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Vicky Turnbull
October 14, 2024
Hard to believe it has been 18 years.We miss you.
Vicky Turnbull
October 12, 2023
Hard to believe it has been 17 years.We miss you.
Vicky
October 14, 2022
Hard to believe it has been 16 years.Was so good to have known you and for you to be Racheal's godfather.We miss you
Victoria Turnbull
October 14, 2019
Thinking of you today.13 years ago we lost a great friend.We miss you alot.
How you can show support
Vicky Turnbull
October 14, 2018
12 years ago we loss a great friend,We miss you alot.
Vicky Turnbull
October 14, 2017
That time of the year again,11 years ago we lost a great friend we miss and have you in our thoughts and prayers always.
Vicky Turnbull
October 14, 2017
That time of the year again,We miss you alot.Will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
Roger Borchert
November 10, 2016
In thoughts of all those who have given all that could be given for our freedoms, our beliefs, our futures and in thoughts of their families, loved ones, friends and fellow soldiers. Thank You. We Will Remember
Etched in history's past hundred years
Is freedom's struggle forth
As nations stood allied to stand
To stop tyranny's closing doors
So many sons
Lay in far off lands
Never to return
Except in thoughts and memories shared
By their fellow soldiers, families, friends
What touches hearts still beating for
Those who stood that ground
Are those who shared their stories forth
Of a war that turned around
As years passed by
Nations share
A bond that cannot brake
Those who found freedom's door
Opened in their wake
Dear Lord, sons and daughters taught
Their children, of the past
Now years and years
So little's changed
Except the speed the news is passed
Yes war has changed
This past hundred years
As more and more have stood
Fallen near, that brethren strong
Freedom held so dear
I wish my tears could wash away
The reality war has shown
Shown to me, as one who cares
As one who's stood so near
One who allowed the tears to flow
As a mom talked and shared her love
For a fallen one
She held so dear
Now lifted high above
To continue caring, listening
As their daughters chatted so
And let me know
Of a love they held
For a dad who gave his all
His love
For his Nation dear
His all for a world to be
That which he would pass along
To his children strong and free
I stand with fallen angels
Their families, loved ones, friends
I stand with soldier bears who've heard
Over and over and over, again
I love you dad, I love you mom
I wish, you could come home
But now I know you look after me
From where ever angels go
By Roger Borchert For Remembrance Day 2016
My heart goes out to so many families who have shared with me, their journey to overcome such loss. My thanks to Britt and Sarah Stewart of Allan' s Angels Camp for introducing me to your soldier bears and letting me hear your dad say in his own voice good night to you even 3 years after his loss. My journey into 8 years of poetry and caring for the families of our fallen and wounded has taken so much of a bite out of me and left me so proud of our soldiers and their military families; I cannot turn away. Hugs to all: We Will Remember Them.
Roger, Eileen and The Borchert Family Morinville, Alberta
Vicky Turnbull
October 14, 2016
Cannot believe it has been 10 years.You were a good friend and we miss you.Will always have you in our thoughts and prayers.
October 14, 2015
Thinking of you today.we lost a good friend 9 years ago.
Paulette Tedford
April 8, 2015
Hi Darcy,it's been awhile. I've been writing on your other post and forgot how to get to this one. So much has changed and life has continued. you are loved and missed every day.Always in our hearts! Mom & Dad
Roger Borchert
April 3, 2015
My poem for this Easter 2015
There are times respect
Grasps at the heart
For a gift so far beyond
Incomprehensibly stilled within the minds
Of those who've seen the light
So brightly shone within mind's eye
As real as life can bare
As heroes rode a highway home
Tears welled up within eyes
A nation stood, so near, to show
Their families, loved ones, friends
They weren't alone in sorrow's depth
As their loved ones returned home
On this, such special weekend
As hearts ponder a gift t'was given
To all mankind across our earth
From one who stood divine
A gift to grant a new birth
Believe in me, the message taught
He spread his good across the lands
Followed every step he took
He lived, he died, at the hands
Of those who could not see
The good he shared, the morals taught
The love that came to be
For all mankind forgiveness
For all another chance
For all to see each other
With a mutual respect
To pass along wherever roamed
A foundation of a world to be
He rose again from where entombed
To show, living, is more than life
It is how we live
What we give
During our moment here on earth
For centuries throughout history
There are those who are the beast
Who walk our earth immoral
Defile everything they see
Decimate, exterminate
Terrorize all within their path
Who do not share a vision held
In the mind, the beast has grasped
Easter weekend is about a love
Respect beyond compare
Passed on from one
Who stood, who gave
For a better world to come
Canada was founded
On this love passed along
A nation of mutual tolerance
And respect for all mankind
We are a collage of humanity
Evolved for a world to see
That mankind from a world surround
Can share a nation free
That rise to share this goodness
Stand across a world protect
A gift from those who make it so
Who stand to hold the beast
For all those who have stood, been wounded, or given their lives to foster this goodness across our world, we remain forever in your debt. May you know the light of eternal life shared and celebrated each Easter.
By Roger Borchert
Our hearts, Our tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family
Morinville, Alberta
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2014
For the Families of our Canadian Forces who lost a loved one during or due to their service for our nation, Christmas 2014
I have seen the frost the low clouds bring
As it rests on every branch
Glistens forth from each blade of grass
Paints pictures on the glass
Captured for a moment
Till sunshine's glow warms the chill
That froze each thought
The low clouds brought
As they wrapped around the soul
But the glisten, oh that glisten
Its sparkle shining forth
It brings the smiles, then the tears
As Christmas gathers forth
Lord our world is a reality
That spills what life unfolds
And those who've stood, those who gave
Are those we hold so close
Captured in a memory
Of a sibling, daughter, son, mom or dad
Who took that step, held out that hand
In a far off distant land
They took that step for Canada
For a whole wide world protect
And visit now at special times
As if they've never left
They are that sparkle that brings a tear
They are that laughter that brings a smile
They are that warmth now ever held so close
And at Christmas they're always near
Held forever in a heart's belief
Glowing brighter than the stars
That shines in eyes that hold them close
Throughout each Christmas time
Hang that special bulb upon the tree
The one that gleams and glows
That one that holds all Frosty shines
Glistening in the snow
For a special, special son was born
Who stepped forth to change a world
Who shared his life for all mankind
Brought forth hope of eternal life
So many tears at Christmas time
So many found in joy
So many smiles surround the tree
Each blessed Christmas morn
By Roger Borchert
We Will Remember Them. Wishing You All a Very Joyous Christmas and All the Best in the Coming Year
The Borchert Family, Morinville, Alberta
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2014
A thought in Remembrance, 2014. Please Know, We Will Remember Them.
