Jay Goldstein

1946 - 2020

Jay Goldstein obituary, 1946-2020, Boulder, CO

Jay Goldstein

1946 - 2020

BORN

1946

DIED

2020

Jay Goldstein Obituary

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Jay Edward Goldstein, 74, passed away peacefully on Thursday, August 13, 2020, in his home in Boulder, surrounded by his loving family after a hard-fought battle with cancer. Jay was born on January 7, 1946 in Brooklyn, New York to the late Harry and Birdie Goldstein. He was the youngest of two children. Jay very proudly served in the US Army from 1966-1968 serving time in Germany. After obtaining his Associate Degree at Brooklyn College, he later attended the University of Colorado, Boulder, before pursuing a career as a mortgage broker and manager, eventually retiring from Wells Fargo. Jay married his wife Lisa on July 21, 1978 in Boulder. During their incredible 42-year marriage, Jay more than fulfilled his promise that their lives would never be boring. Their love, passion, devotion, and friendship toward each other served as a true inspiration to their children and everyone who knew them. He is survived by his wife Lisa, his two daughters, Lindsey Goldstein and Anna (Zack) Shockley, his sister, Judith Sloan and many other loving family members. He is preceded in death by his parents, his stepmother Annie Goldstein, his beloved mother in law Polly Potter and his niece Liz. Jay lived life passionately--traveling, skiing Loveland, riding his horse, Bob with his two best pals Sammy and Bailey by his side, running marathons, riding his Harley, playing pickleball, kayaking, paddle boarding, listening to and singing along to music--you name it, he could do it. With great intention, Jay retired as early as he could to focus on his family, adventures, and afternoons on the couch reading his New Yorker magazines. Jay discovered a renewed sense of connection to Judaism through Rabbi Jamie Korngold at Adventure Judaism. Some of his most cherished times were Shabbat services with his family at the Flagstaff Sunrise Amphitheater. His charm, wit, humor and kindness will continue to go unmatched."Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk in a midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free." - Leonard Cohen A private family service will be held at Ft. Logan National Cemetery. Military Honors will be provided by The United States Army. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Boulder Humane Society,2323 55th St., Boulder, CO. 80301, or the American Cancer Association, P.O. Box 22478, Oklahoma City, Ok.,73123. To send online messages to the family visit www.murphyfuneraldirectors.com.

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June 18, 2024

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Robert Meckenberg

June 18, 2024

So sad, I only just came across this news. I knew Jay back in PS99, Avenue J and then Midwood High School. There was always something special about him. Thinking back we both experienced some of the same growing up that happened in our background. Even then Jay was always positive and upbeat. A great person to be around. Special aura followed him. I never forgot Jay.

March 29, 2021

Every so often I think of Jay. Remembering how kind he was. Knowing him was a blessing to me.

Larry Jordan

September 1, 2020

So very sad upon learning of the loss of my friend Jay. We were friends in another life when we both attended Midwood H.S. in Brooklyn. Jay always had a fun, adventuresome, kindly and loving spirit. Jay, along with a whole ensemble of other friends, including Jay's twin cousins made my high school years some of the best times and memories of my life. Certainly times that I will never forget, thanks in no small part to Jay. Thanks for those times and amazing memories, Jay.
To your family, please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.
Larry Jordan
Woodland Hills, CA

Julie Maguire

August 19, 2020

I loved Jay so much. Everything about him. Our work time together our playtime together. My husband even really enjoyed his company. My heart goes out to the whole Goldstein family and friends. Love Julie and Jens.

Carol Secor

August 16, 2020

My deepest condolences to all of Jay’s loved ones. Jay was a very special person, with the biggest smile. May his memory be a blessing for Lisa, Lindsay and Annie, always.

Cindy and Truett

August 16, 2020

Jay Goldstein: husband, father, brother, uncle, son-in-law, brother-in-law, father-in-law, family patriarch, and a great traveling companion. Love you.

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Frances Marino

August 16, 2020

I am writing with such a heavy heart. I will always remember the day I met Jay on the Pickleball court and how our relationship grew playing the game. We even played a tournament together and got a silver. He had the most beautiful heart. Driving to the courts, he would always want to take the road that was longer but more pleasant and I think it was because it went thru horse country. Every time I take that road, I think of Jay. I was with him on his last ride on Bob and I could tell, those two had a great bond. Jay was so full of love and the positive side of all things. I never saw him without that beautiful smile unless it was when I gave him a dirty look for making a bad shot on the Pickleball court, but even then I had to laugh when he would look and me and say "What?" and his smile instantly returned.
I am so sorry for your loss. I got to love his spirit and soul and I know the hurt I am feeling, I am not alone
He was the guy where the statement " Find yourself a nice Jewish boy" was meant for. He was such a sweetheart.
Frances

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