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Bernadette T. Pacitti
1961 - 2023
Bernadette T. Pacitti
1961 - 2023
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BORN
1961
DIED
2023
Bernadette Pacitti Obituary
Bernadette T. Pacitti "Bern" passed away peacefully, after a brief illness January 20, 2023. Beloved daughter of the late Anthony and Antoinette Pacitti. Loving sister of Judy Eck. Dear aunt of Tommy, Kristina, and Breanna; niece of Teresa Iannuzzi and Pat Pacitti. Bernadette will also be sadly missed by her loving cousins and dear friends.
Relatives and friends are invited to gather Thursday, January 26, 2023, 9:00 AM to 10:45 AM Our Lady of Calvary Church, 11024 Knights Rd., Philadelphia, followed by her Funeral Mass 11:00 AM. Interment will be held at Resurrection Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions to Panther Ridge Conservation Center, 2143 "D" Road, Loxahatchee, FL 33470 in her memory would be appreciated.
Diana Wholley
January 16, 2025
My dear Friend, I can't believe it's going to be 2 years since your gone..still not a day goes by that I don't think of you. It's not the same without you here..I miss your smile and our little trips to the flea markets ..Going out to eat for lunch..I know one day we will see each other again. I love you bern!!!.. ... love always your friend diana..xo
Nicole Brzyski
October 17, 2023
Bernadette, I just recently learned of your passing. I was blessed to have met you at Curves so many years ago. I will always cherish our therapy walks together. I know you are having the most wonderful time with your mom and dad up in heaven. God gained a special angel. I will always be grateful for you and our friendship. Happy Heavenly birthday, my dear friend. Until we meet again
Diana Wholley
October 10, 2023
Wishing you a Happy Birthday in heaven...I miss you dearly and not a day goes by that I don't think of you............
Joann Hazzard
January 30, 2023
My dear Bern. It is almost impossible to put in words when we shared a lifetime of love.
To realize that the phone will never ring again with the voice saying "Hi Jo, what's happening. "followed by 2 hours of stories and laughs.
You have a place in my family's life that can never be forgotten.
I could cry everyday and it will always bring back thoughts to the shore of good times, the celebrations that we share with friends and family and The Talks that never ended.
Vance,Vanessa,Concetta and Sonny,Kathy, everyone in my family who met my Bern, loved Bern.
You are missed .
Love, Joann
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Vanessa Hazzard
January 26, 2023
I’ve felt extremely blessed and grateful beyond words to have known and have Bernadette as my very dear friend for over 40 years around many family events, outings, and holidays she shared with myself, my family, and friends. Her beautiful smile and outgoing personality light up a room with every person she met.
When you met her you feel like you knew her your whole life. Bern, you will be sadly missed though many amazing memories together will be there to reminisce forever. Rest in peace with bundles of angels and glistening stars around you in your next journey.
God Bless you today, tomorrow and always my special friend.
Lisa & Jim Howard
January 25, 2023
Bern was a wonderful person. We shared a lot of laughs and also tough times when our Brandt Bensalem office closed. Very sad to hear this news.
Linda Bobby’s wife
January 25, 2023
Dear Bernadette,
Although you are the cousin of my husband, Bobby, we didn’t see each other often. But with family, time doesn’t matter. We are there for each always, no matter how much or how little time has passed.
I feel blessed to be part of Bobby’s family, just as he is part of mine (the Mennite family).
The guest book allows one to put a candle or a photo when one signs it. A candle is a beautiful symbol. And I love to see all the smiling faces in the photos, including yours, of course!
But what I’m going to try to put here is a rainbow , as a symbol of all the color and joy and hope you brought to everyone you met.
You were a selfless, compassionate, joyous, loving person. I feel blessed to have known you.
And though I prayed for you when I learned that you were ill, I believe you probably don’t need my prayers anymore. I believe that you are with the Lord.
My prayers now are for the members of your family and for your friends.
I know how much my husband and all his relatives loved you. I know how deeply they will grieve. But I will do my best to offer heartfelt prayers to God, asking him to bring them His comfort and peace.
Love,
Bobby’s wife, Linda
Diane Cifuni
January 24, 2023
Rest in peace dear Bern. You were very loved. The tributes say it all.
Fly with the angels. Your friend Linda´s brother and sister in law.
Diane and Mike Cifuni
Kerry Burns
January 24, 2023
Bernadette Rest in Peace. my friend.
Nancy Brandell
January 24, 2023
Rest in Peace, Bernadette. Peace to all the family. From a friend of your friend, Diana
Mary Ann
January 23, 2023
I have known Bern for 40 years we met at Brandt. I loved keeping up to date with her through FB. We had a mutual love for caring for cats. She was such a kind soul. God Bless you. To young to have left us.
Richard Rdwards
January 23, 2023
Let this light guide you in the direction of God
Richard Edwards
January 23, 2023
She was a great friend to me when I needed her and I will miss her so much.
tina krauss
January 23, 2023
I knew Bern back when I worked at Brandt. She was beautiful inside and out. I am very sorry to hear of her passing. Bern is flying with the angels.
Christine Miller
January 23, 2023
This brings me much sadness. Bern was such a beautiful soul. She had a radiance about her and gave love to whomever stood in her presence.I wish healing vibes to her friends and family.
Much love
Christine Miller
Pat Holdahl
January 23, 2023
What can I say, Soul Sister, the world was a better place with you in it. Your positive energy & bright light was total on a cloudy day. Your kindness & compassion for the furry gang & birds meant so much. You will be greatly missed, but your memory is such a blessing, & your friendship has blessed me. Luv ya xoxo
Joseph Notte
January 23, 2023
Bernadette was a wonderful lady with a beautiful smile and great sense of humor. She will missed very much on this earth, but will be reunited with her loving parents in heaven. May she rest in peace in God's kingdom. Amen.
Melissa Baez
January 23, 2023
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Melissa Baez
January 23, 2023
My dear friend you will be missed. Thank you for your friendship, your out going personality speaks volumes of the the beautiful and generous blessings it was to have been part of your world.....
I´m sure your parents welcomed you with open arms....
Like you would always say to me
"Melissa your are my toughest customer"
Rest Easy I love you
Diana Wholley
January 23, 2023
Bern I miss you so much already,I cant imagine my life without you in it. I was truly blessed to have such a beautiful friend, you were such a gentle and kind soul. You wouldn't think twice to stop for any person or animal that needed help.Thru the years I've learned so much from you, you were the wind beneath my wings...til we meet again my friend...I love you bern.
Kimberly Trojak
January 22, 2023
Reconnecting with you, my grade school friend, has been a wonderful ride! Thank you for gracing my life once more with your wit and beauty and uplifting outlook about life. I bet you and your favorite Saint Katharine Drexel have alot to talk about.
Christine Coyne
January 22, 2023
My dear friend Bern I miss you more than I can put into words, you were one of the most kind and generous souls I have ever met, always there without hesitation for anyone who needed help, whether it was a person or animal you were always there. I feel so very blessed that God put you in my life, rest in peace my beautiful friend.
Barbara Mauro
January 22, 2023
Beautiful people die young. What an outgoing, energetic person to leave us so soon.
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