Allen Paul Abramson

Allen Paul Abramson obituary, Cortland Manor, NY

Allen Paul Abramson

Allen Abramson Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 16, 2024.

Allen Paul Abramson, aged 81, of Cortlandt Manor, New York, passed away peacefully on April 12, 2024. He was born on October 16, 1942, in Bayonne, New Jersey.

Allen was a cherished man known for his warmth, kindness, and creative spirit, always accompanied by his delightful dry sense of humor. A devoted reader, he found immense joy in the works of Philip Roth, especially those that mirrored the landscapes of his youth near Newark Bay. Alongside his passion for books, Allen cultivated a talent for painting and various creative pursuits, and he was an avid jazz enthusiast. Professionally, he worked as an industrial designer and entrepreneur, forging many enduring friendships along the way.

After graduating from Bayonne High School, Allen continued his studies at Syracuse University, followed by Pratt Institute, where he honed his artistic abilities.

Family and friendships held a special place in Allen's heart throughout his life. He leaves behind his loving wife, Elaine Paris, son Lorne Abramson (Elana Lieberman), daughter Brett Pels (Alex Pels), grandchildren Alec Abramson, Molly Abramson, Cleo Pels, and Jett Pels, niece Amanda Miller (J. Edie DeNiro), brother-in-law Ron Miller (Jane Meisel), grandnephews Rory and Darwin DeNiro-Miller, and former wife (and the mother of his children), Marjorie Abramson. He was also blessed to have two loving stepchildren, Benjamin Grossman (Jana Grossman) and Jennifer Grossman (Kevin Coyne), and two wonderful step-grandsons, Noah Grossman and Daniel Kraskin. Allen was preceded in death by his parents, Maurice and Pearl Abramson, and his sister, Anita Miller.

In remembrance of Allen's legacy, and in lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Bayonne Jewish Community Center, with attention to Dr. Ellen Goldberg (https://www.jccbayonne.org).

May Allen's creative spirit and loving nature continue to inspire all who knew him.

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Ronald and Cherilynn Elowitz

September 2, 2024

Lorne, Brett, Elaine, Marjorie and Family,

Cherilynn and I were very sorry to come across the news of Allen´s passing.

Allen was my first manager and business leader out of my undergraduate studies. I have nothing but warm and highly professional memories of our time together at Innoventions and meetings afterwards.

I found Allen very intelligent, fair, a great conversationalist, level-headed, sincere, hard-working, and very-much a people-person as they say.

He was proud of his family, his craft and his cultural affiliations for sure. He gave very prompt and thoughtful advice when we I asked him, and displayed a genuine sense of caring and ease of approachability in all our interactions, and those with others. I still remember the sound of his voice practicing his French language skills...

We thought your father, husband, grandfather, family member and friend was a kind man, generous colleague, wonderful mentor and more. I will remember our friendship and learning what I did from Allen for many years to come.

Please accept our deepest condolences and sympathies, as well as those of Vincent Cavaliere, another Innoventions employee whom I met in 1987 there and who remains a very close former to this day. We hope you are all well and wish you the best in everything you do of course.

Ron and Cherilynn Elowitz
Watchung, NJ
908-294-0691

Harris Ruben

May 24, 2024

Hugh Heller

April 15, 2024

First met Allen at Syracuse University band camp the summer of 1960. He played trombone while I played trumpet. We became fast friends and remained so ever since. Celebrated his engagement to Margie at a fancy French restaurant in NYC that neither of us could afford. We had about $1.75 left for a tip and had to slink out of the place. Had many memorable dinners with him and Elaine. Was able to leave a decent tip by then! Love him and will miss him.

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