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Deborah West Obituary

West, Deborah M. (Baty), 55, went home to be with our Lord and Savior on October 24th, 2011. Born on March 6, 1956 to Raymond and Ilah Baty. She is preceded in death by her father, Raymond and brothers, Tim and Doug. Survived by children Heather (Craig) Miller and Ramey West; grandsons Mack, Curtis and Braeden Miller; mother, Ilah Baty; siblings, Ray (Sherry) Baty, Kathy Busby, Randy (Christy) Baty and Emily McCarty; and numerous nieces and nephews. To her loved ones she was known as best friend, Aunt Debbie, Sis, Gabby, second mom, Mema and most importantly Mother. She will be remembered for her strength & selflessness, as a caretaker for all of us, and for the unconditional love she had for everyone. The family asks that you would please join us in celebrating the life of Debbie at Family Church located at 11135 W. Kellogg, 67209 at 5 PM Friday Oct. 28, dinner & fellowship following services. Flowers can be sent to 111 S. Clara, 67209.

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Oct. 27 to Oct. 28, 2011.

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Heidi McCarty

October 23, 2012

I've searched for a year for the words to describe how much you ment to me. They never came. There aren't enough words in this world to even began to cover the impact you had on my life. You were one of the best friends I ever had. You were and still are my favorite aunt. You were everything I needed you to be. You never turned me away when I needed help and even though I know you hated you, you always watched Halloween with me, even if it was Christmas. I'm sad that my future children will never know their awesome aunt Debbie. I'm hurt that you're gone when I need you the most in my life right now. I can only hope that you are looking down on me and that your spirit helps me deal with life. I can only dream of being an aunt to Stevie, Kingston and Landon like you were to all of us. I love you and I miss you...
Heidi Jane

Emily McCarty

November 8, 2011

Debbie. i hide my tears when i say your name but the pain in my heart is still the same Although i smile and seem carefree There is noone who misses you more than ME!!!!

mackenzie miller

November 5, 2011

i will never get over losing you the only thing harder to get over is the impact you have made in my heart if its possible to put into a words how much i loved you i cant even think how i would start or how to repay you for all you have done for me if it is possible it would take longer than i have left but i think i know where to start by saying goodbye grandma you were one of the few people i could turn to in any situation we must go on living but you your free now no more pain or problems im going to continue on with my life you left me the life lessons and the love and memories i hold them closer than ever now i will make you proud i love you grandma debbie R I P

mackenzie miller

November 5, 2011

i will never get over losing you the only thing harder to get over is the impact you have made in my heart if its possible to put into a words how much i loved you i cant even think how i would start or how to repay you for all you have done for me if it is possible it would take longer than i have left but i think i know where to start by saying goodbye grandma you were one of the few people i could turn to in any situation we must go on living but you your free now no more pain or problems im going to continue on with my life you left me the life lessons and the love and memories i hold them closer than ever now i will make you proud i love you grandma debbie R I P
mackenzie miller

Rachel Sherman

November 2, 2011

I was sad to hear about Aunt Debbie's passing. Even though we feel sadness and mourn her loss, I know they are celebrating in heaven! My mom would tell me stories about how they had so much fun together when they were younger. She was a sweet and wonderful lady & I know everyone will miss her!

Lynn (Sisk) Sweeten

October 30, 2011

I was very saddened to hear about Debbies passing. I have alot of memories of our families growing up together in the neighborhood. My thoughts and prayers go to the entire Baty family.

emily MCCarty

October 29, 2011

Debbie I LOVE AND MISS YOU more than words could ever describeyou have always been a part of my life at a time when i had made some bad descions never did you judge me or say itold you so you would just wrapp your arms around me and say I LOVE YOU EMILY thank you for the many things you taight me and the lessons you let me learn on my own i am so greatful that my children had you in their lives those stories will be passed on for generations Debbie they say that with time my missing you will get easier but they didnt have a sister like you so ill just say goodnight gabby because i will never say goodbye love you always emily

Hud Artman

October 29, 2011

Heather,
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. I know how much she meant to you and your family. Some things just can't be replaced but try to remember all of the good times you had with her while she was here. Dar and I are praying for you and family.
Hud

Mark Robins

October 29, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

April Davis

October 28, 2011

Aunt Debbie:
You will be truly missed! I love you and give Betty Jane a huge hug from me. I will see u again one day.

