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John E McLaury Sr.
1937 - 2010
John E McLaury Sr.
1937 - 2010
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BORN
1937
DIED
2010
John McLaury Obituary
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Jorgene Chartier Hallett
December 7, 2010
Aw, man - I'm sorry, guys. Hope your dad and mine are having a mini-Lillis reunion in the great beyond. You're all in my thoughts and in my heart.
Lupe Zapien-Hanson
December 5, 2010
To Mary McLaury, Diane, and the McLaury Family,
My parents told me of Mr. McLaury's passing this week. Please know that you are all in my prayers now and in the days ahead. Your dad was a larger-than-life figure to me as shy little girl, but I always felt this sense of deep kindness he had about him.
Ingrid Helms
December 4, 2010
The McLaury Family,
I was saddened to hear of John's passing. My prayers goes out to the family. John was my first assigned supervisor at Allied-Signal in 1987. John was a pleasure to work with. There are many good memories that I will remember about John.
Richard & Sharon Pixler
December 4, 2010
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Joe Moore
December 3, 2010
To Tom & Donna: I graduated from Rockhurst the same year John did from Lillis. I remember him when I was in the prosecutors office as a police officer, and I seem to recall his being in the TACT unit, a fearsome lot. My clearest memory though is playing basketball against him our senior years. We both played center and I think he originated "trash talk", because he kept saying, whenever I got the ball, "Hook, Fat Boy", a taunt I can hear plainly today. Clearly, he had little respect for my awsome hook shot, and it made me so mad I almost broke the backboard every time I tried, thus jproving that trash talk works. You have my deep sympathy, Tom, on the loss of your brother.
Jessica Clonts
December 3, 2010
Mary and the entire McLaury Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Since the first time I met the McLaury clan when Thomas and Diann were dating, so many years ago; everyone always treated John and me like we were part of the family. I feel lucky to have known Mr. McLaury and hope the memories of your wonderful husband and family gives you strength in such a difficult time.
December 3, 2010
Dear Mary and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers at
this difficult time.
As Always,
Bill and Wynn Higgins
December 2, 2010
Mary and family -
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We remember so many great times with you all in KC. We will raise a beer or two to John.
With love,
Al and Dee Heider
Joe and Sherry Pilsl
December 2, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. As you know, John had a great impact on our life, as he recruited Joe to the KCPD many years ago! Many Blessings to each of you as face the days ahead. Joe and Sherry Pilsl
The Washam Family
December 2, 2010
Our hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Peggy McLaury-Laches
December 2, 2010
Memories of my Uncle John:
Going night swimming (always a treat) with him and my Dad after a day at the house on Sni A Bar, probably Mary's famous tacos. Mom and Mary stayed behind to clean up and enjoy a little quiet time and probably a beer or two. On one of my many overnight stays, he taught Susan, John and I the state capitols and we thought we were having fun. He was Santa every year on Christmas Eve until my cousin Paul grew into the suit and the responsibilities. Straight man to my dad's comedic genius (ha ha Daddy). Grandma always still had a basket for him on Easter because he was the baby. He was only one of a handful a people who called my mother Gin, my favorite name for her. During my troubled teen years the name McLaury on my drivers license helped me out more than once (but not more than twice!) Once when I was trying to get into a concert at the stadium without a ticket he let me in, probably thought he could keep a better eye on me that way. More recently, during a hard time in my life, he sat with me at a funeral, arm around me and held my hand through the Our Father. He made me feel less alone that day. Uncle John was a good husband, father, brother, uncle, son, and obviously friend to many. Godspeed, I love you.
December 2, 2010
Dear Mary. Teresa, Diane and family,
Ours hearts go out to you- we tried to see you at the visitation but we could not find a place to park and Dale nor I can do much walking these days-
We had the highest respect for John and know he will be missed terribly!
