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Brenda K Ray
August 13, 2025
Such a perfect child - MY HEART IS BROKEN - From Mom
So exactly what is it that you can say when your firstborn child dies before you.
Over 61 years there are so many memories. I chose my own special memories I have of her.
She comes home with you from the hospital and she makes you so happy
those big eyes and cheeks in that little face
Even with no experience, I know she is a really really good baby
And as she grows I see the following:
she is an angel
she is quiet
she is obedient
she asks nothing for herself
everybody loves her
Such a perfect child
With the start of school she again just makes me such a proud proud mother.
She would get up by herself
She would get herself dressed
She would always do her homework on her own
Going to meet the teacher was always such a pleasure
Such A perfect child
The teenage years were rough for her. Married, had a baby and divorced. She cried and cried but eventually she picked herself up and did an awesome job getting her life together for Mindy. She came to Florida with her dad and me. She got herself a decent job. She brought her own brand new house. She really was a wonderful single mother.
Such a perfect child
Then she met Mike and building her family life away from me began. As it is meant to be. I could see her becoming a perfect adult, a perfect wife and most important a perfect mother.
But to me she was still
Such a perfect child.
As an adult, when not spending her free time with her family, she spent her time helping other people. When she worked a paying job she worked for charitable/religous organiations that were helping the less fortunate. And when she wasn't working she was donating her time to helping those same people. She was always asking so little for herself. I believe her entire goal in life was to raise children who would go out in the world and help other people. And to that end she was such a dedicated mother and grandmother.
Such a perfect child
She was such a rock for me.
She was always there helping me through very tough times in my life. And I'll always be grateful for that. And I hope I was a help to her getting through the rough times in her life. She said I was.
I'm going to miss my long talks and visits with her.
And so I'm going back to the original question.
I can say these things that I have said in all honesty because during these years I was probably the one that knew her the best. My memories of her young years are my joy. And death will not remove them.
These are all facts. This is the way she really was. She and I knew these things. I loved her very much and I so bad want her back. So this is what I have to say about my darling baby.
Such a perfect child.
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