Tyler Franklin

October 28, 2011

To Mack, Heather and Family,
We are truely sadden to hear of the loss of your Grandmother and Mother. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.

Carlotta Hervey-Franklin

Dan and Yulia Sharshel

October 28, 2011

Illah, Ray, Kathy, Randy, Emily and family we had a lot of fun as kids growing up together. God has a plan in Heaven now for Debbie. She has completed her work on this earth. Some day there is no doubt you will be joined again when you meeet our creater. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family. God Bless you all.

October 28, 2011

Deb, Ray, and Kathy, and I had some great times in our teen years, they'll always be part of my fondest memories. My prayers of comfort go out for all the family and loved ones left behind.
Tom Turner

Erica and Chad Inasy

October 28, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family at this very time of need. Debbie was a fun person to be around and talk with. If you ever needed a good laugh, she was the one who would give it. She will be missed dearly!!

Lori (Villa) Gold

October 28, 2011

Heather - I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers!

Darrell & Brenda Beckham

October 28, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Baty family.

October 27, 2011

Praying for Heather, Ramey and family. Debbie was someone that will never be forgotten. She was special in so many ways. May you be comforted by the Lord through these difficult times. I'm so sorry for your loss.
~Deaner

Dianne Barnes

October 27, 2011

Our prayers to all the family.we remember the good times as your neighbors.The Barnes family.

Julie Logan

October 27, 2011

To the whole Baty family. You are all in my prayers and thoughts and so dear to my heart. May God carry you and give you strength and know that you are not alone. Debbie was one of a kind and loved by so, so many as you all know. She will be forever young and beautiful and shining down watching over you all. God Bless your hearts and her spirit will forever remain. Much love to each and every one of you.

October 27, 2011

Heather,
Really sorry for your loss.
Dave H.

just a friend

October 27, 2011

PEACE

*Robert* *Cook*

October 27, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

tim flores jr

October 27, 2011

U been a person I could turn to for anything little or big which u always seemed to point me in the right direction. I'm very Pleased to have u in my life these past 2years & u will be MISSED & by Many. Gone but will Never be Forgotten, RiP my friend Debbie West Baty ={`

Pat Koch

October 27, 2011

To Ray and family. While there are no words to help ease the loss that you bear, know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Pat Koch and Ashley Strauhs

Lori Macias

October 27, 2011

Debbie always had a smile and a hug for me whenever I saw her. I am very blessed to have known her. My prayers and thought go especially to Heather, Ray, Kathy and Sheena but also to all who loved her. She will be missed. My prayers are with you all

"CC" Swafford

October 27, 2011

To Ray and all the families of Debbie, I send my heartfelt condolences and sympathy. May God give you His strength at this time and your memories will be a constant with you.
I didn't know Debbie too well, but have known and loved her family - Ray and family - for many years.
My prayers are with all of you.
God Bless,
"CC"

Tom Hay & Patti Lagers

October 27, 2011

To all the Baty and West family: We extend our condolences and know that she will be missed by all who knew her. May she rest in peace.

Rebecca Day

October 27, 2011

Heather, Ramey and Family,
Praying for your families as you go through this trying time. Your mom was a wonderful woman.

October 27, 2011

So sorry to hear of your loss. Peace be with you all at this most difficult time.

Vickie Ross

Tonya Diaz-Sanchez

October 27, 2011

Debbie was a great person.We grew up on jackson and i remember her n my mom using a potatoe n piercing my ears.She will always be remembered for her great smile n wonderful personality.She was one of the most wonderful people in the world.She will be missed by all she touched so many lives.God Bless her family.RIP Debbie!!!

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