Benjamin Shaver

Benjamin Shaver obituary, San Antonio, TX

Benjamin Shaver

Benjamin Shaver Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Nov. 28 to Dec. 2, 2010.
SHAVER
Benjamin Borroum Shaver, M.D. age 96 of San Antonio died Friday, November 19, 2010. He was born June 17, 1914 in San Marcos, TX, one of twins, to Dr. and Mrs. P.J. Shaver of San Marcos and San Antonio. His paternal great grandfather, P. J. Shaver founded the city of Fayetteville, TX. His maternal grandfather, Benjamin A. Borroum was one of the pioneer Traildrivers in Texas. He attended elementary school in San Marcos then transferred to Hawthorne Junior School in San Antonio and graduated from Main Avenue High School in 1931. He attended school at the San Antonio Junior College and University of Texas at Austin for pre-medical education progressing to the University of Texas Medical Branch at Galveston and graduated in 1939. He interned at John Sealy Hospital in Galveston for one year then continued his medical career at the Children's Hospital of Michigan in Detroit for one and half years when his course of study was interrupted by the onset of World War II. He was called to service in 1941 prior to Pearl Harbor and remained in service through 1946. He served a short course of duty in the states then was ordered to the European Theater until the conclusion of the war. He served as Executive Officer of the 35th Station Hospital and the 237th General Hospital during his overseas duty. Following his discharge from Medical Corps duty as a Lt. Col., he returned to his medical career as a Resident Physician and Instructor in Pediatrics at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor. He then returned to his hometown of San Antonio and entered private practice of Pediatrics in 1948 and continued so until 1978 when he retired from private practice and was accepted as Medical Director of the Pediatric Clinic at Randolph Air Force Base for five years before retiring. He was a Diplomat of the American Board of Pediatrics, long time member of the Bexar County Medical Society, Texas Medical Association, American Medical Association, the Texas Pediatric Society, the San Antonio Pediatric Society and the American Academy of Pediatrics. He was a Past President of the San Antonio Pediatric Society and the Texas Pediatric Society. He was a member of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon social fraternity and the Alpha Kappa Kappa medical fraternity. He was a former member of Oak Hills Country Club for many years. He was an active member of the San Antonio Liederkranz, the Beethoven Maennenchor, the Star Dusters Dance Club and the Revelers Dance Club. He was preceded in death by his loving wife, of 58 years, Evelyn Tollette Kuykendall Shaver, as well as his parents, his twin brother, Lt. Col. Robert T. Shaver, his older brother, Philip J. Shaver, Jr., an infant son and a grandson, Jimmy Kuykendall. He is survived by his sons, Jim J. Kuykendall and wife, Gay Lynn of Briggs, TX, John B. Shaver and wife, Jenise; his daughter, Becky and her husband, Dr. Vernon Benson all of San Antonio, Texas. His surviving grandchildren are Sarah Kuykendall Maynard and husband Raymond, Amanda Kuykendall, Benjamin Landrum and wife Catherine, Kathryn Landrum Russ and husband Jon, the twins Benjamin and Beth Shaver, Candice Groce and husband Matt, Cherie Benson, Bjorn Schey, Bob Benson and wife Nancy, Sandra Brantley, Eric Benson and wife Laura, and Mark Benson. He is remembered with pleasure and affection by his many nieces and nephews from both sides of the family and his many friends and former patients.

MEMORIAL ROSARY
THURSDAY
DECEMBER 2, 2010
7:00 P.M.
PORTER LORING CHAPEL
ON MCCULLOUGH

MEMORIAL MASS
FRIDAY
DECEMBER 3, 2010
10:00 A.M.
ST. PIUS X CATHOLIC CHURCH
3909 HARRY WURZBACH ROAD

Interment will follow in the San Marcos City Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to his niece's mission Notre Dame Clinic and Maternity in Ghana. The mailing address is: School Sisters of Notre Dame, District of Africa Development Office P.O. Box 16415 St. Louis, MO 63125, please note: Notre Dame Clinic and Maternity.
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December 12, 2010

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December 9, 2010

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December 6, 2010

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Heda Elmendorf Hahn

December 12, 2010

Ben and Evelyn were dear friends of my mother and our family. We used to go to Port Aransas together. Dr. Shaver made us come in from noon until after 2:00 p.m. Then we had to put alcohol in our ears! What a bummer for young children on vacation at the beach. However, we must appreciate the fact that as adults today none of us have skin cancer and we still have our hearing! Our family was blessed to have Dr. Shaver and his family in our lives. He is at peace and I remember him and is family fondly. Becky, John, Jim, you and your families are in my prayers. (I can assure you that mother, Irene, was there to greet him in heaven. Her exit visa from earth was on 10.19.10) Love to your extended families...

