James Henry Oyler

1978 - 2018

James Henry Oyler obituary, 1978-2018, Orlando, FL

James Henry Oyler

1978 - 2018

BORN

1978

DIED

2018

James Oyler Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 31 to Jun. 3, 2018.
August 1978 – May 2018 It is with great sadness that the family of James Hank Oyler announces his sudden passing at the age of 39 on Saturday, May 26, 2018 in Maitland, Florida. Known to friends and family as Hank, he will be lovingly remembered by his devoted and loving wife Stephanie and daughter Jane Hannah (2). Hank will also be fondly remembered by his parents James (Lisa) Oyler and Nancy (Ray) Parkins; by his brothers Paul (Megan), Michael and Matthew, his sisters, Ashley (Matthew) Erdmann and Mary (Bryden) Feighery. He will be deeply missed by his family-in-love, Elizabeth (Robert) Keller, Jane (John) Lyons, Emily Brown, Molly Curtis, Jennifer Keller and Matthew Keller. Hank was a proud uncle to seven nephews and a niece, Gage and William Oyler, Dash and Cal Feighery, David and James Erdmann, Franklin Curtis and Harriet Brown. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew him but especially by a large close-knit family of aunts, uncles and cousins. Born in August 1978, Hank was a Florida native and lifelong resident of Winter Park, Florida. He attended St. Margaret Mary Catholic School and graduated from Bishop Moore High School. Hank went on to join the family business where he contributed to the success of Dora Landscaping Company for more than twenty-two years. A hard working man, Hank started in the field, developed skills and worked as Chief Estimator. He was certified in Best Management and Florida Horticultural Practices and became the General Manager of Dora. At the time of his death, Hank, a certified Landscape Contractor, headed the Dora Landscaping Company Construction Division. He was particularly proud of several landscape projects including The Alfond Inn, SeaWorld Aquatica, Rosen Shingle Creek, and multiple Disney installations. He took great pride in providing for his family and recently launched several new ventures. Hank was a quiet, strong and kind hearted man. He believed in hard work, family and the grace of God. He never stepped away from a person in need and was the first to provide someone a hand up. Although his heart was generous, Hank remained humble in his success. He enjoyed spending time with his family, tackling various home improvement projects, fishing and scuba diving. A viewing and mass officiated by Father Walsh will be held at St. Margaret Mary Catholic Church at 526 N. Park Avenue in Winter Park, Florida on Saturday, June 2, at 10:00 A.M. and 11:00 P.M. respectively. Memorial donations in memory of Hank may be made to Jane Hannah's education trust at go.fidelity.com/flxlx. Baldwin Brothers Funeral and Cremation Society is honored to serve the family.

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May 23, 2024

Nancy Oyler Parkins posted to the memorial.

May 13, 2021

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May 13, 2021

Mom. Nancy Parkins posted to the memorial.

Nancy Oyler Parkins

May 23, 2024

I still keep waiting for you to come to dinner. Hope to see you soon! All my love, Mom

Mom

May 13, 2021

You were the best son a Mom could ask for! I miss you so much.

Mom. Nancy Parkins

May 13, 2021

You were everything a Mother could ask for. So sweet, smart and always kind. My world is not the same without my Hank. Mom

Maria A Conde

June 22, 2019

As I laid in a hospital bed, somehow, I end up in a page that showed Hank's photo and obituary. I'm still in shock and cannot believe that Hank is not longer with us. My heart goes to Stephanie and little miss Hanna. I know God is taking care of him, the same way that Hank took care of all the people that crossed his path on this Earth.
He was a different kind of boss and treated everybody with respect and kind. He took great care of his people, so they loved and respected him more and more everyday.
May God blessed him and send every day a little more courage to his wife and daughter.

María A. Conde

September 7, 2018

I just heard of your recent loss of your son, Hank.

We offer our sincere condolence and deepest sympathy. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of friends and strangers and the comfort in knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you through the days ahead.

I ask for God's blessings on you and your wonderful family. May you find the courage and strength to move forward in peace and confidence and in knowing that his was a life well-lived. His is a life to be celebrated.

Yours In God's Comfort and Peace,
Renee and Jacques Aebli (Renee Taylor)

Mike Statham

July 31, 2018

Godspeed my friend, I just found out today and am shocked and deeply saddened for your family's loss. You were a good son, good husband, good father, and a decent god fearing man. You will be missed by all who knew you. Your friend, Mike Statham. Psalm 23...John 3:16 Be at Peace, say hey to the almighty for me....see you on the other side brother.

