Geoffrey H. Waggoner

Geoffrey H. Waggoner obituary, Mt. Pleasant, SC

Geoffrey H. Waggoner

Geoffrey Waggoner Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jun. 25 to Jul. 6, 2023.
Geoffrey H. Waggoner died at home supported by his loving partner Michelle, his daughters, Katherine, Liz and Amelia, his sister Mary, and other supportive friends and neighbors. A plaintiff-oriented personal injury lawyer, Geoff spent his final days visiting with family and friends, recalling past trial highlights, and listening to great music from decades past.

Born in Washington D.C. to Walter Herrick Waggoner and Margaret Bucci Waggoner, Geoff's early life was greatly influenced by his parents' careers. His mother was a photographer and copy girl for the Washington Post, who met his father while he was Washington correspondent for the Wall Street Journal. Geoff's father, a Nieman Fellow in journalism at Harvard, next became a foreign correspondent for the New York Times, a career that spanned over 40 years.

When Geoff was five, his father was appointed to open the Times's bureau in The Hague, where he covered the World Court. When it was time to leave for Europe, Geoff did not want to board the Queen Mary, as he had just entered a Father's Day portraiture contest at Bloomingdales. He was sure his drawing of his father Walter was going to win, and- in fact- it did. He had drawn a jaunty portrait of Walter, smoking a pipe. The store tracked him down in Europe to give him the prize.

After three years in the Hague, Geoff's father joined the paper's London bureau, relocating the family to Kensington Square. Following three years of integrating into British society, the family returned to the States-rather than a subsequent appointment in Moscow-due to his grandmother's failing health. Geoff arrived home as a tall, redheaded 12-year-old with a British accent, who thought "football" meant soccer. Once resettled stateside, his father covered the New Jersey political scene from Trenton. Geoff spent his high school years in Montclair, NJ, where the family continued to entertain New York and New Jersey intellectuals and celebrities.

Upon completing high school, Geoff-no stranger to adventure- famously hitchhiked to attend his alma mater, Duke University. He was always fascinated by science and the human body and spent high school summers getting the practical experience needed to pursue a career in medicine, including work as a medical assistant on an Indian reservation in North Dakota and also as an autopsy room assistant in Montclair. He ultimately settled on a psychology major, a choice he found both interesting and versatile, as well as useful in his later career.

At Duke, Geoff met some of his best, lifelong friends. He joined a fraternity, a group of non-conformists and free thinkers that ultimately went "local" and became known as Beta Phi Zeta, affectionately referred to as "The Bozos." Geoff was proud to claim this and his personal nickname of "Daddy Waggs," bestowed by his fraternity brothers.

After graduating from Duke, Geoff, like many "boomers" competing with the largest generation of graduates ever, was not accepted at his choice of law schools. Undeterred, he spent a "gap" year working as an advance man for the campaign of Brendan Byrne, a Superior Court judge who became the Governor of New Jersey. He also worked as a federal criminal investigator, and served as a Legal Aid volunteer for the NJ State Antitrust Division. The next time he applied to law school he was accepted everywhere. He chose University of South Carolina in Columbia because the physical plant was brand new and the tuition was easy on his self-funded budget. At USC he ran into Jay Gouldon, an old Eaton House classmate and soccer teammate in London, bringing Geoff's expat experience full circle.

After graduating from law school, Geoff went to work for Reese Joye, handling what he called "screwball torts" and other personal injury cases. He was drawn to torts and personal injury cases through his continued interest in medicine and anatomy. After leaving Reese, he continued to practice with George Kefalos and Elliott Barrow. He was a member of the South Carolina Bar and the Charleston County Bar, and enjoyed great success as a trial lawyer. He was a pioneer in the plaintiff's bar, being the first lawyer in the state to offer expert testimony on brain damage in cases involving closed head injuries. Geoff represented the first father in South Carolina to win full custody of his children. He held leadership positions in the SC Trial Lawyers Association, now the South Carolina Association for Justice. He enjoyed the challenge of taking on cases that others turned down as unwinnable, only to score a big win for the "little guy." He had great empathy for his clients which fueled his dedication.