Martha Ragsdale

December 9, 2010

I will never forget Dr. Shaver's phone calls after suppertime to check on one or the other of my children who had tonsillitis, fever, or the flu. His step by step instructions helped me take care of my children with care and healing and common sense. His name is still mentioned when my own grandchildren are ill and need a healing touch. Dr. Shaver was a gift to any parents with children that he treated. Our prayers of gratitude and sympathy go out to his family.

Marie LaBeaume Moore

December 6, 2010

Dr. Shaver was our family pediatrician from 1948 through 1968 for all 5 of us. His gentle, kind,& compassionate care left a lasting impression on each of us. He was a fine & genuine individual; a wonderful doctor. We have spoken of him so many times at family gatherings & were blessed to run into him off & on at his old office building. Thank God for His gifts shared through Dr. Shaver. You are in our prayers & may God bless you with His peace each day.

December 3, 2010

My sincere condolences to the family of Dr. Shaver. As the oldest of six children, he was a welcome and frequent presence in our lives. I remember him as calm and funny, and I actually enjoyed going to the doctor, whether as the primary patient or accompanying my mother and one or more of my siblings. My prayers are with him and his family.

Cherie Benson

December 3, 2010

Pampa was the most interesting man I've had the pleasure of knowing. He was such a joy to talk to--he was interested in everything! He loved to discuss baking, gardening, medicine, and current events--he never hesitated to speak his mind! I admired him greatly. He was always so proud of his chocolate cakes and his plants, and was always genuinely anxious to know what was going on in your own life...he was determined and hilarious, and I will miss him greatly.

Pat Wilke-Simons

December 3, 2010

My deepest condolences to Dr. Shaver's family. I was born in 1952 and have 4 siblings, the youngest born in 1962 and my son born in 1970 and we all had Dr. Shaver as our pediatrician. My mother actually wrote all of his detailed instructions in our baby books and I have passed that information down to my children and what worked then, still is working now. Dr. Shaver left a great legacy and he will be missed by all that knew him.

Lavelle Brown

December 2, 2010

Dr. Shaver was our pediatrician in the 60's-70's for both my son & daughter. No matter what time day or night or weekends, if emergency arose, he would say, "meet me down at my office in 30 minutes". He had such a wonderful soothing way with children & anxious parents. He will be sorely missed. We all loved him dearly.

Bruce Christopherson

December 2, 2010

I've known Dr. Ben on and off since 1999 through the San Antonio Liederkranz. He was always a joy to interact with, and never let his infirmities affect his spirit or attitude. I'm sure he is now in the loving arms of the Lord, with his wonderful wife. I expect he'll be watching over us for our Christmas concert as well.

Farewell Ben, vaya con dios

Lacey Whitten

November 30, 2010

I grew up a few houses from the Shaver family and remember Dr. Shaver as the kindest man and always enjoyed playing around and in their house. As kids always do, we often had injuries and cuts and he always took time to sew up the cuts and was never in a rush to help and calmly assure us the we would be fine. My sister married his son and I will always feel blessed to be a part of their family and to have known such giving and caring man. I can only hope to be the father that he was to his family and have the big heart and laugh and warm smile he always gave us. I know he is with the Lord and my prayers go out to all his family.

November 30, 2010

Dr. Shaver was both my sister & my baby doctor!!! My parents told us of how kind and dedicated he always was!!! He was greatly appreciated, few doctors these days meet up to his standards!...Deepest sympathy to his family and we will keep you in our prayers. Gloria Ortega & Alice O. Zamora~(former patients).

Patty Goodspeed Pizzini

November 29, 2010

Dr. Shaver was both of my children's Pediatrician. There was never a kinder, gentler man. I knew that my children had the best of the best. I have thought of him frequently over the years and shared stories of his kindness with many. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. Thank you, Dr. Shaver for keeping my children healthy.

Nancy Lehde

November 28, 2010

The Shaver family,
I have such fond memories of Dr. Shaver from my years at Methodist Hospital--the newborn nursery and pediatrics. His calm, professional demeanor was most appreciated by all the nurses. My deepest sympathy to his entire family. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Nancy (Huff) Lehde, RN
Cedar Park, TX

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