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Jessyca Gonzalez
August 20, 2025
Happy heavenly birthday Tio
Jessyca Gonzalez
July 7, 2025
Miss you, Tio!!
Jessyca Gonzalez
October 26, 2023
It is almost Halloween time, and great memories of you, Tio, always checking our candies well more like eating it You are missed
Samantha rivera
September 8, 2023
I´m listed as A grand daughter and would love to meet and know my family -Samantha Rivera
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Jessyca Gonzalez
January 19, 2023
We found a few video memories, and sure enough, you were headed to the table to eat we miss you eating all our food and candies
Jay reyes
November 12, 2022
Miss you Partner. Here come the holidays. You always made if fun..you crazy guy. NO ONE Will EVER REPLACE YOU.
Jessyca Gonzalez
November 11, 2022
One more year without you, Tio. Always in our hearts
Jessyca Gonzalez
August 21, 2022
Happy Birthday Tio! Hugs and kisses all the way to heaven.
Jay Reyes
August 20, 2021
Jay Reyes
August 20, 2021
Miss you pardner. Always.
Jessyca Gonzalez
August 19, 2021
Happy heavenly birthday . We love you Tio.
Jessyca Gonzalez
November 13, 2020
Jay Reyes
November 12, 2020
Miss you so much. Nothings the same pardner!
Jay reyes
August 19, 2020
Miss you so much brother. Nothings been the same since you left!
Jessyca Gonzalez
July 16, 2020
We Miss you, Tio.
jay reyes
November 15, 2019
Our "superman" five for fighting! Miss you greatly!
jay reyes
November 15, 2019
"I want you to know" by lifehouse. Miss you brother! Think of you everyday! Alot of things bring back memories of you. God I miss you!
Nereida Camacho
November 12, 2019
Always in our hearts, missing not having you in our lives. Q.E.P.D. tio Alfonso, we love you
Missing you
Jay Reyes
November 12, 2019
Always in my thoughts and in my heart
Jay Reyes
November 12, 2019
Love you miss you
Jay Reyes
November 12, 2019
Jessyca Gonzalez
November 11, 2019
One more year without you, Tio. We miss you so much. What you taught us still guides us each day and we can still recall all your laughter. We love you RIP.
Missing you pardner!
Jay REYES
May 24, 2018
Amen !! Missing you brother! Spent my birthday with my boys and louie yesterday. No ONE will ever replace you brother!! NOTHINGS the same without you!
Forever in our hearts!!
Jessyca Gonzalez
May 23, 2018
We miss you so much Tio!! You have left a void no one can fill. They are not many in the world like you. You will always live in our hearts.
jay reyes
July 27, 2015
Miss you always..brother...
Jay Reyes
October 30, 2014
Missing you whole heartedly ! Love you miss you brother!!
Jay Reyes
February 21, 2014
Missing you!
Jay Reyes
October 20, 2013
Miss you greatly brother!
jay reyes
January 11, 2012
i miss you...
jay reyes
January 12, 2011
i will always miss you...forever...as u are in my heart!!!
jay reyes
October 1, 2010
i still miss you so much!i love you!
jay reyes
March 26, 2010
i miss you partner..so much
jay reyes
November 16, 2009
i miss you.
i miss you brother!
September 12, 2009
JAY REYES
September 12, 2009
I AINT FORGOT ABOUT YOU...I STILL WISH THAT YOU WERE HERE!IM GOING TO MISS YOU FOREVER! I MADE YOU A NEW VIDEO ON YOUTUBE.COM.TO FIND YOU PEOPLE JUST TYPE IN YOUR NAME.I ALSO HAVE A MYSPACE FOR YOU TO KEEP YOUR MEMORY ALIVE! IT HELPS ME GET THROUGH THE DAY ...HALLOWEENS COMING UP BROTHER..IT AINT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU!IT SEEMS TO ME SOME PEOPLE CAN MOVE ON BUT I FEEL LIKE IM STUCK IN NEUTRAL.I GUESSS ITS EASIER FOR OTHERS OR MAYBE THEY ARE STRONGER WILLED THAN I AM! I MISS YOU SO... SO... MUCH.DAD SENT U A DEDICATION...BY DARIO GOMEZ...ITS CALLED "NADIE ES ETERNO" I ALSO FOUND THE SONG GILBERT SANG FOR YOU..CALLED ' AMIGO DEL ALMA".I STILL REMEMBER IT! GOD,I MISS YOU! LUV U JAY!
