Dr. Joseph Nicolosi

Dr. Joseph Nicolosi obituary

Dr. Joseph Nicolosi

Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 25, 2019.
HAVERHILL - Dr. Joseph Nicolosi, 61, passed away peacefully on Sunday, August 25, 2019 in Haverhill. Joe's prodigious and precocious intellect earned him a scholarship to Phillips Academy Andover at the age of 14, which he attended for four years as a day student and was loved for his gregarious, generous nature and the fleeting but redemptive hours of liberty he was able to afford his boarding school friends by means of his cherished Caspian Blue Mustang fastback. He ran cross country, rowed crew, was on the riflery team, performed in theater arts, and excelled scholastically across the spectrum from the hard sciences to the Humanities. His eclecticism was in further evidence at Dartmouth College, where he doggedly pursued a pre-Med curriculum under an English Literature major. He was a DJ on the campus radio station and a member of Sigma Epsilon Fraternity, where he was known and remembered with the greatest affection for his humor, affability, and terrible taste in music. All this he immediately afterwards took with him to medical school. The man he grew to be was altogether admirable in every dimension. He became a doctor and devout Christian. Working in a Texas bordertown hospital, he was always the first to step up whenever disasters struck, locally or anywhere in the world; through such platforms as Project Hope and Mercy ships, "Dr. J" would hop on a helo and get to where he could administer to the sick and injured. He was a vigorous (and anonymous) donor to the Phillips Academy's LCDR Erik S. Kristensen USN's Memorial and Scholarship Fund, as he was to American Military Veteran's Support groups everywhere. He also retained his lifelong enthusiasm for expert firearms marksmanship, hunting, and the great Texas outdoors. His friends and family are consoled in their grief and loss by knowing that, with the life he lived, the Faith he kept, and the depth and warmth of his great heart, that he is now in God's embrace for eternity. Everyone's lives were ennobled by knowing him. Joseph was a great friend and colleague to many of us. He was a well respected anesthesiologist who worked at many locations around the metroplex. He has touched the lives of every person that has had the pleasure of meeting him. Joe loved the outdoors and Texas. He would often say "I was born a Texan, just not in Texas." He enjoyed hunting, shooting, barbecuing, and spending time with friends and family. Family was very important to Joe. He will be missed. Survived by his sister Maria Morris of Haverhill, MA; niece and nephew Catherine and Frederick Morris; close friends Brian Dulock and Harry Flynn; many dear friends and colleagues. Celebration of Joseph's Life will be announced. Arrangements by Driscoll Funeral Home, Haverhill. For guestbook, visit www.driscollcares.com

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July 24, 2022

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January 4, 2020

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December 9, 2019

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Laurie Artman-McIntosh

July 24, 2022

I am writing this message while still in shock. Joe and I became close friends in the 80's while he was in Norfolk, Va. working on his medical degree. I was much younger than Joe, and nowhere near as interesting, but he invited me to meet his friends and colleagues and took a genuine interest in me. He would often visit me in Newport News, and I would visit him in Norfolk. When he moved to Pittsburg, we remained in touch and spent many long hours on the phone discussing his medical program, my Elementary Education studies, and the current issues of the day. I was lucky enough to visit him once in Pittsburg, and yet again in Corpus Christi. When I got to Texas, I could tell he was happier than he'd ever been. Unfortunately, Joe and I lost touch over the past 10 years. During the pandemic I thought of him often, wondering how many lives he was saving. Finally today, I Googled Joe in hopes of hearing his cheerful voice and learning of all the adventures he's had since we last spoke. I am heartbroken that one of my best friends in life is gone. However, I know for a fact he is with God and smiling down on us all. I will miss you Joe and I will always love you. Your friend, Laurie Artman-McIntosh

Mark Lemons

January 4, 2020

Joe was my partner in an anesthesiology group in Corpus Christi, TX from 2011-16. I am deeply saddened to see that he has passed away. He remained very optimistic and happy throughout his chemotherapy even though I could tell he was in pain. We spent many long days and nights together taking care of trauma patients at Christus Spohn Memorial Hospital. Joe was one of the most intelligent physicians I've worked with in my entire career. We would kid each other about our anesthesia chart legibility because his writing was so perfect and mine looked like chicken scratch. He was an avid gun collector and hunter. He took me to the shooting range several times and taught me everything I know about fire arm safety and use. He also gave me as much deer and hog meat that could fit in my freezer. Joe touched so many lives in south Texas and I am grateful to have been one of them. I miss you brother.

