Don Callejon

1930 - 2021

Don Callejon obituary, 1930-2021, San Jose, CA

Don Callejon

1930 - 2021

Don Callejon Obituary

Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times from Mar. 3 to Mar. 5, 2021.
Don Callejon
June 14, 1930 - February 27, 2021
Santa Clara
Don Callejon was born to a Spanish immigrant and a first generation Californian in 1930 in San Jose. Jimmy and Mary Callejon brought their firstborn home to a ranch in Berryessa. The family, including younger sister June, raised cauliflower, cherries, walnuts and rabbits. Don attended Alum Rock Elementary, Bellarmine College Prep and Santa Clara University before earning his teaching credential at SJSU. Neither of his parents finished high school.
As a young man Don spent many arduous seasons in the fields, sometimes trudging behind a plow. This forged his legendary work ethic.
Don met Clare Silvera of Milpitas in late spring of 1951 at a dance at St. John's Catholic Church. They married on the same spot in December of that year. Their union was enduring and, while Clare preceded Don in death almost exactly one year ago, all who knew them knew it was a match made - and now lived out - in heaven.
Don taught in the classroom, was vice-principal, principal, superintendent and board member in the Santa Clara Unified School district during a career that spanned 40+ years. He is remembered as a leader who advocated for students and teachers alike, and his contributions were honored in 2006 when Don Callejon School, the first new school in 40 years in Santa Clara, opened in the Rivermark area.
Beyond his career, Don was a sought-after leader and mentor. He manned the Cherry Bells booth at the St. Clare's Dad's BBQ and the Santa Clara Schools Foundation Wine Tent for decades. He served on the Boards of St. Francis High School, The Bill Wilson Center, and the Bronco Bench Foundation. When the 49ers wanted to make their home in Santa Clara, they asked Don to co-chair the effort with his long-time buddy Larry Marsalli.
Don taught his children Rick, Chuck, and Donna, to fish on yearly vacations in the Gold Country, and how to drive a forklift at the family ranch. In the 1960s when his sons were excelling in sports, Don drove All-Star little league teams to Southern California, Utah and beyond. He attended almost every one of his three kids' games, and did his best to keep the referees and umpires on their toes.
Don and Clare were true Santa Clarans and committed themselves to the community. He maintained one of the most meticulous yards in town, replete with roses, orchids, prolific apple and orange trees and perfect dichondra grass. Countless aspiring city council and school board members sought their endorsement as an indicator of bona fides. And Don was a treasure trove of Santa Clara history, which he reveled in recounting.
Don's memory will be held by his many friends and former colleagues, family, and most especially his children and their families: Rick (Carol), Chuck (Laura), Donna (Debbie) grand- and step-grandkids Drew (Andrea), Davis (Natalie), Carly (Dave), and Mark (Megan) and recent additions to the family, Avery Callejon and Harris Rodriguez.
The family is grateful for the support of the team at Carlton Senior Living and for the Callejons' guardian angel, Jean Christen. They request that donations in Don's honor be made to the Santa Clara Schools Foundation (www.santaclaraschoolsfoundation.org). A memorial for Don and Clare will be held this summer at Don Callejon School.


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March 12, 2021

Steve Stavis posted to the memorial.

March 3, 2021

Sandy Burky posted to the memorial.

March 3, 2021

Patty Clerkin (Huld) posted to the memorial.

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Steve Stavis

March 12, 2021

March 12, 2021

Dear Members of the Callejon Family:

Last night I watched the tribute to Don and Clare at the Santa Clara Board meeting, but I was unable to log into the input component. There are many fond memories I have of Don and Clare, and I offer heartfelt sympathies to your family. I have included some of the comments I wished to make at the virtual meeting.


Don, Clare and I had common experiences and bonds before we had even met.

Don and I had a mutual friend. Don and Lu Jenkins were close friends at Santa Clara University and both became respected educators in Santa Clara County. Lu and I worked closely in the Union School District for twenty-five years before I became part of The Santa Clara Unified family.

Don contacted Lu to check me out when I applied for a principalship in Santa Clara, and Lu filled me in about Don before my transfer. Don and I were fully acquainted before we met.

While Don was a member of the School Board, he religiously read the principals’ newsletters for every school, and it was not uncommon for him to call and comment on what he read. He kept us on our toes.

One of the things I’ll remember about Don is whenever you ran into him, whether in an education related setting, a social function or in any random encounter, Don always followed the greeting by saying something complimentary. He made you feel worthwhile.

While Don was relatively short in stature, he was a commanding presence in any crowd. He dominated the room by his intelligence, insights, wisdom, humor and gift of gab. He was a giant.

Clare and I also had many personal conversations and discovered that I had seen her brother, Charlie Silvera, play baseball as a New York Yankee when I grew up during the 1950’s in New York City. Charlie was the backup to Yankee catching icon, Yogi Berra, and, as such, didn’t get much playing time even though he had excellent offensive numbers. I did see Charlie play a few times, and his playing and subsequent career were a constant conversation between Clare and me.

I always looked forward to meeting with Don and Clare. Their lives touched us all.

Sincerely,

Steve Stavis
SCUSD Administrator 1991-2011

Sandy Burky

March 3, 2021

Such a wonderful man who taught his children well. I am so sorry for your loss and know Don and Clare will live on in so many hearts.

Patty Clerkin (Huld)

March 3, 2021

Donna,
I remember many years at St Clare's and your dad at the Cherry Bells booth! Your parent's were both great people-- I saw your mom 5 or 6 yrs ago at Kaiser when I was there with my mom-- she still remembered me. Glad they are reunited (and sorry for your loss)
God Bless your family-

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