jay reyes
July 24, 2009
alfonso...i miss you so much..think about you everyday!how i wish that u were still here!!!!miss you!!!!luv ya*jay!
jay reyes
June 12, 2009
i missed you yesterday...im missing you everyday...how i wish u were here...yesterday was your 7 month anniversary gone.i try to think of it as if you are in chicago on vacation...though...it doesnt make it any easier...alfonso...no other will ever replace you...you were one in a million...god bless your soul...i miss you...i miss you! love you_jay!
JAY REYES
June 8, 2009
ALFONSO..I MADE YOU A MYSPACE.COM...SO THAT PEOPLE WHO KNOW YOU CAN LEAVE THEIR THOUGHTS AND MEMORIES..FOR US TO SHARE...I ALSO MADE A VIDEO OF YOU ON YOUTUBE.COM.ALL YOUR FRIENDS AND RELATIVES HAVE TO DO TO FIND THEM IS TYPE IN YOUR NAME ..ALFONSO ESCAMILLA ON THE WEBSITE...I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU SO SO SO MUCH .GOD BLESS YOU!--UR SIS IN LAW...JAy*
jay reyes
May 12, 2009
i actually wanted to leave u a comment on 5-11-09.it was ur 6 months gone....but, i think dat i posted it a lil early...well wut does it matter...im juss always thinkin of and i miss you soooo much....we miss you.i hope you know juss how much you mean to us.no one will ever replace you...no matter how hard people try.u wer one in a million partner!many ppl may not believe it....but YOU...ARE...OUR SUPERMAN!it hurts so much missing you.everyday is sadd.nothings the same around here.god bless your soul.see you later sweetie!
jay reyes
May 10, 2009
aye...partner...i miss you soooo much. tomorrows mothers day...and it wont be the same without you....i miss you ...and i cant say it enough. im workin in seguin...and err day we pass by there are these guys werkin in the side of the roads laying pipe in the country side...reminds me of you...and all the hard werk you put in san antonio ...chicago...laredo and in between. sometimes i catch myself laughing or smiling over some thing i remember you doing or saying...alot of times im saddened by the loss of you,but partner..some day soon...we shall be together again you i love you so much....i wish i could say more and yell out loud but im limited to waht i can say thru this guest book...but you know wuts up partner...i know you see it from heaven....and im sure you knew about it even before you left us....right about now...you are probably laughing at the pajamas im wearing....huh....i love you...alfonso.god bless your soul!
jay reyes
April 7, 2009
god knew your soul before you were born...he loves you...and i miss you.i went to moms yesterday...i kept thinkin that u were going to pop up out of no where as usual...we miss you alfonso....
JAY REYES
April 5, 2009
AYE...PARTNER...IM MISSING YOU.I LOVE YOU.I WENT TO THE PARK TODAY..I HADNT BEEN THERE IN A LOOONG TIME.I REMEMBERED WHEN U DROVE THAT WHITE EXPLORER UP AND DOWN THE HILLS OVER AND OVER AGAIN!I THOUGHT YOU WERE CRAZY FOR DOING THAT!BUT YOU JUST KNEW HOW TO HAVE FUN...YOU WANTED TO BUY SOME MUNCHIES AND YOU TOLD US THAT YOU WOULD BE BACK RIGHT QUICK...YOU BROUGHT A LARGE ORDER OF EVERYTHING ON THE "CHURCHES" MENU...AND YOU ATE ALOT OF IT! WELL...MOST OF IT ! ALL BY YOURSELF! I MISS YOU BROTHER! LUV YOU - JAY! I THINK OF YOU EVERY DAY.
