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Love Always In All Ways
May 6, 2007
Bernard
J. Klos. Bernard John Klos Bernard, not Bern-Ard, which is a dog, as
he’d say. Known as “Bud”. Dad to his children. Pap, Pap-poe, or Pappy
to his grandchildren. Bud was a family man. Bud dearly loved his wife, Tina. Their anniversary, on May 13th will mark fifty-seven years of marriage. He was so proud of his wife. He marveled at her beauty, her
wisdom, her homemaking skills and her cooking. He adored his wife.
Bud’s term of endearment for Tina was “Babe”. Bud was proud of his
family. He loved his sons, and their wives. He treated his
daughters-in-law as true daughters, and introduced them as such. He
raised his sons with discipline and love. He taught them. He taught
them a love of God. He taught them his learned skills. Bud was
intelligent and knowledgeable. He passed his knowledge on to his sons.
Bud loved his ten grandchildren. He desired, and at times demanded,
that they be close to him. He wanted them close physically. He
encouraged his sons to build homes on his property, with the intention
of having his grandchildren always near. He kept his grandchildren
close to his heart. He was involved with each of them, taking care of
them on a daily basis. He encouraged his children and grandchildren in
all of their endeavors. Bud loved his extended family. He welcomed all
to his home. Sunday gatherings with family and friends were very
important to him.
Bud was a staunch Catholic. He practiced his faith. He attended Mass daily when he was able. Bud was devoted to Mary, the Blessed Mother.
How fitting that he is called to the Lord in the month of May. He
supported his church. He cared for his church buildings. Many of his
projects and improvements are evident within the Holy Angels Parish campus. Bud was a tremendous planner and a superb organizer. He
organized the HART breakfasts at Holy Angels, providing an annual
Mother’s Day meal to thousands as a church treat. For years, Bud was in
charge of Bingos on Thursday evenings. Ultimately, Bud’s greatest
church project was the Holy Angels Famous Fish Fry, during advent and
lent. Bud was a phenomenal fund-raiser. In his lifetime, Bud raised well over a million dollars for his beloved parish, Holy Angels.
Bud was a hard worker. Bud was a provider. At times he worked three
jobs to provide for his family. Bud worked in the steel industry as a
laborer, eventually as a supervisor and finally as a consultant. Bud
would leave for work before sunrise. After dinner at four, Bud would
work many more hours. He truly worked from sunrise to sunset. For eight years, Bud was a bar owner of an establishment known as “The Three
Keys”. Around 1970, he moved his family to their current home, five
acres of land on Miller Road. The property held an old farmhouse, tool
shed, stable, barn and three chicken coops. With his wife and sons, Bud
worked to remodel and rebuild. Today his home is a showplace, a
mansion. Complete with garage and greenhouse. Bud helped his sons build their homes. Well into his later years, Bud continued to perform physically demanding tasks. He worked along side his sons, keeping pace with much younger men. His land and property now are a haven for his family. He created a compound of tranquility where his family could exist. Bud was the master. His presence was profound.
Bud was always the Boss. He was a natural leader. He could surmise most events or situations and instantly knew what should be done, and how. People naturally followed his lead and looked to him for direction. Bud was a motivator. He could prompt those around him into action. Bud was an advisor. His advise was given gently, but firmly~~and often sought.
Bud had strong feelings regarding politics and government. He was a
Republican. Bud was conservative. Bud was respected. Bud was an anchor. In his presence, a sense of safety was felt. Bud was a caretaker. He assured that all would be well. Bud was dependable. He normally knew, and provided, precisely what was needed even before the recipient was
aware of the need. Expressions of gratitude to him were frequent, and
humbly received. Bud was a gardener. His great garden grew in size each
year. He meticulously planned his garden crops and grew many plants
from seed. A shelter was built in the picnic area, near his garden. As
always, Bud assured that the project wasn’t complete until a brick
barbecue grill, massive table, running water and electricity were
added. On any summer day, he could be found headquartered in this area.
He loved the warm summer breezes that the location allowed. Many summer gatherings were enjoyed and shared with friends and family. He spent long hours maintaining his property, riding his tractor and cutting grass in his field. Bud was a handsome man. He was strong. He was loving and loyal. Bud is deeply loved and will be intensely missed. He is the source of much pride to his family. It is with honor that his relationship is claimed. In his lifetime, Bud built homes, families and the lives of others. Bud lived his life well. A plaque was hung in the family kitchen which read, “The greatest gift that I ever had came from God and I call him Dad.”
Bud, and his expression of approval, “BEAUTIFUL !” will be forever
missed.
Debra Siciliano
May 5, 2007
Dear Aunt Tina & Family, We are so sorry to hear Uncle Bud passed away. We will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love Vinnie, Debbie, & Vince Jr.
Amanda Matlock
May 3, 2007
Dear Aunt Tina, Dean, Chris and Mark,
We are so sorry to hear of Uncle Bud's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May Christs peace be with you through this difficult time.
The Matlock Family
Family Hospice Manor Friends at the Manor
May 3, 2007
Dear Donna and Family,
With deepest heartfelt sympathy we send this message to you and your entire family.We pray that God will Bless you and keep you in His loving care and give you His Peace that this world cannot provide and maybe some even somewhat till the great void of the loss of "Bud"
.May the Almight rest His SOul in Peace
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May 3, 2007
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