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John Bates Obituary

June 18, 1938 - April 16, 2024 John Delos Bates, a man of class, intelligence, and wit, passed away peacefully on April 16, 2024, with his beloved wife and soulmate, Judi, by his side. Born on June 18, 1938, in the city of Los Angeles, John's legacy reverberates through the hearts of all who were fortunate enough to know him.
A veteran who served with honor in the Marine Corps during the Korean War, John pursued higher education and graduated from UCLA. As a successful real estate entrepreneur, John's influence extended far beyond his professional achievements. He was deeply committed to his community, holding a profound affection for his residence in Palos Verdes Estates and Rolling Hills. John's passion for preserving the area's natural beauty and historical landmarks was evident through his dedicated volunteer work, notably contributing to the rehabilitation of the iconic Palos Verdes Beach Club and the Malaga Cove Gazebo, known as Roessler Point. John was a true visionary, passionate about architecture and design.
But beyond his professional pursuits, John was a man who knew how to enjoy life. He could often be found taking pleasure in a relaxing evening with his constant dinner date, his beloved wife, Judi, sharing stories and laughter. Nothing brought John more joy than being surrounded by his loved ones. He leaves behind his wife of 47 years, Judi, with whom he shared a deep and enduring love. Together, they built a beautiful family, including seven children, 14 grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren. John found joy and inspiration in the serenity of his home away from home, Palm Springs, and many wonderful memories have been shared there.
John lived life on his own terms, with no regrets when he reached the end of the road, leaving behind a legacy filled with love, laughter, and enduring impact. While his loss is deeply felt, his family and friends are comforted by the knowledge that he lived a life characterized by happiness and accomplishment. John's absence leaves a void in the lives of those who knew him, but his memory will be cherished forever.
A celebration of John's life will be announced at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please consider making any memorial donations to the charity of your choice

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Los Angeles Times on Apr. 28, 2024.

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Jeannine Bisignano Madsen

April 22, 2025

From the moment I met John and Judi Bates,they both were a Breath Of Fresh Air.John was the Kindest man ever,Loving and soulful.He loved his family and his wife Judi More then anything In the Universe.So Missed...God Bless John...

David Bates

June 5, 2024

David Bates

June 5, 2024

My dad and Judi at our wedding on Feb. 26, 1994 at the Neighborhood Church in PVE. I´m now one year older than he was on that day. Love you dad!

David Bates

June 5, 2024

John and Judi in our Aliso Viejo home circa 2000

Jeannine Bisignano Madsen

May 17, 2024

I am so so sorry for John´s loss. This is a huge loss for us. All John was a loving husband, father grandfather, and friend. He always greeted you with a smile, old-school great man he is greatly missed, but his memory will last forever and so with the love for him.

Gary and Kai Myer

May 5, 2024

We will miss John! He was always upbeat, kind, and generous. It was fun to be in his orbit!!! Happy trails dear John.

Anny Bate

April 29, 2024

Wonderful .....always happy John! We will miss you soooo very very much Anny and Jeff Bate

Veronica Gonzales

April 28, 2024

Mr Bates was a great person with a great heart. An angel on Earth. Rest in Peace Jon Bates

Christine Bhagat

April 28, 2024

We loved and admired John. His devotion to Judi and their family together was very special.

Christine Abramowski

April 28, 2024

John was a wonderful man who will be greatly missed.

Tim Gill

April 28, 2024

A wonderful man who will be greatly missed

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