A nation is measured by the hearts that beat
That make up its collective soul
And is witnessed in steps taken forth
As across a world they've roamed
I gathered my thoughts reluctantly
While about, out on a walk
A blustery day, as wind blew by
Leaves falling from the sky
I looked into the heavens
As tears were rolling down
My cheeks a chill, the tears they froze
As at once I realized
The leaves were endless soldiers
Who stood for all and gave
So we might each day have the joy
To walk in freedom's way
To not be hiding who we are
Not worry, to grow old
To not be shuffled to the side
To stand and be so bold
To demand that freedom is the goal
Of our nation standing strong
For founded in the leaves that blow
Are the hearts, the very souls
The torches passed to soldiers
From a brethren strong and free
Who stood and said no more, no more
As tyranny roamed the streets
Of far off lands, now close at home
They stood, they lived, they died
They paid the price of freedom
The price of Canada
For they have stood and given all
On behalf of all of us
A tear is just a moment
A fleeting moment's thought
2 minutes in a year that's passed
For freedom for all of us
2 minutes to remember
Those who lived, those who gave
That we could build a nation strong
Stronger by the day
But only through reflection
In the pool of tears now shed
For those who gave their very all
That we might live the dream they bled
A precious little flower
A poppy just to say
That we remember
Those who stood
In such an honoured way
Please stop for just a moment
A thought, a prayer, a tear
For those who've lost
Those who've stood
Their families, loved ones, friends
Please reflect on what
Life might have brought
If not for all of them
By Roger Borchert
Thank You to all those who have served, serve presently, all of their families, loved ones, and friends who walk so nearby their sides and support them as they step forth on our behalf. A very special Thank You to all those who have shared and lost their loved one in the service or because of their service on behalf of our Canada.
Our hearts, our tears, our prayers
We Will Remember Them
The Borchert Family, Morinville, Alberta
Vicky Turnbull
October 14, 2014
Missing you Darcy.Will always have you in our thoughts. 8 years ago we lost a great friend.
Matthew McGuire
June 16, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2013
For the families and children of our fallen this Christmas 2013
Colours glowing near a window pain
Shimmer gentle, seen, the sight
Lifting hearts in yuletide's glow
On Christmas Eve, tonight
Let them hear the carols
Sung on high
Sung in hearts so light
Sung with all the love that grew
Sung with all their might
As they gather close
Around their Christmas tree
Recall a life time, shared
Broke into tears, for a life once shared
With a nation
With all of us
Oh Lord our child of Canada
Lost a soldier, Oh So Dear
To a world that needed
A strong, strong heart
To stand, to say, no more
In a world gone so terribly wrong
On behalf of me and you
They stood, they gave, all that they could
Left those they loved behind
We now cherish, the very thought
A thought that's so profound
Hearts have risen high above
As angle's wings do fly
Carrying forth their love so dear
We hold them near to us
Their wives, their children
Their moms, their dads
Their families, loved ones, friends
And those who walked at their sides
On behalf of all of us
As sunshine gathers, sparkles thought
In the snow that's on a tree
May the beauty of the gift they gave
Shine on for you and me
May the warmth of love surround their hearts
Quell the hurt, the pain the loss
May it bring your soldier, mom, or dad
Close to you tonight
May they wrap their loving arms so tight
Hold you close and oh so near
And let you know you're never alone
At this precious time of year
In life, in birth, a special child
Was born on Christmas morn
To bring to you that special chance
To be near to them once more
May the Joy of Christmas warm your hearts and lift your spirits high
Shine the glow that Christmas brings
Close to you tonight
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake/Morinville, Alberta
Our hearts, Our tears, Our prayers, Shared, This Christmas 2013
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Roger Borchert
November 6, 2013
We Will Remember Them. Written for Remembrance Day 2013
For those who've stood at the gates of hell
As battle rages forth
And stood to hold their line, their fate
To lift a new world rising forth
A world in which freedom's hand
Was openly held toward
To those to escape the bonds that bind
To hold them ever more
From the clutches, the beating down
Their spirit and their hearts
Those who held that outstretched hand
To those who needed help
So thankful all a world should be
For they stood for another voice
One that held our hearts, our minds
Standing very close
Freedom is not just a venture forth
It is a way of life
That lends us all, the gift to stand
Go forth for what is right
And allow all those to climb aboard
Who see it in their sight
Oh Lord you gave us choices
Good or evil found in hearts
The two, so very different hold
Our worlds so far apart
Tonight I looked into the coals
Of embers burning bright
And saw the life of those who share
Our nation's glowing light
At first their dreams are smoke and mirrors
Of a life that used to be
And then each soldier rises up
Gives meaning to where they've been
Learning pride, remembrance
From those who've stood before
Those who tossed the torch that holds
Their futures, evermore
So many didn't return back home
They lay where poppies grow
So many others caught their torch
And across our earth they've roamed
Within this new world
They have worked so hard
To help to come about
A world where sons, where daughters, rise
And share a brand new world's spark
Lord love them for they took a stand
And said no more, no more
A message needed
In our world today
As terror knocks on every door
We could never wander very far
From these hearts so warm that said
Our world needs us brave enough
To stand in terror's way
So as you sit around a campfire's light
Look in and see how bright
The glow that warmed those hearts to stand
As they stood for all of us
We can never forget that step they took
We remember those who gave
All they could towards a better world
A better world today
We Thank Them
We Will Remember Them
Strong of heart
Strong in spirit
Glowing heroes to recall each day
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Vicky Turnbull
October 14, 2013
Hey Darcy 7 years ago we lost a good friend.Always in our thoughts and prayers.
tony pitchuck
July 8, 2013
sorry for your loss mate,Hope I have a chance to see you in Nova Scotia,going back July 15,2013...Happy birthday Robin
Roger Borchert
March 30, 2013
My poem, written for this Easter 2013, in respect of those who have given their very all to bring about a better world on our behalf and in recognition of their families, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers who miss them so deeply at each Easter Sunday meal. May They R.I.P. We Will Remember Them.