Mark Lemons, friend and colleague, TX, Jan 4, 2020

John Alexander

December 9, 2019

Joe and I were on the rifle team at Andover in 1974-75. We ran in different circles, but when I was going through a hard time he's the one who reached out to me, and it made a difference. He was a truly decent, utterly unpretentious person, and I have no doubt he touched many lives with some simple gesture of care. Haven't seen you in almost almost 45 years, Joe, but I'm still going to miss you.

Anonymous Anonymous

November 8, 2019

Plum Island, July 4th 1978.
St. Johns University, fruit salad.
Virginia Beach, LFS.
Jamaica Plain, HTS
Nuff said...
RIP, my friend, RIP

Janet Daltner (Weston)

October 31, 2019

Joe and I spent many evenings together with my roommate, he was our adopted big brother while he was in Pittsburgh. If not for him, I doubt I would have ever met my husband. Joe ducked out of a hockey game but send my phone number in his place. I wish I wouldhave known sooner. I am very saddened to learn of his passing. He was a very special man and friend. I can still hear him laughing at silly things, coming to visit me while I was on night shift in the CT-ICU. I will miss him.

Bill Burke

September 22, 2019

I am deeply saddened to hear of Joe's passing. Joe and I were Sig Ep fraternity brothers at Dartmouth. Joe and I shared many fun and memorable moments together. I was so happy for him when he realized his dream to become a doctor. My payers and condolences to Maria and her family on your loss. Bill Burke, fellow Dartmouth alum.

Paul Suits

September 19, 2019

My family and I are deeply saddened to hear of Joe's passing. We were only connected by our love of firearms, firearms training and hunting but he was Uncle Joe to our kids. We exchanged texts and emails on a daily basis and Christmas gifts every year. We had planned to take a family vacation this year to visit him in Decatur and we thought if him everyday through his recent battle. I am going to miss him dearly just as I would a brother. Life will not be the same without being able to speak, text and email with him. Our love to the family!

Ben Riley

September 12, 2019

On behalf of Joe's Dartmouth 1979 classmates, please accept our deepest condolences and prayers. Joe was a talented and cherished classmate and friend. If any family members would like to include a message to the class about Joe, or has some photos we could share, please contact Ben Riley at [email protected].

Craig Burton

September 7, 2019

A Wonderful man; a gentleman and a scholar.
I knew Joe in the late 1970's when we were summer employees at Phillips Academy.
God bless.

Craig T. Burton

Dranda Hopps

September 4, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed. I enjoyed speaking to him, and before we would end our conversation, he would say... God bless you and have a blessed week. I felt blessed when we spoke.
Praying for his family, that God will comfort and give them peace.

Rebecca Durick

September 1, 2019

My deepest condolences to Maria, Catherine and Frederick. I will dearly miss Joe's caring, his advice, and his wonderful spirit. I count him as a friend like no other. Joe is a child of the King. While I grieve Joe's passing, I look forward to the day when I will meet him face to face.

Steve Vincze

August 28, 2019

To the friends and family of Joe Nicolosi,
I share in your deep grief in learning of the death of a friend, Andover classmate, rowing teammate and fellow military officer. I was utterly shocked and deeply saddened to learn of Joe's passing. To say he was a good man is a profound understatement. What I will always remover most about Joe is his ear to ear smile, which reflected his positive Can do! nature. I share your profound grief and express my deepest sympathies. We have all lost a profoundly decent human being who made this world a much better place. May you Rest In Peace, Joe. Your Brother Steve

Derwood and Tanya Holloway

August 26, 2019

Maria - We can only imagine how your are feeling right now. We want you to know how amazed we were at Joe's kind spirit and presence, as well as, his stubbornness. We will miss him as our neighbor down here in Texas. If there is anything you need, we are here for you. We love you.

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