Erin Marie Pauley-Ackman
Erin Marie Pauley-Ackman
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Born November 25, 1965 in Huntington, WV, Erin was a longtime resident of Shepherdstown, WV and later resided in Leesburg, VA with her husband before moving to the Outer Banks.
She was preceded in death by her father, Richard Pauley, her mother, Mary (Corcoran) Lehman, and her stepfather, John Lehman, whom she thought of as a father.
Erin was a graduate of Jefferson High School. She received a BS degree in Business Management from Shepherd University and a MA degree in Business Communications from WVU.
Erin was Senior Director, Strategic Sourcing and Contacts for Comcast. She was a dedicated and loyal employee.
Erin is survived by her loving husband of 24 years, Brian Eugene Ackman; a sister, Deborah Cook (Kenny); a brother, Tim Coolidge (Donna); brother-in-law, Bill Ackman (Susan); sister-in-law, Lorrie Callihan (David); numerous nieces, nephews and great-nieces and great-nephews whom she loved dearly.
Her late dog Roo, her cat Crosby, and her new puppy Maz were her pride and joy.
Erin was a thoughtful and generous person to her family, friends, neighbors, and coworkers. She will be deeply missed.
To honor Erin's memory, please consider making a donation to your local animal shelter.
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Julie
August 24, 2025
You will be missed!
Julie
August 22, 2025
My heart breaks!
Patrick Herlihy
August 22, 2025
Reunion of Dudes and Dudettes in Lusby MD circa 2010
Jilda Castaldo
August 21, 2025
Having traveled with Erin for work, there are too many memories to share. But one that stays close to me, is too long to tell, I will say this, We were tired and giddy and still had to go out to an obligatory dinner when Erin starts singing "Take Me Home, Country Road. Before you knew it we were having a sing along! This was Erin to me. She was an amazing colleague and I will miss her dearly.
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Michael Steinebach
August 21, 2025
Erin, Ranjit, and Michael
Stefanie Pobudziej-Blethen
August 21, 2025
Brian and I are both so sad, words can´t express how we feel.
Michael Steinebach
August 21, 2025
Working with Erin at COVAD was where we met. I enjoyed my professional and personal experiences with her and her husband.
She was always a breath of fresh air... Always happy and humorous. She will be missed.
Andrea Unangst
August 21, 2025
Erin and I worked together at Booz Allen. She was my favorite office mate of all time. She brightened every day with her sharp insights and humor. I'm so sorry to hear of this loss.
Robyn (Leonard) Church
August 21, 2025
I am so sorry to hear about Erin, she was a wonderful work mate. I met her at Covad where we worked together. She always had a good attitude and smile along with strong work ethic. I met up with her again 20 years later at Comcast where she referred me into the role I have today. I will always be grateful for her this. Erin will be missed not only by her Comcast family but by many she touched. Prayers to her family during this difficult time.
Selvi Manoj
August 21, 2025
I first met Erin during my visit to the US, and she quickly became an incredible influence in my professional life. Though we only worked together for a short stint, she remained a dear friend for many years. I still remember her last visit to India, when she brought chocolates for my kids - such a simple yet thoughtful gesture that reflected her warmth and loving nature.
Erin was a true professional, and I learned so much from her. Thanks to Facebook and WhatsApp, we stayed connected over the years. She made friendship easy, conversations memorable, and was the ultimate hostess - with impeccable taste, grace, and class.
This is an unimaginable loss. My heart goes out to her family, and I pray that God gives Brian all the strength to bear this grief.
Betsy Vernon
August 20, 2025
Erin was an incredible influence in my personal and professional life. She was a dear friend who became chosen family for me during the 12 years we lived in Leesburg. I was lucky enough to not only befriend Erin in my personal life, but also work closely with her, and had the opportunity to travel the world and share amazing experiences. Erin taught me to lead with grace, deliver with integrity, and value coworkers as people and friends. While we lost touch over several moves, I have no doubt that we could pick up our friendship without missing a beat, as Erin always made being her friend easy, conversations memorable, and was the ultimate hostess, with impeccable taste and class.
Brian, we are so terribly sorry for your loss. I adored watching your love, the fun you had together, and the balance the two of you gave each other in your relationship has been something I have tried to emulate in my own. I know she is watching over you with her beloved Roo and sweet cats on the rainbow bridge. I´m so grateful to have called her my friend, and for the generosity and kindness she showed to me and my family. I will miss her terribly and sorrowfully.
With all of our love, support, and sympathy,
Betsy and Damian Vernon
Yvette Saunders
August 20, 2025
I can't believe she's gone! I always thought we'd reconnect, I thought there would be time. And now it's too late. I spent most of my young adult years with Erin. She was funny, self-depricating, exacting, and very loyal. She loved deeply and demanded a lot, but what you got in return was the truest of friends. Even though we had not been in touch for years, I will miss her. Rest well, Erin.
Mike and Maria Fisher
August 20, 2025
We were so saddened to learn of Erin's sudden passing. Sending you our love and hoping you find so.e measure of comfort in the days ahead.
Mike and Maria
Patrick Herlihy
August 20, 2025
Erin and Eileen circa 1985 - Old Opera House, Shepherdstown WV
Paula Secatore
August 20, 2025
I am shocked and terribly sad to hear of Erin's passing. My heart goes out to all who love her. She will always hold a special place in my heart.
Christine
August 20, 2025
Brian, we are so sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you and your family. Chrissy (Mckee) and Lee Roth
Terri Kimbrough
August 20, 2025
This was such a shock to hear. RIP Erin. You will be missed by all that loved you. Prayers to the family left behind.
Laxmi
August 20, 2025
It is hard to imagine. She was always so full of life, funny, charming and helpful. I cannot even begin to imagine the loss. Rest in peace Erin. You will be missed. My condolences, prayers and deepest wishes to the family.
Bruce Guthrie
August 20, 2025
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Having worked directly with Erin for many years, our entire Denver team definitely miss Erin's smile, her contagious laugh and clever wit!
David McCoy
August 20, 2025
Erin always hated when I took her picture. I will forever miss my good friend and travel companion!
Katerina Haranovich
August 19, 2025
Our hearts go out to Erin´s family during this difficult time. We will always remember her as a positive, kind, and thoughtful person who was always ready to help others. She will be deeply missed, and words cannot express the sorrow we feel.
The Haranovich family
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