Empty chairs each Easter Sunday
In homes across our land
Tears flowing gently
For each son or daughter
Mom or dad
Who gave a heart to Canada
Stood proud for me and you
Stepped forth to make a difference
In a world, in need, they knew
I've seen comets
I've seen meteors
But what I saw the other night
Was a glowing ball
Streak across the sky
In slow motion, in its flight
It glowed so bright, like mini moon
Its colour just the same
And then in the spirit with which it came
Turned to darkness once again
Overjoyed in what, I had seen
It was not a shooting star
It was a light that lifted high
In the brief moment of its spark
Oh lord, so many soldiers
So young and full of life
Have moved my heart
In this gentle way
As they've stood so far apart
Parted from their families
Parted from their friends
Stood so tall for who we are
Given all that could be given
Now held so close, within the hearts
Of those who miss them so
As bright, as seen, this palm Sunday's eve
Not unlike a story foretold
Of a son who gave his very all
So others would follow
Follow in a dream, a way
That a world would see a light
Of goodness spread across a world
At freedoms dawning sight
Oh Lord be near our soldier
Who also gave a life
For all to see a better world
On behalf of all of us
Lord, I dare not compare your son of life
To our warriors brave and true
I only give this humble voice
Of their efforts, the good, they do
Standing tall
Standing brave
Standing with all you shared
Within their hearts as young they were
To mold them
Brave for you
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2012
For the Families of Our Fallen This Christmas 2012
Angel's feathers falling
To remind us they're up there
Wind chimes sounding gently
To let us know the lord is near
Today is but a lull, in winter's nasty chill
One can see the storm clouds building
Circling, all around us now
We hold so close the warmth that was
To let it not escape
Yet no matter how hard we try
The warmth, it finds the gate
The chill it reaches down inside
Attaches to the spine
Sends shivers climbing through us now
Hearts are frozen held in time
For those who've lost a loved one, friend
Tis all they can endure
A hope, a wish, a prayer, t'would bring
Their loved one home again
Oh Lord their Soldier stood for all
Please warm these hearts so chilled
So they may find the warmth once shared
With this one no longer near
As they look out through the window
Let the moon and stars, shine bright
Let all about, it glisten forth
On this, this special night
Another hero gave his all
The one who led the way
For them to find a life beyond
And faith to find a day
A way to climb a staircase
To the heavens high above
To join a son, a daughter, friend
To be together once more as one
Oh lord you sent your son, our gift
To those who lend a heart
To those who've given all and more
For those life has forgot
We stand so near, so near Oh Lord
In praise, in solitude
Await a time, a time to share
A loved one entrusted unto you
Thank you Lord
Merry Christmas To All
We will Remember Them Until You Meet Again
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Roger Borchert
November 11, 2012
For Remembrance Day 2012
Flurries of snow across our land
A chilly wind bites at the spine
As we stand for those who stood for all
In far off distant lands
Some recall the void, the pain within
Left in hearts, in minds, in lives
Who were impacted at the loss of those
Their lives never the same again
Friends recall fond memories
Child in tears for a mom or dad
A wife recalls the horror of war
That turned her life, a living hell
A mother or father stands in thought
A loss beyond belief
Of one who was their heart their soul
Since counting tiny toes upon their feet
Fellow soldiers, comrades
Loved ones, friends
In their minds they bring them near
In special thoughts of those they've lost
While fighting over there
We as Canadians
Stand proud, respect
All those who stood for all
Sent from a nation whose open heart
Has provided a world a home
Oh lord my heart so empty
As I stand, two minutes given
Just a moment's time
For the life they gave
On behalf of all of us
I cannot be prouder Canada
I could never turn away
From those who've shared
Their loved one forth
A debt we could not repay
Stand proud, Remember, Oh Canada
For those who stand for us
For their families, friends, and comrades too
For they gave for me and you
We are focused on the flower
Began in fields so far away
An image to be remembered now
On each Remembrance Day
We Who Remember Them
Are forever in their debt
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, AB
windsor windsor
November 2, 2012
im sorry about your loss parents of darcy
Vicky Turnbull
October 14, 2012
Hi Darcy Thinking of you today. Will always keep you in our memories.
Mike and Danita Curwin
October 14, 2012
Dear Darcy, I know your parents well and the best people ever they are.I heard so much about you it is like we know you.I know you are up there taking care and watching over everyone.Your mom is doing such great work for hope and I know you would be proud to know her heart reaches out to so many,me being one.I know our sons who are gone are with you.So sorry you are gone so soon but know you have so many people who love their HEROS which you are one.God Bless you and thank you so much for our freedom and your sacrifice. Danita and Mike Curwin
Roger Borchert
December 24, 2011
For the Families of Our Fallen, This Christmas 2011
The wind is howling at my doorstep
This eve of Christmas Eve
The trees are bending low its clear
As Christmas day draws near
As I decked the tree this Christmas
I thought of those so brave
Of those who've lost a loved one
Who stepped forth for me and gave
They gave their all for Canada
A gift beyond compare
They stood a world away in time
Where few would tread or dare
So many loved ones share in tears
In thoughts they've left behind
Hugs once held so warm and close
A smile within a mind
The TREE has become so special now
For it holds a life time past
Its sparkling lights a memory's glow
Of a hero once held so near
As garland wrapped the tree in smiles
Those smiles of yesteryears
Those smiles held upon as face
Forever now held near
Each piece of tinsel a frozen tear
Shed at a time of loss
And now reflecting the reason why
For this hero was dearly loved
A true angel tops this Christmas tree
For is seen when looking high
As a loved one lifts their faces near
And a prayer races from a heart
A wish that they were standing near
A wish for laughter's sound
A warmth a hug once use to bring
Remains a memory oh so close
Oh Canada, our heroes gave
Their loved ones hold our hearts
Lord please reach out and hold them close
Please be so near this season forth
By: Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Our Thoughts, Our Hearts, Our Prayers
Wishing You All A Wonderful Christmas
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Kaitlyn S
August 9, 2011
Dear Darcy ,
You and my dad were best friends , you were around the house so much I could have sworn you were family , Rest In Peace , I love you <3
Glenda Clooney
July 1, 2011
Darcy,
I know your cousin Dayne, he married my neice. She told me that you and Dayne hung around with each other lot when you were younger. This isn't Rememberance Day but rather another Holiday, Canada Day. My mind has turned to you because of something I want to do for Dayne and your family. I have always had great respect for soliders because my father and his father before him served in the Two World Wars. May God hold your wife and your two daughters in the palm of his hand until you meet with them again someday.
Roger Borchert
December 24, 2010
For the Families, loved ones, friends of or Fallen This Christmas 2010
Looking back, on childhood’s days
When wonder set the sails
And all imagined could come to life
Within thoughts, dreams as they played
When Santa rode a sleigh one eve
In every coming year
And magic taught sweet dreams to fly
To rooftops every where
Now sitting wishing Christmas Eve
Looking off into the night
Pleading for a shooting star
Enhance this wish with all their might
A wish for just a Christmas hug
From a soldier no longer here
No longer in our earthly world
Held close now, within near
The hearts of those who’ve felt such pain
At the loss of a hero’s life
A hero who stepped forth for all
Bring this hero close this night
As tears once more roll down a cheek
Another endless, sleepless night
Let our Lord brush close a warming hug
Of your loved one, bring them near
A gentle breeze, fond memories’ bring
To hold them ever dear
Wishing the magic of Christmas could bring the smiles, the hugs and the warmth of your loved one, into your home for Christmas. Ever in our hearts and always remembered. May our Lord bless you this Christmas and throughout the coming year.
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
Roger Borchert
November 1, 2010
Thinking of all those who have given so much; those who have paid the Ultimate Sacrifice, our Veterans, our serving soldiers, their families, loved ones and friends at this special time of Remembrance, 2010. We Do Remember.
They crawled on their bellies slowly
In the dirt, the dust, the slime,
Ran onto beaches, lived in fear, a moment out of time.
A time that changed a world in need
A time that set apart
Times that held a world so close, near and dear to every heart
The gas they sent, it took its toll
Many others held that ground
And challenged over and over again
Until freedom’s world was found
Liberated nations cheered delight
A world was aimed anew
But for so many who had lost a life
The tears fell hard and true
They stepped forth for their Nation
They stepped forth for a world to be
They stepped forth to chase the evil back
Keep their families safe and free
Through life times of years gone by
Up to this present day
A brethren strong with so much might
Stepped forth for you and me
We owe so much to those who’ve walked
In fear yet oh so strong
So brave in every step they took
So many now are gone
They have challenged life itself each day
And stood for what was right
They did it with their heart and soul
And stood with all their might
Lord love the souls of these so brave
And cherish duty’s call
For they gave all for a better world
On behalf of one and all.
