Love,
Theresa and Autumn Martin

JUDY MOEN

October 27, 2007

TO THE HOGANS AND THE TANDBERGS-I WAS NOT ONE OF THE LUCKY ONES THAT KNEW MIKE, BUT I DO KNOW THE TANDBERGS AND I KNOW THE LOVE THAT IS IN THEIR ENTIRE FAMILY...I HAVE READ THE NOTES ABOVE AND BELIEVE MIKE WAS BLESSED BY HIS FAMILY AND BLSSED HIS FAMILY BY BEING A PART OF IT. I KNOW THERE IS A VOID, BUT I PRAY THAT THE LOVE IN THE FAMILY WILL EMBRACE YOU ALL AS GOD SEES YOU THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME. AND AS TIME EASES THE PAIN YOUR MEMORY OF HIM WILL ONLY BRING WONDERFUL WARM FEELINGS. MAY GOD AND HIS ANGELS BE WITH YOU ALL.

Sonia Wacker

October 27, 2007

To all the Hogans-
You are an amazing family. We have been so blessed and lucky to spend time with all of you throughout the years. Jason & I love you all & see Mike's light & spirit shining in each one of you. We are here for anything you need and our prayer are always with you. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us.
Love, Sonia Jason, Madeline, and Calvin Wacker

Joel Reinders

October 27, 2007

Mike, you've made it difficult to mourn as every time I think of you, I can only smile. I'm certain others are going through the same thing. I am very grateful that our paths crossed again these past couple of years with playing soccer together and the St. Jerome's reunion. Reliving those many moments made them seem like yesterday. You made me laugh till my stomach hurt-just as it was when we were young. People huddled around you because of that gift. You even managed to make the nuns smile, once thought to be an impossible feat. A light has gone out in the world, but I promise you the light you've given me will always be here. Goodbye, my friend.

Mike loved his cap from Ireland that he's wearing in this picture

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Brewer game for John's birhday

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Mike, Laura, Jack and Molly

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Mike and his son, Jack. Pat and his son, Sean. Proud dads.

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Mike, Laura, Pat, Lori, Erin, Dean, Colleen, Troy

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WalkAmerica 2007

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Mike, Colleen and Luke

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WalkAmerica 2005

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Mike and his mom

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Kastner/Ekins/Hogan family

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The love of Mike's life

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Halloween 2006

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Mike and nephew, Luke.

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dads

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Amy (Glorioso) May

October 27, 2007

Dear Hogan Family,

My memories of Mike are primarily childhood ones, stemming back to our days on High Street. He did show up at a campus bar one night while I was a student at MU... what fun! If memory serves me right, the owner didn't kick us all out until nearly sunrise!

My heart aches for your loss. May God hold you close and faith bring you strength. In time, may memories soothe you and bring you great peace. God Bless!

Susan Kastner

October 26, 2007

My dear Michael - there are no words to express how sad I am right now. I have wonderful memories of you at our family holiday gatherings, our card games, etc. You were definitely the life of the party. Life will be different without you, but certainly better because of you. Thank you Mike, I am very proud to be your aunt. You will always be in my heart, I will never forget you, I love you. Aunt Sue
Laura, Jack and Molly - we are here for you and you are in our prayers. Love, Aunt Sue

Sheila (Sussek) Mroz

October 26, 2007

We are all so blessed to have shared even a small part of Mike's life. I will never forget the kindness and humor that Mike shared during our high school days. Though I haven't seen him in years, my heart is truely saddened. I pray that his family can find comfort in his love for them and your many cherished memories. You are in our families prayers.

Lori Hogan

October 26, 2007

Mike, you were a wonderful brother-in-law and a great friend. I loved to watch you with the kids, yours, mine, the neighbors. It didn't matter who was there, you were always in the middle of them playing, laughing and totally enjoying them. You will be missed so much I can not put it into words. To have loved your family and your life as much as you did is an inspiration to the rest of us. I hurt not only for my family, but for yours. Laura was not only your wife but your best friend. I promise we will do all we can to help her, Jack, and Molly, in any way they need. Love you.

