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Tom Cianciolo Obituary
Brookfield - Cianciolo, Tom "Tommy" John, of Brookfield, entered God's loving arms on Friday, December 11, 2020. Tommy was born on October 29, 1944 in Santo Stefano, Sicily to the late Calogero and Serafina Cianciolo. As a young boy, Tommy and his family came to America via Ellis Island and settled on the East Side of Milwaukee. His strong Sicilian heritage led Tommy to work hard in his pursuit of the American dream and become the proud owner of ABC Vending for over 25 years. Although Tommy loved Balistreri's pizza, dancing, and reminiscing about pickup games at Cass St. playground, there was nothing he loved more than his 4 children. He was there to cheer them on during their sporting events, twirl them around the dance floor, and support them in all of their pursuits, of which he was so incredibly proud. Tommy was preceded in death by his parents and brother, John. He is survived by his wife of 33 years, Susan (née Ligocki); sisters, Nina and Fina; brother, Libby; daughters, Sally, Danielle (Joe Thorpe) and Carolyn; son, Nicholas; grandson, Harrison Thorpe; and many sisters- and brothers-in-law, cousins, nieces and nephews. Tommy's family is grateful for all of the physicians and nurses that have cared for him over the years, especially those at St. Luke's Hospital. Tommy will be dearly missed but will live on in the hearts of his children and all those who loved him. Please join the family in celebrating Tommy's life on Tuesday, December 22, 2020, with the eulogy starting at 9:45am and a Memorial Mass at 10:00am at St. John Vianney Catholic Church (1755 N. Calhoun Rd. Brookfield, WI 53045). The service will be livestreamed on Youtube (https://youtu.be/aTC-srLGHWQ). Tommy will join his parents at Holy Cross Cemetery and Mausoleum.
In lieu of flowers, please consider becoming an organ donor and giving the gift of life, a gift Tommy was so fortunate to receive. To make a monetary donation to St. Luke's organ donation foundation in Tommy's honor, go to www.aurorahealthcarefoundation.org, click 'give now' on the top right, select 'other' in the program section and write in 'transplant.' Please use [email protected] for the notification email address.
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Memories and Condolences
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MARK FLESSAS / MR MARCO
December 10, 2023
TOMMY WAS MY INSPIRATION ON MANY LEVELS BACK IN THE EARLY 70'S & BEYOND !!
HE WAS MY ROCKY & I TOLD HIM ON MANY OCCASIONS HOW RESPECTED HE WAS IN MY LIFE.
BUT REMEMBER THIS..
NO BODY. DIES !!
Don Janowski
January 13, 2021
My condolences for your families loss, I pray that you find solace in the memory of the good times you have shared together and the anticipation of meeting again in gods kingdom.
John and Marlene Brinn
December 22, 2020
So sorry to hear of your families loss. We lived next to Tom and Sue for 24 years. Such a nice family. Their children are so wonderful to have honored Tom in such a dignified way.
Ray and Kathie Ambrose
December 22, 2020
Thank you for providing the service to honor Tommy's life. Your service for Tommy was amazing. His children did a magnificent job of honoring him. The Priest's words were phenomenal and given with such warmth. God Bless you all.
Connie and Ronn LaBrasca
December 22, 2020
Beautiful ceremony for Tommy. We are very sorry for your loss and hope you are able to find joy in your memories. Wishing you all peace and comfort. Connie and Ronn
Kathy Chenault
December 21, 2020
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I met Tommy when I worked at Citgo of New Berlin. I was also his seamstress and sad I hadn't heard from him in awhile. God's blessings to all for your comfort during this difficult time.
John Caputa
December 20, 2020
To the family Tommy, Please accept my deepest sympathy on Tommy's passing. An old friend of my day's at cass st. playground on the east side. I remember him riding on his bike, wearing his motor cycle cap, wanting to be Johnny in the "Wild One" Great times and great memories. Thanks Tommy
Frank and Robin Busalacchi
December 20, 2020
We smile when we remember meeting at St. Joe's when Danielle and our son Andy were born on the same day. (Of course, Frank knew Tommy before that.) Love, prayers and our sympathy to your family.
John Trinitapoli
December 19, 2020
Tom will always be the"big bopper"
Always a smile & a hug
Jerry Bohacek
December 19, 2020
Your dad was a wonderful caring man . I have known your dad since we were freshman at Messmer. First as home room classmates to basketball teammates. His welcoming smile will be missed. I know he is shooting baskets on St. Peter´s All Star team with his good friend Rich. God bless you Tom..
Rena Glorioso
December 19, 2020
My deepest sympathy to the family. You are in my thought & prayers.
Samantha Traches
December 18, 2020
Sending love to the entire Cianciolo Family during this time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Peter Badalamenti Family
December 18, 2020
Our heartfelt condolences to the Cianciolo family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Tom was a generous, thoughtful and gregarious soul. May he rest peacefully I heaven.
Mark FLESSAS / MARCO
December 18, 2020
One of my favorite ' Guys '
So many fond memories of Tommy back in the days ,
He was so charismatic always lighting up the room.
My prayers are with him & his family during these trying times !
God is a Good God and Heaven has now added another Angel !
rosalie clementi
December 18, 2020
rest in peace you brought fun and laughter to everyone who knew you keep on dancing up there
Michelle Duarte
December 18, 2020
My heart goes out to Carolyn and the Cianciolo family. I love them all dearly.
Tony Ziino
December 17, 2020
My sincere sympathies, [email protected]
Gretchen and Claude Schuttey
December 17, 2020
Sending heartfelt love and condolences. We will think of you all in the days ahead.
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