Ian Powell Flack

Ian Powell Flack obituary, Winston Salem, NC

Ian Powell Flack

Ian Flack Obituary

Published by Winston-Salem Journal on Jan. 9, 2013.
FLACK WINSTON-SALEM Ian Powell Flack July 19, 1998 - Jan. 8, 2013 Ian Powell Flack, a sweet soul who deeply touched everyone he met, returned to his Maker at the age of 14, after a life spent struggling to live and do what comes very easy to most. Ian was born with a genetic disorder that made his muscles too weak to support normal activity. Though he was homebound for the majority of his life, and rarely traveled anywhere except to medical centers across the country in the hope that they could diagnose his condition, he touched more lives, more deeply than most people do. Unfortunately, the current state of medical knowledge was inadequate to diagnose, much less treat or cure his condition. Ian was unable to speak. But he had a keen mind and a sharp sense of humor, and could communicate through the use of a computer when he was young and his muscles were still strong and coordinated enough for his hands to use the keys. Ian was a loving, accepting soul whose spirit helped many others live a deeper, more meaningful life. He is survived by his mother and father, Julie Powell and Richard Flack, both of Winston-Salem; his grandparents, Phil and Judy Razor of Catawba, Hugh and Janean Kennedy of Winston-Salem, and Mickey Flack, also of Winston-Salem; and by numerous loving aunts, uncles and cousins. Ian will be missed by many, including his friend and frequent visitor Amy Rose; as well as Cindy, Elke, Eric, James, Jennifer, Rickey and Tamra, the highly skilled and caring team of nurses who attended to Ian around the clock for almost half his life; Dr. Doug Gardner, who worked hard to make Ian comfortable and add quality to his life; Miss Donna, an Angel disguised as Ian's homebound teacher; and many staff members at The Children's Center, which Ian attended from infancy until he became homebound at about the age of 6. Ian's organs are being donated so that as many as 15 additional people whom Ian never met can also be touched by and benefit from his generous loving spirit, now that he is gone. This world lost a beautiful soul on January 8, but his memory will live on as a blessing to all of the people whose lives he touched during his all-too-brief sojourn here on this earth. Ian's body will be cremated, and a memorial service and family reception will be held at 1:00 p.m. on Saturday, Jan. 12, 2013, at Konnoak Hills United Methodist Church at 430 Weisner St., Winston-Salem. Those interested in honoring Ian's memory are encouraged to make donations in his name to The Children's Center on Coliseum Drive.


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December 24, 2020

Julie Powell posted to the memorial.

October 11, 2016

Michael Riggs posted to the memorial.

July 12, 2014

Tamara Costner Hinson posted to the memorial.

Julie Powell

December 24, 2020

Hello, sweet boy. I was delighted to see this posting still up. I think about you every day, and could not love you more.

Michael Riggs

October 11, 2016

I never met Ian. I know him only through his mother, who I often heard speaking with him over the phone. When they spoke, her eyes sparkled her voice was pure affection. She laughed and told him stories and sometimes would sing to him in a sweet, almost angelic voice. When she spoke with Ian, they were the only 2 people in the world, everyone else melted away. So she never noticed my tears. Not tears of sadness; I cried because her love for her child was so moving that I was simply overcome by its spiritual beauty. The memories of those moments are among the most my fondest. They are among my very few, and certainly my best, memories of unconditional love. My heart goes out to Julie and her family.

Tamara Costner Hinson

July 12, 2014

I knew of Ian only from his Mother's letters and photos. You are very much loved and I will one day get to meet you in Heaven, hold you and tell you stories of your Mother and I in days past. I admire you greatly Richard. May your heart and Julie's be healed by the precious memories your son gave you.

January 8, 2014

I miss you so much!!! How is Grandma?

October 28, 2013

Hey Sweet Boy! I just got off the phone with Tamara. She misses you something awful. Grandma is coming soon and I know she can't wait to see you <3

Amy

July 19, 2013

Happy Birthday sweet boy. You are loved, missed, and forever in my thoughts.

July 19, 2013

Happy Birthday!!

Amy and Ian

Richard Flack

April 22, 2013

I can't wait to see you again:)

Neelima and Murali

March 26, 2013

Hi Richard we are very sorry for your loss and our deepest condolences to you. He could not have had a better parent than you.

Daddy

March 26, 2013

I know you are always with me. I feel you everyday.

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Richard Flack

January 31, 2013

I miss you so much my sweet boy.

Bob & Kay Wilson

January 19, 2013

May the purity of his life be a witness to all of us.

Martha and Bob Agnew

January 18, 2013

Some lives go on forever in the hearts and lives they touch...in loving memory of a special life.

Jim and Susanne

January 12, 2013

Julie: You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

January 12, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with the Family at this time.God will give Ian the Body he so much deserves to run and play as all children should be allowed to do.

January 11, 2013

Richard,
It takes a long time to adjust to the loss of someone you love so deeply. But praise God...you have Ian's love, his gifts and many wonderful memories that will live on forever in your heart. I pray God gives you strength and comfort always, Pam Delgado

Ray & Marisa White

January 11, 2013

Judy and Phillip,
Marisa and I are so very sorry to learn of Ian's passing. I know that this has been a difficult road, but you have wonderful and endearing memories of his sweet life that will remain within you. Ian is now free of his earthly restraints and residing in our Father's Kingdom where one day again we shall be reunited with our loved ones. May the Lord provide His comfort, strength, and gentle reassurance during this time. Your entire family remains in our thoughts and our prayers.

