Dennis X Chai

1943 - 2016

Dennis X Chai obituary, 1943-2016, Kaneohe, HI

Dennis X Chai

1943 - 2016

Dennis Chai Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 21, 2016.
DENNIS XAVIER HUALANI ALOIAU CHAI, PhD
June 19, 1943 – July 20, 2016

On the morning of July 20, 2016, lovingly surrounded by family and friends, and filled with the Holy Spirit, Dr. Dennis Xavier Hualani Aloiau Chai was called home to enjoy everlasting life with Jesus Christ in heaven. His family laid hands, and prayed the Lord's Prayer saying a final aloha, knowing goodness and mercy shall follow him as his spirit lifted to dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

Dennis was born to Cecilia "Cissylani" Aloiau Ceballos on June 19th, 1943 and was raised by her sister, Ella Kamaka Aloiau Chai and Paul Soong Yen Chai in Kane'ohe, Hawaii. He graduated from Saint Louis High School in 1961, and then attended the University of Hawai'i where he received his Bachelors degree in 1966 and later a Masters degree in 1970. Dr. Chai earned his Doctorate in Education from the University of Southern California, specializing in Kinesiology and Exercise Science.

Dr. Chai was an all-star, multi-sport athlete while at St. Louis High School, and became a Letterwinner in basketball, volleyball, and track at the University of Hawai'i, Manoa,. Even today, Dr. Chai is considered one of the best all-around athletes in all Hawai'i nei. An army veteran, who served in Korea during the Vietnam War, he was often called upon to compete for the service's volleyball team in the USA Volleyball Open tournament. He also competed in the USA Volleyball tournament in the 60s age division, winning 3 gold medals at the open level.

A true educator and mentor, Dr. Chai had a distinguished career. Through his extensive knowledge and warm "aloha style" of teaching, Dr. Chai had the opportunity to impart his decades of experience on many young, hungry minds. He taught at St. Louis High School, was a Graduate Assistant at the University of Southern California, an Assistant Professor in the former Health, Physical Education and Recreation (HPER) Department and Associate Professor in the current Kinesiology and Leisure Science (KLS) Department at the University of Hawai'i. On the weekend, Dennis taught Sunday School at St. Ann's Catholic Church. He also coached countless student-athletes for many years; especially youth and high school sports teams. He believed in positive coaching, sportsmanship, and teamwork, and was one of the founding members of the Hawaii chapter of Positive Coaching Alliance.

Dr. Chai was instrumental in promoting physical fitness and health on a local and national level. An active member in the community, Dr. Chai was a huge contributor to many organizations that supported physical fitness, exercise, health, and positive coaching in Hawai'i including the International Council and Hawai'i Assoc. for Health, Physical Education, Recreation, Sport and Dance; National Association of Sport and Physical Education; American Alliance for Health, Physical Education, Recreation and Dance; National Recreation and Park Association; Kapiolani Hospital's Childhood Obesity Task Force; and so many more.

His humility, humor, kind heartedness, selflessness, determined strength, and aloha spirit, permeates throughout the many people whose lives he has touched. He has been an inspiration to many, and has taught each of us to strive for excellence, serve others, and be humble and kind always. These and other life lessons we will always remember.

Dennis was the husband of Alvina Lopez, and the late Ku`uipo (Morgan) Chai; and is survived by his children – Aulii (Blaise) Hirayama, Kumuhone (Michelle) Stone, Lani (Stephen) Kaaa, Puna (Sean) Na'auao, Courtney Chai, and Jayme Ide; and grandchildren – Keenan, Landon, Po'ai, Pono, Josiah, Kamuela, and Mehana, and two granddaughters on the way; and siblings – Ella (Carlton) Leinani Brooks, Paul (Sharon) Chai, Jr., the late Alan Ceballos, Jerome Ceballos, the late James (Estelle) Ceballos, Larry Ceballos, Matthew Ceballos, Bernard "Kealii" Ceballos, and Bernadette "Sister" (Lono) Moleta.; and many nieces and nephews.

Family and friends will celebrate his life on Tuesday, August 2, 2016 at St. Ann's Church, 46-129 Ha'iku Road, Kane'ohe, Hawai'i. Visitation will begin at 9:30 a.m., with Family Services at 12:00 p.m. followed by Mass at 12:45 p.m. A Veteran Salute and inurnment will immediately follow at Hawaiian Memorial Park/Hawai'i State Veteran's Cemetery at 2 p.m. Lei are welcome, please no flowers. Aloha attire.

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August 17, 2016

Margaret Johnson posted to the memorial.

August 2, 2016

Mikala Ceballos posted to the memorial.

August 2, 2016

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Margaret Johnson

August 17, 2016

I knew Dennis from daily mass at St. Ann's and from the charismatic prayer group he faithfully took part in. I was blessed to know him and was very sorry to hear that he had passed away while I was visiting family on the mainland. I, who did not know him long or all that well, am truly sorry that he is no longer with us. He was a great blessing to me and, I am sure, to all who knew him. My heart and prayers go out to all of his family and especially to Alvina --- you were a gift to him and I am sure he was a great gift to you. Many blessings to all of you.

Mikala Ceballos

August 2, 2016

A hui kaua Uncle Dennis R.I.P Aloha wau ia oe
Hawaiian Pule
Ka Pule No Ka Malumalu ~ Ka Pule Lôkahi
Ka mâlamalama o ke Akua e ho`opuni mai iâ kâkou.
Ke aloha o ke Akua e kîpuni mai iâ kâkou.
Ka mana o ke Akua e ho`opakele mai iâ kâkou.
Ke alo o ke Akua e mâlama mai iâ kâkou.
Ma kahi â kâkou, e hele aku ai he Akua nô. .
Amene.
Mikala Ceballos (San Deigo,CA)

Patricia Wrath

August 2, 2016

I'm so sorry to hear of Dennis' passing. He was my first teacher in HPER at UH when I transferred in in the early '70's and my last teacher when I finished my masters in 2005. He was my colleague and friend throughout those 40+ years. I'll always remember his kindness, wisdom, guidance, support, and commitment to making our lives healthier, more fit, and fun! He was a dedicated professional and compassionate friend. My sincere condolences to his family.

George Marie Ceballos

August 2, 2016

Dennis,
May you rest in peace now with the Lord.God always wants His Angels back.

Elwin Ahu

July 31, 2016

My first impression with Dennis was on the volleyball court. I was fresh out of college, playing collegiate ball, and Dennis was a veteran on the court. He was a tenacious competitor, but humble in spirit. He was a true "All American, All Hawaiian" that made you proud to be on his team. He will be missed, but the good Lord knows Dennis is competing on a heavenly level now. Peace be with you, my brother.

Frank Mimura

July 31, 2016

GOD, Bless you Dennis. Rest in peace.

Norman Ching

July 30, 2016

Dennis and I were teammates at the University of Hawaii. He was not only a great player but an even greater guy. We've had a lot of fun times during our UH days.

I have been living in Atlanta for the past 39 years but have had lunches with him no less than 6 times during my annual vacation visits back to the islands.

He was a great friend and I'm sure he will be missed. My sincerest condolences to the family.

Kainoa Daines

July 30, 2016

Love you Uncle Dennis!! Mahalo for being there for us! Miss you, but know that you're at peace and enjoying heaven.

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