Elisabeth Howe Colt

Elisabeth Howe Colt obituary, Brunswick, ME

Elisabeth Howe Colt

Elisabeth Colt Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 16, 2023.
After 93 years of emotionally expansive, intellectually curious, and contagiously creative life, Elisabeth "Lisa" Colt-artist, poet, musician, teacher, and lifelong learner-died peacefully on December 6, 2023, four days after suffering a fall, in Brunswick, Maine.

Lisa was born in 1930 in Providence, Rhode Island, the second of four children of George Howe, an architect and author, and Elisabeth Howe, a horse breeder. She was an observant, eager-to-please, self-conscious child. (Years later, in a poem, she would describe herself as "a shy potato of a girl.") The family would move seven times in twelve years before settling on a farm in rural Maryland. After graduating from St. Timothy's School, Lisa enrolled in nursing school in Boston. Shortly thereafter, she met a handsome young World War II veteran named Harry Colt. In 1951, at age 20, she dropped out of nursing school to marry him. (Married nursing students were not permitted at the time.) Over the next decade, as they moved from Pittsburgh to El Paso to Philadelphia to Boston to Connecticut and back to Boston, Harry climbed the corporate ladder and Lisa gave birth to four sons. She was a supportive and, for a time, conventional wife (chicken a la king for office dinner parties, diet pills for her figure) and a loving and imaginative mother (though four boys could be a handful). Why, she wondered, wasn't she happy?

In 1963, Lisa read Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique, and her life was irrevocably changed. Absorbing the questing, questioning spirit of the era, she began to teach neighborhood teens how to strum "If I Had a Hammer" and "Blowin' in the Wind." She grew passionately interested in the civil rights movement and marched against the Vietnam War. Having never gone to college, she became an autodidact, filling her bookshelves with Germaine Greer, Eldridge Cleaver, Abbie Hoffman, and Adrienne Rich and strewing her coffee table with Avatar, The Phoenix, and Boston After Dark. She wrote poem after poem, painted picture after picture. Visitors to the Colt house were surprised to find the kitchen and hallway walls covered by a Rousseau-ish jungle mural. When her youngest son started kindergarten, she found her calling as an art teacher.

And what an art teacher! At Noble and Greenough, the independent secondary school in Dedham where she spent most of her teaching career, studio art had consisted largely of traditional still lifes and landscapes; art history all but ended with the Impressionists. In Lisa's classes, students not only drew and painted but made collages, mobiles, mosaics, silkscreens, sculptures, weavings, wood-block prints, kites, and life-sized puppets. They were introduced to Oldenberg, Rauschenberg, O'Keefe, Warhol, and Duchamp. They learned that art wasn't just about drawing a realistic-looking pear but about how to look at the world, that art wasn't found just on the walls of a museum but everywhere around them. "Be bold," Lisa urged them. They were. In one memorable project, inspired by Christo, a student persuaded the Dedham Fire Department to train a hose on an enormous stone dormitory one frigid winter night, "wrapping" the building in ice. The first iteration of Lisa's legendary "Art Without Boundaries" course ended with a multi-media performance piece in which the students, wearing huge papier-maché headpieces and burlap-bag muumuus, shimmied to the recorded songs of humpback whales.

In her sixteen years at Nobles, Lisa would also teach English literature, philosophy, Growth Education (a.k.a. "Sex Ed"), and the Holocaust and Human Behavior. During "February Week," in which teachers taught mini-courses of their choosing, Lisa, to the raised eyebrows of faculty members and the alarm of parents, taught thanatology. Students read The Sorrows of Young Werther, wrote essays imagining their own deaths, visited a funeral parlor, and ended the week with a sleepover in a graveyard, where they read aloud Dylan Thomas's "Do Not Go Gentle into That Good Night."

Lisa-who invited students to call her by her first name, to the chagrin but eventual acceptance of the headmaster-may have had an even greater impact on the school outside the classroom. When she arrived in 1973, Nobles was an all-male prep school where the athletes were campus gods, and the shy, artistic loners-the ones faculty members called "square pegs in round holes"-were often ignored and sometimes bullied. (The school went co-ed the year after Lisa arrived; she was instrumental in the transition.) Having felt like one when she was growing up, Lisa was a champion of square pegs. She challenged students and teachers alike to question stereotypes and value difference. In letters to the school paper and impassioned speeches in morning assembly, Lisa called out sexist and homophobic behavior. As one alumnus recalled, "Lisa was the conscience of the school."