May God be with you , our prayers are with you and your entire family
Dale and Jodi Shaw
Paula (Dujakovich) Hutton
December 2, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with the McLaury family in this time of sorrow.
Ray, Shirley Kudrna
December 1, 2010
Condolences to all the family on your loss! Our thoughts and our prayers are with you. Now, may all the good times be remembered and sustain you through the Holidays. He will be with you in Spirit!
Amy Bahr
December 1, 2010
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Your loving family will help you get through this difficult time.
Dean Kelly
December 1, 2010
Mary, I am so very sorry for the loss of John. He was a fine man.
Missy Cretcher
December 1, 2010
McLaury Family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.
Mary Ann Zande
December 1, 2010
Dear McLaury Family,
May you take comfort in knowing that your husband, dad and grandpa is now wrapped in the loving arms of our Father. You will be remembered in our prayers this week at Aquinas as you go through this difficult time. May God's peace be with all of you.
Mindy Kassing
December 1, 2010
Dear Mrs. McLaury and all of your Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I want to express my sincere condolences to each of you. Your Husband, Dad, Grandpa - Mr. McLaury was such a wonderful, respected, and loved man. I can just remember his nice smile from our O'Hara basketball days. I hurt for all of you during this difficult time. I know he will live on in each of you and you'll feel his presence in many ways. He will be helping God watch over all of you! You're all in my thoughts and prayers. Love always, Mindy (McNamara) Kassing
Carol and Harold Jordan
December 1, 2010
Mary and family, Harold and I were so sad to hear about John's passing. We know that you will all miss him so much and we are glad that you have such a nice family to get you through the roughest of times.
The Landon Family
December 1, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Nate Proctor
December 1, 2010
Sorry to hear about your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God Bless
December 1, 2010
to mary nd all the gang.My sincere condolences to all. I respected john and his many accompolishments withfamily,church and community..I often think of our st. bernadettes family..my wife and two stepchildren live in glasgow, mo. all doing well..again my deepest sympathy..
December 1, 2010
McLaury Family,
It is with great sadness that I learned of Mr. McLaury's passing. He was always wonderful and interested in me and my family. He was loved and respected by many. The McClaury family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Bob Mitchell
Larry Hood
December 1, 2010
John was a true gentleman, and I feel fortunate to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
December 1, 2010
To the McLaury Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of John. We have had too many losses in the family lately. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary Lane (Dennis Lane's daughter)
ROSEMARYJIM MAHER
December 1, 2010
WHAT A WONDERFUL HOLY LIFE
AND FAMILY...THANK GOD
ROSEMARYJIM MAHER FAMILY
December 1, 2010
Dear McLaury Family,
I am sorry to hear of Mr. McLaury's passing, Please know that you are in my thoughts & prayers.
Sheila (Hopfinger) Barr
December 1, 2010
Dear McLaury Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Mr. McLaury. When I heard the news my first thought was that one of the good guys is gone; though it's a bit darker here, heaven is surely a grander place these past few days. What a great example of a family man he was. You have so much of him to keep with you. May you continue to find the strength you need for as long as you need it. God bless and keep you all.
Norm Drimmel
December 1, 2010
To Mary and family my condolences. I was saddend to hear of Jon's passing. I have always admired John fore his integrity and treatment of his fellow man. There's no doubt in my mind, this good man is now working with St Peter guarding the pearly gates. God bless you and all of the Mclaury family.
Nancy Hughes
December 1, 2010
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
December 1, 2010
I am saddened to learn of our loss of John McLaury. He was an outstanding officer in the Kansas City Police Department which is one of KC's most respected institutions. In my association with him, I developed great admiration for John as a true leader and genuine person. Many fond memories. Please know my thoughts are with his family; he will not be forgotten. - Bob Kipp.
John Cook
December 1, 2010
Please accept my condolences on the loss of John. Growing up with Melissa and Tom, I know how much he meant to all of you. We will keep John and the whole family in our prayers.