June 26, 2018

Suzanne & Tom Norman

June 26, 2018

Our nephew Hank was an exceptionally caring young man, wonderful father, and husband. We'll treasure him in our hearts forever. Our deepest sympathy to all who loved him.

Monica

June 14, 2018

May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. (Psalms 116:15

Carey Allen

June 10, 2018

My nephew, Hank, was such a wonderful and kind person, and he could always make me laugh. I will keep our memories together close to my heart forever. I love and miss you dearly. My thoughts are with your parents and entire family during this difficult time.

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June 4, 2018

Jim and Lisa, our hearts and thoughts go out to your entire family at this most difficult time. We continue our prayers and blessings of peace and understanding to you both, Love Mark and Kelley

June 3, 2018

We are very sorry for your loss, your family is in our prayers. Mark and Beth Laverty

Ellen Arnold

June 3, 2018

Dear Jim and Lisa,

I am so very sorry about the passing of your son, Hank.

I will pray for God's peace, comfort and provision for all the Oylers during this time of deep sadness.

Love to all of you.

Belinda Bininger

June 3, 2018

Jim & Lisa, and Nancy ~

There's no words appropriate to say to you during this time of loss. Please know that I speak for my deceased parents, Bob and Barbara Bininger who deeply loved your family.

Me and my sisters will always treasure the memories of stories told by our parents glorifying all of your precious children.

Hank will be so missed and always remembered.

We love you and pray the Lord's blessings and healing over you.

Boo, Becky & Liz Bininger ~
Representing Bob and Barbara Bininger
Next Door Neighbors on Lake Sue
God Bless

Trudy and Jose Lara

June 3, 2018

Dear Jim and Liza,
We were at mass today and heard I'd of Hank's passing. Our hearts go out to your family and Hank's.
We will keep you in our prayers, and pray for God to comfort you in your time of sorrow.
Trudy and Jose Lara

Joy Hoffard-Kaye

June 2, 2018

Nancy ~ my heart bleeds for you,and all of the family & friends.
Allow yourself to Grieve in your very own private , personal way~~
Your Support will arrive in Unexpected ways

Patty Wernet

June 2, 2018

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

JG

June 2, 2018

May God's promise found in John 6:40, of the hope to see our loved ones again, give you peace, strength and hope in the days ahead.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

Bill and Mary Godfrey

June 2, 2018

Sincere sympathy to the Oyler family. May God give you strength and peace at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Charlotte Smith

June 1, 2018

My heart goes out to the entire Oyler family. May our heavenly father comfort you.
I send my love and prayers.

Everardo González and Family

June 1, 2018

My deepest sympathies go out to the Oyler Family. May God give you the love to help ease the pain of this loss.

June 1, 2018

It was such a shock to hear of Hank's passing. We knew him through the plant industry and thought very highly of him. Our sympathy goes out to all of his family, at this tragic time. He will be missed by many!

Sincerely,

Karen & Wally Owens and all of the employees of Three Volcanoes Farm

Carol Storey

June 1, 2018

Deepest sympathy to you all. My prayers for God's comfort. Carol Storey

Kendal Smith

June 1, 2018

With deepest sympathy and the heartheld condolences for the family of Hank. May mercy and peace be with you all.

June 1, 2018

So difficult to comprehend this loss. Hank will be missed my so many. My thoughts and prayers are with the Oyler Family.

George Royal

Justin Farthing

June 1, 2018

Hank your journey on earth was short, but packed to the brim in so many ways.

Youre truly a special soul that will be missed, remembered and celebrated.

The moments that create memories will remain instilled in our hearts and souls as we complete our journey; brining us joy and smiles, no doubt.

Condolences and strength to your family during this time of sadness.

Elaine Hobor

June 1, 2018

So very sorry for the oyler family ,mostly Stephanie and hannah,to lose at such a young age,God must want him to do something special ,may the Lord,,give you strength to carry on,and know you are loved

May 31, 2018

So sorry for your loss. I wish you comfort at This sad time. Ruth Cothes

May 31, 2018

May the God of comfort grant you strength during this difficult time. My condolences to the family.

Laurie Maddox-Woodruff

May 31, 2018

I worked for Dora Landscaping and his father Jim when Hank was born. I didn't know Hank as an adult but remember him when he was a very young child. I can just picture his happy little face. I'm so impressed with how he lived his life as an adult. My heart goes out to you, Jim, and your family at such a difficult time. I'll be keeping you in my prayers. Bless you all.

