BENJAMIN LAMBERT

1938 - 2021

BENJAMIN LAMBERT

1938 - 2021

BORN

1938

DIED

2021

BENJAMIN LAMBERT Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 7, 2021.
LAMBERT--Benjamin V., died Saturday evening, January 30, surrounded by people he loved after a brave and hopeful battle against cancer. Always optimistic, Ben left life the way he lived it, making those around him feel loved and certain that he was so glad they were with him. While his accomplishments were numerous and amazing, the magic of Ben was his presence. He filled a room with special energy. He knew so much about everyone he came in contact with because he asked. He lived in broad strokes, but relished small interactions. Ben graduated from Brown University in 1960, but not many know he was accepted as part of a program for students Brown thought had unproven potential. He expressed his gratitude to Brown over the rest of his life as he oversaw many real estate transactions and served as a Trustee. He married classmate, Priscilla Hosp Lambert, and got a job selling fabric from a rolling cart for Burlington Mills. In 1967, while working at Eastman Dillon, he had the idea to create an investment bank for real estate and Eastdil was born. The rest is history as Eastdil Secured is known for its impressive market share but as importantly for its collaborative culture, which Ben imbued it with and continued to nurture for more than 50 years - "Other companies have brokers. Eastdil has trusted advisors." There were countless iconic and record breaking deals - sales of the GM building, The Embarcadero Center, The Helmsley Portfolio, the purchase of The Irvine Ranch - and so many more. He was also able to help orchestrate (more than once) the sale of Eastdil and it's repurchase. Ben loved doing deals. He loved the characters and the nuances, the teamwork, the details and the drama. Ben also used his energy, talent and money to found The Harlem Day Charter School. He served on Boards of The Urban Land Institute, The Waterford School and Institute, The Spence School, The Irvine Company, Hilton Hotels and many others. He wrote notes on baby blue notepads with a brown flair pen, went to the same barber for 40 years, joked with the receptionist on his way in in the morning and lived a life he loved with dinners, tennis games (he much preferred to win) and just being with family. Born May 9, 1938 to Henry L. and Marion Lambert, Ben is survived by his adored wife of 27 years, Linda Lloyd Lambert; best friend and brother, Henry A. Lambert; daughters, Alexa Lambert, Lauren Lambert and Hilary Lambert; stepson, Oliver Lloyd; sons-in-law, Chauncey Parker and Randall Batinkoff; daughter-in-law, Laurie Lloyd and grandchildren, Jack Parker, Max McGinley, Grace Parker, Isabel Batinkoff, Elle Lloyd and Coco Lloyd - for whom he would wear silly hats, dance "Ben" dances, make up songs and do just about anything. He will be missed by so many and never forgotten. A memorial will be held when we can all gather safely. Donations in Ben's memory may be made to The ASPCA at 520 8th Ave or to The Brooklyn Charter School (brooklyncharter.org).

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September 28, 2023

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Desideria V Resnick

September 28, 2023

I was remiss before when I did not offer my condolences to the entire Lambert family. You really did lose a super important Member but I'm sure you have so many wonderful memories my deepest. Condolences to all of you.

Desideria V Resnick

September 28, 2023

Ben gave me the biggest boost That I could have ever received as a young woman Entering the business world.. He personally interviewed me.and chose me to be the receptionist for his company, Eastdil, and he saw I'm nervous I was and put me at ease so kindly by telling me not to be nervous. Just think of him as one of the guys he was so kind And he further said that whoever sat at the front desk represented him And That I was perfect for that position.. He made me feel great I thoroughly enjoyed working for him and after I left for health reasons he made it clear. I was always welcome to come back which I did after a few years and worked for him and other associates as well. I always thought about him through years and the world is a sadder place without Ben. May. He? Rest in peace and soar with the angel's He was a wonderful kind!!!

Brewster Paley

December 1, 2021

The first and nicest boss I ever had, "Mr. Lambert" was kind, funny, smart and a gentleman in the classic meaning of the term. At Eastdil we all felt like part of an energetic, safe, exciting young place - full of optimism and hope. He was charismatic, charming, and treated everyone with respect - including me - the Eastdil receptionist. When Mr. Rockefeller (David) was around, Mr. Lambert included me, Rose and Annette (the admins from Brooklyn and Staten Island) in the informal conversations between the more "serious" meetings. Eastdil at 120 Bway in 1970 was a special place to be with Mr. Lambert setting the wonderful atmosphere every workday. Condolences to his family and friends.

Lisa mata-king

August 6, 2021

I´m so sorry to hear of mr lamberts passing. Sending my condolencias to Mrs Lambert and family

Timothy D. Naegele

August 6, 2021

Ben was a human dynamo when I met him, while working in the U.S. Senate. His first wife was charming and lovely; and they seem well matched.

May God bless him, and them.

Cluster of 50 Memorial Trees

Robert and Kevin

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Simone Taylor

February 13, 2021

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Elaine Keeve Sloan

February 7, 2021

Ben was an extraordinary and a very lovely friend. RIP, Ben, the world is duller without you.

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