JAY REYES
March 19, 2009
I MISS YOU....I WISH U WERE HERE...I CARRY YOU IN MY HEART EVERY DAY...I MISS YOU SO MUCH!I LOVE YOU-JAY!
CYNTHIA LUNA
March 15, 2009
WE ALL MISS YOU DEARLY PARTNER!YOU MAY BE GONE BUT YOU WILL NEVER FORGET YOU BROTHER IN LAW WHEN THAT BARBIE SONG PLAYS MY GIRLS CRY AND THEN START LAUGHING CAUSE YOU USE TO ACT SILLY AND DANCE TO THAT SONG!I ALSO REMEBER THAT EASTER DAY WHEN YOU OPENED THE WATER HYDRANT FOR ALL YOUR NIECES AND NEPHEWS AND MY GRANDCHILDREN TOO!WE ALL LUV YOU ALOT YOU WERE LIKE A BIG TEDDY BEAR WITH MY BJ AND MY LIL ODY!BJ MISSES YOU EVERYDAY!MISSING YOU EVERDAY!BIG AL!YOU SIS IN LAW CINDY
jay reyes
March 7, 2009
i miss u every day!
jay reyes
February 12, 2009
i love you!i miss you! j
ROSA NAJERA
February 10, 2009
vivo en una estella radiante de luz,no lloren mi ausencia...Estoy con Jesus cuando llegue al cielo,cuando vi su faz,mi alma dichosa se colmo de paz.EL DIOS DE LOS CIELOS santos toda la herida,me tendio su mano Y ENCONTRE LA VIDA UN CORO DE ANGELES Y LA VIRGEN MARIA ME VINO A ENCONTRAR QUE MAS GUIERREN? ;;DEJEN DE LLORAR;;YO DESDE MI ESTRELLA LOS PUEDO MIRAR DENMEN SU SONRISA PARA PODER DESCANSAR.PIENSEN QUE LOS AMO, BUSQUENME EN LA FLOR EN LA SUAVE BRISA...EN LO QUE ES AMOR . ESTOY PRESENTE COMO LO ESTA EL SOL YO SIGO LATIENDO EN SU CORAZON. TU HERMANA QUE TE QUIERE Y TE ESTRANA MUNCHO
jay reyes
February 5, 2009
i miss you.
i miss you.
i miss you'
i miss you...so much.
i think of u every day.
i wish that u were still here with us.
i love you!
luv -jay!
jay reyes
January 14, 2009
alfonso...here i am again...missing u so much...
Evil equals the ABSENCE of GOD in our actions!
Change is good...you go first! Dare to be different!
SUCCESS...is the sum of small efforts...repeated..Day in and Day out!
GOD has not forsaken us...he has awakened us!
Guardian Angel prayer
Angel of God, my guardian dear
to whom God's love commits me here.
Ever this day/night be at my side
to light, to guard, to rule and guide.
Amen.
O Angel of Christ, my holy Guardian and Protector of my soul and body, forgive me all my sins of today. Deliver me from all the wiles of the enemy, that I may not anger my God by any sin. Pray for me, sinful and unworthy servant, that thou mayest present me worthy of the kindness and mercy of the All-holy Trinity and the Mother of my Lord Jesus Christ, and of all the Saints. Amen.
jay reyes
December 29, 2008
i miss you...i hope to see u soon.god bless your soul!
louis and jay reyes
December 26, 2008
we spent the day at amas and apas house...it wasnt the same..i kept expecting you to drive up at any given minute...but that never happened.no one showed up ...it was juss me louie and my kids..ofy and ismael and derr kiddos.we had tamales and rice and beans...there was alot of food left ova...maybe because you didnt eat it all...ha!thank you for your visit.but we miss you greatly!im sure that you were able to celebrate with the lord...for it was his day!god bless you.we miss you! love always...jay and louie!
jay reyes
December 22, 2008
alfonso...i miss you so much.