December 1, 2010
Mary and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I send you my love, sympathy and prayers.
~ Rose Mary Gray, Pleasant Hill, Oregon
Sue Larcom
November 30, 2010
Mary Jo and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God give you strength and bless you all.
Joyce Fisher
November 30, 2010
Diane and family,
I am so sorry for your loss, your father was an incredible man and so many memories from grade school and the high school basketball games and your family cheering us on. I am out of town on business but please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. Mr Isom will greet your father upstairs I know that for sure. God bless and take care.
Maria Lasure
November 30, 2010
To Mary and the McLaury family - our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I am blessed to be John and Mary's God-daughter, and have so many fond memories of him and the family. I will miss his smile, warm embrace and unconditional love most of all. May God's strength and peace fill our hearts as we mourn the loss of such an amazing man. Maria Morton Lasure and family
Mary Woody
November 30, 2010
Dear Mary, Susan, Mary Jo and family,
I was so saddened to hear about your husband/father. Over the last several years, I have so enjoyed getting to know your wonderful family. The love that you all shared with one another was so evident in all that you did. Please hold those special memories in your heart and know that we will be keeping you in our prayers. Love to all.
Mary Woody and family
Shannon (Shaw) Coleman
November 30, 2010
Thoughts and prayers to your family. You had a wonderful dad who made a difference in so many lives. Praying for your whole family.
November 30, 2010
Teresa and family, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. I have many fond memories of your dad cheering us on playing ball at O'Hara. May you find comfort and peace with the many memories you have with him.
Kris Goth Pace
Sgt. Michael McDonough
November 30, 2010
To Mary and the entire McLaury family. My heartfelt condolences to you all. John was a wonderful man and I always enjoyed talking with him about police issues during my career even though it was with a different department. I always enjoyed being part of your family for a time and whenever I stopped by the old house, the conversations we all had. I will miss him. Job well done Major, Job well done. God Bless you and keep you.
Nancy Chartrand Besa
November 30, 2010
I was a classmate of Dianes at O'Hara and read of Mr. McLaury's passing in the paper today. Although I never had the good fortune to meet him
Meghan Metcalf
November 30, 2010
To the McLaury Family: I am so saddened to hear of your loss. What an amazing man Mr. McLaury was, I was blessed to have met him a few times. Thoughts and prayers of strength to your family at this time.
Melanie: We in Texas are here for you. We love you.
Jim Baldwin
November 30, 2010
Mr. McLaury will be missed by many. He always greeted you with a friendly smile and a warm hello. My warmest condolences and prayers go out to the family and all those Mr. McLaury touched with his friendship. God Bless, Jim Baldwin
November 30, 2010
"I was just one of the many officers, whose life was touched by John. He was a great commanding officer. My prayers are with the family in this time of sadness." Craig Knouse (Liberty Mo.)
November 30, 2010
Mary, our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the rest of the family. You all hold a very special place in our hearts.
Love,
Pete, Amparo, Kyle Furey
Kerry McDaniel
November 30, 2010
Dear Rooney and Baska Families,
I am sorry to hear of your sudden loss. Although I never met your dad/grandpa, I remember many occasions when I saw him here at Ascension watching a program or attend Mass with your mom/grandma. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Peace be with you,
Mrs. McDaniel
November 30, 2010
Know that many lives were touched by your Dad, he was someone I liked being around as a kid. He will be missed, but remember always that God will get you through. Much love to you all. Sharon Hopfinger
Heather Jordan-Farr
November 30, 2010
My heart is breaking! I'm sending my love and prayers to all of you; Mary, Susan, John, Mary Jo, Diane, Melissa, Thomas, Teresa, Melanie, Tom and all the rest of your family. I have such amazing, loving memories with John and all of you. I wish I could be there to tell him good bye! I love you all!