At this time of Remembrance
Into our hearts we welcome those
Who have walked this solemn journey forth
For those who needed a friend along
We recall their families, loved ones, friends,
For so many have paid the price
Of freedom, or for a world in peace
Or to fight terror in another place
Oh Lord we hold their honour high
Our tears have washed the path
For those who take their torch to stand
As to them the torch is passed
Forever near we promise
We will honour these hearts so brave
And stand nearby their families, friends
For the sacrifice they gave
By Roger Borchert,
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
Thank You. The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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October 14, 2010
Hi Darcy, Just wanting you to know that we think of you often and that 4 years ago we lost a truly good friend. Racheal says she misses you and we will never let her forget her uncle Darcy
Roger Borchert
April 3, 2010
As I focus this Easter Sunday
My heart goes out to you
For a Chair is sitting empty
For a Hero Brave and True
Who gave a life for Canada
And a world we should become
A better world for all to share
A better world for everyone
They had raised their eyes in honour
To the Flag that flew above
They had sung its anthem strongly
In their hearts so full of love
It began for them in childhood
And sang out for years to come
At the vision of the Flag above
Onto which their hearts had clung
This special group, a brotherhood
That stepped forth to a country’s call
For them the Flag was calling
Could not turn away this love
For them it was the strongest call
The path that led the way
For they had held it steadfast near
Flying high above each day
And then one sad, so tragic day
The leaf flew from the sky
To wrap and hold them tightly bound
In return for all their love
It warmed their weary bodies
Clung closer to their hearts
And to hearts that shared the pain, their loss
At such a tremendous cost
Wrapped within the hug that flew above
Love’s vision, all their lives
Now carried forth in a country’s love
For their loving sacrifice
By Roger Borchert
They Will Be Remembered
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2009
To the Families of Our Fallen. Thinking of you this Christmas
The tears that fall to a winter’s sky
A loved one looks off into the night
For Christmas Eve is a lonely time
When a loved one is not held tight
We know they would have been here
For their families, for their friends
If they had not given our world the gift
In their service to all mankind
They stepped forth to change a world so wrong
Lift a country from it’s past
To provide a future for those in need
A future to go forth and last
But someone stole this life so strong
The beauty of a thought
Of stepping forth, to stand protect
And the goodness it could have brought
Please fill this void, warm this broken heart
Who looks out upon this eve
Troubled in a thought, a loss
Of someone now so close to thee
Oh lord please place a gentle thought
A memory of a time
When joy would fill this household warm
And keep it there at Christmas time
Let this family know we care so much
They should not be alone
Please help our thoughts be passed along
To warm those within this home
For Christmas is a time to know
That the coming of this child
Provides for all across our earth
To be reunited with that smile
The one that used to hold a hand
Or hold us in a hug
The one for whom we shed these tears
On this cold and lonely night
Please hold them close on Christmas morn
Celebrate the birthday of this child
Who came to bring salvation forth
To reunite them in awhile
By Roger Borchert
We pray oh Lord you stand near this Christmas to warm, to hold these families tight and mend these hearts so torn. Wishing you all the best this Christmas and throughout the coming year.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Linda (Tedford) Harris
November 16, 2009
Just to let you know that even though we did not know each other, Darcy is often in our thoughts. He was our 2nd cousin. My father was Ken Tedford brother of Leroy, Don, Eric, Jack and Clair.
I make this entry on behalf of my brothers and sisters Shirley, Karen, Doug, Bruce and me Linda
Roger Borchert
November 6, 2009
In Respect of our Military Families, Our Fallen, and Wounded on Remembrance Day
For what we take for granted
So many have died for
So many lives so vastly changed
At the dreadful cost of war
There is the good; there is the bad
A liberated nation cheers
Left in dread for those young souls lost
Devastated a world back home
Efforts to protect a peace
That no one thought was near
Laying lives upon the line
Visions at times so unclear
Lives touched by fear or lived in dread
Of wounded coming home
Of crosses lined in many rows
From a trip down a heroes road
I have been sitting on the bank
Of a river flowing by
Flowing heavy with the flood of tears
From their family’s eyes
For on this day of remembrance
Their thoughts, their dreams, their prayers
Are focused on a loved one lost
Leaving them in such despair
My heart it wants to reach out
Let them know I can’t forget
The gift they’ve laid for their fellow man
Tis the greatest gift to give
So humbled in a moment’s thought
So treasured was the step
That they took forth at their country’s call
Let it never be forgot
We measure freedom lightly now
For we’ve grown so familiar with
But if not for those who took this step
And gave this precious gift
Would we take it so very lightly
Would we have the chance to vent
About all that annoys and bothers us
Without retribution for what we’ve said
So thankful they stood so proudly for
All that we hold so dear
All that makes us Canada
For me it’s oh so clear
For some others they just don’t get it
They think so little of
What has been placed in front of them
At the cost of someone’s love
If I could send forth a message
Place it in a bottle, float it by
I’d provide a note of how much I care
For those whose tears are flowing by
If I could walk along this shore
Such a warming hug I’d give
To those who’ve lost a loved one
So we can live the way we live
By Roger Borchert
So Many gave so much so we could be who we are. So Proud to be Canadian
We will Remember Them
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
Vicky Turnbull
October 14, 2009
Hi Darcy, We can't believe that it has been three years. You are in our thoughts and prayers.You were a true friend and even though it was a short time you were a great godfather for Racheal.We miss you
Paulette Tedford
October 14, 2009
Dear Darcy,
Today is the anniversary of your death and Blakes.So much has happened since you've been gone.Charmaine & Dad got to go to Afghanistan and felt very close to you there.Your girls are growing fast and miss you very much. Jody & Family now live in N.B. and spent Thanksgiving at the camp with us.You are always in our thoughts and prayers and we miss you.What I wouldn't give for one big hug!LB has a beautiful babyboy and so does your cousin Devin.You know that we love you and you will never be forgotten. love you always momma
Esther Tedford
August 17, 2009
You will always be remembered as long as I'm alive and can add any memories of you on the Tedford family tree on Ancestry.ca. We are distant cousins on my father's side of the family. My dad who is gone now was first cousin to Don Tedford from Truro and I know this is your line in the family tree.
May you always RIP knowing someone is charting the family tree for future kin.
Esther M. Tedford (Oshawa, ON)
email: [email protected]
Paulette Tedford
August 15, 2009
Hi Darcy, your birthday came and went and I had a hard time getting on this site.We thought about you and there were many best wishes for eternal peace.I enjoyed having the girls with me and you would be so proud of them.They are beautiful girls.We miss you sweetie more and more every day.There's so much to tell you but I guess you already knowall the latest.God bless you and say a prayer for mamma once in awhile .I love you. P.S. Give Tom a hug for me. love Mom
Scott Hodgson
June 16, 2009
Your name has always struck and been with me, my oldest son is named "Darcy Scott". the Scott after myself. He has finished Army Cadets and has joined the reserves and when 18 hopes for a military career. Thank you for serving Tedford and rest and live with Jesus.
Roger Borchert
April 8, 2009
Thinking of our Canadian Fallen Soldiers due to our efforts in Afghanistan. For them, their families, friends and fellow soldiers during this Easter Season: this Poem was written with the help of one of their Mothers. For her assistance and inspiration I am so very, very grateful.