In his spare time, Geoff was chairman of Crime Stoppers for nearly five years, gave several years of dedicated service to Northwoods Sertoma, a national service organization dedicated to speech and hearing, and was a right-hand man in the "Boo Crew" haunted house team benefitting the Charleston Symphony Orchestra. A long-time member of the Mt. Pleasant Exchange Club, Geoff gave freely of his time as well as financial support. He was also a valuable contributor to his regular trivia team and was perennial member of the "Zonkers," his law school intramural basketball team, with whom he kept close ties over the years.

On a personal level, Geoff was charismatic, social, funny, and confident, with an endearing ability to make fun of himself. He inherited his father's newspaper reporter talent of being able to start a conversation with anyone, just as he did when he first met Michelle. He also had a fascination with scaring people that sent some children running home screaming from birthday parties. The long-held family motto was - "if it's worth doing, it's worth overdoing."

Geoff was preceded in death by his parents Walter and Margaret, and his sister Anne Bancroft (Griff). He died on the second anniversary of the death of his friend John Hill, attended by John's widow Sandy, a Duke nurse. He is survived by his loving partner, Michelle Blount and her son Bryan; his sister Mary Lemma (Joe); his daughters Katherine Waggoner, Elizabeth Benedix (Marcel), and Amelia Page (Matt); and his grandchildren Jack Page, Charlotte Benedix and Penelope Page. Their grief is shared by the mother of his children and former wife, Laura Moore, and her family, Tyre Moore Sr. and Tyre Moore, Jr. (Nicola).

Arrangements are being handled by J. Henry Stuhr Funeral Home, and a memorial service was held on Wednesday, June 28th at 4:00 pm at the Unitarian Church in Charleston located at 4 Archdale Street, with a reception following in Gage Hall.

Contributions in memoriam may be made to Windwood Farm Home & Family Services, 4857 Windwood Farm Road, Awendaw, SC 29429; Crimestoppers of the Lowcountry, 4628 Hyde Avenue, North Charleston, SC 29419; or an organization of your choice.

A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com.

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June 19, 2024

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February 29, 2024

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October 9, 2023

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Douglas Hester

June 19, 2024

I met Geoffrey for the very first time one morning prior to court. It was a matter concerning the very future of a young man. He wanted to cut through all the legal aspects and go right to the heart of the matter, it was personal to him. He was young and fresh out of law school and I was new on the job too. Together, we cleared the path for a young man to enter the Air Force and get on with his life. It was the beginning of a relationship that would last decades and many opportunities to help others. He was a caring and thoughtful gentleman and the legal community lost a giant. I know your family misses him deeply. Fortunately, because of the plan our Heavenly Father put in place we will join him in Eternity at the end of our time. As for me I can't wait to see his smiling face and hear that distinctive voice. He was my friend.

Nat Walle

February 29, 2024

Having met Geoff through my work. I quickly became keen to his dry wit and extreme generosity. My condolences.

Caine Henry

October 9, 2023

I loved Geoff was a NY Giants fan and I was a Cowboys fan in the same division. Football was a great ice breaker to more important matters such as his family. He truly cared about his girls. He was an effective communicator and had a genuine curiosity for many interesting things. His openness to people making mistakes in life, change who I want to be like.

Rosemary Bryant

September 10, 2023

I met Geoff when he was a Zonker at USC and immediately knew he was a special person.
That dry sense of humor, combined with his intelligence and civility, made him someone I liked immensely, respected, and admired. And always will.
My condolences to
all who knew him and loved him. We are the lucky ones.

Jane Pierce

July 11, 2023

My family is very saddened to hear of Geoff´s passing! 35 years ago he changed my family´s lives. He was our adoption attorney and we are forever in his debt! We have kept sporadic contact through the years. I will miss his kind and heartfelt comments after I sent him what he called our"brag letters". Rest in peace!