Melissa Pioneer

May 31, 2018

With deepest sympathy on loss of your love one. May it bring comfort you to know that he will return to the days of his youthful vigor as promised at Job 33:25.

Eric and Deana Gonzales

May 31, 2018

Condolences to the entire Oyler family. Eric and Deana Gonzales. Minneola, Fl.

Michael and Katie Shouvlin

May 31, 2018

We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

John & Nikki Robinson

May 31, 2018

Our love, thoughts and prayers are always with the entire Oyler family during this time of sadness.

May 31, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in your fond memories of James. He will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Lisa Genzer

May 31, 2018

I am so extremely saddened for the Oyler family and especially Stephanie and their daughter. I knew Hank through Real Estate and before I met him, I thought that I knew a lot about Real Estate. But he had such an amazing and gifted mind for thinking out of the box and he treated everyone in his dealings with kindness, respect and honesty. I learned so much from him and not just about plants and Real Estate. The thing I learned most and the thing that saddens me the most is when I would ask him how he had so much drive and why he was so driven, and he would say without pause, it was because he wanted quality of life and more time with his family. It was always about his family.

He taught me to trust in myself and take chances and always believe. He wanted everyone around him to have success in their lives. He was just a good person and the world is a lesser place without him.

I am still learning from you Hank, even in your absence, and by that I mean that I will not ever take a day for granted and I will cherish and love those in my life. Thank you for all the lessons. Rest in Peace my friend.

Lorisa Motko

May 31, 2018

Hank it has been an honor and a privilege getting to know you my friend. You are someone I truly respect. Your drive is second to none and something Nick and I both admired. You taught us so much, motivated us when we didn't think we could be and continuously went out of your way for us and many others. You made a huge impact in our lives. Ironically, I used to tease him and ask him where he hid his halo. He would laugh and say "nah, I'm just doing what I love" Every time we would part, he would say let's get the girls together soon so they can grow up together. Hank! You are so special, tremendously loved by many and will be incredible missed. Rest in peace my friend!

Jacqueline Bowes

May 31, 2018

I'm so very sorry for the Olyer family loss. I'm friends with Sally Oyler Whigham, Tommy and Bert and did not know James but I do know what a fine family he came from. May God bless James on his journey home and may the family find some kind of peace one day.

Lyle & Luz Kimpling

May 31, 2018

My condolence go out to the entire Oyler family.

Paul Sykora

May 31, 2018

I'm in a complete daze right now trying to understand how this could have happened to such a young man full of life and such a great future ahead of him. I just saw Hank a few months ago the at FNGLA judging course and even though we are in the same business, we always treated each other with the upmost respect. He will be missed by so many people. Prayers to the family, and friends.

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Candyce Potter

May 31, 2018

Even though I did not see Hank a lot he was part of our family and he will be missed so very much. He was a wonderful man, son, brother, cousin, father and husband. He will be missed so much. My heart is so sad and I am praying for everyone. I love the entire Oyler family. Kisses and hugs.

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Ron And Patsy McInroe

May 31, 2018

Praying for the Oyler Family

Barbara Diaz

May 31, 2018

Dearest Jim, Lisa, and Family,
We love you all very much and are so saddened to hear about Hanks passing. Your grief is unimaginable, but know that our hearts and continued prayers are with you all for strength, comfort, and healing.
Regrettably we will be out of town on Saturday, so will not be at the viewing and funeral services.
God Bless you all.
Much love, Manny and Barbara Diaz

Dr. Raul & Vivian Murciano

May 31, 2018

Dear Beloved Oyler Family,

Raul and I are so saddened to hear about Hank's passing. Praying for God's comfort for each of you and sending heartfelt love and condolences to the entire family during this difficult time. With Love,
Vivian & Raul Murciano

David and Nicole Howell

May 31, 2018

Sending all our love and raising all the Olyer's up in prayer through this difficult time.

Chris Cothes

May 31, 2018

Thoughts and prayers to the entire family during this time of sadness.

Dave Gulden

May 31, 2018

My condolences to the family.
Hank was one of the most genuine people I ever met. He was Funny, smart as a whip, loyal, kind and one of my favorite people. I am grateful to have known him and to have called him my friend for many years.

May 31, 2018

To the Oyler family,so sad to read about the death of your beloved family member, so young with so much of life ahead of him but gone too soon.
May the God of comfort be with you at this difficult time of grief. My condolences to you as well.
Thank you

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