We thank you Lord for being near
And for your gifts given unto us
We thank you too for sending forth
Your son’s so gentle touch
He provides our world with caring hearts
Without which we could not love
He gives strength to those who would step forth
In a world hidden but from above
They’ve stepped beneath terrors darkened clouds
Too many whisked away
We pray Oh Lord you gather them
Provide them a new day
Please take them close, near to thee
We entrust them to your care
Let them rest awhile hold them near
And set their spirits free
May they stand proud now
Among their peers
Families, friends, and loved ones too
For in the loving Grace of an angel’s touch
We’re drawn so much closer unto you
Thank you so very much for your efforts and sacrifice towards making our world a better place.
Our tears, our hearts, our prayers
Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Paulette Tedford
March 6, 2009
Dear Darcy,I wrote this poem for your two darlings. i hope you like it;
Dancing with Dragon Flies
Dragon fly Dragon fly,where have you been?
I've been to see Kaeleigh an Julia again.
I've peeked in their window and checked out their beds,
I've brought kisses from Daddy in yellows and reds.
Dragon fly, Dragon fly what will you do?
I'll dance in their garden and shake off the dew.
I'll kiss each curl untop of their heads,
And chase away teardrops each time they're shed.
Dragon fly, Dragon fly, where will you go?
I'll fly up to heaven past the clouds don't you know!
I'll visit with Daddy and see God's gentle face.
For they are together in that special place. love Mom
Jody Tedford
February 20, 2009
Hey Bro, well today is my 40th birthday and I can just hear you laughing and making fun of me cause I turned 40! Ya Bugger!
Think about you everyday, miss you and love you bro! Be good and we'll see ya when it's my time to go....you just better keep a spot up there by ya!
wish you were here,
Love your brother
Jody
Sarah Tedford
February 19, 2009
Rest In Peace Darcy Your A Canadian Hero That Will Never Be Forgotten Im A Tedford Too
Roger Borchert
December 31, 2008
For the loved ones of Canada’s Fallen Heroes
May the New Year bring
A warmth to thee
That helps to heal the heart
That mends the fracture caused within
That’s torn you apart
May it whisper in your ear at night
That love is standing near
That you will never be alone
A warmth to quell your fear
May it welcome you in mornings’ light
And be near throughout the day
Standing near to comfort you
In a needed special way
May you always know
The time will come
Together you will be
Find in the tear a memory brings
The joy it helped you see
May the lord be near throughout the year, come and help in every day, that it takes for you to overcome this tragedy life did play.
Our Hearts, Our tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
Roger Borchert
December 20, 2008
For the families, loved ones, and friends of Canada’s fallen soldiers: It was written this evening with thoughts of what you and your families are going through at this season and could not hold it back any longer. It is my Christmas gift to you all.
I thank you for wandering near
As you think of where I lie
You think of what I went through
And a tear wells up inside
Let not that tear
Fall for me I’m sitting watching you
For I’m not there at all no more
I’m here inside of you
I’m sitting near within your thoughts
And in your memories
I’m just the thought a gentle breeze
In a gust of memory
I’m the gentle shiver when you are near
I’m the glimmer in your eye
I’m the sparkle that a teardrop brings
When it wells up in your eye
I’m the smile a fond moment brings
I’m the warmth you held so dear
Remember that, as time goes by
And know I’m standing near
As you look upon the Christmas tree
Shinning at this time of year
Know the Lord sent his only son
So that I could be standing near
May our Lord be near you all.
Our hearts and prayers go out to you all during this so difficult time of year. Please know that it comes complete with the glisten of tears held within the eyes of it’s, author Roger Borchert. Thank you so very much for the efforts of your loved one towards making our world a better place
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
Paulette Tedford
December 15, 2008
Dear Darcy,We've been thinking of you alot this week.It's Christmas time and again we are all doing our best to be happy and carry on without you.This week has been specially hard as we lost three more soldier's.one Dad & I got to know last summer and you would know his family.You would have liked him.Look out for him and also the other 2 lads.We miss you and love you always my golden one. love Mom
Three More Stars
There's three more stars in heaven,they're shining high above.
They are members of God's army now, to spread his gracious love.
Our hearts are sad and filled with pain, our lives seem empty now.
But for their sakes we must go on, till we hold them safe again. by Paulette Tedford
Paula Kendall
November 11, 2008
Hi,
thinking of you Darcy and all the soldiers that have lost their lives fighting for us, but hopefully you all are watching over your comrades right now as they continue to fight the fight for us. My thoughts are with Char, the girls and the rest of your family. It never gets any easier.
Denarah B
November 6, 2008
Im Soo Srry 4 your loss tedford family,i am boing a project for my school to help admire fallen solders
if you could help me by giving me true information,that would be great my email is
[email protected]
Denarah Bayrak
November 6, 2008
I Am Admiering this solder by doing a project on him because i feel he has the need to be remebred.
If you have any good remembering info that could help me get people to remember him pls send
[email protected]
Roger Borchert
November 6, 2008
In Respect and Remembrance of Our Fallen Warriors, their Mothers, Fathers, Wives, Children, Grandparents, Loved Ones, Friends, Fellow Troops, and all those Canadians whose hearts and tears lay at your side; I submit:
There are no words that I can place here in this registry that could ever justify or explain the loss of your loved one, friend, or fellow soldier. Please know that my family and I cannot stand idly by, without taking a moment, to express how much our hearts go out to you. There is no greater gift towards the future of our country, our world, our humanity, than the efforts and sacrifices made by our Canadian forces towards making our world a better place. Whatever the politics of the day, whatever the leadership of the moment, our selfless warriors have stepped forth to deploy to meet the needs of our changing world, with honour and an integrity that is unrivalled. We as Canadians truly bow and honour your efforts and sacrifice.
We have fallen on fields of battle
In lands so far from home
We have marched to war in honour
For those who’ve felt alone
We have defended those who couldn’t
And stood between the lines
Of two opposing armies
In this new world in our time
We have stood for those who cannot
For those who are oppressed
Standing shoulder to shoulder
To help others do their best
We have held our line with honour
Fury held at bay
Rebuilding a broken nation
To allow all to have a say
Our sons and daughters moms and dads
Stepped forth to make it so
A gift given for a better world
Such a precious gift you know
Our youth in pride have stepped forth
Do this job as best they can
Lay their life upon the line
Each true Canadians
They will not be forgotten
We can never turn away
They have taught the price of giving
In such an honoured way
For where would our world be then
If we just stood by and watched
Could we look ourselves in the eye
And say it wasn’t lost
Our tears. Our thanks. Our prayers.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Charmaine Tedford
October 19, 2008
I miss you. How I wish I could turn back time just so I could get even 5 more minutes with you. I love you forever.
Paulette Tedford
October 18, 2008
Hi Darcy, Dad & i were at the cabin on the 14th sitting in the sun and our thoughts were of you.We love you & miss you more 7 more everyday. Your daughters are beautiful little princesses growing so fast and are so smart.God bless till we meet again. For Emma who is doing the school project,you can e-mail me at [email protected]
However I will be away from the 19th to the 25th of oct.hope I'm not too late getting back to you.Thanks for picking Darcy. Darcy's Mom
vicky turnbull
October 14, 2008
Hey Darcy
We were thinking of you today. You are in our thoughts and in our prayers
Emma C.