we couldnt celebrate thanksgiving with you and x-mas is gonna be even worse.were gonna miss your funky stride and your funny faces.we will miss you eatiing everything out of our plates and drinking out of our drinks...were gonna miss your jumping around and dramatic scenes...you always made us laugh.some times you would laugh so much that you'd even cry! the weather reminds me of the times you used to come down to san antonio and spend the holidays with us.it was always sad to say good bye when you would leave to chicago.i never thought that i would ever miss you this much...i didnt even get to say good bye to you this x-mas...sadly all i do is think of you all of the time...and cry!how i wish you were here...i don't know how every one else can go on with their days...without stopping to think of you or remember all the times we had shared with you.my alfonso...you were like an older brother to me..i idolozed you since the age of 11.now that you live in a perfect utopia...you are greatly adored and loved and missed by us!i feel as if im in an endless world labyrinth!whether it be feeling the warmth of the sun or feeling the coldness as the night creeps upon ... knowing that the lord allows you to watch over us...in my heart you will never be gone! the emptiness i feel in my spirit is always replaced by the memories..that you left along the way!for on this earth you could not stay...i'm sure that i will see you again someday!
i miss you greatly...and i know that you know who what and where...and everything in between fell into place.there is no more wondering or wandering...your soul is at rest and your mind is at peace.twas your life and it is you that we are missing...although the living are in our presence...you remain in our thoughts....never in evanescence!i love you partner...i await for you to visit soon...love you always and forever...ur sis in law *jay!*
jay reyes
December 12, 2008
i miss you
i miss you
i miss you
i keep askin myself...
why
why
and why....
i never knew that a heart could be broken....
through words that had't been spoken...
i didnt think that you were ready to take flight.
i think god needed you...
im sure that he felt your pain...
im sure he heard your cry.
i would have thought that with all of the angels the lord has in heaven...
why would he need to take one of mine....
i love you so much...
little did you know that when we joked around...
when i kiddingly said ...i love you...
i really meant it.
i miss you brother...more than you may think ..i do!
i'm missing you...
i picture you everywhere sometimes...
there are places when some one i see somewhere resembles you.
i always think of you.every day!!!!!!
why...why...why....
alfonso.god bless you!luv jay!
jay reyes
December 12, 2008
alfonso...i couldnt get myself to function all day yesterday with out any thoughts of you on my mind. its only been 30 days since you passed partner...oh my god ...how we miss you. iv'e been visiting you fairly often...i brought home the decorations that we purcahased for you. i even brought ur moms and gils home. i added some weights to the stands so that they wont blow away with the wind.im goin to return them a.s.a.p.its funny how im always askin questions and you some how seem to answer..thank you for being there for me and louie! we play ur favorite songs every day.i will remember you...always..im missing you more today and i miss our yesterdays...and im gonna miss you even more tomorrow!god bless your soul...i love you...c u later sweetie!luv-jay!
christina lopez
December 11, 2008
IF TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRWAY AND MEMORIES WERE A LANE
I WOULD WALK RIGHT UP TO HEAVEN
TO BRING YOU HOME AGAIN.
NO FAREWELL WORDS WERE SPOKEN
NO TIME TO SAY GOODBYE
YOU WERE GONE BEFORE I KNEW IT
AND ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY.
MY HEART STILL ACHES IN SADNESS
AND SECRET TEARS STILL FLOW
WHAT IT MEANT TO LOSE YOU
NO ONE WILL EVER KNOW.
WE MISS YOU
FROM CHRISTY, JUAN , JUANITO, DAMIAN, ROLANDO, AMPARO, LANDIN, KARINA.
Jesus Najera
December 6, 2008
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
jay reyes
November 27, 2008
alfonso im keeping your memory alive .i promise to never fail keeping your memory with the family.you always made me laugh even when i didnt feel like laughing.i missed you hogging up the turkey today. iwore your picture t shirt today. i miss you!i put your memory for all to see...on youtube.com. whom ever would like to view it can type in your name and watch the video. god bless you..well alrighty...c u later partner!
I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU..PARTNER.I'LL SEE YOU LATER SWEETIE!GOD BLESS YOU!
JAY REYES
November 26, 2008
TO OUR BELOVED PARTNER...I MISS YOU SO MUCH!...I JUSS FOUND OUT...THAT ALFONSO...OUR BROTHER AND GODS CREATION...