Pam Pretzl-Jordan
November 30, 2010
Dear Mary & Family:
Sorry to hear of John's passing. I always enjoyed the times we all had together and Heather remembers them fondly as well. I only wish Jenny had the opportunity to know him. My prayers are with you all at this most difficult time. Blessings Always,
Wayne Long
November 30, 2010
Mr. McLaury always treated us like we were his own kids. He was very well respected and liked by all of us and will be dearly missed.
Dave Guenther
November 30, 2010
I'm very sorry to hear about John's passing and I realize how much he meant to you all. The memories growing up as such good friends are still strong and I always admired John/Mary for their devotion to family. It was also obvious John was one of the most respected officers on the KCPD. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you now.
Christy Katzer Nunn
November 30, 2010
Tom and family,
Very sorry for you loss. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
November 30, 2010
Mary and your family, my heart and prayers go out to you at this time. John was an excellent man and a person that I always looked up to. May God bless you and your family. James W Osborne
Elayne Allison
November 30, 2010
Mary,
As you know, it has only been 6 weeks that I have been where you are today, so I know the loss you feel. Keep all the sacred memories that you and John held dear. Words can never express what needs to be said, but I am so sorry that you have lost your life partner, the man that you shared every dream with.
Just know that this is a process, and allow it to flow in God’s timing, in a way that only you can handle. There are no words that I can say or that anyone can say to help you through this process. I know that you have a loving God that will guide you each step of the way, as it is said in Matthew 6: 33But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
You also have an amazing family and a host of friends that will be there for you to lean on. Allow the love of God to flow through them to you.
John will truly be missed.
I am taking your sorrow to the feet of Jesus in prayer.
Therese Ausdenmoore-McCord
November 30, 2010
My heart and prayers go out to your family. The legacy of Mr. McLaury's love, wonderful example of parenting and commitment to marriage and family will continue to inspire and influence for generations.
Eleanor Paura Basgall
November 30, 2010
Mary, I was so sorry to hear of John's passing. He was always one of my favorite classmates at Lillis High and a good friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family at this most difficult time.
Jim Klasinski
November 30, 2010
Mary, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I still remember how fondly Mary Jo spoke of her dad in our grade school speech contest. I was so glad I got to visit with you and John at the St. Bernadette's celebration a few years ago. You are in my prayers. Take care.
Michael & Faith Boltz
November 30, 2010
Mary Jo, Kevin & family, we are so sorry to hear of your great loss. Having recently lost my Dad, I can understand this even more. Our hearts go out to you and yours and wish good memories to come your way to give you strngth for the days to come. The Lord Is With You.
Teresa Whitecalf Sierra
November 30, 2010
Diane, My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. May God give you and your family peace and comfort. I am sincerely sorry for your loss.
Teresa Whitecalf Sierra
Jim O'Sullivan
November 30, 2010
Being in the old neighborhood, and spending a lot of time in Macs store. I more or less knew John most of my life. May St. Peter great him as one of the greatest. My heart and prayers are with all of the family and friends.
Nancy Chartrand Besa
November 30, 2010
I was a classmate of Dianes at O'Hara and read of Mr. McLaury's passing in the paper today. Although I never had the good fortune to meet him
Judy Mills
November 30, 2010
To Mary and your wonderful children. I was saddened to hear of John's passing. He was on my mind over the Thanksgiving holiday. I know how much John loved his family. That was one of the things I so admired in John. I have many fond memories of our time working together at Honeywell. I will keep you and your family in prayer during this time. Remember we will see our loved ones again in Heaven. There is no sadness or tears in there, only rejoicing in his presence.
November 30, 2010
Oh Susan and Family - please know that we are here for you at this most difficult time. Please be sure to call on us! You have so many wonderful memories of your father and grandfather that will make you smile - may those memories comfort you as he leaves to join our Father. Love, Lisa, Sonny and Anthony
Julie, Bill, Angie, Benjamin, Lindsey, Chris, Conner and Joshua Bannister
November 30, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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