October 11, 2008
Dear Tedford Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences go out to you. I'm 14, and my class gets to do the remebrance day assembly at school. My teacher put the names of the Canadian fallen soldiers infront of us with their picture and asked us to pick one that reached out to us in a certain way. I picked Darcy. We are now asked to do a project on our soldier. I've learned all I can on the internet, what a brave man. I'm hoping i can get some historical information on him, so I can tell people more about what an amazing person he was. I would love if you would help me out. Thank you, may he rest in peace.
Roger Borchert
September 30, 2008
With a heavy heart stepping forth
Please forgive me when I say
That I let you down in the past
In not a little way
I did not write to let you know
Just how much I cared
For the sacrifice you’ve given
For so many in despair
You stepped forth and joined our forces
Laid your life upon the line
To bring about a safer world
A new world in our time
Fellow soldiers friends and families
And those you held so dear
Still think of you most everyday
For us others it’s not so clear
We must slow down and take the time
Understand how great the cost
For if not placed in front of us
Can we comprehend the loss
Sometimes we’re just so very shy
Or we don’t know what to say
Or do not want to interfere
Or seem superficial in any way
I can no longer withhold my thoughts
I have to pass them on
For it breaks my heart just thinking of
All those left to carry on
Please know that you are in my prayers
Will be there for years to come
Know that you are in my thoughts
For the efforts you have done
Oh yes there is that special day
To remember not to forget
Those who’ve paid the greatest price
We can never repay this debt
Sgt. Darcy Tedford we knew you not, but our prayers reach out for you, your loved ones, friends, and fellow soldiers. We do, so dearly, thank you and your loved ones for your efforts towards making our world a better place.
The Borchert Family Slave Lake Alberta
Eileen Tay
September 20, 2008
~{Rest In Peace}~
Vicky Turnbull
September 18, 2008
dear darcy, We miss you alot and you are always in our thoughts and prayers.Brian really misses having you around.Racheal asks about you every once and awhile and we will never let her forget you,you will always be her godfather. Also please watch over Brian for me in afghanistan. Vicky Brian Racheal and Devin Turnbull
Paulette Tedford
September 13, 2008
Dear Darcy,
It's been awhile since I'e talked to you here but I have in my heart & at the camp. We renovated the house and it looks much better.We had Jody & Izzy and the kids here for acouple of weeks and had fun but we thought of you often. It was fun remembering all the crazy stunts you pulled. It was lonely after they left so Dad & I drove up to see Char & the girls. The girls miss you but Jody spent time with them.No one can replace you though.We got to talk to Brian and also Tim.He doesn't have his Dodge truck anymore:) Dad had an accident but he's ok. You must be watching over him.Please keep an eye on Cheryl and all our soldiers in Afghanistan. Put in a good word for all of us as well. Remember we love you, miss youxxoo Mom
Jody Tedford
August 23, 2008
Hey Darcy, Dad & I had a birthday drink for you at the camp the other night. Miss you lots bro, been nearly 2 yrs since I saw you last....seems like an eternity. I think about you everyday....wish you were here...
Love you man,
Jody
Kerri McQuigge
June 25, 2008
I never got to meet Darcy other then in passing but have had the honour of getting to know Charmaine a bit better since Darcy's passing. She is an amazing women and I sure Darcy must be smiling down on her the kids. Keep your chin up Char, your going great!!
Caitlin Mahoney
June 10, 2008
Dear Sgt. Tedford,
I attended the RCR's 125th Anniversary Meet and Greet with my fiance last weekend. Your lovely wife gave a great speech to the crowd. She made me proud to stand by my soldier as well as made me realize I am part of a different family that will take care of me if anything were to go wrong. She is a very strong women and I hope that one day I have as much strength as her. I am sure you would be proud. Thank you for all that you have done and for all your family is doing. May you rest in peace.
taylor provak
April 12, 2008
im sorry for your lost and im sorry for his death we are all thankfull
Richard Tricker
March 27, 2008
PRO PATRIA
I was deeply saddened to learn of Darcy's passing a little while ago.
Darcy and I were on the same course through Battle School in 1994/1995. He helped make it all bareable.
Please accept my deepest condolences.
Paulette Tedford
March 20, 2008
Dear Darcy, Easter is almost here.I remember you hidinggoodies for the girls. They are growing more beautiful everyday.I enjoyed being with them for two weeks and their mom.They miss you oh so much as do we all. God bless and hold you close.Until we meet again. love mom
CHARLOTTE TEDFORD-ADAMS
February 7, 2008
I AM VERY SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS. I HAVE DEAR FRIENDS SERVING OVERSEAS STILL. I SEND YOU MY PRAYERS AND CONDOLENCES ALSO. LOVED ONES HEARTS AND MINDS TAKE TIME TO HEAL WHEN YOU'RE HURTING SO MUCH, I KNOW. I WILL ASK IN MY PRAYERS THAT YOUR FAMILY BE HELPED THROUGH THIS HARD TIME WITH ALL THE LOVE AND CARE POSSIBLE. GOD LOVE AND BLESS YOU FOLKS. FROM THE TEDFORD-ADAMS FAMILY BRANCH IN SOUTHWEST UNITED STATES
Jody Tedford
December 29, 2007
well Darcy, it's Christmas time and we had everyone at my place this year. Christmas was very special and it was great to see your girls just being themselves and being happy...but the holiday season does make you think of the past which made me a little sad knowing that you're not here with us in body. I know your there with us in spirit and I'm especially sure you were there when we were playing poker the other night. I could still see your grin and hear your little chuckle. It made me remember Christmas 2 yrs ago when we were all together.I'll never forget that Darc.
well chat with you again real soon. Merry Christmas to you my brother.
Love Jody
Paulette Tedford
December 29, 2007
Dear Darcy,
We spentChristmas with Jody & family, Charmaine & the girls and Cheryl & kids, plus dogs etc.We are so thankful for all of them. We enjoyed ourselves and you were always on our minds. We spoke of you often; especially poker night.Your girls are growing so fast, you would be amazed and so proud.Welove you and are so proud of you.I miss your hugs andteasing voice so much;I'll never be the same.Till we meet again my precious son, your momma loves you.
Charmaine Tedford
December 24, 2007
Merry Christmas Darcy! We miss you more than ever this year. The kids are finding it really hard without you. Last year it was easy to pretend that you were still away. But at least the girls have realized the importance of family. They are so excited to go see your family for Christmas dinner - me too! How we all wish that you could join us. We love you lots and miss you even more.
Merry Christmas!
taylor provak
November 27, 2007
thank you so much for helping in the war we all really appricate it and are very thankful we are free and live in peace i hope you no that you helped and saved many lives i will never ever forget you
Paulette Tedford
November 17, 2007
Hi my golden son,
Well we made it through the 14th and Remembrance Day.I was Silver Cross mom for Truro this year and I think it was harder. I'm not numb anymore.Truro Legion did you proud as well Tatamagouche legion. Your name is inscribed on both now.Dad & I spent the 14th at the camp, just the 2 of us at your memorial spot; toasted you with Remy Brandy-not cognac, and it was ok.It looks so peaceful there, you would love it.Every night we put acandle in front of your cross and it burned for hours.We haven't been home much lately but after this month we'll be home more.We miss you more & more every day. Gone but never forgotten.
your loving Mom & Dad
Charmaine Tedford
November 11, 2007
Remembering you today, as always. We love you and miss you more everyday.
