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Barry Michael Amass, beloved husband of Sally Stallings Amass and resident of Edgewater, Maryland, passed away on Saturday, January 9, 2016 Born August 15, 1954, in Kingsville, Texas, Barry grew up in Baltimore, Maryland. He received his BS degree in Music Education from Towson University and a MS in Communicative Disorders from Johns Hopkins University. He was an accomplished performer, composer and teacher. Barry was an outstanding saxophonist, and performed with a variety of Big Bands for over thirty years, including the Shades of Blue, Don Arnold Big Band, Riverside Jazz Band, Ed Williams Orchestra, and the Anything Goes Big Band. He was the founder, composer, and arranger for Mewzkl Publications, which specialized in new music for elementary and middle school string orchestras. His compositions have been performed by school music groups across the country and internationally. Barry was also an accomplished music arranger, serving as chief arranger for the Bay Strings Quartet. He was a retired instrumental music teacher from the Baltimore County Public Schools and over the last twenty years maintained a private music studio in his home in Edgewater, Maryland. Barry will be remembered for his kindness, his ever present wit, and his willingness always to help others. He loved his family and friends. He loved working on computers, composing music, performing music and teaching. He enjoyed photography. He was an avid reader and a life-long learner. He loved animals, especially his dogs, Honey, Emme, and Jay Jay. Barry is survived by the love of his life and wife of nineteen years, Sally Stallings Amass. He is also survived by his father, Charles Amass of Boynton Beach, FL., a brother, Keith Amass (Nicole) of British Columbia, and a sister, Sandra San Miguel (Phillip) of Lafayette, IN. He is also survived by four nephews and four nieces and a grandniece and grandnephew. He is pre-deceased by his mother, Margaret Amass. Friends are invited to share in Barry's life with his family at a visitation from 6-8 p.m. on Tuesday, January 12, 2016 and 10:00-11:00AM on Wednesday January 13th at the John M. Taylor Funeral Home, 147 Duke of Gloucester Street, Annapolis, MD 21401 where a celebration of his life will be held on Wednesday, January 13th at 11:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers the family suggests memorial contributions to the Anne Arundel County ASPCA, Annapolis Symphony Orchestra or the Annapolis Chorale.
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January 16, 2016
Sally, I am so sad to hear. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Jadene (Payne)
January 15, 2016
My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope that the promise found in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 can bring you some comfort. Knowing that there is a future for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.
Lloyd and Doris McKinney
January 14, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jeannette & Bob Handler
January 14, 2016
Sally, we are thinking of you in sorrow and sympathy. Your family and friends will be a comfort to you now and in the days ahead.
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January 13, 2016
Sally-
So sorry for your loss. I remember Barry from our days at Towson together and the good times we had. He was a wonderful musician and person.
Rich Albright
Mike and Laura Tayman
January 13, 2016
Sally - we are so sorry to hear this. He was such a wonderful and talented man who obviously adored you. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Debbie Brown
January 13, 2016
Sally, I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I pray the memories you created with Barry will help you through the coming days. My deepest sympathy. God Bless.
Courtney Westcott
January 12, 2016
Dearest Sally - Am thinking of you everyday.
- Courtney
January 12, 2016
Sally,
So sad to hear of your sweetheart's passing. I will be praying for you through this time.
Louise
Marcia &Lenny
January 12, 2016
Sally, Buddy and Keith
We just read the beautiful obituary for your beloved Barry. He was quite a talented and all around great guy! He accomplished so much in his shortened life. May you keep all of your wonderful memories forever. Our prayers are with you
January 12, 2016
Sally - My heart goes out to you. Barry was a truly amazing man of many, many talents. I loved working with him in so many capacities. He spoke his mind, but did so with gentleness and respect..a rare combination of the finest of qualities. He will be missed by so many, but remembered with great fondness. I will be at the funeral tomorrow. Please, please, let me know if I can do anything to help you through these difficult days. Peggy Friedman
Peggy Williams
January 12, 2016
Deepest sympathies to the family. During my times subbing with Shades of Blue, Barry was next to me calming my performance anxiety and keeping me laughing. He was a very nice man and loved in the band. So sorry for your loss.
jane McClanahan
January 12, 2016
So sad to loose such a talented man with so much to offer.
Lin Hiett-Proutt
January 12, 2016
The world had lost a great music teacher and humanitarian. Sally, may God grant you the strength to cope with this loss of your beloved Barry and provide you with comfort in the days ahead. Your Crofton Elementary friends and "retiree" group is sending prayers and support. May God send HIS ANGELS TO COVER YOU WITH THEIR WINGS AND SURROUND YOU WITH HIS ABIDING LOVE.
Gary Daughaday
January 12, 2016
Sally, I am so sorry for your loss. Barry was a talented, kind and gentle man. We enjoyed attending many Maynard Ferguson concerts together as well as chatting during lunch from time to time. He will be missed.
Barbara Francis
January 12, 2016
Dear Sally, I am so very sorry to hear of Barry's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers...much love Barb
January 12, 2016
Dear Sally, words can not express my deepest sympathy for you. Please know that while I can not be with you physically at this time my thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family. I know Barry is with my beloved Lila in Heaven.
Aloha to you all
Bill, Naples, Florida
January 11, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear that Barry passed. My condolences. Tito Woodlawn Class of 72 friend.
Nancy Carp
January 11, 2016
Chuck, Keith, Sandy and Sally, I am saddened to hear about Barry's passing. I have such fond memories of Barry as a neighbor. He drove me to school every morning while listening to Rod Stewart. He was sweet and kind and a friend. He will never be forgotten. So glad that I saw him at his high school reunion. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
January 11, 2016
Dear Sally,
We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you with love and sympathy and that you will be in our hearts always.
Carol and Phil Patterson (Pasadena, MD)
Peter Cohn
January 11, 2016
Sally, Amy and I are so sad for the loss of Barry.
Jose-Luis Novo
January 11, 2016
Dear Sally:
Lori and I wanted you to know that we are thinking of you during this extremely challenging time. We hope that with the help of your family and friends you will be able to celebrate Barry's life and find the necessary strength of spirit to cope with his sudden departure.
With our most heart-felt condolences to you and all your family,
Lorraine Combs
January 11, 2016
Dearest Sally,
My deepest sympathy to you for your loss. My thoughts and condolences are with you during this difficult time.
Donna Gathright
January 11, 2016
Sally, we love you. Barry, Godspeed.
Camille McIntosh
January 11, 2016
Sally, Chuck, Keith and Sandy,
I am truly saddened to hear of Barry's passing. I have such wonderful memories from our childhood about Barry. He used to drive me to school every morning when we were in high school...until I got my drivers license. So many other memories. I will see you guys Wednesday.
All my love,
Camille McIntosh
Ed and June Sakugawa
January 10, 2016
Sally, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
January 10, 2016
Sally, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. You and Barry had such a nice marriage. You did so much together and enjoyed each others' company, So sorry. Sandra Rostad
January 10, 2016
Sally, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. You and Barry had such a nice marriage. You did so much together and enjoyed each others' company, So sorry. Sandra Rostad
January 10, 2016
Sally,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. My deeoest sympathy- Diane Gerrior-Manning
Charles and Cecelia Cruickshank
January 10, 2016
Deepest condolences to Barry's family and especially his beloved wife, Sally.
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