Chase Perry Kirkham

Chase Perry Kirkham obituary, Huntsville, UT

Chase Perry Kirkham

Chase Kirkham Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 13, 2025.
Chase Perry Kirkham, our valiant ALS warrier, died peacefully on the beautiful spring morning of May, 4. 2025, surrounded by his family. He was so happy to be in the home he loved during his final time here on earth.

Chase was born on June 18th, 1987 in Salt Lake City, Ut. He spent his early years in Layton Ut. and attended East Layton Elementary and Central Junior High. He spent the rest of his years in beautiful Huntsville, Ut. attending Snowcrest Junior High and graduating from Weber High School.

Chase was incredibly smart, with a very high IQ. He was easily the smartest guy in the room, but it took illness and maturity to help him realize that being smart wasn't as important as being kind and having gratitude, especially for those who cared for him.

Chase was extremely athletic and was an amazing snowboarder, as well as enjoying paddle boarding or any outdoor activity. In the fall of 2017, he was diagnosed with ALS (Lou Gehrigs disease) at the young age of 29. This devastating news would go on to slowly steal his life for the next 8 years.

ALS is a terrible disease that traumatizes all who are involved but Chase handled it with remarkable courage and strength, rarely, if ever complaining. It stole the use of his legs & hands, and finally took his voice. His incredible extended family came together and bought him a "Tobii Dynavox Eyegazer, " a remarkable piece of technology that allowed him to speak with his eyes, and let him back on the internet, something he loved so much. He was even able to watch movies, listen to music, & shop, all with his eyes. It was an incredible show of love and generosity which allowed him some freedom again.

Chase is survived by his parents, Doug and Laurel Kirkham, his brother Kade Kirkham, his sister Shelby Rackham (Karson) & their son Odin, and his grandparents, Darwin & Diane Perry, along with many beloved aunts, uncles & cousins whom he cherished. He loved his family very much and was fiercely loyal. A special thank you to his brother Kade, who put his own life on hold to help care for Chase, & to Kristen Naylor who provided so much love, support & amazing care for Chase this last year and a half.

Chase did not want a funeral but he will be celebrated by his family on Memorial Day this year, which should include a crazy family volleyball game which he loved so much. We will always remember his "German backhand" and the wonderfully funny accents that he used to make us laugh.

Chase expressed his great gratitude & love for his entire family for standing with him throughout this incredibly difficult journey. Much was lost but so much was learned & found as well. It has been a truly bittersweet experience that we will never forget. Chase, please hug Andy for us all.

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May 17, 2025

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Susan Firmage

May 17, 2025

I am Susan Firmage. Chase was in my 1st grade class at East Layton. What a nice boy! What a great student! Chase is on the second from the top row, two away from me in the denim shirt. This was an exceptional class that year. We did a "Family Program" with songs, poems, and slide show. We ended with a song called: Spend Some Time with Your Child Everyday.
The lyrics continue:
Hold on to each moment while you may
Childhood won´t last
`Cause they grow up so fast
Spend some time with your child everyday.
My love and sympathy to Chase´s parents and all of his family. You did great in spending time with him! He was such a joy to teach and love.

Jake Nelson

May 16, 2025

Chase and I shared countless cups of coffee nerding out over Bitcoin and crypto. Although I´ve lost touch over the last few years, I´ll always cherish those long mornings. Say hi to Mak on the other side for us, buddy.

Sending strength to the whole Kirkham family. You all are in my thoughts.

Josee Porter

May 16, 2025

I met Chase at Weber High. We reconnected after high school when I moved in with Robbie Hogge and the Boyingtons. Chase would often hang out at the house, go snowboarding, camping and go up to the cabin with us. We had many adventures together. I admired him for his humor and enjoyed our conversations. He was very intelligent which made conversations more interesting. His laugh was unforgettable. I was a CNA for 12 years and made some deep connections with patients. I cared for one patient with ALS. I watched her body decline rapidly, her voice soon followed. It truly is a devastating disease. Sending love to all of the family. Grief is a forever companion to those who have had such a profound loss. I´ll be thinking of you all on Memorial Day.

- Josee Porter

Peter Neilson

May 13, 2025

Chase was one of my most cherished cousins growing up. We had some crazzzzy good memories together caring all sorts of chaos and having a good time. I certainly miss his presence and the life he helped me live.

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