John Zamary

John Zamary obituary, Sandy Hook, CT

John Zamary

John Zamary Obituary

Published by Danbury News Times on Feb. 12, 2020.
John Zamary
John Zamary died peacefully at his home with his loving family surrounding him on February 10, 2020 in Sandy Hook, Connecticut at the age of 80.
John is survived by his wife of 57 years, Brenda, and his two sons and their families; Jack, daughter-in-law Janet, granddaughters Shannon and Stephanie, and Matthew, daughter-in-law Kristy, grandson Jack and granddaughter Hannah. John is also survived by his loving granddaughter-in-law Megan. Jack's family is from Newtown, Connecticut and Matthew's is from McLean, Virginia. John's faithful and loving granddog Stella, is also from Newtown, Connecticut. He is survived by siblings Anna Matthews, Mary Whittemore, and Albert Zamary, all from Trumbull, Connecticut and is preceded in death by his brother Joseph Zamary also from Trumbull, Connecticut.
John was born on October 27, 1939 in Danbury, Connecticut (although his birthdate is somewhat uncertain due to his father submitting the birth announcement late). He was born to Syrian immigrants John Zamary and Sadika (Nassra) Zamary. John graduated from Western Connecticut State University in 1961 with a degree in Education. In 1962, he married Brenda, his college sweetheart and best friend. After teaching for a brief period in Southington, Connecticut, John devoted his career to the Danbury Public Schools where he taught at South Street School for nearly 30 years. John was the first in his family to earn a college degree, inspiring his two children as well as eight nieces and nephews to attain college degrees, most attaining advanced degrees.
John's passions were his family, social justice, scholarship, the arts, and cooking. He always had a great sense of humor even in his final days. He loved music and was a frequent participant with Danbury Concert Chorus especially for the annual Messiah concert. He would often play a Syrian hand drum called the "delbeke" for family and friends. Of all of his joys, none surpassed the love and joy he gave and received from his family. Weekly meals with family were a constant throughout John's life, whether it was the meals provided by his mother Sadika or those made by John and his wife Brenda. Those meals were more than food, they were the foundation of loving family relationships that extended through generations.
A memorial is scheduled for 10:00 AM, March 8 in the Alexandria Room at Edmond Town Hall, Newtown, Connecticut. All are welcome to attend and celebrate John's life. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Danbury Animal Welfare Society at DAWS.org and Regional Hospice at https://regionalhospicect.org/. Condolences can be sent to https://www.abbeycremation.com/obituaries. The family would like to thank Regional Hospice for their compassionate and caring support.

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February 20, 2020

Lisa Ryan posted to the memorial.

February 16, 2020

Albert Bruhn posted to the memorial.

February 14, 2020

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Lisa Ryan

February 20, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Zamary's passing. He was one of my favorite teachers at South Street School. Such a kind person. My condolences to the Zamary Family.

Bill Nye

Albert Bruhn

February 16, 2020

Jon Weisblatt

February 14, 2020

Mrs Zamary,
I am so sorry to gear of Mr Z's passing. He was my 6th grade teacher in the late 70's and one of the great ones. I was so happy to reconnect with him via emails the mast couple years. His passion for educating us was infectious. He leaves the world a better place with his presence.

Jan Maria Jagush

February 14, 2020

Dear Brenda,
I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of John.... never a cuter couple than the two of you.... a man of such character... a defender of women's rights before it was "fashionable" - such a good and honorable person. My mom was a great admirer of John's.
May your memories bring a smile to your face during this difficult time.

Lucinda (Amaral) Crowley

February 14, 2020

Mr. Zamary was my 5th (and later 6th) grade science teacher when I was enrolled at South Street School after my family immigrated to the U.S. in 1966. As a non-English speaking student, I never felt unwelcomed in his science class and was always encouraged to participate regardless of my lack of English language skills during those first few months. I will forever have fond memories of Mr. Zamary's kindness towards his students and his love for the subject he taught! My deepest and sincerest condolences to the Zamary family.

Joyce (Pacensa) Kayser

February 14, 2020

Dear Brenda, Jack and Matthew,

So very sorry to hear of John's passing. I remember your family from Well Avenue and you would occasionally call me to watch Jack & Matthew. You were a very lovely family and missed you once you moved from the neighborhood. May the peace of God be with you all.

Mark Lyons

February 13, 2020

Our deepest condolences to the Zamary family. I so enjoyed John as my teacher & family as neighbors.!!

Glee & Ron Waterfall

February 13, 2020

John was one of the nicest people anyone could ever have the privilege of meeting, great smile, terrific personality, and friendly as any person could get, the consummate teacher. My wife and I lived right across the street from the Zamarys and when we saw John outside, he always had his hand up in a wave. Unfortunately, when they moved to Newtown, we never saw them again after their move. However, one never forgets nice people and we never forgot John and his wife, Brenda when they were our neighbors. We have thought of them from time to time as like whenever we see the family that bought their house or in conversation remembering past times or whenever we were out and above and our travels took us to Newtown. Alas, we never stopped to knock on their door just to say Hi. Our sincerest condolences go out to John's family.

Sandy Sanchez

February 13, 2020

I am so sad to hear of Mr. Z's passing. He was one of my favorite teachers! I'll always remember him from my last year at South Street School in 6th grade. May he rest in eternal peace. Such a great man!

Louise & Donald McMahon

February 12, 2020

Dear Brenda,
So sorry to hear of John's passing. I remember when we were neighbors on Wedgewood Drive.
We would always see you and John walking by and we were happy to have such a nice family on our street.
Louise & Don McMahon

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