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Keith Berry
March 1, 2017
Alyce, Beth, Lou and Connie I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in the Berry family's thoughts and prayers. If we had any snow I'd paint him a card - I think he would have appreciated it. A special man and a special family.
Gigi
February 26, 2017
Tom I want to thank you so much for letting me into your life and being family friends I love you so much forever I'm always going to miss you and I was going to think about you but you're OK and you're blessed and you up there with everybody else and looking over us and make sure that we're ok love you forever
Tom Pipines
February 25, 2017
One of God's great gifts to mankind. He's with Margie Mike Neufeldt and Andy Potos. All the angels. Waiting for his loved ones God Bless You during this difficult time and always as you remember sweet times together
Walt Asbury
February 25, 2017
Alyce and Beth, Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief. Your Dad was one of a kind. He was a special person and a good friend. He had a heart of gold and always looked for the good in any situation. From May of 1985 until August of 1988 I was his right hand man at the Cudahy Kmart, and he taught me a lot. He was so proud of the two of you and what you became. Beth, do you remember our April fool's joke? Your Dad was loved by many and is now in the arms of Jesus with his beloved Margie at his side.
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Lisa Smith
February 24, 2017
In 1982 on Green Tree Rd, is when my life changed. Meeting the D'Amato's. A game show on TV, pasta on the dinner plate, and a ton of love, not only for each other but to anyone who entered their home. Though the heartbreak is difficult this week, and many tears have fallen, It is the memories, spirit and pure love of Tom ( to whom I respectfully referred to as Mr. D'Amato for the majority of our relationship ) that will dry my tears. I will fondly remember my experiences with him and also who he was as a man and father. His laugh, his leadership advice when I would stop by Kmart, his laugh, how he reminded me on a regular basis that I could accomplish anything, his laugh, the way he loved me like his own, his laugh, our common love for hot sauce, his laugh, his loving voice when he called me "kid", his laugh, our political banter, his laugh, seeing first hand his special relationship with Doc Watson and learning what the true meaning of friendship is by his example, his laugh and our common love for both of his daughters... As I reflect on many years of knowing the D'Amato foursome, I am without a doubt a better person for knowing them all. Mr. Damato, Thank you! For everything you brought to my life. Though my heart is heavy, what I know for sure is this...I am comforted, now that Tom & Margie have reunited, and their love lives on in all of us who have had the pleasure of knowing them. To Lou & Connie, My trust is in you to help ease the pain, during this difficult time for our girls. They are in good hands. I know how difficult it will be for you as you both grieve this loss too. I am here for all of you.
February 23, 2017
A man with a large heart and harmonious nature is very much missed. May the sadness you now feel soon dissipate and may cherished memories become the favorite of your reflections. Psalm 62:11,12.
Brenda Krentz (Alexian Village)
February 24, 2017
It was an honor to have known your father thru your mother Margie. The admiration and love they had for each other shined, and it is a lasting memory for me and many at Alexian Village. My deepest sympathy and treasure those good memories and keep them close to your hearts.....
Carol Stein
February 23, 2017
I'm so glad I got to know your dad a little better in the last couple of years and you're right, he did love you both and was very proud of you and happy that you both have special partners in your life.
Linda and John Hecher
February 23, 2017
Red Sauce a la D\'Amato is a treasure I will carry on....he taught me to cook genuine Italian red sauce....it\'s gone many places and been shared and enjoyed. Our sympathy and comfort to you. Tom and Marge are together again!
Christina Schove
February 23, 2017
My family and I had a few opportunities to share the warmth and kindness of Tom and his lovely wife, Margie. Tom's gregarious nature and fun-loving, positive attitude drew us in easily. I can't speak his name without thinking about the joy he brought my daughter on their first meeting. Of course, he showed up for dinner with the biggest, most beautiful rag doll her two year old eyes had ever seen. (Molly dolly - later named) When one thinks of Tom, happy memories flood in. Everyone who met him felt accepted, worthy, and loved - he had a talent for that. I feel blessed to have my family be a very tiny part of his world - just a few of the many people touched by his kindness.
Cheryl & Bruce Church
February 23, 2017
Alyce, Beth, Lou and Connie ~ please know we're holding you in our thoughts and prayers. Many a time Alyce would share her father's stories, and the love they all felt for each other as a family was so clear to see. We hope your love and memories for each other will give you peace. Love and friendship always.
February 23, 2017
My condolences for your loss, may the peace of God that supases all the understanding, comfort and strengthen you during this difficult time. John 6:40.
Judy Rose
February 23, 2017
Tom was part of my family for as long as I can remember from the days of the Parkway and Oasis theaters through the K-Mart days. My grandmother Millie, my Uncles Russ and Red (Erv) Larson along with my mother Lois loved him dearly. Thirty years ago he helped my teenage son land his first job at K-Mart which opened the door to his future. Tom was one of the first people I called when I lost my mom 11 years ago; he and Margie were a tremendous help to me at that time. He will never be forgotten and grateful to have had him in our lives. Please accept my deepest and sincere condolences. Judy Rose
Jen
February 23, 2017
Aunt Alyce - I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know much about your Dad but this was such a beautiful tribute and so wonderfully written. I know he will be reunited with your mom and will be watching and protecting you from above ????
Joe and Jeanine Licari
February 23, 2017
Alyce, Beth, Lou and Connie We are thinking about you and are so saddened about the loss of your father. He clearly lived a very full life and touched countless others along his journey. May all your memories and the special moments of his lifetime help comfort you during this difficult time. All our love and prayers.
Penny Miller Gierach
February 23, 2017
I can't begin to express how much Tom will be miss and he was certainly loved by all his family. His jokes - laughter and long family talks always inspired everyone. He was the best and there will be a for ever hole in my heart with out him. Gods blessing to you all. I am sorry I am unable to see you at his service. I am sill in AZ. love to you.
Jean Logue
February 23, 2017
To Alyce & Beth, My thoughts and prayers are with you. And my sympathy goes out to you on the loss of your Father. He was a good man.
Anita Moyer
February 23, 2017
Sounds like a wonderful man. Wish I had known him better. My thoughts and prayers are with Alyce, Beth and Lou.
February 23, 2017
My condolences for your los. May the words at Isaiah 35:5,6 give you comfort and hope.
Robert Groetsema
February 22, 2017
My deepest sympathy to Tom's family for their loss of this wonderful man. He will always be remembered as a great friend.
Steve Richards
February 22, 2017
My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you and your family stay strong
Jennie Cullen
February 22, 2017
I can't think of cousin Tom without smiling, I know he will be very much missed. His light was bright!
Joe Connelly
February 22, 2017
Laughed with Tom since Union School days. Will miss his sense of humor and timing. Condolences to all. Gee I will miss him !
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