Even as Lisa taught art, she continued to create it herself. Her paintings were exhibited in galleries; one show consisted of thirty watercolor self-portraits ("each morning for a month I searched the mirror and painted the face that peered back at me"). Her poems were published in journals and anthologies (her "Green Sestina" won the 1977 Harvard Summer School Poetry Prize). All the while, she led folk singalongs at a local nursing home, gave writing workshops, organized meditation groups, marched for women's rights and against war (the Gulf War in 1990 and, a decade later, the Iraq War), and kept a wildly idiosyncratic illustrated journal. In 1979, she earned a Master's in Education from Antioch College. During the AIDS epidemic of the 1980s, she served as a volunteer "AIDS Buddy" to a dying young man. When friends-or strangers-bumped into Lisa on the sidewalk, they often ended up in long, intimate conversations: what Lisa called "heart to hearts." Cabbies invariably ended up telling her their life stories.

In 2003, Lisa and Harry moved to the Lathrop Retirement Community in Easthampton, where they enjoyed some of the happiest years of their 61-year marriage: taking courses at Smith College, tutoring middle school students, watching art-house movies at Amherst Cinema, weeding Lisa's Buddha garden, or just reading side by side in the den (Harry the latest David McCullough, Lisa the latest Patti Smith). Over the decades, these two very different people had settled into an abiding love. After Harry's death in 2012, Lisa's grief eased a bit when she took in a sausage-shaped, jackrabbit-eared rescue dog, Lulu (another square peg). Lisa continued to create: taking poetry classes, leading painting workshops, and playing exuberant harmonica and spoons at Lathrop's "Friday Folkies" and family hootenannies. In 2021, her first book of poetry, Continuing Education, was privately printed. Though she reminded us (as she had reminded her students) that the process, not the product, was the most important thing, she was not displeased when the product won second prize in a nationwide contest for poets over 70. She was 91.

The following year, Lisa was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, a disease that would compel this devoted Buddhist truly to live in the moment. Though her mind and memory frayed, she continued to get pleasure from reading (Ocean Vuong, Natasha Trethewey); attending movies, lectures, and concerts; playing music; and having heart to hearts. In June, 2023, she moved to Avita, a memory care community in Brunswick, Maine, not far from two of her sons. Even after her once-prodigious store of words had vanished, Lisa remained her essential self, communicating with warm smiles and loving kisses. She continued to find beauty in the world around her; sitting outside, she'd identify six different shades of green in the landscape. Her creative spark persisted to the end. One afternoon, three weeks before her death, when she could no longer finish sentences, she surprised us by playing a harmonica solo: "Amazing Grace."

Lisa was predeceased by her husband, Harry; her son Ned; her sister Linda; and her brother, George. She is survived by her sister Disa McPherson; her brother-in-law Lloyd Lee McPherson; her sister-in-law, Angie Howe; her sons Harry, George, and Mark; her daughters-in-law, Sandy Colt, Anne Fadiman, Cathy Robinson, and Liz Collins; her grandchildren, Ian, Maya, Susannah, and Henry; and her great-grandson, Gavin; as well as many beloved nieces, nephews, friends, and former students.

A celebration of Lisa's remarkable life will be held in the spring.

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Tom Just

July 16, 2024

"Oh, Captain, my Captain!" A true Dead Poet if there ever were one.

I had Mrs. Colt in 7th grade. Words can´t describe how wonderful she was. If it means anything, I have my Sixie journal, complete with her comments. For poetry-related reasons, she gave me a tape cassette of The Best of the Band.

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Linda Davis

January 16, 2024

I would give almost anything to sit again in Franny Hutchins' back yard, admiring the grape vine and laughing with the joy of being together. I hope copies of the songs Lisa wrote have somehow survived, especially a peace ditty called something like "Here we are on Needham Common........" as she strummed away on the frigid holiday eve or in the warmth of Mother's Day surrounded by so many of us yearning for world peace. We badly need that gathering still. And then there was "The Big House" in which she was the ballast in the boat........ They don't make Lisas anymore --

Linda R. Davis

January 16, 2024

The world and your family has lost a truly amazing treasure! I'd give almost anything to sit in Franny Hutchins' back yard, admiring the grape vine and laughing with joy of just being together. Also, her annual holiday eve songs set just the right note! She wrote "Here we are on Needham Common........" as we yearned for world peace and we need those pleading voices always. I hope y

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Jennifer (Rosenbaum) Luciani

December 26, 2023

Lisa was my teacher, mentor, and friend. I first met her almost 40 years ago when I was my own shy potato of a girl, a sixie at Nobles, completely out of my element. In English class, she had us keep journals that we would hand in periodically, and she would leave the most astonishing, delightful comments and drawings in response; we had quite the correspondence going there. In response to a particularly depressed journal entry of mine, she glued a feather to the page and invited me to touch it whenever I needed. Lisa was the first person who convinced me I had a voice and that poetry was a vehicle for it.

Later at Nobles, I was her student in Art Without Boundaries, and she encouraged us to push beyond any received wisdom, to keep looking and listening more keenly, to experiment, to take risks, and to be part of a group of artists who were relatively liberated despite the confines of school and culture and the terrible burden of expectations.