Vickie & Pat Rock

October 26, 2007

Hogan Family, Our hearts are heavy as we mourn your loss along with so many others. I find myself crying tears of sadness, quickly followed by tears of laughter as stories are recalled and memories shared. That was Mike's gift, he knew how to make us laugh. The love he had for Laura was genuine and the pride he had for his kids, immeasurable. He may be gone in body, but his sprit lives on in his family and friends by honoring his memory. You were a good friend Mike and we are so grateful to have shared many a laugh with you.

Kathleen (Rausch) Meskin

October 26, 2007

Although we have not seen each other in many years, Mike was truly the big brother that I didn't have. Through St. Jerome's and Oconomowoc High School, he was always there to make feel like someone was watching out for me. I feel so incredibly lucky to have had him in my life, even for such a short time. When I read how people wrote than when Mike walked into a room, he lit it up--it was true. I just remember him happy--and wanting to share that with everyone. Laura, I am so sorry for your loss. Mrs. Hogan, Colleen, Pat, and Erin, please know that Mike will be missed--my memories of him will be with me always.

Nathan Conkling

October 26, 2007

We only had the privilidge of spending a short time with you Mike, but your warm and caring heart touch our lives and your smile we will never forget.

Your visit to Florida for golf and a few days of well deserved fun will always be a special memory for us. We are honored to have shared that time with you...

God Bless You and Your Family,

Nathan & Darlene Conkling

Karen & Joe George

October 26, 2007

Laura, Jack, Molly & the rest of the family,
Mike was just one of the first of your family that welcomed us in as if we'd been a part of your family forever, and we will never forget that. I have been going through my memories of our times with Mike, and in every memory of him I have, he is smiling, or laughing, or making someone else smile or laugh. I cannot begin to tell you how profoundly sorry we are for your loss, and how although we knew him only a couple of years, we will dearly miss him right along with all of you.

Please know we are here for you, and that you are in our thoughts.

Karen, Joe, Nate & Katie George

Kelly ekins

October 26, 2007

Dear Laura,

I just want you to know how truly special you are to me and everyone in our family, and know that we are all here for you to lean on today, tomorrow and forever!

Mike was more than just my cousin, he was my brother, my confidant and most importantly a dear dear friend that I will think of and miss every day of my life.

You and Jack and Molly are enveloped now and forever by Mike's love and the love of your family.

Love,
Kelly

Timothy Sidders

October 26, 2007

News of the tragedy left me numb...even though we lost touch over the years, Mike was one friend you could always count on no matter the time or the distance that may have pasted. I truly cannot express how deeply saddened I am for his famliy and to know that the world will not be the same without him with us.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.

Mike and I were classmates at St. Jerome's and throughout high school. One of my fondest memories I will cherish, would be of the times we spent making a sail out of a sheet and fastening it to a couple of hockey sticks...We would hold the sticks and "sail" with our ice skates on from one end of the frozen lake to the other....He was a good friend and will truly be missed..
Please let me know if there is anything that I can do to help...no matter what.
The Sidders Family

Kelley O'Brien

October 26, 2007

Mike's kind and gentle spirit touched many lives. May an abundance of fond memories be shared with you and bring you some peace in this time of loss.

J Stemplewski

October 26, 2007

Hogans and Tandbergs...What can we say that has not already been said! all that knew Mike will miss him. Mike gave from the heart and he helped John and Jason thru their first really hard days after Maryann died in July. I wish we could be there. Know that you have our prayers and anything you need, just call. These holidays coming up will be very hard. Know that Mike and MAryann will be toasting us in heaven. LOve John Jason and Jan

Erin Helmink (Hogan)

October 26, 2007

My Dearest Brother,
I have never felt more love than the love you had for me. You always kept me in line and always watched out for me and protected me. Growing up without a father, you quickly filled that void and although I may have not welcomed your opinion at times, I am forever grateful that God put you in my life. There is a pain in my heart that will heal with time, but the memories I have with you will last forever. I hope that this time gets easier because right now the pain is unbearable. I know that you are up in heaven watching over me and the girls. Please give us strength to get through this horrible time. I love you with all my heart. And know that I will be there for Laura and the kids always. Love-Erin

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