IS IN HEAVEN.
WUT MORE COULD WE ASK FOR!
ONE DAY ...HE ATTENDED THE WINGS OF A DOVE CHURCH...
I DID NOT KNOW THIS...
HE ACCEPTED JESUS IN HIS SPIRIT...
ALTHOUGH HIS BEING...(WHICH REFERS TO "HUMAN BEING" OUR BODY") MIGHT HAVE NOT BEEN READY ...GOD CARRIED HIM IN HIS GREATEST TIME OF NEED....
I LEARNED THIS TODAY FROM A PREACHER...
I HAD A TALK WITH HER TODAY IN BOERNE ABOUT MY BROTHER ALFONSO..
HE IS IN HEAVEN AND SERVES THE LORD AS ONE OF HIS ANGELS...
THE REASON BEHIND THE MOON ANGEL SINDEE!
RITE B4 MY TALK WITH THE PREACHER....I WENT TO PURCHASE A HEART DECORATION FOR MY PARTNER... IN ONE BOERNE'S ANTIQUE SHOPPES...
THE LADY AT "COSAS" GIFTS...GAVE IT TO ME AS A GIFT...
I WAS PURCHASING AND ALREADY PAYING FOR A SACRED HEART OF JESUS DECORATION AND SHE ASKED IF I WOULD LIKE A MOON ANGEL AS A GIFT!!!!
REST ASSURED THAT WHAT I LEARNED ABOUT OUR BELOVED BROTHER...HE MADE IT TO HEAVEN!
I NEVER SPEAK WITH WORDS OF BETRAYAL.
FOR MANY OF U KNO THAT KNO ME...
I SPEAK OF THE TRUTH!
Brigitte Owens
November 15, 2008
My deepest sympathies to the Escamilla Family on your loss.
May the Lord keep him safe.
Our Thoughts and prayers are with you.
miguel guadiana
November 15, 2008
AMIGO ALFONSO DESCANSA EN PAZ
MIGUEL GUADIANA
November 14, 2008
AMIGO ALFONSO TE RECORDARE SIEMPRE COMO UNA BUENA PERSONA QUE FUISTE ACA POR WAUKEGAN IL. Y A TU FAMILIA TODAS MIS CONDOLENCIAS TU AMIGO MIGUEL GUADIANA
miguel guadiana
November 14, 2008
QUERIDO AMIGO ALFONSO COMO TE VAMOS A ESTRANAR POR ACA EN WAUKEGAN IL. TODOS TUS AMIGOS SIEMPRE TE VAMOS A RECORDAR TU AMIGO MIGUEL GUADIANA Y FAMILIA
miguel guadiana
November 14, 2008
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
November 14, 2008
Odyssey Rose Urdialez
November 14, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
In Loving Memory of My Wonderful Tio Alfonso -Ofy
November 14, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Tio Alfonso You are Forever in Our Hearts and Mind... Your are gone, but never will be forgotten! You are off to do great things...
November 14, 2008
Ofelia Urdialez
November 14, 2008
Tio Alfonso,
We Miss You Dearly, but We have so many great memories together, and they will be in our hearts forever... Thank you from the bottom of our hearts, for everything... Thank you for letting me know how proud you were of me, Thank You for being a Great Uncle, and Friend, Thank You for being Odyssey's partner in crime... She Love's You so Much, Thank You for teaching us so many me new things... And we will never forget you! We know that your in a much better place today... and that you got the wings you deserved! It's not Good bye, because we will see you later... Save a place for me and be ready with your Lotteria card, because the day they call me home I'm gonna be more then ready... I Miss You and Love you Tio!
Loving You Always,
The
Urdialez Family
- Tony, Odyssey, Lil' Tony, and Ofy
cindy luna
November 14, 2008
to our partner al beloved brother in law you will be missed but not forgotten!rest in peace for now you are in a better place.i will always remeber your smile and silly jokes!luv you your sis in law cindy luna
Bea & Santos
November 14, 2008
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
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