Derek James Intinarelli

Derek James Intinarelli obituary, Spokane, Washington

Derek James Intinarelli

Derek Intinarelli Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 29, 2025.
Spokane, Washington Derek James Intinarelli Derek was a son, brother, father, uncle and a dear friend to many. He was the person whose presence at family gatherings was anticipated with excitement. Derek always brought the party along with him with food, drink, gifts and stories. He would take over the kitchen or grill after arriving. His tomato sauce was made from a family recipe handed down through Grandpa Bill from relatives in Italy.

Born November 4th, 1970, in Warwick, Rhode Island to Greg Intinarelli and Cynthia Schultz, Derek filled many family roles with an assortment of people. He was Greg and Sue Weitz's son and Cynthia Schultz and Benjamin's as well. Derek also lived for a year with Grandma Barbara and his uncle Rob. He was a brother to Avery, Onya, Sebastian, and to Lauran and Marcus. He was a doting father to his and Ali's daughters Hillary, Emma and Lily, and they gave him a grounding during the rest of his life.

Sports were among Derek's passions. He and Greg spent many hours playing hoops, street hockey and whiffle ball. Derek also enjoyed playing golf, tennis and watching F1 racing. He was an accomplished athlete playing basketball, soccer and track.

Derek started his hospitality career at the Story Inn. After earning several industry certifications and awards, he moved from Food and Beverage Manager to Club Manager positions in Indiana, California, Oregon, Texas, Washington, Wisconsin, Florida, and finally to General Manager of the Spokane (Washington) Club. Along the way he developed an expertise and reputation for resurrecting and reviving failing golf and resort clubs.

Derek died from diabetic complications on Dec. 27, 2024 following a Christmas family gathering in Florida. Family and friends are welcome to join in celebrating his life on August 23rd at the Brown County Inn in the Garden Tent Pavilion. At 7pm there will be a short program followed by a celebration with live music from 8pm on. There will be a private family and friend celebration in Spokane, Washington on September 21, 2025.

Derek's lively spirit will live on, not only through his parents, siblings, daughters, and friends, but through all who knew him.

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July 28, 2025

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July 20, 2025

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Ed Triggs

July 28, 2025

First met and spent time with Derek when his father, Greg and I had an apartment when we were student teaching at a large high school in Indianapolis. Derek loved to hang out. What he loved more were games of all sorts. He was curious about everything. Even at 6 years old, he was remarkably tuned into and understood people. He brought smiles to any face at any time. I last spent time with Derek at a family gathering in Spokane in 2017. His ways had only matured and grown richer. Derek was simply at ease with any group of people, making everyone feel comfortable and sincerely heard. He had a true gift in bringing smiles and laughter to anyone who was lucky enough to be with him.

Greg Stern

July 20, 2025

It was great growing up with Derek, Condolences to all the family!
Memories of Hoops, Wiffle Ball, Hocky, Skiing, Music, many fun times, and catching up from time to time in our Adult life discussing family, friends, and life. Derek had a special zest for life and I´m sure he is sharing to those in heaven while waving the "Hoosier" Nat´l championship flags. RIP Derek and thanks for your friendship and memories

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