Jay and Margaret Jacky

January 11, 2013

Richard and Julie we know these years have been very hard for you. God Bless you All.

Anita & Dave Moore

January 10, 2013

Julie--just wanted to let you know how sorry we are about Ian. Although we didn't know him, his obituary and this guest book gave us a glimpse of what an amazing young man he was. Let the memories that you have of him help you through this hard time. Know that we are thinking about you.

Anita and Dave Moore

January 10, 2013

Julie--just wanted to tell you how sorry we are about Ian --although we didn't know him , the obituary and the entries in this guest book shared a little about what an amazing young man he was. Let the memories you have of him help you through this hard time. Take care and know we are thinking about you.

Lee Childress

January 10, 2013

God Bless your family... I worked with Ian while his regular homebound was out this past fall. He will be missed.

January 10, 2013

Richard & Julie,

My family is grieving with you, praying for you, and holding you constantly in our thoughts at this time. Your family has been a part of our daily prayers for fourteen years. For each prayer was a time of thinking of you and sharing in your lives. Thank you for your examples of love, patience, longsuffering and perserverance.

Andy Cline & Family

Deb & Geoff Hunter

January 10, 2013

Julie, just wanted to let you know that Geoff and I are sorry to learn about Ian. The word I use to describe you is "steadfast"; you were such a great and devoted Mom to Ian. We are both praying for you during this difficult time but know that Ian is now at peace. Take care Julie!

Moser Family

January 10, 2013

Ian was an angel on loan here and now has his permanent wings. The gifts that he was sent here to deliver, and lessons to be taught could only have been taught by your angel. God knows exactly who he loans his children to. Richard you are an angel's dad, our thoughts and prayers are with you and everybody who touched Ian's life.

Todd Johnson

January 10, 2013

Julie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Todd Johnson

January 10, 2013

Dear Richard, family and friends, our deepest sympathy for the loss of your precious son Ian. Maxine and Tom

January 10, 2013

Gosh Richard although I never met Ian, I know how much you loved him and glowed from within when you spoke of him. I know that loving light will continue to shine throughout your life. Thinking about you-Louisa

Carla West

January 10, 2013

Prayers for your entire family. Ian is in heaven rejoicing for the day he will see his family again.

Jennifer Droge

January 10, 2013

What an amazing soul... Just like his father... You will be together again dancing and singing with the angels in Heaven. Thank you Richard for being an angel here on earth and representing true love and character. You have always been an inspiration to me and always will be. I pray peace for you. Much love being sent your way. XOX

Eric Cahn

January 10, 2013

Thank you for the opportunity to spend time with Ian. Though he did not use words, he taught me a lot. Though he did not move, he showed me the way to be. In short, I will never forget the things he has done for me. May you be filled with Peace and stand by Grace. Love to you,
Eric

Randy Sherrill

January 10, 2013

My love and prayers are with the family. I appreciate the time and opportunity I had to be a small part of Ian's life.

Sarah Keel (Moskowitz)

January 9, 2013

Ian is healed with the Healer in Heaven. We will see him again someday. I pray for Gods grace-filled hand to comfort and hold Ian's parents and family during this time.

Ken LaCroix

January 9, 2013

Thank you Ian for helping me to understand value, quality and love. Prayers, love and thanks to you Richard for showing me how to have faith, hope, and love.

January 9, 2013

A wonderful family to be part of. God bless you all and may God be with you all during this time. All our love and prayers. The Lang Family

Alice Sanders

January 9, 2013

Please know that we are praying for you guys during this difficult time. I wish that we could have know Ian better. God bless - Charles and Alice Cline Sanders

Gail Sharon

January 9, 2013

What a beautiful, precious soul Ian was. My thoughts and prayers are with you and may God touch you and ease your pain. Just think, Ian is now a precious Angel in Heaven watching over you each day and night.

Brad Franklin

January 9, 2013

I'm sorry for your pain Richard but am consoled knowing Ian is in a better place. That boy is running, jumping, and hanging out with Jesus. I'm sure he misses his wonderful Dad but knows he will see him soon.

Shawn Spencer

January 9, 2013

My deepest condolences to all.

Nick Reece

January 9, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.

January 9, 2013

Hello Julie,
So sorry to hear of Ian's passing. Please know you and your family are in our prayers...Sallie and I still comment and remember your beautiful voice out front, breaking into song for no apparent reason...

Our deepest sympathies,
Sallie and Robert Capizzi

Nancy David

January 9, 2013

Thank you Ian for sharing your beautiful soul with us in this lifetime and for showing us what true courage and bravery really are. We send love and light to all your family and friends.
Love,
Nancy & Laurin

Rick Gunter

January 9, 2013

Sorry for your loss. The summary of this young man's journey is very powerful.

January 9, 2013

Richard an Julie,
My heart breaks for you. I remember when this sweet soul entered this world and how he smiled and laughed when he was able. Please know my heart breaks for you, but joy be to God that he has been freed from a broken body into a glorified body. The worlds loss is heavens gain. My love to you both.

Glenda S. Daw

Olivia Meikle and family

January 9, 2013

You are in our prayers!

Seth Moskowitz

January 9, 2013

Our love, thoughts and prayers are with Ian and alll who loved him. Seth & Mary Ann

Luann Zappia

January 9, 2013

I didn't know Ian....I wish I had. My deepest sympathy to his family.

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