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Pamela Webster Obituary

Pamela K. Webster

Webster, Pamela K. passed away August 16, 2020 at the age of 56 years. Loving mother of William & Nathan Zolecki. Beloved sister to Deanne (Dave) Meier & Mark (Ryan Brown) Webster. Preceded in death by mother Carol & father Marty Webster. Surrogate mother to many & friend to countless others who will all miss her passion, fierce loyalty & sharp wit. This 1982 graduate of South Milwaukee captained the cheerleading squad, served as Homecoming Queen & gave the commencement address for her class. However, her greatest accomplishment was her sons, her greatest gift was her humor & her deepest regret will be not seeing the end of the Trump administration from this world. The family is planning a small private service.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Aug. 19 to Aug. 20, 2020.

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David

February 16, 2022

Awww. he´s coming back, 2024! Wish you were here to see it happen.

mel huber

October 11, 2020

was awonderfull woman and a friend l had a short time ,love and miss u she was a die hard

Toni Higgins

September 10, 2020

My sincere condolence's to the family of Pam especially her sons. Her life revolved around her boys. I worked with Pam at Midwest Airlines and flew with her for about 20 years. She always had a smile on her face and took great pride in her work. She will truly be missed.

Steve Rosenthal

September 9, 2020

Hi Deanne and entire Webster Family. I am so very sorry for your loss. Pam and I were friends at Midwest airlines and worked and socialized on many occasions. I have very fond memories of Pam and will miss her. God bless, Steve Rosenthal

Barbara Zalar

September 1, 2020

My sincere condolences to the family of Pam,especially her son's . I have fond memories of watching our boys play basketball. I am so sorry for you loss.

Jaclyn Nikolaus

August 24, 2020

I just wanted to extend my condolences. Pam was a wonderful person and I loved my time with her as her SDPC nurse. She spoke of you all often. she was very proud of her boys and spend most of the time talking about them and giving me advice on my boys. I loved her and will miss her greatly.

Steve Goldberg

August 24, 2020

Deanne, Mark and families,
Pam was such a wonderful and unique person. I always felt good after I talked with her. She helped ease the pain a little after Jan died. I can imagine the pain you feel

Rebecca Banks

August 23, 2020

Dear Mark, Deanne and families,
I just wanted to share my deepest sympathy with you. Your sister Pam had a great personality and a great smile and she is definitely gone too soon.

Rhonda Ronsman

August 22, 2020

I have been trying to find the right words to describe Pam. I had some interaction with her over the last 8 years, but not as much as I wish I would have.

What I remember was the moments when her heart was bare. When she would talk about what really mattered to her and how she wanted to help others. We talked all of the time about that not so long ago. Then, I remember when I was having a tough time, and I went to her apartment to hang out and talk. She made me feel valuable. She had a way of doing that. Giving you the ability to see the best parts of who you are, when so many point out the worst, most of which isn’t true.

What I also know is that she loved Will and Nathan. Her kids mean everything to her. Everything.

This has taught me some valuable lessons. I hear you Pam. I’m listening. You will never be forgotten.

To Deanne, Mark, Will and Nathan - she is met with love and open arms. I pray that you all find peace in knowing that love ensures that no one ever leaves.

I also want to thank Pam for making sure that the entire Webster family came to my last gig at Blu in the middle of a snow storm:) they have always made me feel like family:)

Rich and Patti Kaczanowski

August 22, 2020

Dee Dee, Mark and Families:
Rich and I were devastated to learn of Pam’s death. We have so many happy memories, too numerous to mention, of our times with the whole Webster Family. Just know that our thoughts are with all of you at this sad time.

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Marilyn (Dembiec)Barthel

August 20, 2020

My dear second cousin, Pam, tears fill my eyes as a write this. A family gathering growing up usually meant going to your grandparents home, Maude and Bill's. Hanging out with the "big kids " playing gin rummy or sheepshead, leaving us younger ones to play and socialize was just awesome. Deanne, Pam, Mark, and Marilyn. I would laugh cause you 3 called me "waitress ". As we became adults and moved on with our lives, I will always remember when I would return to Wisconsin to visit my mom (Peggy) She would drive me to Carol's house for a backyard barbecue. I would have my camera with me. The pictures I have are priceless. One thing I shared with Pam. We were both born on February 7th. 3 years as part. To Deanne, Dave, Mark, Ryan, William,and Nathan, My heartfelt condolences. My arms reach out from Texas to Wisconsin to hug and hold you. God got a angel. Thank you Pam. Rest in peace.

Seamus

August 20, 2020

Such happy memories rest in peace.

Brian J Fleury

August 20, 2020

I call Pamela the most intelligent and dedicated woman when it came to her political views.
I loved hrr for that because we'd go back and forth. Her diehard DEMOCRAT Loyalty.
Myself Brian Fleury a diehard not so much Republican, but an American patriot that loves my Constitution and flag.Our talks would get pretty tuff Pamela's loyalty vs my loyally. Two opposite ends of the spectrum.
But putting that aside at the end we respected each other at the end. I sent her some of my photographs I've taken up here in Shawano, wi.
Pamela said I could make a lot of money selling them for interior design decoration. I believed Pamela, I sent her over a hundred photo's and her response was these are beautiful you really have an eye!
I was good friends of her late dad Marty. Marty and i worked for South Milwaukee Recreation. He umpired and at 13 years old I was a scorekeeper for city softball games. Marty told me how much he loved his kids every day we worked together for over 10 yesrs. In that time he worked for my ball diamond as the umpire.Me as his supervisor!
He was a mentor for me growing up without a
dad. I always told that story to Pamela. She loved our conversations and now she's in our prayers and forever memories!
I will think of you always Pamela and never forget that admiration I had for as A GREAT WOMAN AND LEADER in my lifetime!
So I chose to TITLE one of your favorite photographs AFTER YOU CALLED
"PAMELA "
This picture shows your wonderful personality
Loyalty
Dedication
Your warmth
And your BEAUTY!
RIP KID I'LL THINK OF YOU AND THOSE GREAT TIMES THROUGH THIS PHOTO!

Kari Ance

August 20, 2020

I recall Pam being a beautiful and amazing person. I knew her from school in South Milwaukee. It is wonderful and special community and city to have grown up in, of which her and her whole family experienced and contributed as well. Many prayers and hugs to her family.

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