We remained friends long after I graduated from Nobles. It gave me particular joy to introduce her to my newborn daughter in 2007. It's not a stretch to say that Lisa's influence extended deeply into my parenting and continues to this very moment. That's how benevolently powerful she was.

Her gentleness was undergirded with a fierce love of justice. She was a woman of unparalleled relational brilliance. Few have touched my life so profoundly.

Wishing us all solace in her loss, but mostly huge joy that this giant spirit touched us all.

Ellen Driscoll

December 22, 2023

This is such a beautiful and spot on portrait of our beloved Lisa. I laughed a lot at the humpback whale MuMu scene, and cried as I remembered learning guitar in the Colt dining room as a teenager and getting my hands on the banned Boston newspapers---always to be found at that table. Her boundless zest for life, capacity for creativity and wonder, inspired many of us to follow her Pied Piper style into the arts. Her creativity was expressed in so many ways (365 days of self portraits!), up to and including her recent beautiful book of poems.
We will hold her spirit close always.
Ellen Driscoll

Anita Whitney

December 21, 2023

What a lovely and colorful obituary for such a lovely and colorful woman. I spoke to my husband about her just the other day even though I had not seen her in 43 years. Lisa Colt was my teacher at both Dedham Country Day School and Noble and Greenough School. She taught me the guitar with unending patience and lavish praise. I was watching a TV show with my husband and son last week and someone was singing Country Roads by John Denver. It was the first song Mrs. Colt taught me and I still remember the chord progression. That was in 1974. She was the first example I had of color and joy and irreverence and passion. I still think of her fondly. My condolences to her family and all who loved her.

Benjamin Lloyd

December 21, 2023

As a fellow square peg in a round hole, Lisa was a beacon of creativity and gentle resistance to the prevailing attitudes of the time (I am class of `81.) As a self-involved theatre kid I never took a class with her - much to my dismay now. But I often visited friends working on projects in her classroom. It was subterranean, a cauldron of glowing weirdness and beauty just beneath the lobby and administrative offices. I couldn´t put it in to words then, but now I know I was warmed and supported by her mission and example, as I began to lay the foundations of my own creative life. Thank you, Lisa.

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Carol Gray

December 21, 2023

So very grateful to Lisa Colt who was definitely the best teacher I ever had. The big questions were always alive in her classes regardless of the subject matter. Who are we, how shall we live, and what it is the meaning we are making of it all---questions I am still answering almost 50 years later. She was the very definition of inclusive, loving the round pegs who fit smoothly and the square ones who did not--even the sometimes angry and occasionally not very likable ones like myself. Her classroom was a true haven for me. And yet she was no pushover as I learned when she gave me a C after I spent much of my first semester figuring out how to drink coffee and chatting with friends. It was a motivating grade. I went on to take every class she taught and am so very glad I did. Sending lots of love to all the Colts.

Angie Howe

December 20, 2023

Angie Howe

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Angie Howe

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Chris Hoffman

December 20, 2023

Lisa was a tremendous teacher and an amazing person. I was not an inspiring student but she had a gentle and nurturing way of bringing out the little something that resides in all of us, no matter how hidden. She turned on a switch within me that helped me understand who I was and what I was capable of doing, that there isn't one way to learn or write. I will always, always, always remember her and the many gifts she gave me.

Melissa Murphy

December 20, 2023

Lisa was a remarkable teacher and human being. There was a place for everyone in her art classes at Nobles. Her energy was powerful but also gentle. One knew immediately that Lisa was not there to skim the surface but to go deep-and she wanted us all to join her. I´m remembering her kind words, her enthusiastic creativity, her feathers, and her beautiful smile. I´m so grateful to have crossed paths with Lisa and to have felt her magic. Her story of self-discovery and connection continues to inspire. How lucky we all were to know her. Her spirit lives in on in countless hearts. My deep condolences to her family and friends.

Sarah McCulloch

December 19, 2023

Lisa Colt had a great impact on my life. I discovered that I was an artist in her classroom. She allowed Libbet Cox, a fellow student, to teach jewelry making classes after school in the art room and I wouldn't be a jeweler of about 47 years now had she not. Lisa was a gentle and caring teacher and her artroom was a sanctuary for many of us students. I still have the drawings I made in her classroom circa 1977. I also was lucky to visit her in her home on Buzzards Bay when I became friends with her son Mark as we worked at Howie's Market in Pocasset in the summer. What a wonderful legacy she has left behind!

Hugh Martinez

December 19, 2023

Lisa was one of the best teachers I had at Nobles, and ever. She made us all feel free to express ourselves, even insisting on our most honest truth each day. I will forever be grateful that my life crossed paths briefly with Lisa´s. Sending deepest sympathy to her family and friends who are left here "behind." May peace be her steady companion now and always.

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