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Jacob Swaney Obituary
Jacob was born on February 17, 1996 and brought with him a smile that would light up the world and brought joy to everyone that saw it.
He was loved by all who met him. He had a kind, generous heart and was always the first to offer help to those around him. He had an old soul full of witty thoughts and a great sense of humor; making others laugh brought him joy.
Jake especially enjoyed playing video games, drawing, walking, cooking, and could always be seen with his headphones on listening to music.
He enjoyed helping his Mom care for pets and loved playing with a variety of animals. Those animals were always so happy to see Jake! He was especially great with cats and could bring a scared cat out of hiding just by using with his calm voice.
Jake is survived by his mother (stepfather) Dawn Tucker (Steve McKay) of Fort Washington, MD. , his father (stepmother) Stephen Swaney (Crystal) of California, MD., his brother Scott Swaney of San Diego, CA., grandparents Thomas Tucker of Newberry, FL., Harry and Janet Swaney of Waldorf, MD., uncles David Tucker of Newberry, FL., Dennis Swaney (Carolyn) of Winchester, VA., aunt Tammy Sims (Joe) of Newberry, FL., and best friends Allen and Selma Johnson of Fort Washington, MD. He is preceded in death by his grandmother Della Tucker. He also leaves behind his beloved dogs and cats who adored him.
A memorial celebration of Jake's amazing life will be held on Saturday, February 22, 2025 from 6pm to 9pm at The School of Rock Alexandria, 3260 Duke St, Alexandria, VA 22314.
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Sean Chaney
February 19, 2025
I'm so sorry to hear this; I know Della has him. You are in our prayers.
Sean and Melissa Chaney
Christine Chaney
February 19, 2025
Sending lots of love and prayers of comfort. Deepest sympathies for Dawn, Bones and the rest of Jake's family and friends.
Zenda Rees
February 19, 2025
I'm so sorry for your loss when I remember him he was full of energy
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Plum and Fire
February 17, 2025
Jake always gifted joy and laughter, naturally and freely, with no effort! He would make us laugh with just a wave of his hand or with his absolute pure delight in tasks and projects. He easily made us smile, spontaneously from our soul, with his thoughtful gestures and care of details, be it a simple timely reminder or a snack or just making sure whichever kitty was at hand was given plenty of attention. He cared, he loved, no strings attached. Just hearing Jake's uninhibited laughter made everyone laugh as well and keep on smiling long afterwards. Jake was always looked forward to and a genuine highlight every single time! He will be deeply missed, always loved, and yes, Jake will always and forever be a warmth, a smile, burning bright inside us. (no AI here, directly from the heart)
Nadia Sosnoski
February 17, 2025
Our dogs loved Jacob and we felt so good knowing that when we were out of town they were safe and well cared for. He was kind, caring and gave our dogs far more treats than they deserved. He was truly a blessing in our lives.
Dawn Tucker
February 17, 2025
Dear Jake,
I wrote this earlier but I guess I didn't hit something right and it didn't save so I am sure it is giving you a chuckle with me and technology :) Writing this on your birthday is not something I wanted to do but I will give it a shot. I learned so many things from you. You were my first born and taught me completely and unconditionally the meaning of what love is. Thank you for making me a Mom. You took care of me in the past few years beyond what you could even imagine. When Grandma passed, you were my shining light in the dark. You kept me sane in this crazy world. You never sugar coated anything and if you needed to tell me something, it was straight and to the point which kept me in check. You helped me with the animals, cooked meals for me when I got too busy to remember to eat, made sure the trash went down to the curb like clockwork and made sure I knew I was loved even if you didn't say the words, I knew. I looked forward to your hugs, your smiles, and your stories. You were passionate about everything you did. I found your sketch book and love all the attention to detail you put in your artwork. You never understood how people were so thankful to you for helping with their pets. It takes a special person to love and be loved by a pet that is not yours, those animals knew you genuinely cared for them and it showed. You didn't have a selfish bone in your body. You always put others first and never showed if you were worried or upset because you didn't want me to worry. I will always love you from the top of your big old head to the bottom of your little flat feet! If I wrote about all the good you brought with you into this world, it would be a novel series. I love you so much and am sure Grandma welcomed you with open arms. I know your cats are with you too. We all miss you here but know that you are always with us in our hearts and souls. I will see you again someday! Until then, I will see you in my dreams, "goodnight and I will see you in the morning"...we said it every night, and I will keep saying it to you until we meet again my baby boy. Happy Birthday <3
Bones
February 17, 2025
Jacob would often make me laugh with his unique sense of humor. Blunt, straight to the point, seeing past the crap that society was pushing, he gave a humerous and poinent vision of his opinions that rang true. Watching him grow out of any confinements of self, was what i admired the most, and will use this to drive my own personal development. His love for his mother was deep and inspirational, I vow to carry on his love and support of her, forever. We will forever pave our ongoing journey through life with memories of Jacob. Out of respect of Jacob, this was not AI generated
:) all from the heart. We love you Jacob and you will be deeply missed.
Dawn Tucker
February 17, 2025
Dear Jake,
I miss you more than words could ever describe. As I sit here on your 29th birthday, I remember your smile and laugh. Thank you for taking care of me through the last few hard years after losing Grandma and Mama Bones. I know they welcomed you with open arms and you all are looking down on me telling me not to cry but you know me, I am an emotional mess. I will miss your stories of the games and shows you are watching the most. Never did we imagine I would be sitting here doing this for you as you were supposed to be doing it for me. You never thought you understood empathy but I hope you know how much you helped me through all the tough times in life. You were and still are my shining light that I look for in the dark. I don't think you realized how many lives you touched with your loving, caring ways and your love of their pets. I could write a few novels about all the amazing things you did for others without ever thinking about yourself. I am proud to be your Mother and on this day as I always told you, Thank you for making me a Mom. I will never, ever forget all the good times we had and you will forever be in my heart. Happy Birthday Baby boy...I love you from the top of your big old head to the bottom of your little flat feet <3
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