Alexa Renee Middelaer

Alexa Renee Middelaer

Alexa Middelaer Obituary

Published by Vancouver Sun and/or The Province from May 22 to May 23, 2008.

MIDDELAER Alexa Rene?e Entered our world on October 9, 2003 in Oakville, Ontario. This loving child brought joy to the lives of her immediate family: Parents Laurel and Michael and her wonderful big brother, Christian James. She was surrounded by an amazing group of extended family who adored her: Grandparents John and Yvette Middelaer, Lyla Stevens of Calgary, Robert and Avaleen Gibson of Edmonton, Aunts and Uncles including Lynne and Gary Gleave, Bernie and Melissa Redlich, all from Calgary, Glen Gibson and Pam McConnell, Conni Gibson, all from Toronto, John Middelaer (Sally Anne) from Victoria, Daphne Middelaer and Guy Johanson from Vancouver, Great-Uncle John Doherty from Calgary, Cousins Jenna, Jordan, Shonara, Breanne and Jessica. Alexa's network of aunts, uncles, cousins and friends stretched across Canada as she spent the majority of her life in the Toronto area, and most recently in the Lower Mainland. This little cherub has certainly left her mark on all those who were blessed to have known her. Alexa possessed an amazing strength of character that could be simply stated as `confidence'. Fiercely determined with little room for self doubt, she inspired her family with this self-belief. She took delight in everything, and embraced life with vigour and zeal. She adored her brother, Christian, who is largely responsible for the amazing girl that she was. Alexa was inspired by a challenge, and keeping up with Christian prompted her to achieve incredible heights in such a short time. A celebration of Alexa's life will be held this Saturday, May 24, 2008 at 11:00 am at the Bell Centre for the Performing Arts, 6250- 144th Street, Surrey, BC. There will be a reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the BC Children's Hospital. So many individuals have made a positive difference in this time of loss. We specifically want to thank the outstanding team of physicians, nurses and social worker, Perry Goertzen, at BC Children's Hospital, the wisdom and guidance of Rev. Dr. Glen Davis, and the steadfast, deliberate support of our best friends, Dr. R. James and Mrs. Fay Bond. One could never find better people than the Bonds. Little Alexa rightly adored them.

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Yvette Adelman

June 12, 2008

Dearest Laurel and Mike,
My thoughts are truly there with you....being a parent myself I can't imagine the pain and anguish that you feel. Be strong.....love to your family.

Yvette (Quapp) Adelman

Janice Jacques-Friley

May 23, 2008

To Dearest Laurel and Michael--I have not stopped thinking about you all since I heard about your beautiful angel, Alexa--it is unfathomable and no words can express what you are going through. It is so difficult to write something here that will help--I will be there tomorrow in all of my thoughts--please know that we are here and hurt for you--love Jan

Steve Evers

May 23, 2008

I cried when I heard the tragic news. I too have a daughter and couldn't imagine what you all are going through. My prayers and thoughts go out to you all

Colette DeJean

May 23, 2008

I was saddened to hear of your loss. May the wonderful memories you have of Alexa carry you forward.

Colette and Jason DeJean

Katherine Antoniuk

May 23, 2008

My family and I are so sorry for your loss. My sister Sally Ann has told us what a beautiful child Alexa was. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Joan Price

May 23, 2008

I was so saddened to hear of your loss. Words cannot express my sorrow -knowing both of you ( years ago), I know she had a wonderful life , and a great family.
May wonderful memories help to sustain your sorrow.

Paul Crickard

May 23, 2008

John & Family:

Our deepest sympathies. May Alexa's soul rest in peace & may perpetual light shine upon her.

Paul & Karen Crickard & family

Dave McAuley

May 23, 2008

Louise and I extend our deepest sympathies to the Middelaer family.

Greg and Colleen Oyhenart

May 23, 2008

Dear Michael and Laurel:

We were shocked and deeply saddened to hear the news about Alexa. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Darrell Rose

May 23, 2008

We would like to express our deepest heartfelt condolences to your family in this time of sorrow, John.

Cathy and Darrell Rose

Urve Humphrey

May 22, 2008

Michael, Laura and family, I did not personally have the opportunity to meet Alexa but heard about her and her brother through you, Michael. I recall with smiles your wonderful story about your vacation alone with your children you adored so much. Michael you are a wonderful father, and I am glad you were able to spend that extra time with your children this past year. My deepest and sincerest sympathy in your time of sorrow. My heart is with all of you. I sincerely hope our paths cross one day again Michael.
With Love Urve Humphrey

Maria Ganger

May 22, 2008

Dear Mrs. Middelaer and family,
My heart is aching for your loss of your beautiful daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I was one of your former students at Sullivan Heights.

Tamara and Malcolm McPherson

May 22, 2008

Words can not describe are sincere sympathy for you family right now. My heart breaks for you right now and your family, I pray Christian has strong support from his family and faith.

Malcolm and I have recently had a loss in our family and know all to well your pain. Please know we are thinking of you and praying for your inner peace.

Bless your loving family.

Tonja Tomkins

May 22, 2008

Alexa was a beautiful and happy child who was blessed with a wonderful family. I wish I could be there on Saturday to share in the celebration of her outstanding life. Please know I am thinking of you all. Alexa will always have a special place in my heart.

Irma & Don Doherty

May 22, 2008

At this most difficult time please accept our very deepest and heartfelt condolences to your family. We were heartbroken to hear the news and do hope your faith will carry you through the times to come.

Mark McCowan

May 22, 2008

Marlene and I extend our sincere condolences to the Middelaer family on their tragic loss.
Mark and Marlene McCowan

Sandy Cavanagh

May 22, 2008

Words cannot express the loss of a child. My prayers are with you.

Debbie Nishizaki

May 22, 2008

Dear John and Yvette,
We were heartbroken to hear of your family's deep loss. Friends, now and in the days to come.
Love,
Roy and Debbie Nishizaki

G. Dobson

May 22, 2008

Our hearts are filled with tears and grief to hear about the loss of your beautiful daughter Alexa.

Cherish your memories and know that Alexa will give you strength and guidence in your life's journey.

Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family!

Southridge Family

Tanya Lawlor

May 22, 2008

I was shocked and saddened to hear about Alexa's passing, what a beautiful angel.
Peace and strength to you and your family.

Maureen Moran

May 22, 2008

John,

My deepest sympathy to you and your family at this tragic time in your lives.

Maureen Moran

Valerie Wren

May 22, 2008

My deepest sympathy.

Ron White

May 22, 2008

Candy and I are deeply saddened by your great loss. We are thinking of you and praying for you in this time. When your mom phoned me I was shocked and saddened. Ron and Candy White

Barry Miller

May 22, 2008

It is with a heavy heart that I write to express my deepest and most sincere sympathies at this most difficult time in your lives.

I know you only as Lyla's family but the grief is deeply felt by all.

My prayers are with you in the days ahead. Keep the happy memories of Alexa close in your hearts

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