David Bertram Bigelow

David Bertram Bigelow

David Bigelow Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 10, 2024.
David Bertram Bigelow, 54, of Brookline, MA, passed away on January 7, 2024. His loss was unexpected, and his family and close friends are profoundly saddened.

David, born June 2, 1969, was the son of Judy Wolovick Bigelow (deceased) and Robert "Brad" Bigelow. David was the oldest of 5 siblings and leaves behind Demian A. Bigelow (Pittsboro, NC), Jade L. Bigelow (Norwood, MA), deceased sister Holly B. Rose (San Antonio, TX) and deceased brother Ian E. Bigelow (Athol, MA). He is survived by his son Adam J. Bigelow and daughter-in-law Sierra R. Bigelow (Pittsboro, NC), his daughter Shai A. Bigelow (Norwood, MA), former wife Randi Bigelow Rose (Norwood, MA) and longtime partner Sheryl Ryu (Townsend, MA). His extended and grieving family include his uncle Allen Wolovick and aunt Joyce Parlapiano (Foxboro, MA), cousin Nigel Wolovick (St. Anselmo, CA), niece Samantha Corvera (Jamaica Plain, MA), nephew Nicholas Bertram (San Antonio, TX), and other extended family.

David graduated from Brookline High School in 1987 and immediately joined the Army Reserves, which he credited with helping him develop discipline and a strong work ethic. Following four years of active duty, he graduated from UMass Boston with his bachelor's degree in English and went on to develop a successful career as a film and video editor, content developer, and colorist. David most recently worked for Frontline/WGBH, where he worked as a colorist for almost a decade. His skill set was entirely self-taught and his creativity and enthusiasm for his work and drive for success were recognized by many. His professional successes include credits on full-length films, live-concert video screen content for internationally recognized artists, and a broad portfolio of documentary work. Those who knew David were well aware of his love for the movie Jaws, filmed on Martha's Vineyard when David was 5 years old and living on the island. His inclusion in the community where JAWS was filmed fostered an early love of storytelling through video and film and kindled a lifelong fascination with the movie itself. David spent the past 6 years producing a yet-to-be finished documentary on the making of Jaws, a project that he had been desiring to bring to fruition for decades. Despite all of David's recognized hard work and professional success, anyone who asked him what his greatest achievement was would hear the answer "my kids."

David's sudden passing comes as a great shock to all who knew and loved him. His loss creates a deep void that will be felt by his family, friends and so many others who have come to know and care deeply for him. The family appreciates everyone's support and words of comfort during this difficult time. A private memorial service will be held for family and close friends. May his memory be a blessing.

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February 21, 2025

Kelly Brilliant posted to the memorial.

May 14, 2024

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May 13, 2024

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Kelly Brilliant

February 21, 2025

David was a gifted videographer and my husband and I were so looking forward to seeing the doc on Jaws! Dave stayed at our home in MV for some of the filming. He was a talented, lovely man. Our sincere condolences. Kelly and Michael

Vicki Adjami

May 14, 2024

David was a most inventive friend and creative. We met through Ralph Jaccodine and I quickly jumped at the opportunity to work with him. I hired him and his video team to shoot and produce videos for a client. It was a joy to work with someone so professional, and with a super keen eye. He not only made the engagement run smoothly, but he made it fun too. We remained in contact since. Ralph and I last met up with David on the Vineyard, a place that we would chat endlessly about, and where his greatest passion project was born. We would get together to hear about the progress of Jaws and also, updates on his kids and partner. He carried such great pride. David is dearly missed.

Tania Coiner

May 13, 2024

I am so sorry to hear of David´s death and immediately was thrown back to many memories of roaming the Vineyard, Boston, and many car and ferry rides in between those long ago days. Long years out of touch, and then watching his joy as a father at many seders and parties in later years. He so adored Adam and Shai, as was apparent to all who saw them together. They are on my mind and I hope that the tremendous and large web that David wove can bring them some peace. And the knowledge that they were and are so fiercely and unconditionally loved.

Wendy Friedman

March 4, 2024

I first met Dave in 1985, when we were roaming the streets with our respective friend groups in the wake of Hurricane Gloria. That was the beginning of a life-long friendship that waned for a number of years in our 30s and was rekindled when I moved back to Boston. He was one of the most resilient, positive, and loyal people I've ever known - the world is a darker place in his absence. I hear your voice every day, Dave, and love and miss you terribly.

Lorne Costa

February 25, 2024

Dave, Lance and I were together, poking under the tarps covering the three mechanical sharks used for Jaws, on the State Pier in Oak Bluffs. Those were great days, to be young on the Vineyard. I have so many fond memories growing up together, Lance, Dave, Holly, myself, Dem trying to keep up. We tried to stay in touch, all through school years, and we watched each other come into adulthood and have our own families. We had a way of running into each other, for absolutely no good reason, and that was great. Hanghing in Boston, in New York, on the Island. The man would not shut up about Star Wars nor Jaws, for the cinemagraphics, of course, the How's and Why's of it more than the storylines themselves. The only thing he really did want to talk more about was his kids. Oh, Dave, I wish we could've grown old together, my boy. I will miss you. Say hi to Lance and Holly for me. Be at peace, cousin. I love you.

John Jameson

February 16, 2024

Good Bye, Old Friend. We love you. We miss you. We´ll never forget you.

John Jameson

February 15, 2024

Missy Frederick

February 14, 2024

I worked with David at Frontline. He was always a kind face in a sometimes harried business. I loved that he was pursuing his passion for Jaws with The Making of the Monster. I hope someone finishes it in his name. Although we weren´t close friends his sudden passing leaves a hole. Rest in Peace, David. My condolences to his family and friends.

Dawn Mendes

February 11, 2024

David had an infectious smile that brightened the world. You are always a part of us, David. We love you.

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