Mary Waggoner Lemma

July 9, 2023

The remembrance service was wonderful, and I learned so much. I wasn't able to share memories of my brother at the service, but...Of the many fond memories are a few that only this younger sister can share. When we were kids--he was in early high school--he and I would sit at the kitchen table during dinner and mimic audios of the late great Peter Sellers. We were cohorts in comedy, to the hearty amusement of our family. Geoff also was a thoughtful, caring brother, taking note of things I was interested in as a little girl , giving me books and records (those round vinyl thingies) related to those subjects. I still have them. Once, as only a big brother could, I suppose, Geoff peeked inside my diary, soon thereafter offering "advice." (A lawyer in the making, perhaps?) My point being, he cared. He also was fond of wordplay, and some might say "Dad jokes." In my adult life, relocating across the country from him and his family didn't provide me the day-to-day experiences his friends, former colleagues and children shared, but his visits here with his life partner were always fun and loving, with plenty of laughter. Like others who knew Geoff through his various life chapters, I will miss him terribly.

Ret. Lt. Douglas L Hester Jr.

June 28, 2023

My heartfelt condolences to the family of my friend and attorney Geoffrey Waggoner. Our careers touched often bringing meaning and hope to the community we served. Ours is the story of a lawman and a lawyer that forged a friendship during our efforts to put a young mans life back on tract. It's difficult to say goodbye to my honorable friend. You will always be my inspiration.

Cheryl Whipper Hamilton

June 27, 2023

I was very saddened to learn of Geoff's passing. Although I was not among his circle of friends, through the years, I have called upon him for his legal expertise. So, I considered Geoff a professional friend. He was a dedicated advocate for his clients and a learned resource for other bar members. His absence will be felt, his memory honored.
I pray that the peace of God always remains with Geoff's family and friends.
Cheryl Whipper Hamilton

george johnson

June 27, 2023

Geoff was a very hard worker and adviser while a member of northwoods sertoma!

Keisha gaches jones

June 27, 2023

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

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John Patrick Smith (just "Pat")

June 26, 2023

I just read the obituary re: Geoff just a short while ago and instantly felt an imponderable grief. I am with Crime Stoppers of the Lowcountry and met Geoff there. Geoff was a huge, huge part of Crime
Stoppers for years, an organization that meant so much to Geoff. And there are simply no words to describe what a super good person Geoff was. All of us at Crime Stoppers and everyone that ever knew Geoff or met Geoff will miss him terribly.
Pat Smith

Robert P. Stockton

June 26, 2023

I am sure that Geoff is currently entertaining everyone at the Pearly Gates with his anecdotes, some of which might even be true. Thank you, Geoff, for your many contributions to making this Earth a better place.

Steffen and Claudia Benedix

June 26, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Alex Cash

June 26, 2023

It was a pleasure and honor to know Geoff. He was just an all around good guy and had a terrific sense of humor. He was extremely smart, a classic attorney who gave the profession a good reputation, and had a passion for representing his clients. I wish his family my sincerest condolences, and I know that they have many wonderful memories of him as does anyone who knew him.

Genise Capers ( Niecey)

June 26, 2023

Leeds Barroll

June 26, 2023

Condolences to Michelle, Mary , and rest of family and friends. What a great loss for all of us. Beginning with the honor council wars in law school, through his long and inestimable practice, and through his wonderful friendship, Geoff was a great guy to talk to and discuss the events of the day (and our model solutions). Geoff´s intelligence was only exceeded by his curiosity about the world and his ease in interpreting it. Such a unique talent and person- it´s difficult to believe he´s no longer here.

Kristin Power Garner

June 26, 2023

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Kristin Power Garner

June 26, 2023

I have so many fond memories with Geoff. I always loved hearing his stories about life and listening to music. We shared more laughs and inside jokes than I can count and he always made whatever project we were working on fun. He will be deeply missed!

Cheryll Woods-Flowers

June 26, 2023

I was saddened to hear the the Lowcountry had lost Geoff...What an incredible giving, smart, fun man he was! Geoff and I first met when his daughter was a classmate of my daughter at the Academic Magnet and they when he and I served on the Crime Stoppers Board. I so wish that I had seen more of him over the last couple of years. To his family...know that you are on my heart and in my prayers.

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