Osmond
October 15, 2007
Hearts and prayers are with you now and always ... Keep coming to the Regiment Charmaine; we'll always be there for you.
Jody Tedford
October 14, 2007
well Bro, it has been 1 year ago today since we lost you...miss you BIG TIME. Had a great time with your celebration of life party put on by Charmaine last night! You'd be so proud of her bro! Your guys too are a great group of guys, they miss you and we miss you and I will never forget you. Left you a few drinks today at your grave as well as Blakes. I'm sure you enjoyed them!
until we meet again my brother R.I.P. Darcy.
MISS YOU FOREVER
Love your Big brother
Charmaine Tedford
October 14, 2007
Hey honey,
A year ago today all our lives were abruptly changed. At the time, I never thought we would ever come out of the darkness. But you would be so proud of all of us. We laugh lots when we talk about you. And we talk about you lots!!! Last night we had a celebration of your life. The only rule was no tears - and it was followed for the most part. We raised a glass in toast to you and I never thought I'd would ever say that I would rather drink cognac. But the stuff last night was disgusting!!! I'm sure you were calling us all dumb idiots for drinking that stuff and even dumber for doing another shot!!
We had a great time with lots of dancing, singing, laughing and great friends remembering both you and Blake. We miss you lots but I know you're always around us.
The girls talk about you constantly. They miss you so much. That's the part that hurts the most - seeing them grow up without their daddy around. You have no idea how much pain 2 little souls can carry. But they are so proud of you and everything you stood for.
You probably never realized how many lives you touched but honey, so many people are still hurting so much because of your death. Your guys miss you more than you could ever know.
But we are all strong. You gave us that from your strength. And we will make you proud of us. We love you so much.
Until we meet again.
xxoo
Char
Paulette Tedford
October 9, 2007
Oct.9th/07
Dear Darcy, It's a year today since I last heard your voice.I remember your words Hi Momma-----and I remember our sign off when I told you, you'd always be my baby and you said I know momma! Now there is a song, You'll always be my Baby! You were so loving when you talked to me; I thought maybe you knew you were'nt coming back.I hope your last day wasn't filled with fear or regret; you did what you had to.It will be a year Sunday and I miss you more then ever.Dad will never be the same .We want you to know how proud we are of you and also how proud of Charmaine & the girls too.Also your big bro Jody. He's been a rock for us.Well my sweet son I must say goodnight with lots of hugs & kisses.I will always love you and hold you in my heart. Forever Mom
Paulette Tedford
August 15, 2007
Dear Darcy,
Your Dad and I went out to 5 Islands for a picnic on your birthday.It was where you and I camped and fed the raccoons. we also went rock hunting and you found an amythyst.We had such a good time and you were my best travelling companion.It was hard for us on your birthday. I kept thinking of the night you were born and how excited weall were. little did we know that you would keep us up for the next 7 months and that you would be our hero.Everybody misses you.We all hurt but especially your 3 girls.If we could but turn back the clock and hold you close one more time.Tis but a dream.
Your loving Mom & Dad.
Jackie Girouard
August 14, 2007
Hi Paulette, sorry I missed Darcys birthday, I knew it was here and thought of him all day but I have not visited the quest books lately. I hope you are all doing OK. Even after all this time every thing is still so hard. Our guys are still so much with us and I hope I can always feel Bob. Please say hi to 'all' and you are always in my thoughts,with love Jackie Girouard.
Jody Tedford
August 13, 2007
Dearest Darcy, my brother and my friend. Sorry it has taken me so long to write to you but I just couldn't find the words to write on here. A few times I started out but just stared at the blank spot on this entry area, it just seems weird to be doing this and if your here right now in spirit I'm sure you're telling me that I don't have to but I feel now is my time to write something.
Yesterday, was your birthday. I thought about you all day, actually it was a beautiful day and why shouldn't it be. You were born on that day! I didn't toast a drink to you yesterday but instead I lit a candle that I keep by your photo. I spoke to you and I hope you got my message and I wished you to have a wonderful day. I also asked God to make sure you were good! As I am writing this I still find it unbelievable that you are gone. Where did the time go? It has almost been a year since you passed away, it has been just over a year since you departed for Afghanistan and it has almost been a year since I last saw you and since I last spoke to you. I still find it hard to believe bro, I really do.
Funny, how we were so close growing up like Mutt and Jeff or the other nicknames mom had for us which I won't write here! I remember when mom and dad asked me if I would like to have a baby brother and I said excitedly "yeah,mom sure!". Boy am I glad you came along even if your were a pain sometimes. I remember we always looked out for each other growing up, never blaming each other for stuff. If we did something to each other that upset us we just dealt with it in our own way...and we were close in our own way too. Then as we grew up and I left home I lost touch with you and I missed out on your teen years and your enlisting to the Military. I regret missing all that stuff bro but I was always very proud of you. You knew what you wanted and you did it! I am so glad we became close again as we grew older. I still remember calling you one night when you were with Char over in NFLD BOTH of us probably drank too much that night but at least I was still up. I remember Char trying to wake you and telling you it's me on the phone. I remember our awesome time together down at the bar I worked at just after you got back from your first tour over in Afghanistan, man did we have fun! You had us all laughing so hard especially when we were trying to be serious for our staff meeting. Too funny bro, too funny! Well Darcy you sure touched a lot of people, more than you know I'm sure. I am so proud of you!
Charmaine, Kayleigh and Julia really miss you. I just can't imagine how much they do and just the thought of that hurts. They are so strong Darcy, you would be very proud of them and yet somehow I think you know. Do give them a sign every now and then to show them you're around. I will be there for them as much as I can be, I wish I lived closer cause I am sure I could help a lot better than what I do now. I love your girls like they were mine and I love Char and have gotten closer to her. I wish I could say the right things to help her but a lot of the times I don't know what to say. She truly misses you Darc, man If only I could bring you back somehow.
Mom and Dad really do miss you bro and I can see how much they hurt too. Leaving home the other day was hard. I never had a hard time to leave home before but this time was sad. Mom and I talked about you lots and she has made a real nice monumentum in your honor. Looking at the photo's was hard to do without shedding a tear but they also brought back great memories. Dad, always talks about you and how damn proud he is of you. You should see the flag pole that has been erected for you and when it is finally complete it will be absolutely beautiful. Like I wrote above I didn't have a toast for you on your birthday but I sure had a lot of toasts for you with Dad last week at the camp.
Darcy, we all miss you so much it's like a constant heart wrenching hurt that eats away at us. Whenever I get down about you I talk about you or tell stories about you and it helps. I am also writing a song that describes how I feel and I have sang some songs dedicating them to you. Last week I attended my 20 year high school reunion and everybody spoke about you, they too all miss you. I played and sang a song dedicating it to you that day bro, "wish you were here" by Pink Floyd.
well Darcy, I truly miss you and I love you. You were the best brother anyone could ever have and more. I will never ever forget you and I will always pass on our memories and stories to our children. I want you to know that I am so very proud of you and our military. I believed in you and nothing will ever change that. You are forever in my heart bro and nobody can take that away. One day I will see you again, make sure you save me a spot beside you.
Rest in Peace eternally Darcy,
love your brother,
Jody
"wish you were here"
Charmaine Tedford
August 12, 2007
Happy Birthday Darcy. Kaeleigh wanted to get you an ice cream cake but instead we went to DQ and had blizzards for you. We miss you so much. The girls had a really tough time dealing with your birthday. It's just not the same without you.
We love you.
Your three girls,
Kaeleigh, Julia and Charmaine
xxx ooo
Chris Clayton
August 5, 2007
I joined the Armed Forces with Darcy on the same day in Halifax back in 1992. We went to boot camp and the NCSTTP program together in Nfld. I still remember the night I lent him my ID so he could go downtown- we had the same haircut back then. He is missed.
M Osmond
August 1, 2007
Dear Charmaine,
I don't know you, yet you are my neighbour and I think about you and your wee girls, every time I drive past your home. I remember seeing Darcy running in the mornings and was in Dubai with him as he returned from his leave... I remember looking at him and his boys and admiring them .. coming back from leave and preparing to go back to the fight and I felt so embarrassed that I was not as they were but I sat there, just watching them and how serious they were and I looked at names and faces that I will never forget. I do hope you are keeping alright and my heart goes out to you and those lovely wee girls everytime that I see you. Please just know that I keep you and your wee girls in my thoughts and prayers always and that I will never forget your sacrifice.
Charmaine Tedford
July 18, 2007
Happy Anniversary Darcy. We should be celebrating our 10th but there will be no more celebrations for us. I miss you so much today. How I wish that life could be different.
I love you.
Paulette Tedford
July 2, 2007
Dearest Darcy,
Not a day goes by that you aren't in my thoughts and somehow are connected with every thing I do.You would love the new flag pole at the camp and all the work that is being done to spruce it up. Your great Aunt Myra passed away the other day and i know you'll keep an eye out for her.Uncle Don is lost without her.Dad misses you oh so much and I know Char does as well as The girls. jody talks about you constantly and we are all so proud of you.As you may know more soldiers have been killed and are now on the other side;please look out for them as well. Know that we love you and we support your misssion as well as all soldiers in our military. God bless love Mom
Eva Creelman
June 27, 2007
Sorry...I did not know this existed, or I would have sent my condolences long ago. My thoughts have been with you and Darcy.
Charmaine Tedford
June 7, 2007
I miss you. I so wish I could turn back time and keep you home with me. This is so hard without you. I just want you here with us. I love you.
xxxx
Char
Dean Symes
May 28, 2007
Dear Charmaine
Where do I start? You are always a part of our family. Selena and I lay in bed at night and from time to time we talk about the wonderful days we had in ST. John's with the "gang". And of course we talk of all the things that remind us of "Teddybear". We may not have stayed in touch as we should have, but you guys were always in our hearts. Take care Charmaine, and remember that Selena and I will always be there for you and your girls.
Michelle Theriault
May 11, 2007
Dear Charmaine,
A day does not go by that I don't think of you and your family, and how you are feeling. I did not know you well, and I have never met your girls.
I worked with Darcy from 1997-2000 and he is a large part of my memories at work. Darcy is an example to us all that strength means taking the good with the bad, and he had a quiet strength that stood out from the rest of us.
He never, ever complained about anything, no matter how lousy things were. This is what I remember about him the most.
I do not know how to express to you how much I hope that you will be alright, and that you always have people around you that you can turn to when you need something.
I feel like we are all in this together, and I will never forget any of you.
Joanna Haynes
May 8, 2007
Always entertaining, was Darcy... no one could ever be bored when he was around!
Darlene Lee (Whittle)
April 12, 2007
Charmaine my sincerest condolences go out to you and the girls. I remember Dean Symes and Darcy "teddybear" during Coughlin College and their study days. I myself was near death a couple of months ago, I was in a severe car accident and was in a 3 week Coma. I am recovering now, but it will still take alot of time. I'm trying my best to remain strong, as i'm sure you are regarding Darcy. I wish you all the very best and I genuinely hope that time heals. All the best. :)
Paulette Tedford
March 22, 2007
Thanks everyone for all the kind and wonderful tributes to Darcy.It isn't easy to lose a child, husband, & father.Losing a friend in some cases is just as hard.He was all those things. Hug your families & tell them you love them; never take them for granted. i'm still waiting to hear the phone ring anda " Hi Ma, what's up" To me he is still over seas and probably always will be.God bless all our soldier's and keep them safe.If Robert & Kelly Tedford read this, we are trying to figure out if we are related.Leave a note if you want toget in touch.
craig hatcher
March 21, 2007
Where do i begin. Throughout my career i have a handful of people whom i truly call friends. Darcy was one of them. A constsnt professional and always one with a smile and a laugh. You are missed my friend.
Tonia Skinner
March 15, 2007
Charmaine, Kaeleigh and Julie, we would like to extend our heartfelt condolences for your tragic loss, know you and the girls are in our prayers.
Tonia, Terry and Ethan
Charmaine Tedford
March 7, 2007
Darcy,
I should be getting so excited. Your flight is coming in tomorrow night. Instead, I dread the thought of your crew coming home without you. When I wake up on Friday morning I will finally face the reality that this was not a sick dream and you will not be coming home. Please give me some of your strength to get through the next few days as I meet with your guys and hear their stories. Just as I needed you in October, I need you now. Let your spirit wrap me in one of your hugs and wipe away my tears. I miss you so much it hurts. I never knew that love could hurt so much. This is like a knife through my heart. You can't believe how helpless I feel when the girls are crying for you to come home and I can't make it better.The only thing that hurts more than my pain is watching theirs.
We love you so much. We laugh when we remember your silliness. Even now you still have the power to make us laugh. I hope you never lose that power. We need your positive energy to get through the darknes of our grief. I hope tomorrow becomes the start of our healing.
Until we meet again...xxxooo
Robert E and Kelly R Tedford
February 25, 2007
You are in our thoughts! And Prayers!
selena symes
February 2, 2007
Darcy,
You will always remain in our hearts and your presence will be with us through your 2 beautiful girls. We miss you and will always think of you as when you were here with us. You made us laugh when one was needed. I always knew that you were there if we ever needed a friend for anything. We are proud of what you have done for us and our country and will never forget you. Rest in peace teddybear.
love Selena and Dean and family
Paulette Tedford
January 30, 2007
Dear Darcy,
I miss you so much and your family misses you so much. It hurts to breathe sometimes.Time is marching on but we are still stuck in Oct. Why? Why did you have to leave us? We need you my sweet son and will never stop loving you. I know you are with your grandparents and loved ones looking down on us. I can see your smile and hear your voice telling me to suck it up! Guess what! I'm your momma, Idon't have to suck it up and I can't. Please help your girls get through this and guide us all as you normally would. Until we are together again, I love you brat. xxoo mom
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